FabSwingers.com forum: Don't message me if you won't include a face puc

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people actually send a puc with the first message & I often wonder those that demand a picture, are they as quick to send out a pic in their first message.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do when I'm messaging anyone I'd hope to get chatting to for the first time. I am yet to get comfortable sharing public pics on my profile however I've no prob sharing pics.

Now that being said, I wouldn't be messaging anyone who came across rude or demanding on their profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course some people will.

People will do alot more than that for the chance of a ride.

Luckily you can just ignore these requests and profiles and move on to someone that suits you better

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Do people actually send a puc with the first message & I often wonder those that demand a picture, are they as quick to send out a pic in their first message. "

I certainly have sent face pics when I'm introducing myself to a profile I believe has potential! The targeted profile gets an idea of what I/we look like, so have an idea of whether they might be attracted to me/us physically.

If they read our profile/message/forum contributions, they'll also have a little idea of where my humour is at...

I've never demanded a face pic but do believe an exchange of the same is more advantageous to save time in the long run...

I will generally reciprocate with a face pic if I/we like what we see when we get a face pic sent, otherwise there's generally not much point in going further if it's in the eyes of organising a social with a view to possibly playing further down the line...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can demand what they want. You're not obliged to comply. What they do when they message others is surely between them and the recipient?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I message first, I'll send a face pic. If someone's messaging me first, I ask that they send me one.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask for face pics in the first mail. People do send them anyway and we will say it does help with us replying. But no we wouldn't ask for one in the first mail.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long time ago I did, but after some experience with those who ask or demand them I can only strongly advise you dont.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Its brilliant when you actually meet someone at a social or meet and greet and they look nothing like the picture you have in your head.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send a pic. Gotta send out.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people actually send a puc with the first message & I often wonder those that demand a picture, are they as quick to send out a pic in their first message. "

They sure do...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never send a face pic in the first message nor would we expect one

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

When we message people first - we always include a face photo regardless weather profile were messaging asks for one or not.

Including or not including a face pic and just sending us "hi" small talk boring messages - they will most definitely end up in a bin. So face pic has nothing to do with not catching attention.

That said I always wondered why on earth do people feel the need to message others pure abuse for asking for one.

Like you're a grown up.

Didn't like that someone only wants to receive a face pic with a message - move on, find a profile that doesn't demand that.

So easy yet so many people get worked up about it lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ount-IblisMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Not in a first message. Maybe after 2-3 and only if asked for a picture at that stage.

I'm. Not great at a first message though, either way.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When we message people first - we always include a face photo regardless weather profile were messaging asks for one or not.

Including or not including a face pic and just sending us "hi" small talk boring messages - they will most definitely end up in a bin. So face pic has nothing to do with not catching attention.

That said I always wondered why on earth do people feel the need to message others pure abuse for asking for one.

Like you're a grown up.

Didn't like that someone only wants to receive a face pic with a message - move on, find a profile that doesn't demand that.

So easy yet so many people get worked up about it lol "

I haven't abused anybody,I merely asked a question. What a weird thing for a grown up to do

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"When we message people first - we always include a face photo regardless weather profile were messaging asks for one or not.

Including or not including a face pic and just sending us "hi" small talk boring messages - they will most definitely end up in a bin. So face pic has nothing to do with not catching attention.

That said I always wondered why on earth do people feel the need to message others pure abuse for asking for one.

Like you're a grown up.

Didn't like that someone only wants to receive a face pic with a message - move on, find a profile that doesn't demand that.

So easy yet so many people get worked up about it lol

I haven't abused anybody,I merely asked a question. What a weird thing for a grown up to do"

Man, I don't know you! What a weird thing to assume that I literally meant you personally.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would never send a face pic in the first message nor would we expect one"

same.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"When we message people first - we always include a face photo regardless weather profile were messaging asks for one or not.

Including or not including a face pic and just sending us "hi" small talk boring messages - they will most definitely end up in a bin. So face pic has nothing to do with not catching attention.

That said I always wondered why on earth do people feel the need to message others pure abuse for asking for one.

Like you're a grown up.

Didn't like that someone only wants to receive a face pic with a message - move on, find a profile that doesn't demand that.

So easy yet so many people get worked up about it lol

I haven't abused anybody,I merely asked a question. What a weird thing for a grown up to do

Man, I don't know you! What a weird thing to assume that I literally meant you personally.

"
its great being that confidant being able to send face pics on the first message but spare a thought for the people on here including me who would never have the confidence to send a pic unless we have chatted to the person for a while.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we message people first - we always include a face photo regardless weather profile were messaging asks for one or not.

Including or not including a face pic and just sending us "hi" small talk boring messages - they will most definitely end up in a bin. So face pic has nothing to do with not catching attention.

That said I always wondered why on earth do people feel the need to message others pure abuse for asking for one.

Like you're a grown up.

Didn't like that someone only wants to receive a face pic with a message - move on, find a profile that doesn't demand that.

So easy yet so many people get worked up about it lol "

100%

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When we message people first - we always include a face photo regardless weather profile were messaging asks for one or not.

Including or not including a face pic and just sending us "hi" small talk boring messages - they will most definitely end up in a bin. So face pic has nothing to do with not catching attention.

That said I always wondered why on earth do people feel the need to message others pure abuse for asking for one.

Like you're a grown up.

Didn't like that someone only wants to receive a face pic with a message - move on, find a profile that doesn't demand that.

So easy yet so many people get worked up about it lol

100%

Strange stance given you are reluctant to share pics

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *usttwoofusCouple
over a year ago

Wicklow

We do usually with verified females . Sometimes with couples but obviously if we have a feel we get a pic back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"When we message people first - we always include a face photo regardless weather profile were messaging asks for one or not.

Including or not including a face pic and just sending us "hi" small talk boring messages - they will most definitely end up in a bin. So face pic has nothing to do with not catching attention.

That said I always wondered why on earth do people feel the need to message others pure abuse for asking for one.

Like you're a grown up.

Didn't like that someone only wants to receive a face pic with a message - move on, find a profile that doesn't demand that.

So easy yet so many people get worked up about it lol

I haven't abused anybody,I merely asked a question. What a weird thing for a grown up to do

Man, I don't know you! What a weird thing to assume that I literally meant you personally.

its great being that confidant being able to send face pics on the first message but spare a thought for the people on here including me who would never have the confidence to send a pic unless we have chatted to the person for a while. "

You completely missed the point that I was making.

The point was - don't get upset at profiles asking for a photo with first message. Just move on and find profiles that don't do that.

Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea for a reason, no need to get defensive over it either.

Like I don't like couples profiles that only has female photos on them, so I just don't message them.

I don't rabdomly message them to give off to them about how I don't like them lol (once again, just in case, I'm not saying you do it personally, but there's many people who do).

Missus

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread