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"There was a time when I wasn't bothered if I never attended a social but the few I've been to I've really enjoyed and the company has been great with no hint of fakeness detected " thanks for your input  | |||
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"OP, do you mean meet and greets or meeting someone for a social individually? " meet and greets | |||
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"Find them boring as hell to be honest but I find most situations in a pub boring to be honest. Last I went to I got d*unk on purpose. " love this honesty | |||
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"Never had an interest in them. I never joined fab to join a community or to broaden my social circle. " very true | |||
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"OP, do you mean meet and greets or meeting someone for a social individually? meet and greets" So just a few hours rather than an overnight away in a hotel I enjoy both especially if people you play with are there | |||
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"OP, do you mean meet and greets or meeting someone for a social individually? meet and greets" You haven't been to one of ours  | |||
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"OP, do you mean meet and greets or meeting someone for a social individually? meet and greets You haven't been to one of ours "im a divil for tarring with the one brush | |||
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"OP, do you mean meet and greets or meeting someone for a social individually? meet and greets You haven't been to one of ours im a divil for tarring with the one brush"Guilty of that too... thats why we started organizing our own  | |||
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"OP, do you mean meet and greets or meeting someone for a social individually? meet and greets You haven't been to one of ours im a divil for tarring with the one brush
Guilty of that too... thats why we started organizing our own "fairplay, that takes balls | |||
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"Find them boring as hell to be honest but I find most situations in a pub boring to be honest. " This is why we don't go to them, horses for courses. Clearly a lot of people adore them | |||
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"I love socials love getting to know People and having a laugh.." Scotty will be arranging one | |||
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"Never had an interest in them. I never joined fab to join a community or to broaden my social circle. very true" Same here tbh. | |||
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"I love socials love getting to know People and having a laugh.. Scotty will be arranging one " Scotty better invite me it's been way too long.. | |||
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"I love socials love getting to know People and having a laugh.. Scotty will be arranging one Scotty better invite me it's been way too long.. "Wouldn't be a Scotty social without ya | |||
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"I've only been to one social so far. My life is very busy personally and professionally the last 6 months so unfortunately I missed two socials I was booked for since the first but honestly I can't wait to go to my second one. I had no idea what to expect but what it done for me is opened my eyes. I genuinely had one of the best nights of my life. " Always a pleasure to see you xx | |||
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"Stop talkinng about socials onmy anti social thread, laugh emoji" Tip for emojis- if you see one you like but it's not on the list of suggested ones - quote the message and it will show what you have to write for emoji to appear. Just like 
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"Stop talkinng about socials onmy anti social thread, laugh emoji Tip for emojis- if you see one you like but it's not on the list of suggested ones - quote the message and it will show what you have to write for emoji to appear. Just like
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"I love socials love getting to know People and having a laugh.. Scotty will be arranging one " I better be on that list  | |||
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"I love socials love getting to know People and having a laugh.. Scotty will be arranging one " Don’t forget us Scotty  | |||
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"I've been to a few and forget the point of being there and don't talk to anyone apart from who I'm with. But then I could never be accused of being sociable "I enjoy the company and catching up with people haven't seen in ages | |||
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"I've been to a few and forget the point of being there and don't talk to anyone apart from who I'm with. But then I could never be accused of being sociable
I enjoy the company and catching up with people haven't seen in ages "You have to be sociable to see those people to begin with
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"I've been to a few and forget the point of being there and don't talk to anyone apart from who I'm with. But then I could never be accused of being sociable
I enjoy the company and catching up with people haven't seen in ages
You have to be sociable to see those people to begin with
What dates are you up so I can see if I'm working?"Last weekend February | |||
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"I think there great craic op " yep i usually enjoy them but im outgoing and sociable, i go for the craic and chat, put faces to names, catch up with folk etc | |||
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"I've been to a few and forget the point of being there and don't talk to anyone apart from who I'm with. But then I could never be accused of being sociable
I enjoy the company and catching up with people haven't seen in ages
You have to be sociable to see those people to begin with
What dates are you up so I can see if I'm working?
Last weekend February "I'm off that weekend but out the sat night, that should work perfect. | |||
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"never been. I'm outgoing and love to socialise but I have a huge group of friends and an active social life in everyday life. I can go out whenever I like. I'm not having a go, everyone is different but I feel fab is some peoples social circle. it is their community. what I do find been said alot more on here is new lads looking for meets and been told there best chance is a meet and greet. I feel alot of women are moving away from the one to one scenario. I suppose there is a fair share on here who want no strings sex but have no interest in the community side and social/party side of the site." And so what if its their social circle? I have made friends on here that I would consider better friends than some I have known for years. | |||
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"never been. I'm outgoing and love to socialise but I have a huge group of friends and an active social life in everyday life. I can go out whenever I like. I'm not having a go, everyone is different but I feel fab is some peoples social circle. it is their community. what I do find been said alot more on here is new lads looking for meets and been told there best chance is a meet and greet. I feel alot of women are moving away from the one to one scenario. I suppose there is a fair share on here who want no strings sex but have no interest in the community side and social/party side of the site. And so what if its their social circle? I have made friends on here that I would consider better friends than some I have known for years. " I guess you missed the bit where I said, "I'm not having a go". | |||
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"never been. I'm outgoing and love to socialise but I have a huge group of friends and an active social life in everyday life. I can go out whenever I like. I'm not having a go, everyone is different but I feel fab is some peoples social circle. it is their community. what I do find been said alot more on here is new lads looking for meets and been told there best chance is a meet and greet. I feel alot of women are moving away from the one to one scenario. I suppose there is a fair share on here who want no strings sex but have no interest in the community side and social/party side of the site. And so what if its their social circle? I have made friends on here that I would consider better friends than some I have known for years. I guess you missed the bit where I said, "I'm not having a go". " yep | |||
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"never been. I'm outgoing and love to socialise but I have a huge group of friends and an active social life in everyday life. I can go out whenever I like. I'm not having a go, everyone is different but I feel fab is some peoples social circle. it is their community. what I do find been said alot more on here is new lads looking for meets and been told there best chance is a meet and greet. I feel alot of women are moving away from the one to one scenario. I suppose there is a fair share on here who want no strings sex but have no interest in the community side and social/party side of the site. And so what if its their social circle? I have made friends on here that I would consider better friends than some I have known for years. I guess you missed the bit where I said, "I'm not having a go". " Sorry long weekend | |||
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"never been. I'm outgoing and love to socialise but I have a huge group of friends and an active social life in everyday life. I can go out whenever I like. I'm not having a go, everyone is different but I feel fab is some peoples social circle. it is their community. what I do find been said alot more on here is new lads looking for meets and been told there best chance is a meet and greet. I feel alot of women are moving away from the one to one scenario. I suppose there is a fair share on here who want no strings sex but have no interest in the community side and social/party side of the site. And so what if its their social circle? I have made friends on here that I would consider better friends than some I have known for years. I guess you missed the bit where I said, "I'm not having a go". " It's more the "I'm not having a go BUT" and the general tone of the opening statement which implies - whether you consciously meant it to or not - that socials are for people who have no other social outlet. It had an air of "look at me with all my friends and my rammed social diary", and that if Fab socials are your only social outlet then there's something slightly lacking in your life. Now you might think I've done an awful lot of projecting or reading between the lines but you know me Willy I've always talked straight with you, that's how it came across. And as DD rightly said, if Fab IS some people's only social outlet then there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You never know why some might find themselves socially isolated - it can happen to any of us in the blink of an eye - and if they find a new tribe here then more power to their wee wheels | |||
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"never been. I'm outgoing and love to socialise but I have a huge group of friends and an active social life in everyday life. I can go out whenever I like. I'm not having a go, everyone is different but I feel fab is some peoples social circle. it is their community. what I do find been said alot more on here is new lads looking for meets and been told there best chance is a meet and greet. I feel alot of women are moving away from the one to one scenario. I suppose there is a fair share on here who want no strings sex but have no interest in the community side and social/party side of the site. And so what if its their social circle? I have made friends on here that I would consider better friends than some I have known for years. I guess you missed the bit where I said, "I'm not having a go". It's more the "I'm not having a go BUT" and the general tone of the opening statement which implies - whether you consciously meant it to or not - that socials are for people who have no other social outlet. It had an air of "look at me with all my friends and my rammed social diary", and that if Fab socials are your only social outlet then there's something slightly lacking in your life. Now you might think I've done an awful lot of projecting or reading between the lines but you know me Willy I've always talked straight with you, that's how it came across. And as DD rightly said, if Fab IS some people's only social outlet then there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You never know why some might find themselves socially isolated - it can happen to any of us in the blink of an eye - and if they find a new tribe here then more power to their wee wheels" To be fair we pretty much abandoned our vanilla circles... Both agree that we prefer to have friends we might occasionally have drama free sex with. Win win | |||
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"never been. I'm outgoing and love to socialise but I have a huge group of friends and an active social life in everyday life. I can go out whenever I like. I'm not having a go, everyone is different but I feel fab is some peoples social circle. it is their community. what I do find been said alot more on here is new lads looking for meets and been told there best chance is a meet and greet. I feel alot of women are moving away from the one to one scenario. I suppose there is a fair share on here who want no strings sex but have no interest in the community side and social/party side of the site. And so what if its their social circle? I have made friends on here that I would consider better friends than some I have known for years. I guess you missed the bit where I said, "I'm not having a go". It's more the "I'm not having a go BUT" and the general tone of the opening statement which implies - whether you consciously meant it to or not - that socials are for people who have no other social outlet. It had an air of "look at me with all my friends and my rammed social diary", and that if Fab socials are your only social outlet then there's something slightly lacking in your life. Now you might think I've done an awful lot of projecting or reading between the lines but you know me Willy I've always talked straight with you, that's how it came across. And as DD rightly said, if Fab IS some people's only social outlet then there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You never know why some might find themselves socially isolated - it can happen to any of us in the blink of an eye - and if they find a new tribe here then more power to their wee wheels" as the profile below u states, "we pretty much abandoned our vanilla circle". thats pretty much what I'm hitting at. this is some peoples social life. I have always stated I'm not a true swinger. I didn't sign up here to attend parties and meet and greets. I have enough of that In normal life. I do see alot bigger emphasis on here in telling new people to attend meet and greets to get verified. is the age old day of women meeting lads one to one waning? | |||
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"never been. I'm outgoing and love to socialise but I have a huge group of friends and an active social life in everyday life. I can go out whenever I like. I'm not having a go, everyone is different but I feel fab is some peoples social circle. it is their community. what I do find been said alot more on here is new lads looking for meets and been told there best chance is a meet and greet. I feel alot of women are moving away from the one to one scenario. I suppose there is a fair share on here who want no strings sex but have no interest in the community side and social/party side of the site. And so what if its their social circle? I have made friends on here that I would consider better friends than some I have known for years. I guess you missed the bit where I said, "I'm not having a go". It's more the "I'm not having a go BUT" and the general tone of the opening statement which implies - whether you consciously meant it to or not - that socials are for people who have no other social outlet. It had an air of "look at me with all my friends and my rammed social diary", and that if Fab socials are your only social outlet then there's something slightly lacking in your life. Now you might think I've done an awful lot of projecting or reading between the lines but you know me Willy I've always talked straight with you, that's how it came across. And as DD rightly said, if Fab IS some people's only social outlet then there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You never know why some might find themselves socially isolated - it can happen to any of us in the blink of an eye - and if they find a new tribe here then more power to their wee wheelsas the profile below u states, "we pretty much abandoned our vanilla circle". thats pretty much what I'm hitting at. this is some peoples social life. I have always stated I'm not a true swinger. I didn't sign up here to attend parties and meet and greets. I have enough of that In normal life. I do see alot bigger emphasis on here in telling new people to attend meet and greets to get verified. is the age old day of women meeting lads one to one waning?" It suits some and it doesn't suit other, although I enjoy the socials and mng, I prefer one on one meets as I'm useless at flirting or competing for attention in a group situation and I'm same in vanilla life. I'm crap at reading signals from guys | |||
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"I don't believe it is...many who meet at socials will go on to meet one on one. And it's a time efficient way of meeting several people face to face for those that don't have huge amounts of time to do endless solo coffee meets" This is exactly what I do. | |||
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"I don't believe it is...many who meet at socials will go on to meet one on one" I mean the opposite. Will they meet guys one to one without attending a party /meet and greet. | |||
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"I don't believe it is...many who meet at socials will go on to meet one on oneI mean the opposite. Will they meet guys one to one without attending a party /meet and greet." I used to do try to do that too but got tired of no shows or last minute cancellations. At least when you meet them at an event you know they definitely have the nerve to show up. | |||
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"I don't believe it is...many who meet at socials will go on to meet one on oneI mean the opposite. Will they meet guys one to one without attending a party /meet and greet. I used to do try to do that too but got tired of no shows or last minute cancellations. At least when you meet them at an event you know they definitely have the nerve to show up. " do u meet guys one to one anymore? | |||
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"I don't believe it is...many who meet at socials will go on to meet one on oneI mean the opposite. Will they meet guys one to one without attending a party /meet and greet." Yes. | |||
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"I don't believe it is...many who meet at socials will go on to meet one on oneI mean the opposite. Will they meet guys one to one without attending a party /meet and greet. I used to do try to do that too but got tired of no shows or last minute cancellations. At least when you meet them at an event you know they definitely have the nerve to show up. do u meet guys one to one anymore?" Sometimes when I find I have free time. But the first meet is always social only. Either one to one or at an event. I have no problem meeting one to one for play meets after that. | |||
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"I don't believe it is...many who meet at socials will go on to meet one on oneI mean the opposite. Will they meet guys one to one without attending a party /meet and greet. I used to do try to do that too but got tired of no shows or last minute cancellations. At least when you meet them at an event you know they definitely have the nerve to show up. do u meet guys one to one anymore? Sometimes when I find I have free time. But the first meet is always social only. Either one to one or at an event. I have no problem meeting one to one for play meets after that. " | |||
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"Find them boring as hell to be honest but I find most situations in a pub boring to be honest. Last I went to I got d*unk on purpose. " male here I do it at everyone I go to there so clicky | |||
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"Socials are great! They can be hit and miss though. The best we’ve been to is MLS! " Awww you guyssss | |||
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"Socials are great! They can be hit and miss though. The best we’ve been to is MLS! Awww you guyssss "It’s the truth! | |||
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