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"Him..wana try anal? Me .. sure why not Him..did you enjoy that? Me..no hated it Him..least we tried "Just like that 
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"Him..wana try anal? Me .. sure why not Him..did you enjoy that? Me..no hated it Him..least we tried "I'm not 'him' But this was my exact experience. Haven't had the opportunity since | |||
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"Him..wana try anal? Me .. sure why not Him..did you enjoy that? Me..no hated it Him..least we tried
I'm not 'him'
But this was my exact experience. Haven't had the opportunity since"Me...Wana try anal? You.. me or you 
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"County players love it, apparently! "With each other ?  | |||
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"What’s your take on it. Do you enjoy it, prefer it over vaginal sex or something you do to appease your partner ? When or what made you first try it ?" I thoroughly enjoy anal sex  with the right partner. In other words, if my partner says, neah, not too fussed or only to please me, then it's a thanks but no thanks.
I get off on the fact that he gets off as much as I do more so than on the actual act, regardless of what that act or practice is...but my kink is definitely anal, has been for a long time.
And since having separated and having been involved with other men, I've also found that I enjoy giving as much as receiving... again, with the right partner, see above...
Do I prefer anal over vaginal? I'd hate to miss out on either because they just compliment each other (as with oral) and give an extra dimension, layer and kick to intimacy and sex  | |||
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"I Am doing some extensive research on all sides, aspects and elements involved. Will report in the next few weeks " Including your internal side | |||
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"I Am doing some extensive research on all sides, aspects and elements involved. Will report in the next few weeks Including your internal side "Behave | |||
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"I Am doing some extensive research on all sides, aspects and elements involved. Will report in the next few weeks Including your internal side
Behave "Always | |||
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"County players love it, apparently! "Bend over for the teacher | |||
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"I've been a giver and a taker. Both have their pros and cons" No shit | |||
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"I've been a giver and a taker. Both have their pros and cons No shit "Not when I was the taker. She knew what she was doing lol | |||
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"County players love it, apparently!
With each other ? "Nah, just randommers on the street and lovers of other sports.  | |||
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Very much a fan of giving though. I'm nice that way | |||
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therefore it was literally a pain in the ass.
As memory fades I tried it again and started to enjoy it up to the point of peaking from it which is simply amazing. However it's something only a chosen few get to experience as you've to bring the stamina of a Jedi knight with you.
Anyhow it's all about being relaxed. | |||
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"My first go - many many moons ago - was with a guy who actually was an asshole therefore it was literally a pain in the ass.
As memory fades I tried it again and started to enjoy it up to the point of peaking from it which is simply amazing. However it's something only a chosen few get to experience as you've to bring the stamina of a Jedi knight with you.
Anyhow it's all about being relaxed. "If anyone can, that Obi Wan can. | |||
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"Receiving does nothing for me…major meh. I do enjoy playing with guys asses though "Am I wrong, or do you encounter a bit of a double standard around this sort of thing with guys? I've heard from more than a few women that the guys who are the most pushy about wanting to do anal are often the ones who are most opposed to having anything done to them down there in return.
One of them even dissuaded an ex of hers from bringing it up again by asking him which of the following strap-ons would he like best! Needless to say - any & all future interest from him was rapidly dropped lol | |||
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"Receiving does nothing for me…major meh. I do enjoy playing with guys asses though
Am I wrong, or do you encounter a bit of a double standard around this sort of thing with guys?
I've heard from more than a few women that the guys who are the most pushy about wanting to do anal are often the ones who are most opposed to having anything done to them down there in return.
One of them even dissuaded an ex of hers from bringing it up again by asking him which of the following strap-ons would he like best! Needless to say - any & all future interest from him was rapidly dropped lol "In fairness though if someone doesn't want a strap-on up the ass, it should be respected regardless of gender, but yes said person should return the respect and not being pushy about giving anal. | |||
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"Receiving does nothing for me…major meh. I do enjoy playing with guys asses though
Am I wrong, or do you encounter a bit of a double standard around this sort of thing with guys?
I've heard from more than a few women that the guys who are the most pushy about wanting to do anal are often the ones who are most opposed to having anything done to them down there in return.
One of them even dissuaded an ex of hers from bringing it up again by asking him which of the following strap-ons would he like best! Needless to say - any & all future interest from him was rapidly dropped lol "Sometimes, but not always. I am of the opinion that, where possible, if you want me to try something, you have to be willing to try it too. Like don’t ask me to swallow your cum if you’re not willing to taste it too | |||
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"Receiving does nothing for me…major meh. I do enjoy playing with guys asses though
Am I wrong, or do you encounter a bit of a double standard around this sort of thing with guys?
I've heard from more than a few women that the guys who are the most pushy about wanting to do anal are often the ones who are most opposed to having anything done to them down there in return.
One of them even dissuaded an ex of hers from bringing it up again by asking him which of the following strap-ons would he like best! Needless to say - any & all future interest from him was rapidly dropped lol
Sometimes, but not always. I am of the opinion that, where possible, if you want me to try something, you have to be willing to try it too. Like don’t ask me to swallow your cum if you’re not willing to taste it too "This is very true ?? | |||
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"What’s your take on it. Do you enjoy it, prefer it over vaginal sex or something you do to appease your partner ? When or what made you first try it ?" Have you tried receiving anal yourself ,? If not why not?.. | |||
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"Receiving does nothing for me…major meh. I do enjoy playing with guys asses though
Am I wrong, or do you encounter a bit of a double standard around this sort of thing with guys?
I've heard from more than a few women that the guys who are the most pushy about wanting to do anal are often the ones who are most opposed to having anything done to them down there in return.
One of them even dissuaded an ex of hers from bringing it up again by asking him which of the following strap-ons would he like best! Needless to say - any & all future interest from him was rapidly dropped lol
Sometimes, but not always. I am of the opinion that, where possible, if you want me to try something, you have to be willing to try it too. Like don’t ask me to swallow your cum if you’re not willing to taste it too "I think that's where Doghunter's comment is quite apt - respecting boundaries. If I enjoy receiving anal or swallowing his cum but he doesn't, why would I want him to do it? I get something out of it, he doesn't. He'd literally only be bowing to my wishes in that case. Fair enough, if it's a trying something for the first time but otherwise, for me, asking someone to do something they don't enjoy in this context would actually be a major turn-off for me... | |||
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"Wasn't a massive fan of it before but since trying little bits I've changed that opinion
Very much a fan of giving though. I'm nice that way "Noted | |||
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"Receiving does nothing for me…major meh. I do enjoy playing with guys asses though
Am I wrong, or do you encounter a bit of a double standard around this sort of thing with guys?
I've heard from more than a few women that the guys who are the most pushy about wanting to do anal are often the ones who are most opposed to having anything done to them down there in return.
One of them even dissuaded an ex of hers from bringing it up again by asking him which of the following strap-ons would he like best! Needless to say - any & all future interest from him was rapidly dropped lol
Sometimes, but not always. I am of the opinion that, where possible, if you want me to try something, you have to be willing to try it too. Like don’t ask me to swallow your cum if you’re not willing to taste it too
I think that's where Doghunter's comment is quite apt - respecting boundaries. If I enjoy receiving anal or swallowing his cum but he doesn't, why would I want him to do it? I get something out of it, he doesn't. He'd literally only be bowing to my wishes in that case. Fair enough, if it's a trying something for the first time but otherwise, for me, asking someone to do something they don't enjoy in this context would actually be a major turn-off for me..."I’m not talking about forcing anyone to do anything but if a guy goes on about wanting me to swallow but has never tasted his own cum, he can jog on. I’m all about respecting boundaries but don’t expect someone to try something for the first time for you if you’re not willing to reciprocate. | |||
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"Receiving does nothing for me…major meh. I do enjoy playing with guys asses though
Am I wrong, or do you encounter a bit of a double standard around this sort of thing with guys?
I've heard from more than a few women that the guys who are the most pushy about wanting to do anal are often the ones who are most opposed to having anything done to them down there in return.
One of them even dissuaded an ex of hers from bringing it up again by asking him which of the following strap-ons would he like best! Needless to say - any & all future interest from him was rapidly dropped lol
Sometimes, but not always. I am of the opinion that, where possible, if you want me to try something, you have to be willing to try it too. Like don’t ask me to swallow your cum if you’re not willing to taste it too
I think that's where Doghunter's comment is quite apt - respecting boundaries. If I enjoy receiving anal or swallowing his cum but he doesn't, why would I want him to do it? I get something out of it, he doesn't. He'd literally only be bowing to my wishes in that case. Fair enough, if it's a trying something for the first time but otherwise, for me, asking someone to do something they don't enjoy in this context would actually be a major turn-off for me...
I’m not talking about forcing anyone to do anything but if a guy goes on about wanting me to swallow but has never tasted his own cum, he can jog on. I’m all about respecting boundaries but don’t expect someone to try something for the first time for you if you’re not willing to reciprocate. "I know you weren't talking about forcing anyone to do anything.
And I suppose it's one thing to have someone "go on at you about wanting something" or exploring fantasies one or the other might have and not going on and on about a particular fantasy that is either a not really wanting to do or try it or indeed a categorical no.
I personally just wouldn't get enjoyment out of insisting he try his own cum (seeing as that's the example used) because he might get an extra kick out of my swallowing his, instead of spitting.
In other words, just because I like something, doesn't mean I do expect him to reciprocate. And I think the cum example is actually quite apt because there are plenty who would be grossed out by it, women and men...I never used to swallow and now don't mind it at all. But would never expect him to try his own if he was grossed out by it... because I know what that feels like...
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"What’s your take on it. Do you enjoy it, prefer it over vaginal sex or something you do to appease your partner ? When or what made you first try it ?" I don't mind fucking my partner up the ass if that's what he wants | |||
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"DP really intensifys my orgasms, love that feeling  "Cat I think I  you  | |||
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"DP really intensifys my orgasms, love that feeling "can't be more hot than this!  | |||
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"DP really intensifys my orgasms, love that feeling "Yes it definitely does intensifies my orgasms especially DP, but i'm definitely fussy to whom i let. | |||
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"Never liked the idea of it, had no interest at all, then when I started ny fab journey I though why not try everything?? Tried it and love it, I mean the orgasm it gives is so intense "FREE TOE TWIRLS HAHAHA? | |||
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"Never liked the idea of it, had no interest at all, then when I started ny fab journey I though why not try everything?? Tried it and love it, I mean the orgasm it gives is so intense
FREE TOE TWIRLS HAHAHA?"Never understood the toe curling till anal | |||
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"Never liked the idea of it, had no interest at all, then when I started ny fab journey I though why not try everything?? Tried it and love it, I mean the orgasm it gives is so intense "Oh completely true. It's a different level. | |||
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"Never liked the idea of it, had no interest at all, then when I started ny fab journey I though why not try everything?? Tried it and love it, I mean the orgasm it gives is so intense
FREE TOE TWIRLS HAHAHA?
Never understood the toe curling till anal "Getting to Mayo asap | |||
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"Wasn't a massive fan of it before but since trying little bits I've changed that opinion
Very much a fan of giving though. I'm nice that way "I'm sure you are nice that way but I bet you like to use something bigger than average | |||
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"Wasn't a massive fan of it before but since trying little bits I've changed that opinion
Very much a fan of giving though. I'm nice that way
I'm sure you are nice that way but I bet you like to use something bigger than average "I like to use whatever size is desired, whether that is a finger or the big lad | |||
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"Spit on me craic and slide it in lol" | |||
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"Spit on me craic and slide it in lol "Depending on the size I think it might take a bit more than spit lol | |||
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"Wasn't a massive fan of it before but since trying little bits I've changed that opinion
Very much a fan of giving though. I'm nice that way
I'm sure you are nice that way but I bet you like to use something bigger than average
What size is the big lad lol
I like to use whatever size is desired, whether that is a finger or the big lad " | |||
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"Can be lots of fun. Don't do it with just anyone though. " This! I love it but I'd never do it with a fb or a ons. It's a type of relationship sex. | |||
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"Can be lots of fun. Don't do it with just anyone though. " Douche is important lol | |||
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"In our house we refer to it as “the correct hole”" Can I come stay with you?? | |||
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"Can be lots of fun. Don't do it with just anyone though. This! I love it but I'd never do it with a fb or a ons. It's a type of relationship sex. " I agree but yet disagree here, FB is a relationship whether we acknowledge it or not. Same trust levels are needed but its just about intimacy and fun. | |||
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Thanks for all your comments ladies. Very educational | |||
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