FabSwingers.com forum: Too many verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

Why?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Why would you put well verified on your profile if you get turned off by people well verified...

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Everyone is different no surprise there .a lot can be social meets .dosnt mean d slept with d whole site lol R x

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"
just because people have lots of verifications doesn't mean there all play one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the optimum number for casual sex then OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the optimum number for casual sex then OP? "

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Jealous much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the optimum number for casual sex then OP?

42"

102 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you put well verified on your profile if you get turned off by people well verified..."

There is well verified and then there’s……

Hey just my preference… just like some ladies like “hung” guys.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I prefer well verified. I enjoy reading them and gives me a better insight into the person.

I've had a few meets where I was asked not to veri. So those numbers don't necessarily match meet numbers

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"

Me too while I dont expect to meet a vestal virgin here too many veris would intimidate me especially std risk.. You're nearly better off not knowing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the more verified people I have seen on here have got a swathe of social verifications.

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

We prefer well verified couples so that we know they are genuine and experienced - likely to turn up and give a good performance.

We’d be lying if we said we wouldn’t feel under pressure ourselves if a couple is hardcore enough to be clocking a meet every other week. We like some degree of parity in experience going into meets... there’s a wide range though - anything from 3 to 100 is our comfort range... and even that is flexible!

We generally find that any profile with cricket score number of meet verifications have garnered many of them at group socials and parties. It is only a positive in our book that so many people from an event would feel enthused enough to give those verifications.

For singles, they are as entitled to have as many verifications on here as we have sex ourselves so not an issue at all.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

You need to move past your insecurities OP. Chances are you still wouldn't be the worst out of all of them if you did meet me. Positive thinking.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

Those with a large amount of verifications is usually because they have attended parties or socials. They've met lots of people at those, not necessarily played with them all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

Me too while I dont expect to meet a vestal virgin here too many veris would intimidate me especially std risk.. You're nearly better off not knowing... "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones

The click out defending the click ???

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones

It's kind of like the fella who's had numerous partners but expects his wife to be a virgin!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones

It's kind of like the fella who's had numerous partners but expects his wife to be a virgin!!"

As the old Chinese proverb says

'A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.'”

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

As long as you look after your health and respect other people's it doesn't matter to me how active someone is, quite contrary it normally means a fair amount of experience, that they seem to enjoy themselves and are properly openminded.

Besides the number of veris doesn't mean anything. If someone has just a few veris doesn't mean they're less promiscuous. You don't know what people are doing off fab. Also I've noticed peeps deleting their profile when they've racked up ca 30+ veris, only to return almost immediately under a new name to restart, claiming quality over quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaysus man that wooden spoon of yours is some size

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

Plain old slut shaming.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's all relative to how many you have yourself.

Someone with single figure veries will think 50 are too many but someone with 50 might think 100 are too many.

Usually those with 50 though will have received most of those through socials etc so they won't see numbers as a deterrent.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

So you think every verification is based on the person having sex.

Verifications ain't there to prove your ratings in the sack anyway its to prove your genuine.

I've plenty from socials meets and greets. Which most of mine say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"

Oh no! OP is turned off, whatever shall we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Verifications, well worded and authentic make very interesting reading and give deeper insight into both parties than profiles alone.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

Oh no! OP is turned off, whatever shall we do"

Hide your verifications

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

You do know if u delete and return ur veri count resets

so theres a lot of people here that may only have a few veris on this acc but the last one sweet devine where did they get the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

Oh no! OP is turned off, whatever shall we do

Hide your verifications

You're right, I need to impress him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you put well verified on your profile if you get turned off by people well verified...

There is well verified and then there’s……

Hey just my preference… just like some ladies like “hung” guys.

Each to their own "

Aren't they linked? All that use like...

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card"

Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.

As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones

It's kind of like the fella who's had numerous partners but expects his wife to be a virgin!!

As the old Chinese proverb says

'A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.'”

A pencil sharpener that sharpens lots of pencils is useful. A pencil that's sharpened by lots of sharpeners ends up small and useless!!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's quite funny that on this site people offer a mitigation of social veris vs play ones

It's kind of like the fella who's had numerous partners but expects his wife to be a virgin!!

As the old Chinese proverb says

'A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.'”

A pencil sharpener that sharpens lots of pencils is useful. A pencil that's sharpened by lots of sharpeners ends up small and useless!!

Even the pencil sharpener goes blunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card

Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.

As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.

Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!

I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card"

I didn't. Im not a victim of anything you have said. A preference over height or cock size is not at all the same as making assumptions or judgements on verifications.

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By *at3232Woman
over a year ago

the moon

Were you not leaving fab op?...so no need to worry then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were you not leaving fab op?...so no need to worry then."

Who said I was leaving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wondered why others get so bent out of shape over what people are doing or looking for on here.

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By *at3232Woman
over a year ago

the moon

"Were you not leaving fab op?...so no need to worry then.

Who said I was leaving?"

You did!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am only having the craic and seeing people’s reactions…

Funny how people’s defence mechanism kicks in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were you not leaving fab op?...so no need to worry then.

Who said I was leaving?

You did!"

When and where

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"

How do you feel when you see our verification count?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

How do you feel when you see our verification count?

Each to their own

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Pity there isnt an option for a social meet and it could show in the summary,we had to remove our summary as we have way too many verifications but 90% are from social meets , at parties ,meet & greets ets , that we didnt play with at all, in the 9 years we have been here , there is cam veri, meet in person veri which could be split in 2, ( social and play meet )

Just my tuppence worth

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pity there isnt an option for a social meet and it could show in the summary,we had to remove our summary as we have way too many verifications but 90% are from social meets , at parties ,meet & greets ets , that we didnt play with at all, in the 9 years we have been here , there is cam veri, meet in person veri which could be split in 2, ( social and play meet )

Just my tuppence worth

Mrs crazy

Thank you very much for that.

My thoughts exactly

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card

Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.

As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.

Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!

I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment "

ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card

Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.

As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.

Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!

I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment

ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself? "

If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card

Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.

As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.

Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!

I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment

ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?

If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?"

I meant in this context.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card

Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.

As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.

Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!

I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment

ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?

If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?

I meant in this context.

Are you new on the internet?

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card

Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.

As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.

Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!

I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment

ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?

If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?

I meant in this context.

Are you new on the internet?"

Why, you offering lessons? Given your current performance using it I'll give those a miss anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plain old slut shaming.

Not at all.

Just preference

Women have theirs, men have theirs. Don’t play the victim card

Don't make this a gender thing, you're preferences on this have nothing to do with gender.

As a man I really don't want to be associated with you and your thoughts on this subject.

Ah was wondering when a knight would turn up !!

I think you will find I did not bring gender into this comment

ah the old knight comment. So original. Did you manage to think of that one all by yourself?

If it’s an old comment as you say, how would I come up with it ?

I meant in this context.

Are you new on the internet?

Why, you offering lessons? Given your current performance using it I'll give those a miss anyway. "

Jealousy is an awful thing

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By *iddensparkle87Woman
over a year ago

Tipperary

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

Me too while I dont expect to meet a vestal virgin here too many veris would intimidate me especially std risk.. You're nearly better off not knowing...

Exactly "

So at one point a girl would have the correct number and you would be happy to play but u even meeting her a few times and adding to the number would then disqualify her? Liked she has an expiration date lol. Each to their own opinion but I disagree here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always important to check the BBD!

Mine expired years ago but am still edible

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

How do you feel when you see our verification count?

Each to their own

Take a wild guess how many people we actually had sex with, just for amusements sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have opposed problem no one will verify me and others say nope not meeting till you get verified

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

Me too while I dont expect to meet a vestal virgin here too many veris would intimidate me especially std risk.. You're nearly better off not knowing...

Exactly

Std risk

It's not a risk on tinder

Comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not one for critising forum posts.....but this one by OP is just judgemental and ignorant on how Fabs works.

If you are turned off by verifications, find a lovely profile with no green flag or tick to get yourself turned on

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Loving this thread.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

never look at veris. probably last thing I'd view on someone's profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

How do you feel when you see our verification count?

Each to their own

Take a wild guess how many people we actually had sex with, just for amusements sake

Mmm now That your honest number or the number you tell your partner

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"

Man on website seeking to have sex with people is disgusted that people on website have had sex.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

Man on website seeking to have sex with people is disgusted that people on website have had sex....."

Woosshhh !!! Completely over your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thread in a while

Btw, any women who have used up all of their appropriate veri allowances that need their sexual itches scratched I'm volunteering my services now

Just give ma an hour to go buy a weekly planner and I'm good to go

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Best thread in a while

Btw, any women who have used up all of their appropriate veri allowances that need their sexual itches scratched I'm volunteering my services now

Just give ma an hour to go buy a weekly planner and I'm good to go

But what's the "appropriate" allowance - asking for a friend

And an hour to buy a weekly planner

?! I'm sure there's an appropriate app, 2 minutes to download

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.

Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.

Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?"

Are you saying that the veris you give are overrated?

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…

How do you feel when you see our verification count?

Each to their own

Take a wild guess how many people we actually had sex with, just for amusements sake

Mmm now That your honest number or the number you tell your partner

What does that even supposed to mean?

Why on earth would I lie to my partner, especially knowing that we both met 100% of all people who verified us together.

So please, take a wild guess. Giz a number. Thats all.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"Best thread in a while

Btw, any women who have used up all of their appropriate veri allowances that need their sexual itches scratched I'm volunteering my services now

Just give ma an hour to go buy a weekly planner and I'm good to go

So your ma organises your meets???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't wanna meet because of veri count , sweet... I respect their decision and thank them for saving each other's time as clearly we weren't meant to meet.

Amazing the world just continues on and not one f**k is given.

Happy Fabbing all

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.

Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?"

Its how they speak of someone. If its explicit then I'm put off, if they're respectful then it would be in line with the conversation I expect that I'm having with them.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh we don't believe at verification stories. We have plenty of examples on here that ppl are so super verified but in real life they are so rude that if we gave them our verifications they wouldn't show on profile. Verification says only those ppl met up nothing more.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.

Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?

Are you saying that the veris you give are overrated?

Nope

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.

Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?

Are you saying that the veris you give are overrated?

Nope

All i'll say is there's a way to say things without having to spell it out, know what I mean

But some plain lie for convenience sake and that's irritating

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By *jallMan
over a year ago

Cork/Sligo

"Best thread in a while

Btw, any women who have used up all of their appropriate veri allowances that need their sexual itches scratched I'm volunteering my services now

Just give ma an hour to go buy a weekly planner and I'm good to go

But what's the "appropriate" allowance - asking for a friend

And an hour to buy a weekly planner

?! I'm sure there's an appropriate app, 2 minutes to download

Is the poor lad having bother with the internet too??

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm more interested in veris that a person I'm interested in has written. It tells me how they speak of others and thats much more important to me.

Even if they exaggerate (which most do)?

Are you saying that the veris you give are overrated?

Nope

All i'll say is there's a way to say things without having to spell it out, know what I mean

But some plain lie for convenience sake and that's irritating

Oh, I was only teasing

I know exactly what you mean...

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

"Those with a large amount of verifications is usually because they have attended parties or socials. They've met lots of people at those, not necessarily played with them all!"

This

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why?"

Remember the veri ye gave me way back when and I had someone tell me I shouldn't display it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Manipulation of other people's veris seems to be a thing now.

I can understand if I have verified someone and they have their own reasons for deciding not to display it.

There could be any number of reasons for this so I've no problem with that.

It's when others get involved and advise or instruct them not to display a particular veri that it starts to become sinister.

I often wonder too why some people decide to hide all their previous veries and only display the latest one from a fab celeb. I wonder how those they have met before feel about being moved aside.

When it comes to verifications it's not always about numbers and content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP did you know it's possible to contract an STD if you only have sex with 1 person?

Did you know that not everyone broadcasts their "number" through the verification feature?

Did you know that a person with 2 verifications on fab might have had sex with 100 people?

Or that a person with 100 verifications might only have actually had sex with 2 people???

You just do you. Cover your dick no matter where you choose to put it and stop being so judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"

Someone was told no way to many times for their own liking

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Everybody i have met, has read my veris, and then decided i was decent enough to meet. Ive been on this site 5 years, so have quite a few veris. Why would i limit my meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manipulation of other people's veris seems to be a thing now.

I can understand if I have verified someone and they have their own reasons for deciding not to display it.

There could be any number of reasons for this so I've no problem with that.

It's when others get involved and advise or instruct them not to display a particular veri that it starts to become sinister.

I often wonder too why some people decide to hide all their previous veries and only display the latest one from a fab celeb. I wonder how those they have met before feel about being moved aside.

When it comes to verifications it's not always about numbers and content."

Fab celebs, is that the the creme de la creme of cliques?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Manipulation of other people's veris seems to be a thing now.

I can understand if I have verified someone and they have their own reasons for deciding not to display it.

There could be any number of reasons for this so I've no problem with that.

It's when others get involved and advise or instruct them not to display a particular veri that it starts to become sinister.

I often wonder too why some people decide to hide all their previous veries and only display the latest one from a fab celeb. I wonder how those they have met before feel about being moved aside.

When it comes to verifications it's not always about numbers and content.

Fab celebs, is that the the creme de la creme of cliques? "

Maybe in their own little world but probably more like the creme egg of cliques.

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

"Why?

Remember the veri ye gave me way back when and I had someone tell me I shouldn't display it

that was a classic!!

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"

Just a heads up not everyone that gives a verification ends up in bed with the person they verify...surely you know that!

Ppl verify to say that person is genuine and all round nice person!

Doesn't mean they've fab met them!

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"What is the optimum number for casual sex then OP? "

I prefer my full name _asual777

Twice a day ?

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

"How many is too many ? Some people’s body count on here is unbelievable. Personally I find it a turn off…"

Don't put so much stock in veries! As people have said you can get a veri from someone you've spent a couple of minutes chatting to at a social, or on the other hand have lots of sex with lots of people and never write or receive a veri from them. Trust your own judgement on whether or not they are for you.

If people's "body count" is such a turn off for you, a swingers website probably isn't the best place for you.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I have 400 veris yet I can count on 1 hand how many I've actually slept with.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have 400 veris yet I can count on 1 hand how many I've actually slept with.

Same!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have 400 veris yet I can count on 1 hand how many I've actually slept with.

Same! "

I have had sex with plenty of people… the amount of people I slept with is far lower!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *isspafWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

More than half of mine are non sex veris haha

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have 400 veris yet I can count on 1 hand how many I've actually slept with.

Same!

I have had sex with plenty of people… the amount of people I slept with is far lower!! "

I don't have sex with people I don't want to wake up next to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More than half of mine are non sex veris haha "

same. from socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes cock like a pro

Unreal skills

Sucks like a dyson.

Thats all I look for in a veri but it must appear multiple times just to be sure she is the real deal

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Mine are mostly social and party Veris if people are put of by them that's ok..I'm sure I will survive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Takes cock like a pro

Unreal skills

Sucks like a dyson.

Thats all I look for in a veri but it must appear multiple times just to be sure she is the real deal"

And displayed with pride

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Bearing in mind the weight and significance that is attached to verifications on this site, the question of having too many does not arise.

Verifications indicate authenticity and a history of meeting other members, whether socially for a chat, meeting as a group or 'playing', which is the sole raison d'etre of this site, ultimately.

There is an undercurrent of suspicion that pervades this site, that profiles are either fake or false or inauthentic.

Verifications are worth their weight in gold, in my opinion.

The more one has, the more exalted one's provenance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i always look for "treat her with respect" because I'd need the guidance. That has to be the most ridiculous statement to post as a veri.

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