FabSwingers.com forum: Bad sex

By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Triggered by another thread:

What's your definition of bad sex?

Or what makes sex bad?

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Very d*unk people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is selfish and only interested in their own needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who is selfish and only interested in their own needs. "

That’s my dream… to be used by a woman who is only interested in their own needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very d*unk people!"

Definitely big no go for me. Also pre mature ejaculation or lack of effort into fore play.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

When you can't get the hind legs properly into your wellies and she breaks free before you're done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No passion.

Going through the motions.

No oral.

Over just as you're getting warmed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very d*unk people!

Definitely big no go for me. Also pre mature ejaculation or lack of effort into fore play. "

Think we have all been victims of premature ejaculation

it can’t be helped !! If it’s any consolation it means we are really attracted to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i said in previous comment on amount thread it depends on personal preference and fetishes. Some enjoy humiliation so to be bad a sex and be humiliated for it is a huge turn on for them. That's not for me now personally but i'm just making a point that a poor sex encounter can be switched to a good one depending on preferences. In regards bad kiss i must disagree as i have had the best oral of my life with a guy wgo i didn't even kiss or touch.

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over a year ago

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Very d*unk people!

Definitely big no go for me. Also pre mature ejaculation or lack of effort into fore play. "

Oh isn't fore play the best bit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like i said in previous comment on amount thread it depends on personal preference and fetishes. Some enjoy humiliation so to be bad a sex and be humiliated for it is a huge turn on for them. That's not for me now personally but i'm just making a point that a poor sex encounter can be switched to a good one depending on preferences. In regards bad kiss i must disagree as i have had the best oral of my life with a guy wgo i didn't even kiss or touch. "

You can say that again

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

no effort.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Very d*unk.. Just a no.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Very d*unk people!

Definitely big no go for me. Also pre mature ejaculation or lack of effort into fore play. "

"I had my fun and that's all that matters!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we cant establish a mutual flow, its a 2 way thing for me and if that doesnt happen i go cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we cant establish a mutual flow, its a 2 way thing for me and if that doesnt happen i go cold

Very well put, hence why connection beyond physical attraction is so important for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other side of the coin then is i have had unreal connection with someone then when given the chance the play was a definite won't go there again lol. But then i stop and think because of the good connection of how can i switch it and turn it into a more positive experience. There are ways but of course it has to work for the parties involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think bad sex is the kind that when you're finished, you just want to get up and leave.

The silence is deafening as you get dressed and I'm sure many here know what I'm talking about. Thankfully I've not experienced much of that in my life and none of it in the last 10 years.

Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eats, shoots and leaves. The panda syndrome. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think bad sex is the kind that when you're finished, you just want to get up and leave.

The silence is deafening as you get dressed and I'm sure many here know what I'm talking about. Thankfully I've not experienced much of that in my life and none of it in the last 10 years.

Lee"

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

When the two libidos are poles apart; inherently incompatible-frustration and disappointment for both individuals.

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By *onny1969Man
over a year ago

local

Probably any sex I’m involved in

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

No spark … no chemistry … just having sex for the sake of it … waiting for it to be over … wanting the person to leave already …

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"No spark … no chemistry … just having sex for the sake of it … waiting for it to be over … wanting the person to leave already …

This...

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Poor hygiene.

If the person hasn't recently showered or if they have bad B.O. or breath than that's just a big no no for me and instant passion killer.

This is why I usually prefer to have a social meet first in order to gauge them and so I can't be caught off guard.

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By *reshstart00Man
over a year ago

north dublin

BO, lack of spark or chemistry and same position over and over

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"BO, lack of spark or chemistry and same position over and over"

What?! There's more than one position

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

All bad sex boils down to one thing

Poor verbal and non verbal communication

If one doesnt talk it through or the people involved aren’t in tune with each other you won’t get the chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened a bit, I would be doing my thing but all of a sudden I just lose interest, couldn’t be bothered finishing. That to me is bad sex.

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By *reshstart00Man
over a year ago

north dublin

"BO, lack of spark or chemistry and same position over and over"

I believe so, cant be 100% sure though

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

Jeez, I've had some bad sex over the years. When I think of the attempts I used to make at cunnilingus

I hadn't a clue!

These days it might be when I like someone on a personal level but the sexual chemistry isn't really there.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Nothing worse than realising half way through that you just don't fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing worse than realising half way through that you just don't fancy them"

I would imagine it’s happens in marriages quite a bit, depending on how couples are getting on. Suppose one night stands or swinging sex is easier cause exciting etc (and I’m not speaking of personal experience in the latter). Frequently, I would go through periods of not fancying my partner. That can fester. Answer = stay fit, stay attractive be creative.

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By *erosexMan
over a year ago

Tallaght

My total aim is to please the lady regardless, she has to get priority in the bedroom (or wherever).

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

No passion, no attraction, no imagination,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tweak on each nipple and straight into penetration ....

a flaccid cock trying to stuff it in and then when finally in , bad angle penetration thats more ouchy than anything else. No warning anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No warning anal

Well that’s a right pain in the ass...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A tweak on each nipple and straight into penetration ....

a flaccid cock trying to stuff it in and then when finally in , bad angle penetration thats more ouchy than anything else. No warning anal

no no, cant be having that

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By *ga_KMan
over a year ago

Drumcondra

Inexperienced and/or doesn’t know their body.

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin

"No passion, no attraction, no imagination,. "

1000000%

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By *limfitladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"No passion, no attraction, no imagination,.

1000000%"

100% agree.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Lack of effort.

One of us might blow our load early but that doesn't mean the party's over just because a popper went off.

Be encouraging, slow stroking after the orgasm, avoid direct genital touching and concentrate on stimulating the other erogenous zones, before getting back to the zingy parts.

I always give a lady of a second chance to show she can last longer, or enjoy the second orgasm even more.

Be a giver and some bad, quick sessions turn into more fun than your preconceptions might have imagined

They aren't all quickies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realising there’s not the connection you though their was and like it’s been said above when you can’t wait for it to be over.

Lack of enthusiasm, I get that people can be shy, myself included, but make an effort.

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

"No passion.

Going through the motions.

No oral.

Over just as you're getting warmed up.

Oh God, that sounds like absolute hell!

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
over a year ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

Being on your own ????

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

Being left out

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

When the lady doesn't fully enjoy it.

Men are so easy to please afterall.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"Being left out "

I'd find it hard to believe that Tina would ever be left out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No respect and not having any notion about the sensitivities of the other person.

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By *orkGuyFunGuyMan
over a year ago

Cork

As much as it’s needed for some people, No one has amazing sex d*unk

Personally can mess with performance, so little or none at all for me

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Mouth licking being passed off as kissing.

Someone using my body to make themselves orgasm.

Forced orgasm ~ with the right person though

Sex with someone who doesn't care about my orgasm or attempt to make it a good one.

Someone that feels like they're following a sightseeing map of places to visit without any real interest in learning what goes on there.

I'll pass thanks.

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