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By *lian982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Palmerstown

I’m relatively new to this scene compared to most people on here and I’m trying to get more involved but it just seems impossible people don’t want to meet or talk to unverified accounts but you can’t get verified unless you talk to and meet people it seems very gatekeeped for beginners in particularly young ones

Any thoughts or suggestions for me on this?

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Patience and perseverance really, it’s not a race and you’ve many many years ahead of you so just enjoy the journey.

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By *urFabFun21Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I’m relatively new to this scene compared to most people on here and I’m trying to get more involved but it just seems impossible people don’t want to meet or talk to unverified accounts but you can’t get verified unless you talk to and meet people it seems very gatekeeped for beginners in particularly young ones

Any thoughts or suggestions for me on this?"

Go to social events to meet people and get verified. When that happens you can get party invites and people may be more open to meeting you.

Social meet n greets are definitely the best way to go for the first while

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Your blank silhouette for a profile pic reduces your chances of getting replies to your messages 10-fold.

Do a search on the forums, there's plenty of advice on here on how to get meets

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By *ara198Woman
over a year ago

maynooth


"I’m relatively new to this scene compared to most people on here and I’m trying to get more involved but it just seems impossible people don’t want to meet or talk to unverified accounts but you can’t get verified unless you talk to and meet people it seems very gatekeeped for beginners in particularly young ones

Any thoughts or suggestions for me on this?"

Hello Elian and welcome. I'd add some kind of a profile photo as a blank profile is off putting, perhaps a body pic with no face. And then I'd attend a social, there are a fair few starting again now. They are a great way to mingle and get to know people and get verified. Be patient. Enjoy.

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about


"Your blank silhouette for a profile pic reduces your chances of getting replies to your messages 10-fold.

Do a search on the forums, there's plenty of advice on here on how to get meets "

Feckin love that dress...

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Your blank silhouette for a profile pic reduces your chances of getting replies to your messages 10-fold.

Do a search on the forums, there's plenty of advice on here on how to get meets

Feckin love that dress..."

My dress? Why thank you, it's PLT

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By *lian982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Palmerstown

Thanks for the tips

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By *lian982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Palmerstown

How do I find these social meets I’d love to go to one but most I see are invite only am I looking in the wrong places? Are most of them in the forums?

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By *urFabFun21Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere


"How do I find these social meets I’d love to go to one but most I see are invite only am I looking in the wrong places? Are most of them in the forums?"

Yep, they're always advertised in the Ireland forum. Latest one here

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1257221

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I’m relatively new to this scene compared to most people on here and I’m trying to get more involved but it just seems impossible people don’t want to meet or talk to unverified accounts but you can’t get verified unless you talk to and meet people it seems very gatekeeped for beginners in particularly young ones

Any thoughts or suggestions for me on this?"
social in Dublin next Saturday look in forums

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By *lian982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Palmerstown

Yeah I seen that one in the forum but it’s limited to meet verified people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your blank silhouette for a profile pic reduces your chances of getting replies to your messages 10-fold.

Do a search on the forums, there's plenty of advice on here on how to get meets

Feckin love that dress..."

I’ve said it before but I think ye as a couple have the best pics up on this, extremely sexy, ridiculously horny and very witty, with fantastic bodies. Love the pic with skeleton!!

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Yeah I seen that one in the forum but it’s limited to meet verified people "

There's always coffee socials to get you started,

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"Yeah I seen that one in the forum but it’s limited to meet verified people

There's always coffee socials to get you started, "

There’s one in Kildare. Ask the organisers if you can attend

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Your blank silhouette for a profile pic reduces your chances of getting replies to your messages 10-fold.

Do a search on the forums, there's plenty of advice on here on how to get meets

Feckin love that dress...

I’ve said it before but I think ye as a couple have the best pics up on this, extremely sexy, ridiculously horny and very witty, with fantastic bodies. Love the pic with skeleton!!"

Very flattering Davy, thank you

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Yeah I seen that one in the forum but it’s limited to meet verified people

There's always coffee socials to get you started,

There’s one in Kildare. Ask the organisers if you can attend"

Yes this is definitely one you could attend. The thread is called "Kikdare Social", go find it.

Plus you have gone about this the right way by asking for advice and engaging with people who have given it.

Maybe bulk up your bio as well, let people know what you can offer and inject a bit of personality.

You'll do fine, good luck

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

You'll have no problems in the long-term if you genuinely want to get into this lifestyle.

Attend socials, especially coffee meets initially and build up a list of useful contacts whom you click with; it will be slow at first, but the pace will accelerate as your reputation spreads!

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