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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please define what it means to you. Especially “fabulous” and “average”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's fabulous to one is average too another, thank god for preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me Fabulous is someone who's open minded and doesn't think anyone else's kink is weird. Re average I don't know context is everything.. apparently I have an average length penis but I enjoy small penis humiliation so I like to think it's tiny..re curves I think anyone who isn't very thin can have curves.. I guess

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I have my body shape down as average . I’m not in perfect shape and I’m certainly not athletic . Average is fine

In my opinion curvy means bigger and fabulous means bigger but more confident about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't care what word people choose to describe themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really care enough to try to think of definitions for them tbh.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I chose not to pick the average description simply because that's how I've always seen myself and decided I wouldn't be doing that anymore.

Fabulous is in the site name so it must apply to all members

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Problem with those body descriptions is that they're not comparable, one is based on weight, one on shape and the last on fantasy, at least that's my opinion.

In theory (imo)

Average: someone with a BMI between 22 and 24.5 (then again going by stats average Irish man/woman is overweight with a BMI of 28 respectively 27)

Curvy: someone with concave and convex curves

Fabulous: whatever you wish, think, feel, are etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I've chosen 'curvy' because I don't see myself as athletic or slim

Cat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have my body shape down as average . I’m not in perfect shape and I’m certainly not athletic . Average is fine

In my opinion curvy means bigger and fabulous means bigger but more confident about it "

I inclined to agree with you on that description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average, because I'm just that. Average. Like goldilocks porridge, not too hot and not too cold

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I chose not to pick the average description simply because that's how I've always seen myself and decided I wouldn't be doing that anymore.

Fabulous is in the site name so it must apply to all members"

I like that description also

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me I've chosen 'curvy' because I don't see myself as athletic or slim

Cat"

Well you can be slim and curvy at the same time, once you have a slim waist and a booty, I would define that as curvy or fabulous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The terms offered by the site mean nothing. Body type to me is the somatotype I was born with, not a variety of loose descriptions or even euphemisms which are subjective at best. I go by pictures as a rough guide, don't even bother to look at what people put in their profile under body type.

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

I had down I was large apparently that was wrong( im tall so went large

)

changed to curvy and some random dude this week told me

" im misleading people as im not curvy "

im definitely not athletic or slim so I don't really fit in I guess..

Im 5'7( large)

with a 31 waist ( curves) and big boobs( see curvy no?)

ah I'm confusing my self now!!

let's go with me,im just me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It doesn't matter what I think cos others will say it's wrong anyhow on here. I had curvey down because yes I'm not slim and I have curves and I've been told that's wrong so I put fabulous but that just felt wrong too as that's not how I describe myself so I put average and have been told that's wrong as well . There's no option for short and wobbly so I've left it as average.

People should be allowed to describe themselves however they want as far as I'm concerned.It doesn't bother me a bit how others see themselves and I can never quite grasp why it is such a big deal to people what others put on their own profiles.

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I’ve put myself as curvy as I’ve been told I am. I’ve also been told I’m not curvy I’m fat. So the first description was from a guy I used to meet. The second description from a guy who I’ve never met….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve put myself as curvy as I’ve been told I am. I’ve also been told I’m not curvy I’m fat. So the first description was from a guy I used to meet. The second description from a guy who I’ve never met…. "

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

They should be removed, why decide whether you're interested in someone by a term, if you're attracted to someone via messaging then you are going to swap pics and if you don't like what you see and their body shape is not to your "preference" then just don't continue with the conversations

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By *erry manMan
over a year ago

killarney

A body is a body people should never judge how a person looks

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"A body is a body people should never judge how a person looks "

sadly this doesn't happen on fab or the real world..we all do some form of it..

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By *erry manMan
over a year ago

killarney


"A body is a body people should never judge how a person looks

sadly this doesn't happen on fab or the real world..we all do some form of it.."

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By *erry manMan
over a year ago

killarney

Yes this is very true but i think people should never look at a big person and say in there own minds ooo look at the state of him our her life is too short for that kind of shit

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"Yes this is very true but i think people should never look at a big person and say in there own minds ooo look at the state of him our her life is too short for that kind of shit"

im not sure all people think that! it's just people have a preference for a smaller / larger body..I myself prefer a man taller than me, I don't go around thinking " look at the state of that person"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They should be removed, why decide whether you're interested in someone by a term, if you're attracted to someone via messaging then you are going to swap pics and if you don't like what you see and their body shape is not to your "preference" then just don't continue with the conversations

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True.

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By *averick345Man
over a year ago

Dublin

The people who feel the need to tell someone else directly what they think of their appearance... I'd love to know how they would describe themselves, if they were being honest. Some suitable words that come to mind:

Inadequate

Emasculated

Spiteful

Conceited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They should be removed, why decide whether you're interested in someone by a term, if you're attracted to someone via messaging then you are going to swap pics and if you don't like what you see and their body shape is not to your "preference" then just don't continue with the conversations

"

100% this.

I don't give a flying fig who agrees with my chosen descriptor or not. I'm a fat chick with curves for miles. That's what my photos show. If I'm not someones preferred body type that's cool with me but no-one gets to tell me that how *I* choose to describe myself is wrong just because I don't fit their notion of the definition of an entirely subjective word.

Can you tell it boils my piss?

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By *averick345Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I had down I was large apparently that was wrong( im tall so went large

)

changed to curvy and some random dude this week told me

" im misleading people as im not curvy "

im definitely not athletic or slim so I don't really fit in I guess..

Im 5'7( large)

with a 31 waist ( curves) and big boobs( see curvy no?)

ah I'm confusing my self now!!

let's go with me,im just me "

Sorry, was trying to reply to this message lol

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By *alwayguy2020Man
over a year ago

near trien

Average is anything less then 6ft and we just cant have that.

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"I had down I was large apparently that was wrong( im tall so went large

)

changed to curvy and some random dude this week told me

" im misleading people as im not curvy "

im definitely not athletic or slim so I don't really fit in I guess..

Im 5'7( large)

with a 31 waist ( curves) and big boobs( see curvy no?)

ah I'm confusing my self now!!

let's go with me,im just me

Sorry, was trying to reply to this message lol"

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They should be removed, why decide whether you're interested in someone by a term, if you're attracted to someone via messaging then you are going to swap pics and if you don't like what you see and their body shape is not to your "preference" then just don't continue with the conversations

100% this.

I don't give a flying fig who agrees with my chosen descriptor or not. I'm a fat chick with curves for miles. That's what my photos show. If I'm not someones preferred body type that's cool with me but no-one gets to tell me that how *I* choose to describe myself is wrong just because I don't fit their notion of the definition of an entirely subjective word.

Can you tell it boils my piss? "

Love it, I'm curvy, I have fat, I also have deadlifted 70kg, cam lift a 40kg bag of coal from my car and bring to the back of my house

But feck it I'm also bloody fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average is anything less then 6ft and we just cant have that. "

No way... im only 5ft2...

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By *ysticalWoman
over a year ago

north wexford

I call myself fabulous as we all fabulous in our own right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They should be removed, why decide whether you're interested in someone by a term, if you're attracted to someone via messaging then you are going to swap pics and if you don't like what you see and their body shape is not to your "preference" then just don't continue with the conversations

100% this.

I don't give a flying fig who agrees with my chosen descriptor or not. I'm a fat chick with curves for miles. That's what my photos show. If I'm not someones preferred body type that's cool with me but no-one gets to tell me that how *I* choose to describe myself is wrong just because I don't fit their notion of the definition of an entirely subjective word.

Can you tell it boils my piss?

Love it, I'm curvy, I have fat, I also have deadlifted 70kg, cam lift a 40kg bag of coal from my car and bring to the back of my house

But feck it I'm also bloody fabulous "

You bloody are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had down I was large apparently that was wrong( im tall so went large

)

changed to curvy and some random dude this week told me

" im misleading people as im not curvy "

im definitely not athletic or slim so I don't really fit in I guess..

Im 5'7( large)

with a 31 waist ( curves) and big boobs( see curvy no?)

ah I'm confusing my self now!!

let's go with me,im just me "

Either way you’re still a stunner my Kildare buddy

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By *alwayguy2020Man
over a year ago

near trien


"Average is anything less then 6ft and we just cant have that.

No way... im only 5ft2... "

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

We go on the principle that vast majority of be are honest and reasonable in their self description, recent body pics are best guide but sometimes the description just confirms if pics aren’t 100% clear. Physical attraction is first hurdle we need to clear on our way to planning a meet so don’t see issue with self assigned body type description if it aids in people finding compatible matches. Just our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they will mean different things to everyone

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Please define what it means to you. Especially “fabulous” and “average”.

"

I think Fab has pretty much removed my interpretation of any of these "body type" descriptions for me because everyone has a different definition or interpretation. The one that stands out mostly is "athletic"... what some people describe as athletic here is

Fabulous I usually interpret as a lady who is happy with a curvy/voluptuous body, someone who revels in those curves .

I've also put myself down as "average". I sometimes dither between average and slim because there are days I feel more "frumpy" than others and slim then doesn't feel right as a descriptor. I'm not fit and in shape, so definitely not athletic. I sport the lumps and bumps of a woman my age, with stretch marks, cellulite and saggy boobs. Hence bodywise probably average enough but with a fabulous mind behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm down as average cos I'm definitely not slim or athletic anymore average dress size in Ireland is apparently 14 and that's what I am, so....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We go on the principle that vast majority of be are honest and reasonable in their self description, recent body pics are best guide but sometimes the description just confirms if pics aren’t 100% clear. Physical attraction is first hurdle we need to clear on our way to planning a meet so don’t see issue with self assigned body type description if it aids in people finding compatible matches. Just our opinion."

Totally agree with that

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