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By *affa31 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Galway

The last couple of days have been particularly tough. How are you feeling?

I’m sad, exhausted and overwhelmingly angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last couple of days have been particularly tough. How are you feeling?

I’m sad, exhausted and overwhelmingly angry. "

Yep... those.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Same OP,ive daughters same age and older as poor Ashling and i honestly despair at times ,life can be so fucking cruel at times !!!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

As I have a 22 yr old daughter I'm desperately sad for her family and the girl in Ballyfermot last week

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

I have booked my wife and three girls in to a self defence class. I’m so angry at the senseless violence against both sexes. The perpetrators seem to be untouchable and get to roam around with impunity.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"The last couple of days have been particularly tough. How are you feeling?

I’m sad, exhausted and overwhelmingly angry.

Yep... those. "

And another one, and this place is contributing more than it’s fair share.

The forum has gone to shit, inflammatory, provoking and derogatory rubbish being posted all over the place.

I’m sure the mods have their problems, but it would be nice to hear what they are, while there is still anyone here to read it……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 9 year old daughter and it saddens me so much that this is the world she will be growing up in, scary!

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon


"The last couple of days have been particularly tough. How are you feeling?

I’m sad, exhausted and overwhelmingly angry. "
All of the above jaffa, but been going on for the last few years to the point I quit my job in December,burnt out ..

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By *avana_oh_na_naWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm just plain pissed off, I don't even have words for it. I'm just sick of this shit, of these piss poor excuses, of the couple of days of outrage before everyone goes back to normal until the next time, of the half-hearted "what can we do" while remaining in our comfortable spot of doing nothing. It hurts my brain and my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same op and as someone else said will be outrage for few days and we move on. Some days I do wonder about people and the lack of respect for others, even trying to encourage people to be nice gets pulled apart.

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By *lamingo57Woman
over a year ago

Carrick


"The last couple of days have been particularly tough. How are you feeling?

I’m sad, exhausted and overwhelmingly angry. "

The same. Tired from it all. Tired from the "it's not all men" brigade. It's exhausting having to explain it to men. Grateful for my adults sons who listen to me and their girlfriends without getting defensive or shouting about men's rights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've two daughters. My 10 year old is striving for independence. I just feel like the overbearing protective father. I so want to release the reigns but very fearful!!

The thoughts of something happening to her is driving me to distraction.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

No different from last week. My personal opinion is the the "stranger danger" narrative has had a more negative impact on making women safer. When it comes to trying to do the best for the young women in my life the reality is they are far more likely to be seriously harmed, attacked or killed by men in their lives who they love or have strong feelings for. That to me is far more frightening and requires a lot more preperation to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling heartbroken for the Murphy family

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

It has cast a shadow over many things Nationally and rightly so. So many shocking things about it .

But often how we feel is affected by how media coverage takes place .

There are many unmentionable things happening world wide and in Ireland

If we overthink all of them we ll never function

So just do the best you can for yourself and those around you . You can only control what you can and many things are beyond your control

And the world is mostly a good place

Hopefully the culprit gets caught shortly , sentenced adequately and the family get justice

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By *affa31 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"It has cast a shadow over many things Nationally and rightly so. So many shocking things about it .

But often how we feel is affected by how media coverage takes place .

There are many unmentionable things happening world wide and in Ireland

If we overthink all of them we ll never function

So just do the best you can for yourself and those around you . You can only control what you can and many things are beyond your control

And the world is mostly a good place

Hopefully the culprit gets caught shortly , sentenced adequately and the family get justice "

Are you actually saying that women feel sad, tired and angry because of media coverage?

Another woman was murdered by a man.

Do not tell me how to feel and why I feel the way I do.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"The last couple of days have been particularly tough. How are you feeling?

I’m sad, exhausted and overwhelmingly angry. All of the above jaffa, but been going on for the last few years to the point I quit my job in December,burnt out .. "

Good luck with a new job

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I’m livid.

I’m angry and confused and so disappointed in so many men. From men saying “don’t be over-reacting” to “it’s not all men”, im distractedly furious.

How the hell do I raise my daughters? Do I scare the shit out of them and lock them up or enable them with self awareness and jujitsu and put them at risk.

It was hard enough raising them in a country that only cared about their wombs but we’ve at least fixed that.

Arghhhhhhh

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"It has cast a shadow over many things Nationally and rightly so. So many shocking things about it .

But often how we feel is affected by how media coverage takes place .

There are many unmentionable things happening world wide and in Ireland

If we overthink all of them we ll never function

So just do the best you can for yourself and those around you . You can only control what you can and many things are beyond your control

And the world is mostly a good place

Hopefully the culprit gets caught shortly , sentenced adequately and the family get justice "

Have you, a man, just mansplained why WOMEN are upset? Have you seriously just written what you wrote. That were scared because the MEDIA told us to be?

OMFG.

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

Has anyone else on this thread received abusive messages about it? If so please PM me.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Apologies if that’s the way it came across

It was not the intention

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

My kid who is 9

Said that men should buy badges that say i stand with women. All money should go to " help women who get bashed by men". I think its a lovely thought from someone who is 9

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By *isspafWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Every woman I know is sad.

Attended a vigil this morning. Was pretty tough.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

As the father of daughters I'm sad.

As a human being I'm sad.

RIP Aisling Murphy.

RIP Aidan Mann

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last couple of days have been particularly tough. How are you feeling?

I’m sad, exhausted and overwhelmingly angry. "

We all have one of those days,it's completely normal.

Chin up!hugs...

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By *ubyShuWoman
over a year ago

Nearby

Im sad, heartbroken, angry and afraid! Afraid of what the future holds for my daughter

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By *ubyShuWoman
over a year ago

Nearby


"My kid who is 9

Said that men should buy badges that say i stand with women. All money should go to " help women who get bashed by men". I think its a lovely thought from someone who is 9"

Very lovely thought x

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Unfortunately fab has highlighted what is wrong, even with good intentions many posters still don’t get it. Men/women/alternative should not feel any different, should not have to think about what they wear any differently, should not have to arrange how they get home any differently, should not have to think about what venue they go socialising any differently , should not worry about who they approach any differently, should but have to think about subject choices in school any differently, should not have to consider what sports they get involved in any differently …in fact nothing, absolutely nothing should be approached differently.

It’s not what is written or said. The mindset is the problem, and it won’t change until people accept equality in every aspect of society.

Oh btw, yee can send me abuse all ya want, water, duck ‘n all that

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I've three daughters,its a scary world

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By *ara198Woman
over a year ago

maynooth


"Apologies if that’s the way it came across

It was not the intention

"

I totally get your point

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By *ara198Woman
over a year ago

maynooth

Yes its an horrendous thing, the media frenzy is unhelpful and inflames everything. I think that was the point above.

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