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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having enjoyed reading the thread on the choice between cumming on a woman's face, or on her breasts, I would like to conduct my own research...

I have never let anybody cum on my face and I don't foresee it happening, unless I am with someone who can make it erotic for me. I enjoy it on my breasts, back, bum, tummy and in my mouth. However, by far, my preference is inside of me. And, when I feel it is safe and possible to choose, condomless.

I cannot adequately put into words how pleasurable this feels for me. There is very much a physical aspect, where I enjoy the build, feeling the guy get close and, when the moment comes, feeling it spurt inside me and spread. There is also a psychological aspect, where I become hugely turned on by the prospect and I delight in getting what I wanted all along. I also really enjoy knowing his cum is still inside me afterwards.

I would love to know what is the preference of the men on here and why. I am also curious to know if it is as satisfying to cum on a body part, as you have the visual, or if is there nothing like condomless ejaculation inside a woman? Is there a psychological aspect of it for some, too?

Anyway, feedback would be appreciated. I could lie and pretend it is for a thesis I am undertaking, but it is actually down to my own personal desire to know if it feels as good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely inside a lady when trusted and safe . To watch it drip out is class otherwise on breasts.

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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

In my younger days, I quite enjoyed giving facials but soon learnt that this was not enjoyed by many women. If inside wasn’t allowed, then tits on bum is always nice

However, if at all possible, condomless inside a woman is always the best way. Either pussy or arse. Like you OP there is the obvious physical sensations but there is a massive psychological high to it too. This is different depending on the woman I’m with of course. So if I am with a married woman, it’s the thought of sending her hone to hubby with my cum still in her.

Happy to help with any further research!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although it's visually amazing to cum on tits, ass or any other part of a woman's body, it definitely feels the best to cum inside her. And in my experience ladies prefer that as well

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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago

mullingar


"Having enjoyed reading the thread on the choice between cumming on a woman's face, or on her breasts, I would like to conduct my own research...

I have never let anybody cum on my face and I don't foresee it happening, unless I am with someone who can make it erotic for me. I enjoy it on my breasts, back, bum, tummy and in my mouth. However, by far, my preference is inside of me. And, when I feel it is safe and possible to choose, condomless.

I cannot adequately put into words how pleasurable this feels for me. There is very much a physical aspect, where I enjoy the build, feeling the guy get close and, when the moment comes, feeling it spurt inside me and spread. There is also a psychological aspect, where I become hugely turned on by the prospect and I delight in getting what I wanted all along. I also really enjoy knowing his cum is still inside me afterwards.

I would love to know what is the preference of the men on here and why. I am also curious to know if it is as satisfying to cum on a body part, as you have the visual, or if is there nothing like condomless ejaculation inside a woman? Is there a psychological aspect of it for some, too?

Anyway, feedback would be appreciated. I could lie and pretend it is for a thesis I am undertaking, but it is actually down to my own personal desire to know if it feels as good for you. "

It's definitely down to shared experience which involves communication and trust.... my own preference is inside, without a condom, however, that is a decision to be agreed by both, and once there's trust and respect, everything else should fall into place. With regard to face, or elsewhere, again it wouldn't just be a case of "shooting" into somebody's eye and hope she doesn't mind lol..... but in time, an understanding of each other will raise the excitement in trying new experiences

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Ladies choice always

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By *moothride530Man
over a year ago

Dubljn / kildare

Cream pie is a big turn on to watch it drip out yes , if it’s their fantasy on their face il gladly do it but only if they want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat nature, it's going to drive a man to ejaculate inside a woman's vagina - with a condom in between for me please

Interestingly, I've noticed men are more likely to do this on second or subsequent meets, rather than the first, where they are all pornstar

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Inside is magical but I find a bj that swallows on a par with inside .

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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago

mullingar


"Inside is magical but I find a bj that swallows on a par with inside ."

I would have to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was there not a previous thread about this yesterday

Double cum shot thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to cum in company

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Cavan.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Cavan. "

But on a good day will it land in Monaghan mick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 12/01/22 12:24:24]"

I think its best the feeling without the condom on.. but it would be outside of her and being able to cum on her is deeply erotic in the right circumstances...

If she is greedy to have it then its intensely erotic...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Favorite place is in the mouth especially if they enjoy it ...find it very intimate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, but they were looking for the female preference between breasts and face, and I didn't want to hijack their thread with my own curiosities.

Apologies if you found it tiresome to read both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inside condomless is preferable with the right (safe) person.

I prefer to cum inside, there is a better connection when you cum inside, especially when there is simultaneous orgams

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for replies, both thoughtful & humourous.

Interesting to read other people's preferences & reasoning outside of those I have either gotten to know intimately, or at least felt comfortable enough to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for replies, both thoughtful & humourous.

Interesting to read other people's preferences & reasoning outside of those I have either gotten to know intimately, or at least felt comfortable enough to ask. "

Well, whats the conclusion to your study? Are you going to take it on the chin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I prefer to cum inside pussy or ass without a condom when I'm with someone I know and I'd feel safe with going without. Otherwise on ass or belly or wherever she wants it really.

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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago

mullingar


"Thank you for replies, both thoughtful & humourous.

Interesting to read other people's preferences & reasoning outside of those I have either gotten to know intimately, or at least felt comfortable enough to ask. "

The key point is "other peoples' preferences" and understanding that not all are the same, but at the same time, establishing comfort and trust to maybe explore and experiment with someone if thats what both parties agree.... and take one on the chin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never found the appeal of giving a facial but to each their own. I prefer to still be inside when we both cum.

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By *iam756Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Kildare

Like to cum in her mouth and she keeps sucking to make it more pleasurable

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Lube up the butt cheeks and as the crescendo approaches, dry hump her doggy style until you cover her back with your love potion number 69. Then it's off to the shower to admire your work and help her ger the sticky mess off.

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By *ga_KMan
over a year ago

Drumcondra

Definitely cum on bum for me... excites me for another round plus I like to clean her up. That lil shake she does after really gets things started all over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most often, where I'm asked to. And that depends on who I'm with and the vibe at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inside or onto her tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inside is always the best feeling and most pleasurable. It means there is no interruption when you have to withdraw and aim. Ha. I have found women prefer that too but of course it's not always safe. My second preference is on tits or face. I have found a few women that enjoy it on their face. It's more psychological than pleasurable maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Into a bucket..... because as the UnBelieveables say, you only get a bucket and a half in your lifetime and I don't want to waste it!

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By *orkGuyFunGuyMan
over a year ago

Cork

Inside!!! Nothing fucking hotter than being told to cum inside !!! Mouth watering

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork


"I prefer to cum in company"

Preferred for most if not all I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never cum inside a mouth so can’t comment, can only imagine.

For me on her back, much better orgasm. I enjoy giving it from behind buts it’s never as intense for some reason.

Also, it’s rare this happens, but after a little bit of a joint it’s way better! Orgasms go longer, more control, feel everything better, don’t know why.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I do love cumming in a mouth but I find giving a facial so hot. But basically, so long as my partner and I both cum, that's the important thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sticky sock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh.

I just don't get this cumming on face or tits or any other body part. In all my years of shagging and watching porn I still don't get it

I've only ever once had (asked for) a guy to finish on my face. It just felt gloopy and yuk. I distinctly remember him asking me to wipe my chin

For me it's got to me inside me. But obviously that's not for any Tom Dick or Harry to do. So for that reason I simply don't enjoy casual sex. For me a condom, IE a barrier, takes away from the intimacy But if I do decide to play with others then I prefer them to cum inside the condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ugh.

I just don't get this cumming on face or tits or any other body part. In all my years of shagging and watching porn I still don't get it

I've only ever once had (asked for) a guy to finish on my face. It just felt gloopy and yuk. I distinctly remember him asking me to wipe my chin

For me it's got to me inside me. But obviously that's not for any Tom Dick or Harry to do. So for that reason I simply don't enjoy casual sex. For me a condom, IE a barrier, takes away from the intimacy But if I do decide to play with others then I prefer them to cum inside the condom "

CUE All the PM's now from guys looking for to fuck me bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ugh.

I just don't get this cumming on face or tits or any other body part. In all my years of shagging and watching porn I still don't get it

I've only ever once had (asked for) a guy to finish on my face. It just felt gloopy and yuk. I distinctly remember him asking me to wipe my chin

For me it's got to me inside me. But obviously that's not for any Tom Dick or Harry to do. So for that reason I simply don't enjoy casual sex. For me a condom, IE a barrier, takes away from the intimacy But if I do decide to play with others then I prefer them to cum inside the condom

CUE All the PM's now from guys looking for to fuck me bareback "

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

In all honesty I'm not a fan of cumming on a woman's face, in all the years I've been with Mrs Gs I've done it less than a handful of times and probably those times it's been from bad aiming

For me I prefer to cum inside mrs Gs or over her boobs or when playing with others it's boobs

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By *hoknows82Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

Cumming inside is so fucking intense and feels amazing.

The climax.

The pulsing.

If safe, I'd choose that every time.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

What he said ^^^

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By *hoknows82Man
over a year ago

South Dublin


"What he said ^^^"

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By *orklad79Man
over a year ago

North of Tunnel

Mine usually ends up on the floor

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks a million for all the replies! Lots of food for thought... Reading some of these replies, I really would love to be able to feel how it feels for a man, as opposed to a woman. Still won't be letting anybody near my face, but I don't have such a strong association with degradation.

Wherever ye cum, may it be immensely pleasurable!

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By *umon337Man
over a year ago

Offaly


"Inside is magical but I find a bj that swallows on a par with inside ."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it depends on the lady the face is class when it’s a girl who really wants you to and who does it for you onto her face which is very rare but other than that scenario I would say inside is probably best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me to cum over a pussy and then lick it all off and making her cum while I do was one of the best experiences for me

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

Inside her !

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Oh so many places .... Inside her ass (as this is a rare pleasure from my past)

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Inside

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

In terms of feeling pleasure, cumming inside without a condom is by far the most pleasurable, but only with a trusted partner. Otherwise it wouldn't be enjoyable at all it.

Inside with a condom is my second preference. Followed very closely by in the mouth. On the face is fun for variety and pretty hot but in terms of the feeling of pleasure it doesn't compare to cumming inside.

Then it the breasts, then body (facing me).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumming inside after a long build up…

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork

If wearing rubber.... i prefer pull out and take off ... and cum from clit up to eyes with drips and dribbles inbetween....

Bare with regular or trusted then pound all the way and sboth shudder to a inside finish....

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By *anhoeMan
over a year ago

galway


"Favorite place is in the mouth especially if they enjoy it ...find it very intimate"

Yea..totally agree!

Followed immediately by sensual, deep French kissing ! mmmmmmm

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

In the condom,the mouth or, depending on foreplay, the ass.

Personally I hate cum mess, which some find weird it, when it cums to spunk, I'm a bit Monica

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I could have written the OPs post. I hate facials, I find it demeaning and it makes me feel a bit ill.

A man cumming inside me in a condom is possibly my favourite thing ever. The build up, his loss of control, the moans and how their body reacts. I’d go so far as to say it’s a kink I have, as I love when it happens with very dominant men.

I very very rarely go bareback so that’s not a kink but it’s happened twice in as many years and I don’t crave it.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"In the condom,the mouth or, depending on foreplay, the ass.

Personally I hate cum mess, which some find weird it, when it cums to spunk, I'm a bit Monica "

Lewinsky or Geller

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could have written the OPs post. I hate facials, I find it demeaning and it makes me feel a bit ill.

A man cumming inside me in a condom is possibly my favourite thing ever. The build up, his loss of control, the moans and how their body reacts. I’d go so far as to say it’s a kink I have, as I love when it happens with very dominant men.

I very very rarely go bareback so that’s not a kink but it’s happened twice in as many years and I don’t crave it.

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Very interesting!

One guy told me that he thinks it is a kink of mine, but I don't really see it that way.

It is funny, as I very much see it as you do. I am fascinated by a man cumming - taking in how he loses control. It drives me wild, and I like to cum with him, and/or again afterwards.

However, unlike you, I much prefer condomless, but that only happens when in a relationship, where there is trust, etc.,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the condom,the mouth or, depending on foreplay, the ass.

Personally I hate cum mess, which some find weird it, when it cums to spunk, I'm a bit Monica

Lewinsky or Geller "

Geller, I would imagine.

Funnily enough, I don't like sex to be too sanitary.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

On my boobs, love guys stood over me as they cum, the ultimate fantasy is for multiple guys at the same time.

Love it inside too, but the safety aspect will always overide the fantasy unless it was was someone we knew and trusted.

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

I love coming home to Limerick the weekend after a week in Dublin..

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork


"On my boobs, love guys stood over me as they cum, the ultimate fantasy is for multiple guys at the same time.

Love it inside too, but the safety aspect will always overide the fantasy unless it was was someone we knew and trusted."

Liking your cum preference..... i cum heavy... always suprise the recipient..... give your boobs a fair covering and would enjoy seeing u hav multiple....

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork


"I love coming home to Limerick the weekend after a week in Dublin.. "

Cumimg all the way down the road!

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By *umpkinnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Cumshots are a kink for me in many ways and its my main porn category go to. In my sex life though it's linked to how the woman reacted to it that makes it interesting or bad.

For example one ex hated it on her face the one time we tried and was upset and I don't think back on it fondly while another was giddy laughing and took a bunch of selfies with it all over her face and top (too much went on the floor as well) and it was great memory.

The second woman actually started by just being not bothered by cum but wasn't sure about facials because it might be degrading. I explained that it is not a masculine power move in my mind but I like that its this random visible mark that's left over after an orgasm and the more of it the more intense the moment was. That's maybe something women and even men don't get about a good cumshot, it's not consistent. A guy gets harder, cums harder and cums more when he is very turned on and remains aroused for longer before release (foreplay, trying different positions, speeds and depths). She liked that view point and really started to like cumshots and especially when they where big ones, which is why she took the selfies to capture the moment.

Saying all that, cumming inside with a condom feels the more complete and taking a condom off to cum on someone feels like its breaking the rhythm so i'll just stay inside. No condom and cumming inside just feels the best and I have no doubt there is a chemical/hormone reaction to it for the woman that just leaves her a bit happier the following days. That leaves a good memory in my mind.

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By *r.JizzMan
over a year ago

cork

Feels the best cumming in a wet pussy. But there is great pleasure in cumming all over her face, I cum more this way..just the excitement of trying to get as much cum out as possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cumshots are a kink for me in many ways and its my main porn category go to. In my sex life though it's linked to how the woman reacted to it that makes it interesting or bad.

For example one ex hated it on her face the one time we tried and was upset and I don't think back on it fondly while another was giddy laughing and took a bunch of selfies with it all over her face and top (too much went on the floor as well) and it was great memory.

The second woman actually started by just being not bothered by cum but wasn't sure about facials because it might be degrading. I explained that it is not a masculine power move in my mind but I like that its this random visible mark that's left over after an orgasm and the more of it the more intense the moment was. That's maybe something women and even men don't get about a good cumshot, it's not consistent. A guy gets harder, cums harder and cums more when he is very turned on and remains aroused for longer before release (foreplay, trying different positions, speeds and depths). She liked that view point and really started to like cumshots and especially when they where big ones, which is why she took the selfies to capture the moment.

Saying all that, cumming inside with a condom feels the more complete and taking a condom off to cum on someone feels like its breaking the rhythm so i'll just stay inside. No condom and cumming inside just feels the best and I have no doubt there is a chemical/hormone reaction to it for the woman that just leaves her a bit happier the following days. That leaves a good memory in my mind."

Thank you for explaining & detailing this. While I still wouldn't necessarily be up for a facial, I certainly see it a little differently. Very interesting to read your perspective.

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

The exhibitionist in me enjoys straddling her waist as she lies on her back and slowly masturbate until I cum on her belly and chest.

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