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Why do I get messages from guys??

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

If I try to send a message to a person or couple who have expressed no interest in single guys or anyone outside an age bracket, then I can't send a message....which is a great function, because at best you have people like me who overlooked the requirement, or at worst, you have people who don't care and ignore the wishes of others.

But I get a lot of messages from men....and I'm only realizing that surely they shouldn't be able to send me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you not block men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a setting to block messages fro men

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

Ok thanks, it's just a thought that crossed my mind now. If my account says couples or women, I thought that was enough. I'll look for the block option then

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By *urFabFun21Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Ok thanks, it's just a thought that crossed my mind now. If my account says couples or women, I thought that was enough. I'll look for the block option then"

Unfortunately, that's not enough. You need to block them if you don't want them pestering you. We had to block them, even though we got a couple of nice message from nice guys, the creepy ones were OTT and we got lots.

It's unfortunate because it gives the genuine guys on here a bad rep

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

I get you. And to be honest I'm not the kind of person who wants to close a door on anyone, at least give a person a chance to say hello! But I don't think I can anymore

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Ok thanks, it's just a thought that crossed my mind now. If my account says couples or women, I thought that was enough. I'll look for the block option then

Unfortunately, that's not enough. You need to block them if you don't want them pestering you. We had to block them, even though we got a couple of nice message from nice guys, the creepy ones were OTT and we got lots.

It's unfortunate because it gives the genuine guys on here a bad rep "

It can be sometimes easier to do your own hunting as it were...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If you block men any that you have messaged previously can still message you anyway if you have had conversations with them

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

That won't casue me much hassle so

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By *urFabFun21Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere


"

It can be sometimes easier to do your own hunting as it were... "

Yep I agree, Mrs is happy to browse now and see what she fancies. Will make contact herself when the time is right

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

I got a wink from a guy while we discussed this haha. I'll definitely look for that block option, thanks for the advice ????

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

"Honestly lad, the reason your getting messages from lads is because your hot. That second photo is definitely one of the hottest ones on here. Well done."

I just got this mail. If I'm clearly not looking for guys is not enough, if this very post that you're referring to, which is about blocking people like you is not enough, then what is?

The arrogance is astounding! I won't post your username (yet) but you're the reason a block option has to be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they are sussing if your interested in bi fun. We've had loads of messages from single guys. Simply solution is, block guys from messaging

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

Yeah, I'm seeing that now. I didn't realize I needed to put a block into place. I thought my listed preferences covered it. And also, in the heat of the moment who knows? If I'm with a couple and there's a grey area, we'll see, no promises or judgement...

But some of these guys...they're the reason people have to be careful

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


""Honestly lad, the reason your getting messages from lads is because your hot. That second photo is definitely one of the hottest ones on here. Well done."

I just got this mail. If I'm clearly not looking for guys is not enough, if this very post that you're referring to, which is about blocking people like you is not enough, then what is?

The arrogance is astounding! I won't post your username (yet) but you're the reason a block option has to be there. "

I don’t think it’s a good idea posting private messages on the forum, and certainly not usernames.

Besides, I got that message for so many different types of profiles I assumed it was spam…..

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

You can always chat about sport to them

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

Only the message because of context, which come on, is fair enough, and username left out which is generous enough given the discussion. I've no interest in causing hassle for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not allowed post content of messages.

If you dont want messages from guys block them. I have my filters tight and yet the odd message gets through from someone I would have no interest in meeting I just delete I don't feel the need to come on the forum and have a go at people.

Message filters are there for a reason.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Goes off to check his second photo to see just how hot it actually is (Mrs )

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

It screams that you are uncomfortable

Why? Its a compliment that bi, gay or straight men want to fuck you.

Or could it be a post to draw attention to your profile. The fact you posted a private msg in the thread, that states a certain pic would suggest to me its quite possibly attention seeking at its finest.

Just block people you don't wanna interact with. And ffs get over yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goes off to check his second photo to see just how hot it actually is (Mrs ) "

I totally done the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Honestly lad, the reason your getting messages from lads is because your hot. That second photo is definitely one of the hottest ones on here. Well done."

I just got this mail. If I'm clearly not looking for guys is not enough, if this very post that you're referring to, which is about blocking people like you is not enough, then what is?

The arrogance is astounding! I won't post your username (yet) but you're the reason a block option has to be there. "

Is it that big a deal really to get a message from a man saying your hot. Doesn't make you bi or gay to get a compliment. Just ignore them or as previously stated just block men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the tiles in your 3rd pic but I'm afraid to dm ya

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Jaysus does it really matter that much? It’s very easy to delete a message or just ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about rest of country..but I'd imagine its the same there's a serious amount of guys offering bjs without even seeing a pic or veri or even a word on a profile, literally I signed up and less than a minute I had 2 offers of according to their profiles straight lads...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's because they want to fuck you

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I always find it odd that people wear a watch when they're undressed. Its like wearing one sock.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I always find it odd that people wear a watch when they're undressed. Its like wearing one sock.

"

It's the only way of recording my attempts at a pb.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I always find it odd that people wear a watch when they're undressed. Its like wearing one sock.

It's the only way of recording my attempts at a pb. "

Does that happen regularly when you're undressed?

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