FabSwingers.com forum: First thing you check on a profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When checking a profile I go age, looking for, description, bio (or whatever its called) and then interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics of course, silly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How could I have forgotten but I do actually check those last

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age, location, bio and only look at pics if the other 3 are compatible.

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By *avingalook420Couple
over a year ago

belfast

With the amount of fakes on here these days, we always make sure to check that the woman/ couple are photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only new to this but what I’ve found is couple profiles, some are really only a man looking to meet it’s gets quite annoying, I’ve blocked 3 in the past couple of weeks

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

Mainly read the profile first, see if I'm in their age range, their type ect, then pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tits.... always yhe titties

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Location, what they are looking for, reead the bio... If its all good I message

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Age and bio first,then pics .

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

What they are looking for, then pics and bio

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

age, location, pics...

get all 3 and I think ohhhhh please be sane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"age, location, pics...

get all 3 and I think ohhhhh please be sane

Aren’t we all a little mad

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Location, what they're looking for, personal details, pics, veris.

Then possibly add to the hotlist & scroll away bc I'm a scaredy ba

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

"age, location, pics...

get all 3 and I think ohhhhh please be sane

Aren’t we all a little mad "

I can take a little mad, the nonsense I get sent is more they need professional help level

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"How could I have forgotten but I do actually check those last"

I actually check those last as well but before any displayed verifications, which I then read and check into

Am I the only person who actually just reads the entire profile top to bottom, taking note of whether we're a possible fit as I work my way through it?!

Looking at photos and displayed verifications last because I have to click the button for that, which is a distraction initially from the content of the profile. Plus, save the best to last - or worst, as the case may be

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Pictures,age requirements,location ,but I never send first messages anyway ...just like to know

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

Photos..if they smoke or vape

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By *limfitladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Looking for preferences... age, status etc.. there's enough noise in the world without blatantly ignoring what they have stated

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

Height lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Can see the age before opening a message.....if under it gets deleted without even looking at the profile. I'm guilty for looking at pics first

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Are they ok with short bald otherwise hairy bespectacled slightly eccentric men ?

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Pics

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

If I have a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Location "
same

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By *ueenbeetipp43Woman
over a year ago

my own world

If she's bi, looking to meet women, age then read the full profile if the first three are a yes.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Pics

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

"If she's bi, looking to meet women, age then read the full profile if the first three are a yes. "

Same as this, saves us writing exactly the same lol

Mrs Gs

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

It goes

Message subject (if they don’t use the key word, I’m unlikely to read the message. Unless I’m bored LOL)

Height

Age

Location

Sexuality

Photos

Verifications

Then bio. I don’t even look at interests.

If all that is ok I’ll read the message and once he’s not by a dickhead, I might reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of depends if the profile pic is too good to be true I reverse search image. Than age/location check veris .

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"Are they ok with short bald otherwise hairy bespectacled slightly eccentric men ? "

There's always exceptions to the rule

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"Height lol"

That's a stipulation from the Mrs also, but not a deal breaker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The state of the backgrounds in photos to see how much of a wrong un they are.

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Do they meet men?

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By *1n_eaterMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

To see if they have cleaned below there nails or if the soles of their feet are clean.

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"Height lol

That's a stipulation from the Mrs also, but not a deal breaker!"

Same here, personality rules everytime

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"Do they meet men?"

I do lol

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By *Whiskey Guy 2.0Man
over a year ago

Ballynaughty

Usually checking body size, (am fan of big), age, location and of course pervy on photos and videos

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Height

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

pictures, straight up.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Are they ok with short bald otherwise hairy bespectacled slightly eccentric men ? "

Thats a bit long to be adding to profiles, needs an acronym or just the word Casual thrown in there somewhere.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Height lol

That's a stipulation from the Mrs also, but not a deal breaker!

Same here, personality rules everytime"

Really!?? So you actually spend time getting to know every man that messages you to figure out if you’ll meet them?

What if you meet a guy who is great craic but he is physically completey unattractive to you?

Comments like that are virtue signalling. And absolute crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location & amount of verifications first, then pics & profile bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will meet smokers

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Usually checking body size, (am fan of big), age, location and of course pervy on photos and videos

I thought your profile pic was one of them warped mirrors until I saw it bigger. Nice hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Description, pictures and then verifications if any

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By *lose_encounterMan
over a year ago

Cork city

age, smoker, gender preferences. then read the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location, verifications, interests, any information as to what they are looking for and then I look at their pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're ok with attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check to see if they have the Sydney university spiel and if they don't sorry guys I'll be using them for research.

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By *lose_encounterMan
over a year ago

Cork city

"I check to see if they have the Sydney university spiel and if they don't sorry guys I'll be using them for research. "

lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally check to see if they stipulate that they don't meet atrach/married!

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Location n if I inside their age bracket

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Their bio to check for red flags like “alpha”

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Check to see if I’m blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo verified at least before I read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures always!

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I read the whole thing too to bottom to try and get a feel for the person writing the bio. That is unless the profile is 17 pages long and you have to read the lot just to get to the bit where they aren’t meeting anyone! Those profiles loose me and I would have no interest in meeting them anyway so there is no point going though the whole thing. Then I’d have a nose through there photos if there is any.

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Pics x

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Pics x"

Pervert….

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I check the type of profile first; male, female, couple or tv/ts.

I assumed it would be the same for everyone

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Pics then Bio

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By *entleman PoliteMan
over a year ago

Mars

If any verification

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Location, age, pics, can they accommodate?? That’s important lol

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By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal

Location

If they are veried

Bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always, always pics . Then if we like scrutinize profile top to bottom

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By *ullseye100Man
over a year ago

Ireland

Pictures first then see what they have written on their bio

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By *igbbackagainMan
over a year ago

Tallaght

Photo verification

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