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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

A lot of men have been viewing my profile the last while. Any reason? My settings say I am interested in women? Is there some setting I should change?

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yea, change the setting to say you're interested in men and it will stop. It's a weird bug in the system where you need opposite for it to work.

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
over a year ago

somewhere


"Yea, change the setting to say you're interested in men and it will stop. It's a weird bug in the system where you need opposite for it to work. "

Is this true?

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter in the grand scheme of things, I look at couples profiles and women's profiles but I'm only here to meet men

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

They don't know you're interested in women until they view your profile.

They could be following the verification trail, I fall down that rabbit hole quite a lot

Use your message filters to stop men sending a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea, change the setting to say you're interested in men and it will stop. It's a weird bug in the system where you need opposite for it to work. "

This is hardly true?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They don't know you're interested in women until they view your profile.

They could be following the verification trail, I fall down that rabbit hole quite a lot

Use your message filters to stop men sending a message."

I have a feeling I am appearing in the search bar for men only and not women? Or else I am not having any luck with the women. Maybe it's the second one! Lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"They don't know you're interested in women until they view your profile.

They could be following the verification trail, I fall down that rabbit hole quite a lot

Use your message filters to stop men sending a message.

I have a feeling I am appearing in the search bar for men only and not women? Or else I am not having any luck with the women. Maybe it's the second one! Lol"

Just had a look at ya just to freak you out...

Does it make a difference to you in the grand scheme of things

Just stop men messaging you on your filters

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By *nceuponatimecplCouple
over a year ago

The edge of town


"Yea, change the setting to say you're interested in men and it will stop. It's a weird bug in the system where you need opposite for it to work.

This is hardly true?"

No it's not, but at least you tried

There are probably women & couples viewing you with privacy settings on so they don't show up, probably a lot ofmen with privacy settings on too so there's probably a lot more men looking at your profile than you realise

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I recommend a more creative topic to draw attention.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"They don't know you're interested in women until they view your profile.

They could be following the verification trail, I fall down that rabbit hole quite a lot

Use your message filters to stop men sending a message.

I have a feeling I am appearing in the search bar for men only and not women? Or else I am not having any luck with the women. Maybe it's the second one! Lol"

Sometimes women don't get the opportunity to search for themselves bc answering mail is a full time job.

And from what some men say they never have a woman message first so there is that. Its maybe not that they're not searching for you you, its that they're not searching period.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

A lot of people search in ninja mode too so you can’t see who is looking at your profile. So women may be looking at your profile, you just can’t see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you're looking for r men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recommend a more creative topic to draw attention."

Now be nice it’s the new year after all

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Your profile says you're looking for r men. "

that'll do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

A lot of men have been viewing my profile the last while. Any reason? My settings say I am interested in women? Is there some setting I should change?"

Likely people veri hopping. Looking at the profiles of your verifications and then looking at you.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Your profile says you're looking for r men. "

Brilliant..just noticed that

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Your profile says you're looking for r men. "

Yes and because of that, your "looked at me" listing will only show the men who looked at you, not the couples or women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recommend a more creative topic to draw attention."

First World problems eh

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By *nceuponatimecplCouple
over a year ago

The edge of town


"Your profile says you're looking for r men.

Yes and because of that, your "looked at me" listing will only show the men who looked at you, not the couples or women "

Not necessarily, we're not looking for single men or women but they still show up on our 'who has looked at you' list.

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By *ezoMan
over a year ago

The Kingdom

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By *exytvlegsTV/TS
over a year ago

North co dublin Ireland

The amount of stright guys want to date a tv is crazy

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By *ublinguy99Man
over a year ago

Dublin South

better than nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could fancy you.

They could be reading verifications and following the rabbit hole.

They might be looking after being interested in a forum post or update.

They could be Sydney University interns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Same here.

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