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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks and Happy New Year

How do you get verified here if you haven't met anyone as some Fabbers only seek verified people

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Contact the ones who don't mind meeting people with no veris yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contact the ones who don't mind meeting people with no veris yet. "

Not too many of those are there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a while back there used to be Meet and Greets but I don't think they are a thing anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks and Happy New Year

How do you get verified here if you haven't met anyone as some Fabbers only seek verified people"

Just a bit of advice, sligo is a small area and on fab even smaller. You have your face fully on view and tbh that would stop me meeting for a coffee as you would be recognised. I have had guys message saying they have seen me in shops. Fair play if you want to share your face but it might make people more cautious about meeting.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

There was a thread on here few weeks ago that had people who were willing to help out unverified fabbers....

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny


"There was a thread on here few weeks ago that had people who were willing to help out unverified fabbers...."
this n it's very good that people offer to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could go on the chat cams and get someone to verify you that way.

Not as good as an actual meet but it would be a start...

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By *eorge 2222Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

Very hard to get verified in the older age category

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't show my face I'd be asked what am I hiding ......Jesus ya can't win"

You can have your face pic in private and share it with people you chat with. If you are okay sharing it as I said above that's your decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't show my face I'd be asked what am I hiding ......Jesus ya can't win"

You actually wouldn't be asked what are you hiding as so many of us don't have face pics displayed.

I get your frustrated but coming across as looking for negatives on here isnt going to make you hugely attractive to people.

If your looking for advice on how to get veries then actually listen to the advice and stop complaining about how unfair the site is

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You were given advice 3 weeks ago on your previous thread and apparently didn't take heed of that either.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"You were given advice 3 weeks ago on your previous thread and apparently didn't take heed of that either. "

It helps to acknowledge people who try to offer advice when requested. You never replied on your previous thread, nor did you do anything to improve your profile. Your bio is quite frankly awful, sorry op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people use the excuse they can't get a meet because they are unverified. It could also maybe be zero effort profiles could be the reason they aren't getting their dick wet. I've met plenty of unverified profiles over the years. Actually last one was 24 hours on the site but his profile his manners and they way he messaged just stood out immediately from the usual dross.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny


"I think a lot of people use the excuse they can't get a meet because they are unverified. It could also maybe be zero effort profiles could be the reason they aren't getting their dick wet. I've met plenty of unverified profiles over the years. Actually last one was 24 hours on the site but his profile his manners and they way he messaged just stood out immediately from the usual dross. "
ah the unexpected glory of fab ..so true happens when you least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people use the excuse they can't get a meet because they are unverified. It could also maybe be zero effort profiles could be the reason they aren't getting their dick wet. I've met plenty of unverified profiles over the years. Actually last one was 24 hours on the site but his profile his manners and they way he messaged just stood out immediately from the usual dross. "

It’s a big help though if you’re verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I sympathize with the op for the hardship of trying to get verified. Unfortunately us guys outnumber the ladies about 75:1!! It just takes time, manners and patience.

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By *allertoneMan
over a year ago

dublin

OP, I'm not verified but I've had some really great conversations on here in the past few weeks which might one day be with certain people I'll want to meet with. I'm not losing out because I'm not verified because as others have said; the way you speak and interact with others can be enough to start a dialogue, not necessarily needing a green tick. My personal opinion is to perhaps stop making a verification your goal to being on this site and instead start getting to know people who are here who are open to chit chat (I've noticed some profiles don't want chit chat they just want action). No offence intended but desperation gives off a vibe.. but good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I sympathize with the op for the hardship of trying to get verified. Unfortunately us guys outnumber the ladies about 75:1!! It just takes time, manners and patience."

I have the patience of a saint so. I’ve been here about 4 years in total and still have yet to get verified. Ok. I was married for some of those but other than that I really need to get my arse in gear

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Like everything else in life but especially in here where you are actively trying to get noticed or stand out, the more you focus on one aspect or continuously ask for something the less chance you will have of getting it.

Anyone reading status updates or forum contributions where every second one mentions getting verified will be completely put off by what they see as a person's only reason for wanting to meet.

I've met people here that haven't verified me and visa versa simply because it wasn't a priority.

I won't meet someone who isn't verified and won't help anyone get their first verification for reasons that I've spoken about in here before. Yes I know we were all unverified at some stage and have to start somewhere and someone gave me my first verification but I didn't abuse that in the way that some often do so I won't be paying it forward.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

Try doing a somersault or a magic trick even, that can sometimes get you through to the next round

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"Try doing a somersault or a magic trick even, that can sometimes get you through to the next round "

Oops, been watching waaay too much Americas got talent over the holidays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting until socials start to be a thing again, or see if anyone in your area is up for a coffee. Just make sure you have no expectations of anything else from a social.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Maybe sort your profile first because without a half decent profile, you can forget about progressing any further

Why am I bothering, he seems to have abandoned his thread like all his other threads

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