FabSwingers.com forum: Guys wanting to be exclusive using covid 19 as reason

By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

Just wondered if this happened to anyone before..... A few guys have asked for us to be exclusive to them despite not even having a social meet!!!

One recently started abusing us when we wouldnt be exclusive to him saying we are reckless and immoral re meets in relation to covid pmsl. We kid you not.

What made in sicker was that he met someone else once we declined as per a verification notification shown on his profile. Lol.

Anything like this happen to any other couple or female? Also what do other guys think of this. Is it simply a player and we shouldnt be surprised ... he was in his 40s and couldnt accommodate so guessed he was attached like a lot here.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

This makes me happy that I block all msgs

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was probably afraid of catching something he couldn't easily explain to his partner, some are paranoid about STIs for the same reason

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

Possibly but he obviously had no intention about being exclusive himself lol

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Isn't exclusivity the complete opposite of swing? Makes no sense.

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

Yes but so many guys use that as their patter lol

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By *urFabFun21Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere

Is he aware he can just stop meeting people himself. Asking for exclusivity is very weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't exclusivity the complete opposite of swing? Makes no sense."

But quite a lot of the singles here admit they would have no intention of sharing if they had a partner..

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

Yea worse when playing the covid card against us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be an ego thing too, once you've had the best, what would you be doing with the rest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't exclusivity the complete opposite of swing? Makes no sense.

But quite a lot of the singles here admit they would have no intention of sharing if they had a partner.. "

Not everyone here is a swinger

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

"Isn't exclusivity the complete opposite of swing? Makes no sense.

But quite a lot of the singles here admit they would have no intention of sharing if they had a partner.. "

Which is crazy... but they would be first ti want multiple lovers. Think they use it as a way into parties and group meets

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Making up rules before he's even met you. ....thats not exclusive thats controlling behavior.

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

"Could be an ego thing too, once you've had the best, what would you be doing with the rest?

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few guys have asked? But one got weird.

Its a freaky request, run for the hills, be thankful they are not in the same room as you anymore.

Possession is scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't exclusivity the complete opposite of swing? Makes no sense.

But quite a lot of the singles here admit they would have no intention of sharing if they had a partner..

Not everyone here is a swinger"

I'm well aware of that, most are just here for the ride

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Isn't exclusivity the complete opposite of swing? Makes no sense.

But quite a lot of the singles here admit they would have no intention of sharing if they had a partner..

Not everyone here is a swinger"

Not everyone on here is fab either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't exclusivity the complete opposite of swing? Makes no sense.

But quite a lot of the singles here admit they would have no intention of sharing if they had a partner..

Not everyone here is a swinger

I'm well aware of that, most are just here for the ride

I was just adding to your point...

No body gets the ride here silly

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

One sided exclusivity demands are not unique to men

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

"One sided exclusivity demands are not unique to men

We never said they were. But people will make their own decisions.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget and move on... Life to short

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

"Forget and move on... Life to short"

Doesn't bother us a bit... just highlighting it for discussion in forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh fair enough... I taught maybe it upset yee.... Actually a good discussion.. Food for taught on some people that are out there

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

"Ahh fair enough... I taught maybe it upset yee.... Actually a good discussion.. Food for taught on some people that are out there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of something very similar happening to someone here. Crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here to meet other people and know that's why others are on here so it's not really an issue if I were to meet people here and they were meeting others also. Is that not why we are all here. Its not Ireland own dating page it's a swinging site

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

"I'm on here to meet other people and know that's why others are on here so it's not really an issue if I were to meet people here and they were meeting others also. Is that not why we are all here. Its not Ireland own dating page it's a swinging site"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person wants exclusive.... Marriage???

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

Ha that doesn't guarantee exclusivity..... ever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true.... Silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean having limited partners atm is sensible enough.

And people are entitled to use the site how ever they wish and look for what ever they want.

Obviously the abuse part isn't fair game

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By *ezoMan
over a year ago

The Kingdom

"Making up rules before he's even met you. ....thats not exclusive thats controlling behavior.

I agree with Bog-Man

Possible you dodged a toxic person there.

"...when we wouldnt be exclusive to him...", he probably said nothing about being exclusive to ye, mature bbw party planner , did he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dick being a dick... there’s a lot of it going around.

I’m more and more relying on verifications as to how much effort I put into making contact and following up.

Happy new year btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is he aware he can just stop meeting people himself. Asking for exclusivity is very weird."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondered if this happened to anyone before..... A few guys have asked for us to be exclusive to them despite not even having a social meet!!!

One recently started abusing us when we wouldnt be exclusive to him saying we are reckless and immoral re meets in relation to covid pmsl. We kid you not.

What made in sicker was that he met someone else once we declined as per a verification notification shown on his profile. Lol.

There's two words for lads like that. One starts with f and finishes with k. The other starts with o and ends in f.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There is a certain logic in reducing partners is reducing risk... bust I suspect these guys don't really have anyone's best interests at heart other than their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondered if this happened to anyone before..... A few guys have asked for us to be exclusive to them despite not even having a social meet!!!

One recently started abusing us when we wouldnt be exclusive to him saying we are reckless and immoral re meets in relation to covid pmsl. We kid you not.

What made in sicker was that he met someone else once we declined as per a verification notification shown on his profile. Lol.

Jealousy pure and simple,

It can get quite rife on here sadly.

I see it alot, people wanting exclusivity but not willing to do it themselves... crazy shit!

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

"Making up rules before he's even met you. ....thats not exclusive thats controlling behavior.

I agree with Bog-Man

Possible you dodged a toxic person there.

"...when we wouldnt be exclusive to him...", he probably said nothing about being exclusive to ye, mature bbw party planner , did he?"

Not at all lol

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By *DLG 2024 OP Couple
over a year ago

noyfb

"Just wondered if this happened to anyone before..... A few guys have asked for us to be exclusive to them despite not even having a social meet!!!

One recently started abusing us when we wouldnt be exclusive to him saying we are reckless and immoral re meets in relation to covid pmsl. We kid you not.

What made in sicker was that he met someone else once we declined as per a verification notification shown on his profile. Lol.

There's two words for lads like that. One starts with f and finishes with k. The other starts with o and ends in f. "

Exactly this

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