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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need advice please. I'm meeting up with a woman who I've been chatting with for a while but off fab. She finally agreed to try fwb with me.i am meeting up with her on Sunday. We were discussing play scenarios and she said she never tried toys. And I love using toys on a woman. Would it be too cheeky/crude to take a vibrator as a gift along with flowers and chocolates or would it be okay? If you have any other alternative suggestions, please share. I would really appreciate it.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I think I’d be more inclined to maybe buy a voucher and spend some of your time together picking out some toys that she’d like to try. It will also build anticipation for your next meet up knowing that the toys are on their way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I’d be more inclined to maybe buy a voucher and spend some of your time together picking out some toys that she’d like to try. It will also build anticipation for your next meet up knowing that the toys are on their way "
ah okay. Thank you for the suggestion

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I think I’d be more inclined to maybe buy a voucher and spend some of your time together picking out some toys that she’d like to try. It will also build anticipation for your next meet up knowing that the toys are on their way "

What Jaffa said.

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

Yea i agree with the ladies, showing up with the kidney shifter 5000, probably isnt the best move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just buy her one! if she doesn't like it tell her to stick it up her hole

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center


"Just buy her one! if she doesn't like it tell her to stick it up her hole "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Organise her to ring scotty bear or Mrs crazy in work

They'll give her the best advice and help her choose one that suits

You buy it and its shipped directly to her

When you meet her again you open the packaging together

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center


"Organise her to ring scotty bear or Mrs crazy in work

They'll give her the best advice and help her choose one that suits

You buy it and its shipped directly to her

When you meet her again you open the packaging together "
such a sweetie bog

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Organise her to ring scotty bear or Mrs crazy in work

They'll give her the best advice and help her choose one that suits

You buy it and its shipped directly to her

When you meet her again you open the packaging together such a sweetie bog"

I have my moments

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Organise her to ring scotty bear or Mrs crazy in work

They'll give her the best advice and help her choose one that suits

You buy it and its shipped directly to her

When you meet her again you open the packaging together "

Im here to help , its my job after all

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow! Glad I posted here.... Was having a totally different train of thought. Thank you for the advice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an old fwb buy me a vibrator once as well as a butt plug. Id never used them before but that was a fun afternoon spent trying them out with him. Go for it. Have some fun

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I wouldn’t suggest it not for your first meet but then again I’m a peculiar being at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea i agree with the ladies, showing up with the kidney shifter 5000, probably isnt the best move"

Kidney shifter FFS

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork


"Need advice please. I'm meeting up with a woman who I've been chatting with for a while but off fab. She finally agreed to try fwb with me.i am meeting up with her on Sunday. We were discussing play scenarios and she said she never tried toys. And I love using toys on a woman. Would it be too cheeky/crude to take a vibrator as a gift along with flowers and chocolates or would it be okay? If you have any other alternative suggestions, please share. I would really appreciate it."

Fuck me that escalated real quick.

She finally agrees and you want to turn up to the first outing with a vibrator. Legend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need advice please. I'm meeting up with a woman who I've been chatting with for a while but off fab. She finally agreed to try fwb with me.i am meeting up with her on Sunday. We were discussing play scenarios and she said she never tried toys. And I love using toys on a woman. Would it be too cheeky/crude to take a vibrator as a gift along with flowers and chocolates or would it be okay? If you have any other alternative suggestions, please share. I would really appreciate it.

Fuck me that escalated real quick.

She finally agrees and you want to turn up to the first outing with a vibrator. Legend "
lol no it's not like that...we did have a long discussion about toys and she said she would like to try them with me... That's why I was wondering if gifting a vibrator would be s good idea

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Very much depends on her. U know her more than any one commenting here.... you said ye have spoken about it and she indicated she has never played with toys, that would indicate to me (Mrs) she interested/intrigued and suggesting. I've been on the receiving end of gifts of sex toys and I've never been insulted or upset by it, in fact it probably very much the opposite, but I'll revert back to my first comment and say u know her and yer dynamic more than anyone commenting on this thread. Do you think she'd like it, or at least see the funny side of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just buy her one! if she doesn't like it tell her to stick it up her hole "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very much depends on her. U know her more than any one commenting here.... you said ye have spoken about it and she indicated she has never played with toys, that would indicate to me (Mrs) she interested/intrigued and suggesting. I've been on the receiving end of gifts of sex toys and I've never been insulted or upset by it, in fact it probably very much the opposite, but I'll revert back to my first comment and say u know her and yer dynamic more than anyone commenting on this thread. Do you think she'd like it, or at least see the funny side of it?"
Cheers. Thank you. What you say is correct. I will take it with me anyway. Gift wrapped and all... And play it by the ear... Just a few more hours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea i agree with the ladies, showing up with the kidney shifter 5000, probably isnt the best move"

pmsl hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone brought me a playstation controller as a gift I'd be happy.. and they vibrate

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I will take it with me anyway. Gift wrapped and all... And play it by the ear... "

She might prefer it in her pussy, rather than her ear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ere ere to that

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By *alwayguy2020Man
over a year ago

near trien


"Very much depends on her. U know her more than any one commenting here.... you said ye have spoken about it and she indicated she has never played with toys, that would indicate to me (Mrs) she interested/intrigued and suggesting. I've been on the receiving end of gifts of sex toys and I've never been insulted or upset by it, in fact it probably very much the opposite, but I'll revert back to my first comment and say u know her and yer dynamic more than anyone commenting on this thread. Do you think she'd like it, or at least see the funny side of it? Cheers. Thank you. What you say is correct. I will take it with me anyway. Gift wrapped and all... And play it by the ear... Just a few more hours..."

Well one things for sure your gonna be like a contestant in the cube, youll either win big or go home empty,either way you had the bottle to try so what harm. Some times you have to lose to win as soft as it sounds.

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

Years ago when new to the scene I was meeting a single F for the first time, we had chatted a lot but hadn’t met.

She invited me to an overnighter in her place. I bought her some wine and also some sexy lingerie…

Well….. the lingerie was not appreciated tbh, she took it like I was saying she was my two bit cheap whore….

After a bit of explaining etc she relaxed about it and we got on fine. But it did teach me a lesson in not assuming what I thought was a good idea should be met with the same good vibes.

We live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Years ago when new to the scene I was meeting a single F for the first time, we had chatted a lot but hadn’t met.

She invited me to an overnighter in her place. I bought her some wine and also some sexy lingerie…

Well….. the lingerie was not appreciated tbh, she took it like I was saying she was my two bit cheap whore….

After a bit of explaining etc she relaxed about it and we got on fine. But it did teach me a lesson in not assuming what I thought was a good idea should be met with the same good vibes.

We live and learn. "
thanks for that. I have two gift bags now . As I said earlier, I will see how it goes. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Years ago when new to the scene I was meeting a single F for the first time, we had chatted a lot but hadn’t met.

She invited me to an overnighter in her place. I bought her some wine and also some sexy lingerie…

Well….. the lingerie was not appreciated tbh, she took it like I was saying she was my two bit cheap whore….

After a bit of explaining etc she relaxed about it and we got on fine. But it did teach me a lesson in not assuming what I thought was a good idea should be met with the same good vibes.

We live and learn. "
I will only give the second one, if I feel confident and if I think she's okay with it

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Just buy her one! if she doesn't like it tell her to stick it up her hole "

This is a winning comment

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