FabSwingers.com forum: Accomodate

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people list they can accom?

Chat for aged Abe they you find out well actually my gf lives here or I have visitors.

By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe they've not updated their profile or they just happen to genuinely have visitors.

If its a regular occurrence & a deal breaker for you then ask when you start chatting to someone to confirm if they actually can accommodate

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Maybe they just don't want go accommodate someone they haven't actually met either but will accommodate when they get to know them better.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People's situation can change and they could forget to update...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely wouldn’t be accommodating anyone until I met them first for coffee or something.

By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"Why do people list they can accom?

Chat for aged Abe they you find out well actually my gf lives here or I have visitors.

guess the thoughts of bringing a stranger to their home who wants to expel bodily fluids all over their furnishings isnt that appealing after all

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they just don't want go accommodate someone they haven't actually met either but will accommodate when they get to know them better. "

Some ladies interpret an inability to accommodate on a profile as a red flag that this purported single is actially playing away from home.

Frankly, permitting people to know where you live is unwise, or 'hastily' inviting them to your home is imprudent; without revealing too many details I am acutely aware of an example where an invitee used the opportunity to 'case the joint', identify what was worth stealing, where it was located, weak points in the security, and when the occupants would not be at home.

That person later returned to break in, and make off with a valuable haul!