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By *he masked lady OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

Just wondering here how many hotwife or cuckold couples have tried or use the wearing of right ankle bracelet for attention for her when out from men etc.

It works well in spain or Fr

ance but not sure about here.

We are not swingers but into cuckolding and hotwifing.

Right ankle bracelet meaning... If you know you know

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By *nFlynnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Wife wears one when we go out or away for an overnighter. It’s only a small hint but she has been approached by people.

She’s bi so less so wearing for hotwife signaling.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Loads of peoole wear ankle bracelets and it doesn't mean anything. Unless you get one that says 'hotwife' on it or something.

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership. "

But we don't live in a BDSM world and so that means precisely fuckall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember seeing one on a school teachers ankle when she reached for something and the leg of her trousers raised a little , she was probably the hottest teacher in the school too

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

Spotted one on right ankle of one of the mothers on the school run before the christmas holidays... nice surprise She's a little hottie. As the saying goes... 'it's the quiet ones you have to watch'

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Wearing jewelery on a particular limb doesn't mean that you want to be approached by randomers in public for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got two for my wife.. once just has a lock and key to indicate chastity and the other has hotwife 2 b on it..haven't had the chance to wear either out.. i doubt anyone would notice anyway. It would just be something we'd both know and enjoy

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By *he masked lady OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

It's in Google so therefore it must be true!

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

I think that's a brilliant idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's in Google so therefore it must be true! "

Yours seems on left ankle?

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow


"Just wondering here how many hotwife or cuckold couples have tried or use the wearing of right ankle bracelet for attention for her when out from men etc.

It works well in spain or Fr

ance but not sure about here.

We are not swingers but into cuckolding and hotwifing.

Right ankle bracelet meaning... If you know you know"

Those who know, know.

Old school. And very much know. Always on the look out and know when worn in the right context.

Very much hotwife attire and those with an affiliation to cuckold.

Hence how I know.

Love yours by the way.

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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Just wondering here how many hotwife or cuckold couples have tried or use the wearing of right ankle bracelet for attention for her when out from men etc.

It works well in spain or Fr

ance but not sure about here.

We are not swingers but into cuckolding and hotwifing.

Right ankle bracelet meaning... If you know you know

Those who know, know.

Old school. And very much know. Always on the look out and know when worn in the right context.

Very much hotwife attire and those with an affiliation to cuckold.

Hence how I know.

Love yours by the way. "

My wfe has a stag n Vixen anklet and similar dainty necklace, which without fail, she wears for the duration of our summer hols.

Both are gold and look extremley prettty on her suntanned skin.

Despite all the above, she has worn them now for several (oversea) holidays..without raining a single comment!!!

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

If I saw an interesting one, I'd comment on it, if I was chatting with the lady.

Could lead to interesting opportunities

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

galway

Wife has anklet with hot wife symbol on in means nothing in this country any way never got a comment on it

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

c


"Wife has anklet with hot wife symbol on in means nothing in this country any way never got a comment on it "

and hi would your wife like to be getting comments about it when she would be out and about.

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By *aughty and Nice timesCouple
over a year ago

tie u down town

We never knew the difference wearing it on each ankle made . Bdsm right amd hotwife lest . Cool . Will be on the look out

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Wife has anklet with hot wife symbol on in means nothing in this country any way never got a comment on it

and hi would your wife like to be getting comments about it when she would be out and about."

Regardless of whether she would like it or not... there are many more women who choose to wear ankle jewelery who would NOT appreciate dirty comments from randomers ... which means approaching any women in this way is a bad idea

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership.

But we don't live in a BDSM world and so that means precisely fuckall "

But what if someone wants to live in & have fantasies in the BDSM world is that ok with you or do you still have to have an opinion on that too?

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare


"In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership.

But we don't live in a BDSM world and so that means precisely fuckall

But what if someone wants to live in & have fantasies in the BDSM world is that ok with you or do you still have to have an opinion on that too? "

Keep in mind you are on fab. Only certain people allowed to have an opinion!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership.

But we don't live in a BDSM world and so that means precisely fuckall

But what if someone wants to live in & have fantasies in the BDSM world is that ok with you or do you still have to have an opinion on that too?

Keep in mind you are on fab. Only certain people allowed to have an opinion!!!"

you hit the nail on the head there

The usual suspects ????

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership.

But we don't live in a BDSM world and so that means precisely fuckall

But what if someone wants to live in & have fantasies in the BDSM world is that ok with you or do you still have to have an opinion on that too? "

Oh if this a pretend thread about pretending to do stuff then you carry on pretending, no harm done.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Why don't you guys go knocking on the doors of everyone who has pampass grass in front houses too. Sure they are all swingers as well, just like those who wear anklets. I'm sure they would be very happy to hear what you want to do to the wife also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you guys go knocking on the doors of everyone who has pampass grass in front houses too. Sure they are all swingers as well, just like those who wear anklets. I'm sure they would be very happy to hear what you want to do to the wife also."

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Or maybe just let someone do as they please. Even if it is pompous grass !!

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

Anklets are a Hotwife, Cuckold thing. Just saying.

Agree, all those who wear an anklet are not in the lifestyle.

Just don’t diss it as a thing.

Swinging long enough to know.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Anklets are a Hotwife, Cuckold thing. Just saying.

Agree, all those who wear an anklet are not in the lifestyle.

Just don’t diss it as a thing.

Swinging long enough to know. "

I'll diss it as a thing if I like. If you or ther others on the thread want to pretend that ankle jewelery means it's ok for approach for sex then good luck. Try not to be TOO much of a pest, and I hope you don't get knocked on your ass by a burly hubby.

I've been swinging long enough to know that indiscretely approaching someone youve never met for sex in public because of their jewelery is not cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear one quite a lot...no other reason than I like wearing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahahaha. Jesus some people getting right bent out of shape.

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow


"Anklets are a Hotwife, Cuckold thing. Just saying.

Agree, all those who wear an anklet are not in the lifestyle.

Just don’t diss it as a thing.

Swinging long enough to know.

I'll diss it as a thing if I like. If you or ther others on the thread want to pretend that ankle jewelery means it's ok for approach for sex then good luck. Try not to be TOO much of a pest, and I hope you don't get knocked on your ass by a burly hubby.

I've been swinging long enough to know that indiscretely approaching someone youve never met for sex in public because of their jewelery is not cool.

"

Never said anything about approaching anybody?

Just because your not au fait with all things hotwife or cuckold or things that may symbolise a lifestyle choice that others may choose to wear.

Google is your friend here.

An anklet is very much a choice of hotwife attire.

While I agree all whom choose to wear an anklet as a jewellery item may not be in the lifestyle and should not be seen as a reason for a unsolicited approach, an anklet on the right ankle is a long established item chosen by ‘some’ to identify as a hotwife. A symbol that go a back as far as the 1970’s.

I’ve noted your tone towards others before with your ‘all mighty’ response to others who post and ‘put downs’ when you are at times quite ill informed.

A measure of politeness by may or f response wouldn’t go amiss.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I think you need to go back and reread the thread.

This thread is specifically about wearing an anklet for the purpose of getting attention from men when out. See the first post.

Several peoole are calling it a signal.

For most peoole it's jewelery, not an invitation.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

To clarify... I've nothing against a woman choosing to wear anklets that she likes for any reason at all. The issue is that men who see women wearing anklets, and have heard (in this thread and elsewhere) that the women who wear there are asking for sexual attention. That's clearly not true because its only a small minority who see this as any kind of signal. I'd say this kind of idea creates a lot more unwanted sexual attention due to misinterpretation, than it does intended signalling.

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare


"To clarify... I've nothing against a woman choosing to wear anklets that she likes for any reason at all. The issue is that men who see women wearing anklets, and have heard (in this thread and elsewhere) that the women who wear there are asking for sexual attention. That's clearly not true because its only a small minority who see this as any kind of signal. I'd say this kind of idea creates a lot more unwanted sexual attention due to misinterpretation, than it does intended signalling."

But what about the pompous!!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"To clarify... I've nothing against a woman choosing to wear anklets that she likes for any reason at all. The issue is that men who see women wearing anklets, and have heard (in this thread and elsewhere) that the women who wear there are asking for sexual attention. That's clearly not true because its only a small minority who see this as any kind of signal. I'd say this kind of idea creates a lot more unwanted sexual attention due to misinterpretation, than it does intended signalling.

But what about the pompous!!"

What!?

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By *jallMan
over a year ago

Cork/Sligo

Oh bollix, running out of popcorn...

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By *oodieMan
over a year ago

Mayo


"In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership.

But we don't live in a BDSM world and so that means precisely fuckall "

Well, you've just cut the two ankles off that poor lady. I don't think her comment warranted that kind of a response.

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By *he Vanilla ClubCouple
over a year ago

DUBLIN

By any chance does anyone have a good reliable site for getting the hotwife or swinger ankles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a time up here when apparently you tell if a guy was Catholic or Protestant by which ear he had pierced.

I think what FN is saying is that just because someone is wearing an anklet it doesn't mean they're fair game for unwanted attention.

I'd also like to think that anyone who does wear an item of jewellery to signify they are part of a particular lifestyle is also not fair game for unwanted attention.

Someone pawing over you and getting all suggestive without permission is never cool, no matter what the circumstances are.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Down here the left or right ear piercing stood for gay or straight from what I can remember

Left was straight

Gay was right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret handshakes

Ankle bracelets

Cliques

No one has all the answers

But a flamingo in the garden, that means come in and fuck all the womenfolk in the house.

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By *carlettsBruceCouple
over a year ago

Cullybackey

Scarlett has one with "HW" and wears it regularly. For us it's more of a cheeky nod and wink to our hotwife fun times.

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London


"I think you need to go back and reread the thread.

This thread is specifically about wearing an anklet for the purpose of getting attention from men when out. See the first post.

Several peoole are calling it a signal.

For most peoole it's jewelery, not an invitation. "

Wow did you have a heavy NYE.

Your responses are comical

One is like you have done a study on the statistics of OP question

Another sounds like you was approached for wearing a ankle bracket and did not take kindly to it

The next was against anyone who lives the BDSM lifestyle is not allowed

Then you just assumed that majority of men seeing a women in a ankle bracelet is just going to start dishing out filthy comments to the women.

OP agreeing to in some European countries is is hugely used like that…. But I suggest anyone approaches with caution.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership.

But we don't live in a BDSM world and so that means precisely fuckall

Well, you've just cut the two ankles off that poor lady. I don't think her comment warranted that kind of a response. "

Lol @ massive exaggeration. In the real everyway world wearing jewelery on your left ankle doesn't mean anything other than her enjoying wearing jewelery that way. For them it's not signalling. Because it's not a universally understood signal. Several peoole here have taken me up right. You can't go around assuming a particular ear piercing side means someone is gay, neither does wearing a beret on a Tuesday mean you like line dancing. Minority "signs" do more harm than good, and invite misunderstanding. Sorry if that's not fun enough for everyone, but that's the actual reality in the real world.

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London


"In bdsm world wearing one on the left ankle signals ownership.

But we don't live in a BDSM world and so that means precisely fuckall

Well, you've just cut the two ankles off that poor lady. I don't think her comment warranted that kind of a response.

Lol @ massive exaggeration. In the real everyway world wearing jewelery on your left ankle doesn't mean anything other than her enjoying wearing jewelery that way. For them it's not signalling. Because it's not a universally understood signal. Several peoole here have taken me up right. You can't go around assuming a particular ear piercing side means someone is gay, neither does wearing a beret on a Tuesday mean you like line dancing. Minority "signs" do more harm than good, and invite misunderstanding. Sorry if that's not fun enough for everyone, but that's the actual reality in the real world."

But who lives in the real world and please tell us all what is the real world?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Groan. I forget that some prefer to live in fantasy land. All the best I'm out.

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By *uckyFarmersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Linda where's one all the time not that many people take notice of it....

But still love the idea that she's available to anybody if they show an interest

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

“I’m out” is the classic when people call them out ?? Maybe gone to interview a proof reader as it’s needed a lot of the time for them. Forums use to be fun & educational before they came to them ??

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

Is it not as simple as this. If an anklet worn by a woman is just something dainty and pretty. A flower, love heart or just plain and simple then it's just that. A piece of jewellery worm that the lady enjoys.

If it has a Hot Wife, vixen, slut or sex symbol on the anklet then the wearer is inviting people to approach. By inviting people to approach, they are not agreeing to sex just like any other method of communication. Its a starting point between like minded people who share the knowledge of the meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Linda where's one all the time not that many people take notice of it....

But still love the idea that she's available to anybody if they show an interest"

You see this is the dangerous part and exactly what FN is trying to warn against...available to anybody if they show an interest.

Now imagine someone not part of the lifestyle, wearing a anklet just because it's a pretty piece of jewellery, being accosted by someone who assumes she's up for it because they read that people who wear anklets are available to anyone who shows an interest. Suddenly we're potentially in a situation of assault or worse.

And yes that might be spoiling the fantasy but surely we must always keep one foot firmly planted in reality when we're speaking of things happening in real life?

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

So to summarise, some will wear an ankle bracelet as a subtle indicator, some will wear it because they like jewellery, some will see someone wearing one and take it as a subtle indicator, some will just see it as a piece of jewellery but all should be mindful that there are clearly different interpretations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be especially careful if the lady is called Holly Wilson, they're a couple called Sally & Vic or the lady is a poker enthusiast

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By *he masked lady OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

Open debate is always good everyone

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Is it not as simple as this. If an anklet worn by a woman is just something dainty and pretty. A flower, love heart or just plain and simple then it's just that. A piece of jewellery worm that the lady enjoys.

If it has a Hot Wife, vixen, slut or sex symbol on the anklet then the wearer is inviting people to approach. By inviting people to approach, they are not agreeing to sex just like any other method of communication. Its a starting point between like minded people who share the knowledge of the meaning. "
This

At the end of the day jusy get one with letters like HW or The like, save any issues

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By *amDaveCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

Sam used to wear one in work. It was a fantasy thing but if she was approached it was her decision if she wanted sex or not. It never happened but ya never know!

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London


"Linda where's one all the time not that many people take notice of it....

But still love the idea that she's available to anybody if they show an interest

You see this is the dangerous part and exactly what FN is trying to warn against...available to anybody if they show an interest.

Now imagine someone not part of the lifestyle, wearing a anklet just because it's a pretty piece of jewellery, being accosted by someone who assumes she's up for it because they read that people who wear anklets are available to anyone who shows an interest. Suddenly we're potentially in a situation of assault or worse.

And yes that might be spoiling the fantasy but surely we must always keep one foot firmly planted in reality when we're speaking of things happening in real life?

"

Assault or worse. I am sure if someone approached said wearer. They may just chat and have a cheek hint at how the understand then meaning not go in full on assaulting someone. Wow really

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London


"So to summarise, some will wear an ankle bracelet as a subtle indicator, some will wear it because they like jewellery, some will see someone wearing one and take it as a subtle indicator, some will just see it as a piece of jewellery but all should be mindful that there are clearly different interpretations."

Perfect way to explain it.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Ok so wear a specific anklet if you want attention from others.

For those on the lookout for such anklet wearers be discreet with your approach, gauge the situation with a simple and friendly introduction and if rebuffed walk away

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Is it not as simple as this. If an anklet worn by a woman is just something dainty and pretty. A flower, love heart or just plain and simple then it's just that. A piece of jewellery worm that the lady enjoys.

If it has a Hot Wife, vixen, slut or sex symbol on the anklet then the wearer is inviting people to approach. By inviting people to approach, they are not agreeing to sex just like any other method of communication. Its a starting point between like minded people who share the knowledge of the meaning. "

This

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By *c90Man
over a year ago

Noiseville

Think it might be safer to avoid ankle adornments and just get a tshirt instead lol

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

Wow this threads still going?

Snarky comments aside it sounds like some of yous either need a good seeing to or a walk in the fresh air.

It's a piece of jewelry, not a flashing neon welcome sign.

Happy new year

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By *rct4Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Imagine walking around looking at the left foot the husband would find it v strange ha ha

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By *ornybarMan
over a year ago

clonmel


"Wow this threads still going?

Snarky comments aside it sounds like some of yous either need a good seeing to or a walk in the fresh air.

It's a piece of jewelry, not a flashing neon welcome sign.

Happy new year "

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

galway

To us _aidbare5 has it correct it’s a signal and a starting point

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

c


"To us _aidbare5 has it correct it’s a signal and a starting point"

so i see from your pics hun you like to wear anklets.do you get many sexy comments when you are out and about the town.

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By *ir SnakebitesMan
over a year ago

Llandeilo

I always though pineapple

jewellery was a thing with swingers. Or am a wrong? But i do agree that you shouldn't approach peaple and make assumptions based on jewellery, you can have suspicions sure but strike up a normal conversation and get to know them before making any moves and looking like a creep if you were mistaken

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"To us _aidbare5 has it correct it’s a signal and a starting point

so i see from your pics hun you like to wear anklets.do you get many sexy comments when you are out and about the town."

...which illustrates my point nicely. A woman shouldn't have to put up with "sexy comments" from strangers based on her choice of jewelery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I e known about the ankle bracelets for a long long time but I can honestly say that whenever I have seen someone wearing one that I've thought "oh she's up for some fun". If I seen a woman wearing one at a lifestyle party I'd use it as an indication of what that person was into but not in everyday life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't assume anything about a person just because of their choice of jewelry, wether it's sexual orientation or anything else.

That being said, I think a anklet is a definite eye catcher and love wearing them myself when I'm out and about in heels

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By *otwifejenny79Couple
over a year ago

dublin


"To us _aidbare5 has it correct it’s a signal and a starting point"

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