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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx"

I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx

I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no. "

Yes, begging is a no no. And subs are only fun in a party scene, but definitely not one on one

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"[Removed by pissed poster at 23/12/21 00:04:35]"

Fixed that for ya red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx

I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no.

Yes, begging is a no no. And subs are only fun in a party scene, but definitely not one on one "

It depends on the sub though if it's a hot sub that might be worth putting a collar on and using for ones pleasure or others pleasure. But yes i have to agree to a certain extent that it's great fun at parties rather than one on one.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx"

So just add Bratty Subs only to your profile.

Job done

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx"

I love primal sex. Switching between taking control and giving it up, then taking it back again.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

The whole concept is flawed. The dome, a real domme has a duty of care to their sub. They have responsibilities and must stay within certain limits. The concept of no limits is false.

The sub on the other hand has all the power. They can call an end to it at any time and move on. They get to relax and enjoy what they receive. They don't have to work for anything because they get punished if they step out of line. They are there for the punishment.

If a male starts out defiant and then aftercare time submits to the lady, it's because that is what he wanted all along. That is a guy who can't be trusted and as you know, trust is the key ingredient in the mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by pissed poster at 23/12/21 00:04:35]

Fixed that for ya red "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by pissed poster at 23/12/21 00:04:35]

Fixed that for ya red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate Dominic loves the steak and cheese sub.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Nope

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx

I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no.

Yes, begging is a no no. And subs are only fun in a party scene, but definitely not one on one

It depends on the sub though if it's a hot sub that might be worth putting a collar on and using for ones pleasure or others pleasure. But yes i have to agree to a certain extent that it's great fun at parties rather than one on one. "

Can there be such a thing a a hot sub If you like dom men ? The sub part would be too much of a turn off to even consider him hot imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no real one flavour of sub or Dom for that matter..

More like an endless variety of both..

To find a good D/S relationship is incredibly hard I find. Switch peeps can fit better as they are "flexible " but not all switch people can just turn it on or off.

I myself change every few days or sometimes longer and I don't really have too much control on how a feel on a particular day. It kinda feels like being sexualy bi polar, poor comparison I know but I'm not sure how else to describe it.

I don't find it a negative thing, I find it keeps things exciting well that's my rant anyway.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I find the D/S dynamic fascinating. I'm mostly a bratty sub and am not attracted to sub men I'm afraid.

I used to think that being a sub/bottom was selfish so used to dominate to compensate, but I understand it better now. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx

I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no.

Yes, begging is a no no. And subs are only fun in a party scene, but definitely not one on one

It depends on the sub though if it's a hot sub that might be worth putting a collar on and using for ones pleasure or others pleasure. But yes i have to agree to a certain extent that it's great fun at parties rather than one on one.

Can there be such a thing a a hot sub If you like dom men ? The sub part would be too much of a turn off to even consider him hot imo "

I am openminded really and do play with subs yes there is hot subs male and female. If you re read i did say i like switch aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no real one flavour of sub or Dom for that matter..

More like an endless variety of both..

To find a good D/S relationship is incredibly hard I find. Switch peeps can fit better as they are "flexible " but not all switch people can just turn it on or off.

I myself change every few days or sometimes longer and I don't really have too much control on how a feel on a particular day. It kinda feels like being sexualy bi polar, poor comparison I know but I'm not sure how else to describe it.

I don't find it a negative thing, I find it keeps things exciting well that's my rant anyway."

Good description lol yes it does keep it exciting. For me it depends on alot of things so for example if a person i have built a connection with asks me to play a dominant role i will do it because i like it. However sometimes depends on connection attraction etc i can switch and some times i don't. One time i went 3 months letting a guy lick me and not once did he touch me anywhere else other than my pussy and ass just oral only. Never even kissed or caressed some times i do this all depends on the dynamics.

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx"

I like to switch. I love taking control and then giving it up. I adore being in both situations. Being defined as one thing would be so limiting. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx

I like to switch. I love taking control and then giving it up. I adore being in both situations. Being defined as one thing would be so limiting. Just my opinion"

Maybe so, but I don’t have a single submissive bone in my body Even the idea of someone telling me what to do or controlling me in any way turns me off

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I don’t have a single submissive bone in my body Even the idea of someone telling me what to do or controlling me in any way turns me off "

I have to say, I'm the same. I don't mind being asked to do something obviously or requested but being told is probably not going to end well. I'd have to have a specific connection with a person to comply with that.

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx

I like to switch. I love taking control and then giving it up. I adore being in both situations. Being defined as one thing would be so limiting. Just my opinion

Maybe so, but I don’t have a single submissive bone in my body Even the idea of someone telling me what to do or controlling me in any way turns me off "

I think there is a difference in giving up control and being told what to do.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"[Removed by pissed poster at 23/12/21 00:04:35]

Fixed that for ya red

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OMG THE LOT OF YOU!! If I hadn’t deleted it you’d all be roaring at me for a completely shite post.

But yeah - submissive men are insipid to me, I can’t bear it. The responsibility for another persons pleasure is exhausting and really uninspiring, I DO NOT enjoy it. And before anyone else mansplains the BDSM dynamic, I was a Domme for many years. I know what I’m on about.

Breaking down Dominant men is a huge turn on for me, especially when i bring them to the bring to the edge and they lose control. It’s a niche kink. So yeah… Dominant men please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by pissed poster at 23/12/21 00:04:35]

Fixed that for ya red

OMG THE LOT OF YOU!! If I hadn’t deleted it you’d all be roaring at me for a completely shite post.

But yeah - submissive men are insipid to me, I can’t bear it. The responsibility for another persons pleasure is exhausting and really uninspiring, I DO NOT enjoy it. And before anyone else mansplains the BDSM dynamic, I was a Domme for many years. I know what I’m on about.

Breaking down Dominant men is a huge turn on for me, especially when i bring them to the bring to the edge and they lose control. It’s a niche kink. So yeah… Dominant men please. "

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"[Removed by pissed poster at 23/12/21 00:04:35]

Fixed that for ya red

OMG THE LOT OF YOU!! If I hadn’t deleted it you’d all be roaring at me for a completely shite post.

But yeah - submissive men are insipid to me, I can’t bear it. The responsibility for another persons pleasure is exhausting and really uninspiring, I DO NOT enjoy it. And before anyone else mansplains the BDSM dynamic, I was a Domme for many years. I know what I’m on about.

Breaking down Dominant men is a huge turn on for me, especially when i bring them to the bring to the edge and they lose control. It’s a niche kink. So yeah… Dominant men please. "

But....you can't break down a truly dominant man. You're not a Chinese government interrogator. The best you can do with a man like that, is for him to see it as a way to turn you on and get what he want out of the exchange. That may not always be sex. The whole dim sub thing is no less role-playing than the vicar and the nun lol.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The whole D/s thing is just one big game of role play as the above poster says.

People don't "breakdown" dominant men or women. They simply get duped into thinking they do.

Everyone can be told what to do or

be controlled, some just need for it to happen in a more subtle way.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

People can be naturally sub or Dom, but everyone can be broken.. but the point is to fulfil the role you've agreed within the boundaries that have been set

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Mansplained.

Twice.

By the most predicable sources.

Sigh.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"People can be naturally sub or Dom, but everyone can be broken.. but the point is to fulfil the role you've agreed within the boundaries that have been set"

If you've agreed to set roles and what the set outcome will be then is the person really being "broken"?

Anyway, doesn't sound like there's much boundaries set or roles defined either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can be naturally sub or Dom, but everyone can be broken.. but the point is to fulfil the role you've agreed within the boundaries that have been set"

Yes boundaries are so important in real life aswell.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"Mansplained.

Twice.

By the most predicable sources.

Sigh.

"

Doesn't mean it isn't true lol

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Mansplained.

Twice.

By the most predicable sources.

Sigh.

Doesn't mean it isn't true lol"

Exactly

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Mansplained.

Twice.

By the most predicable sources.

Sigh.

Doesn't mean it isn't true lol"

Your explanation smacks of arrogance and disdain.

People aren’t one thing or another, it’s a role. But sure, plod along.

It’s your tiny box.

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By *abriellaandJackCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this

But here it’s

I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.

I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them

I like a bit of power struggle.

Does anyone else feel the same? xx"

Exactly this.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"Mansplained.

Twice.

By the most predicable sources.

Sigh.

Doesn't mean it isn't true lol

Your explanation smacks of arrogance and disdain.

People aren’t one thing or another, it’s a role. But sure, plod along.

It’s your tiny box. "

Madame, I'll have you know my box is plenty big!

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