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By *ebecca_Hottie OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

Hey everyone, just wondering, Hotwives & Cucks and more so couples who are only starting out; have you ever had completely unplanned fun? For example; Were you away and having drinks in a hotel and randomly approached by an Alpha who engages in polite conversation but then, for the lack of better words, asks yee would yee like to come back to his room to continue the conversation?

Kind of like 'the universe works in mysterious ways' sort of thing.

What happened if anything?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

In power exchange scenarios it's best to have hard limits agreed up front. Winging it isn't the best of ideas.

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By *ebecca_Hottie OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

Thank you for the advice

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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Never had anything like that which is a shame but we have shocked a guys in a bar before by sitting at different table and her flirting with guys and them telling them I am also there

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road


"Hey everyone, just wondering, Hotwives & Cucks and more so couples who are only starting out; have you ever had completely unplanned fun? For example; Were you away and having drinks in a hotel and randomly approached by an Alpha who engages in polite conversation but then, for the lack of better words, asks yee would yee like to come back to his room to continue the conversation?

Kind of like 'the universe works in mysterious ways' sort of thing.

What happened if anything?"

Never happened to us since we got in the swing scene but when we think back over the years there was definitely a few opportunities that we could have grabbed. Its on the bucket list to pick up a stranger, male, female or a couple on a random vanilla night out!

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By *ebecca_Hottie OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway


"Never had anything like that which is a shame but we have shocked a guys in a bar before by sitting at different table and her flirting with guys and them telling them I am also there"

Oh wow! That sounds very exciting! Anything ever come from her flirting?

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By *ebecca_Hottie OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway


" Never happened to us since we got in the swing scene but when we think back over the years there was definitely a few opportunities that we could have grabbed. Its on the bucket list to pick up a stranger, male, female or a couple on a random vanilla night out!"

Have yee being long in the swing scene? Right now for us it's still in the bedroom and she thoroughly enjoys the naughty talk about it. Just feel a little push maybe, a spur of the moment thing. I dunno! Could be a fools dream

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I've not had it happen yet but now looking back and before I started meeting couples there were a small few occasions where it may have been possible but I didn't pick up on the signals fully.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


" Never happened to us since we got in the swing scene but when we think back over the years there was definitely a few opportunities that we could have grabbed. Its on the bucket list to pick up a stranger, male, female or a couple on a random vanilla night out!

Have yee being long in the swing scene? Right now for us it's still in the bedroom and she thoroughly enjoys the naughty talk about it. Just feel a little push maybe, a spur of the moment thing. I dunno! Could be a fools dream"
Let's hope your dream comes true in 2022!

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I am terrible at picking up signals.

A couple would have to outright ask me.

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road


" Never happened to us since we got in the swing scene but when we think back over the years there was definitely a few opportunities that we could have grabbed. Its on the bucket list to pick up a stranger, male, female or a couple on a random vanilla night out!

Have yee being long in the swing scene? Right now for us it's still in the bedroom and she thoroughly enjoys the naughty talk about it. Just feel a little push maybe, a spur of the moment thing. I dunno! Could be a fools dream"

I think honesty would be the best policy. Just say you want to turn the fantasy into reality and talk about it. What's the worst that can happen, she says no! Much better option than waiting for it to naturally happen at a bar. You will only do your head in thinking about it. I would think swinging was a fantasy before reality for most.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

We live in a small town and in that small town is a not so subtle couple who are very dramatic. One night in a local pub they started chatting to us throwing lots swinging innuendos about and asking us did we fancy going back to theirs for a few drinks!

We panicked and made our excuses lol.

We had been discussing such ideas prior to that and we both asked one another had we said anything to anyone which we hadn't.

Hope the above makes sense!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We live in a small town and in that small town is a not so subtle couple who are very dramatic. One night in a local pub they started chatting to us throwing lots swinging innuendos about and asking us did we fancy going back to theirs for a few drinks!

We panicked and made our excuses lol.

We had been discussing such ideas prior to that and we both asked one another had we said anything to anyone which we hadn't.

Hope the above makes sense!"
Makes sense. Whatever about in a large city small town is too close to home!

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you


"We live in a small town and in that small town is a not so subtle couple who are very dramatic. One night in a local pub they started chatting to us throwing lots swinging innuendos about and asking us did we fancy going back to theirs for a few drinks!

We panicked and made our excuses lol.

We had been discussing such ideas prior to that and we both asked one another had we said anything to anyone which we hadn't.

Hope the above makes sense!Makes sense. Whatever about in a large city small town is too close to home! "

Thats for sure lol

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By *ebecca_Hottie OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway


"We live in a small town and in that small town is a not so subtle couple who are very dramatic. One night in a local pub they started chatting to us throwing lots swinging innuendos about and asking us did we fancy going back to theirs for a few drinks!

We panicked and made our excuses lol.

We had been discussing such ideas prior to that and we both asked one another had we said anything to anyone which we hadn't.

Hope the above makes sense!Makes sense. Whatever about in a large city small town is too close to home! "

It makes sense, the universe can be weird..hahaha but I totally agree, would definitely need to be in a city and not in a small town.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you


"We live in a small town and in that small town is a not so subtle couple who are very dramatic. One night in a local pub they started chatting to us throwing lots swinging innuendos about and asking us did we fancy going back to theirs for a few drinks!

We panicked and made our excuses lol.

We had been discussing such ideas prior to that and we both asked one another had we said anything to anyone which we hadn't.

Hope the above makes sense!Makes sense. Whatever about in a large city small town is too close to home!

It makes sense, the universe can be weird..hahaha but I totally agree, would definitely need to be in a city and not in a small town."

Should add that thos happened before we joined any sites but had been discussing ideas at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1st swinging experience was in a social scenario. I was a young lad at uni only 21. I meet a couple in a social situation and the drink was flowing & the craic good. We exchanged numbers. On the night there was a bit of flirting banter and I thought in my head i maybe was imagining things. They were older mid 30s.

So the following week I get a text asking if I’d like to call around to theirs. I did. He answered the door and he said she was upstairs. 10 mins later she arrives down in next to nothing. From there it was game on. They absolutely seduced me lol from then I’ve been a major admirer of the Cuckold scenario aff truly appreciate its multi dimensional scenarios.

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