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By *harman OP   Man
over a year ago

Living Abroad

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By *harman OP   Man
over a year ago

Living Abroad

I am just wondering why is so hard to find genuine people and that are really into meet up in person, in my own experience I had some 'meets', go for drinks, coffee, etc.. and they never show up or call of last minute.

I just can't understand if the real fun happen when the people meet in person so whats the point to say that want to meet and no showing.

I think the most important thing here is respect and I try to approach everyone this way... Am I wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are right. But, there are a fair few messers online and a lot (not all) of them are single blokes.

I find that cpls who can see past the cliche are always more fun, nicer and alltogether sexier saner people.

Tbh I'm not keen to get intimate with people who can't be bothered to get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your totally right. A log of timewasters on the site, male and female. But ther r also nice genuine people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are right. But, there are a fair few messers online and a lot (not all) of them are single blokes. "

I don't meet guys, but there are a fair few messers among the women over there.

Peculiarly, they initially chat, then it suddenly goes quiet. In one case, the minute I said I was now on the same side of the Irish Sea as her!!

It strikes me that there are quite a few silly wee girls, posing as 40 and 50 year old women!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are right. But, there are a fair few messers online and a lot (not all) of them are single blokes.

I don't meet guys, but there are a fair few messers among the women over there.

Peculiarly, they initially chat, then it suddenly goes quiet. In one case, the minute I said I was now on the same side of the Irish Sea as her!!

It strikes me that there are quite a few silly wee girls, posing as 40 and 50 year old women!! "

did she know you were makin the journey lol i think i,d be the same if someone just turned up outta the blue expectin you to meet them without askin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont find it that bad here.

But i suppose its all down to expectations at the end of the day!

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By *etsplayxxxCouple
over a year ago

near mullingar/longford

If u have crap... profiles and no pic's

and no verifications... well non that

we can see.... cop on!! you'll get

no were here... no more that u wud

with bag on ur heads... in

a niteclub ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u have crap... profiles and no pic's

and no verifications... well non that

we can see.... cop on!! you'll get

no were here... no more that u wud

with bag on ur heads... in

a niteclub ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cop on lol, haven't heard that word in ages lol

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u have crap... profiles and no pic's

and no verifications... well non that

we can see.... cop on!! you'll get

no were here... no more that u wud

with bag on ur heads... in

a niteclub ... "

I find if ur non pushy, polite and a bit of fun it helps loads i had a slow start on ere but you catch on quick to the do`s and dont`s ...

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By *ontrabandMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I dont find it difficult at all on here being a single guy...

..... mind you, i'm not trying to fuck anything with a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont find it difficult at all on here being a single guy...

..... mind you, i'm not trying to fuck anything with a pulse "

Lol... Well said Amigo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont find it difficult at all on here being a single guy...

..... mind you, i'm not trying to fuck anything with a pulse "

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By *relandcockMan
over a year ago

city


"I dont find it difficult at all on here being a single guy...

..... mind you, i'm not trying to fuck anything with a pulse "

So, buy your own admission, you are trying to fuck things without a pulse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" did she know you were makin the journey lol i think i,d be the same if someone just turned up outta the blue expectin you to meet them without askin lol "

I don't mean to be rude, but I've been on here for 3 or 4 years now so I do know how it works!! D'you really think I'd cross the Irish Sea purely on spec???

And "she" was only one of half a dozen women I've chatted to over there, but all with similar outcomes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I.think it's funny when guys whinge about getting no where on here. It's only fucking sex at the end of the day like. Not the end of the world if you don't get a meet.

I have had numerous meets from here. I enjoy them. Even if i didn't get meets i'd still enjoy the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You blokes need to just get a grip, theres always 50 lads on these forums complaining about people not meeting, not speaking, going quiet, 'timewasting', it puts people off u even more! Just stop whinging about not getting meets and blaming other people you only have yourself to blame, you clearly arnt as

Good looking or interesting as you think you are, ive met plenty of really nice women and couples on here just chill out or try another site if this 1 isnt wirking for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You blokes need to just get a grip, theres always 50 lads on these forums complaining about people not meeting, not speaking, going quiet, 'timewasting', it puts people off u even more! Just stop whinging about not getting meets and blaming other people you only have yourself to blame, you clearly arnt as

Good looking or interesting as you think you are, ive met plenty of really nice women and couples on here just chill out or try another site if this 1 isnt wirking for you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I.think it's funny when guys whinge about getting no where on here. It's only fucking sex at the end of the day like. Not the end of the world if you don't get a meet.

I have had numerous meets from here. I enjoy them. Even if i didn't get meets i'd still enjoy the site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You blokes need to just get a grip, theres always 50 lads on these forums complaining about people not meeting, not speaking, going quiet, 'timewasting', it puts people off u even more! Just stop whinging about not getting meets and blaming other people you only have yourself to blame, you clearly arnt as

Good looking or interesting as you think you are, ive met plenty of really nice women and couples on here just chill out or try another site if this 1 isnt wirking for you"

i couldnt have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You blokes need to just get a grip, theres always 50 lads on these forums complaining about people not meeting, not speaking, going quiet, 'timewasting', it puts people off u even more! Just stop whinging about not getting meets and blaming other people you only have yourself to blame, you clearly arnt as

Good looking or interesting as you think you are, ive met plenty of really nice women and couples on here just chill out or try another site if this 1 isnt wirking for you"

Very well said Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *etsplayxxxCouple
over a year ago

near mullingar/longford


"You blokes need to just get a grip, theres always 50 lads on these forums complaining about people not meeting, not speaking, going quiet, 'timewasting', it puts people off u even more! Just stop whinging about not getting meets and blaming other people you only have yourself to blame, you clearly arnt as

Good looking or interesting as you think you are, ive met plenty of really nice women and couples on here just chill out or try another site if this 1 isnt wirking for you"

This guy is o so right... lots of

complaining from guys who are

only on this site for less than

a week or on here since the

last ice-age and have.. NO VERIFICATIONS

plus dont hide ur so called verification

we have been on here lots of times

before... and its the same old thing

u need 2 read peoples profiles before

u send them a message and understand

the rules involved at this game...

we make our minds up about things like

ur profile and how its worded and

ur verifications... get real lads

this is not a sit full of prostitutes

its all about people making sexual

choices.... if u dont know that

well dont forget the girls on

the street corner... they (might)

turn u a trick....ok

PS... REALLY PISSED OFF READING

ABOUT GUYS THAT CANT GET A MEET

GROW UP....(THATS A BIG ASK ME THINKS)

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

Just get on with it guys, persistence pays off ,but don't confuse that with being a nuisance , be patient and stop whinging !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You blokes need to just get a grip, theres always 50 lads on these forums complaining about people not meeting, not speaking, going quiet, 'timewasting', it puts people off u even more! Just stop whinging about not getting meets and blaming other people you only have yourself to blame, you clearly arnt as

Good looking or interesting as you think you are, ive met plenty of really nice women and couples on here just chill out or try another site if this 1 isnt wirking for you

This guy is o so right... lots of

complaining from guys who are

only on this site for less than

a week or on here since the

last ice-age and have.. NO VERIFICATIONS

plus dont hide ur so called verification

we have been on here lots of times

before... and its the same old thing

u need 2 read peoples profiles before

u send them a message and understand

the rules involved at this game...

we make our minds up about things like

ur profile and how its worded and

ur verifications... get real lads

this is not a sit full of prostitutes

its all about people making sexual

choices.... if u dont know that

well dont forget the girls on

the street corner... they (might)

turn u a trick....ok

PS... REALLY PISSED OFF READING

ABOUT GUYS THAT CANT GET A MEET

GROW UP....(THATS A BIG ASK ME THINKS)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You blokes need to just get a grip, theres always 50 lads on these forums complaining about people not meeting, not speaking, going quiet, 'timewasting', it puts people off u even more! Just stop whinging about not getting meets and blaming other people you only have yourself to blame, you clearly arnt as

Good looking or interesting as you think you are, ive met plenty of really nice women and couples on here just chill out or try another site if this 1 isnt wirking for you

This guy is o so right... lots of

complaining from guys who are

only on this site for less than

a week or on here since the

last ice-age and have.. NO VERIFICATIONS

plus dont hide ur so called verification

we have been on here lots of times

before... and its the same old thing

u need 2 read peoples profiles before

u send them a message and understand

the rules involved at this game...

we make our minds up about things like

ur profile and how its worded and

ur verifications... get real lads

this is not a sit full of prostitutes

its all about people making sexual

choices.... if u dont know that

well dont forget the girls on

the street corner... they (might)

turn u a trick....ok

PS... REALLY PISSED OFF READING

ABOUT GUYS THAT CANT GET A MEET

GROW UP....(THATS A BIG ASK ME THINKS)

"

very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is becoming really amusing!

I find it quite laughable when the self-righteous folk start sounding off, seemingly knowing all there is to know about certain people and their circumstances, when the simple fact is that they haven't a clue about them!! It's all conjecture!!

Personally, I prefer dealing in facts, leaving the anecdotal stuff to the know-it-alls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part of this site but hopefully meet some gen I had some pest on here aswell xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's VERY selective when it comes to meeting single guys and com'on that's understandable !

My advice : have a good profile, a face pic, the gift of the gab in chat and then patience ... What's the point in trying to rush the FUN of swinging.

Swinging is MORE than just having sex

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster


"Everyone's VERY selective when it comes to meeting single guys and com'on that's understandable !

My advice : have a good profile, a face pic, the gift of the gab in chat and then patience ... What's the point in trying to rush the FUN of swinging.

Swinging is MORE than just having sex"

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By *quarius tvTV/TS
over a year ago

ballymena

I love these posts u should try bein a single tv gud things cme to those that wait xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems we're getting a bit meta in here. We've people complaining to much about people complaining too much.

And now I'm complaining about that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other most important thing is, wen u take the time to read a profile, find out exactly wat the person(s) wants. There has to b sum chemistry there before any1 will meet u. Nobody is just going to meet u for a fuck. Wake up and smell the corn flakes m8y, u have to chat to sum1 for a while and get to know them a gud bit before suggesting to meet.

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