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"Just wondering is it who you know not what you know on fab. This is just a observation by the way. Happy fabing " Of course it is. You have to get to know people in order to be trusted. Its a community not a red light district. There are also cliques but that's a separate discussion. | |||
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"Just wondering is it who you know not what you know on fab. This is just a observation by the way. Happy fabing " It can be, the verification system proves that. Also Fab is a community space, there is networking going on and then there are people who get to know each other as well. Its not just a hook-up site, There is a lot more going on | |||
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"Just wondering is it who you know not what you know on fab. This is just a observation by the way. Happy fabing Of course it is. You have to get to know people in order to be trusted. Its a community not a red light district. There are also cliques but that's a separate discussion. " Does a click get me into the red light district 
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"Just wondering is it who you know not what you know on fab. This is just a observation by the way. Happy fabing It can be, the verification system proves that. Also Fab is a community space, there is networking going on and then there are people who get to know each other as well. Its not just a hook-up site, There is a lot more going on" I think people see the social side their fab experience gets better. | |||
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"Just wondering is it who you know not what you know on fab. This is just a observation by the way. Happy fabing Of course it is. You have to get to know people in order to be trusted. Its a community not a red light district. There are also cliques but that's a separate discussion. Does a click get me into the red light district
I actually prefer ambient low lighting . What do I need to press for that? My light switch must be broken "I guess it depends on who you click with.  | |||
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"Just wondering is it who you know not what you know on fab. This is just a observation by the way. Happy fabing It can be, the verification system proves that. Also Fab is a community space, there is networking going on and then there are people who get to know each other as well. Its not just a hook-up site, There is a lot more going on" Absolutely this  | |||
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"Me and a bunch of my fab friends were discussing whether to let newbies into our group but we decided not to" Oh you better let me in  | |||
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"Helps if you think of it as your local when you're on a while Some people you'll say hello and have a pint Some you'd sit beside all night sharing stories and drinks...knowing about their life apart from fab Some you'll nod your head to and walk on Some you'll stand beside with your mickey out but not crossing swords or streams...while having a piss ....you'll find your space if you look " Or motorboat their boobies just cause they let ya lol | |||
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Plenty of men and women make fab work for them by actually interacting with people and getting to know them rather than the gung ho attitude of some. They make an effort with their profile so that anyone looking will go ye that's interesting I'd like to know this person more.Some join the forum's and join in the chat regularly and get known because they post more than just once or twice and it works for plenty to get meets as long as they aren't whinging all the time.
It's an adult site and I find it amusing that people use the clique line as tho it's a insult that people have made an effort to get to know others on here.
But that just what I think I'm sure plenty others will disagree but it's okay cos I've got my own little clique so I will just potter along over to them  | |||
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"It's not a clique .There are groups of people who have gotten to know each other either through interactions or meets on here. A lot go to socials and there are groups who meet for sex on here. That's what the site is about.But no I wouldn't call them cliques. I find the ones who throw this out as almost an insult (and this is not directed at the op it's just in general ) are those who might make one or two comments in the forums and they haven't gotten a reply or have ranted on here giving out about people on here and when it doesn't get the reaction they expect they throw out it's cos of the imaginary clique. They are the ones who have made virtually no effort with their profiles and send messages like hi having any fun on here messages which mostly get deleted. They join with the expectation they are going to be balls deep in women 24/7 and that a lot of the women on here are easy and will shag anything. Then after a week or two are ranting cos women are not doing what they expect and put up updates saying how ugly and unattractive most on here are and they couldn't get a ride in real life so they join here. They are all proud of this status as that has told all us women and put us in our place all it's done is got them blocked or a note on their profile saying avoid . Then they wonder why they can't get meets as they are genuine.
Plenty of men and women make fab work for them by actually interacting with people and getting to know them rather than the gung ho attitude of some. They make an effort with their profile so that anyone looking will go ye that's interesting I'd like to know this person more.Some join the forum's and join in the chat regularly and get known because they post more than just once or twice and it works for plenty to get meets as long as they aren't whinging all the time.
It's an adult site and I find it amusing that people use the clique line as tho it's a insult that people have made an effort to get to know others on here.
But that just what I think I'm sure plenty others will disagree but it's okay cos I've got my own little clique so I will just potter along over to them "Very well said Bo | |||
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"It's not a clique .There are groups of people who have gotten to know each other either through interactions or meets on here. A lot go to socials and there are groups who meet for sex on here. That's what the site is about.But no I wouldn't call them cliques. I find the ones who throw this out as almost an insult (and this is not directed at the op it's just in general ) are those who might make one or two comments in the forums and they haven't gotten a reply or have ranted on here giving out about people on here and when it doesn't get the reaction they expect they throw out it's cos of the imaginary clique. They are the ones who have made virtually no effort with their profiles and send messages like hi having any fun on here messages which mostly get deleted. They join with the expectation they are going to be balls deep in women 24/7 and that a lot of the women on here are easy and will shag anything. Then after a week or two are ranting cos women are not doing what they expect and put up updates saying how ugly and unattractive most on here are and they couldn't get a ride in real life so they join here. They are all proud of this status as that has told all us women and put us in our place all it's done is got them blocked or a note on their profile saying avoid . Then they wonder why they can't get meets as they are genuine.
Plenty of men and women make fab work for them by actually interacting with people and getting to know them rather than the gung ho attitude of some. They make an effort with their profile so that anyone looking will go ye that's interesting I'd like to know this person more.Some join the forum's and join in the chat regularly and get known because they post more than just once or twice and it works for plenty to get meets as long as they aren't whinging all the time.
It's an adult site and I find it amusing that people use the clique line as tho it's a insult that people have made an effort to get to know others on here.
But that just what I think I'm sure plenty others will disagree but it's okay cos I've got my own little clique so I will just potter along over to them "Hey there wana be in my clique ?? | |||
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"It's not a clique .There are groups of people who have gotten to know each other either through interactions or meets on here. A lot go to socials and there are groups who meet for sex on here. That's what the site is about.But no I wouldn't call them cliques. I find the ones who throw this out as almost an insult (and this is not directed at the op it's just in general ) are those who might make one or two comments in the forums and they haven't gotten a reply or have ranted on here giving out about people on here and when it doesn't get the reaction they expect they throw out it's cos of the imaginary clique. They are the ones who have made virtually no effort with their profiles and send messages like hi having any fun on here messages which mostly get deleted. They join with the expectation they are going to be balls deep in women 24/7 and that a lot of the women on here are easy and will shag anything. Then after a week or two are ranting cos women are not doing what they expect and put up updates saying how ugly and unattractive most on here are and they couldn't get a ride in real life so they join here. They are all proud of this status as that has told all us women and put us in our place all it's done is got them blocked or a note on their profile saying avoid . Then they wonder why they can't get meets as they are genuine.
Plenty of men and women make fab work for them by actually interacting with people and getting to know them rather than the gung ho attitude of some. They make an effort with their profile so that anyone looking will go ye that's interesting I'd like to know this person more.Some join the forum's and join in the chat regularly and get known because they post more than just once or twice and it works for plenty to get meets as long as they aren't whinging all the time.
It's an adult site and I find it amusing that people use the clique line as tho it's a insult that people have made an effort to get to know others on here.
But that just what I think I'm sure plenty others will disagree but it's okay cos I've got my own little clique so I will just potter along over to them
Hey there wana be in my clique ?? "Are you inviting everyone? I just don't feel special anymore  | |||
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"100% but it doesnt bother me like it did, its actually quite sad. There are people who genuinely have built up friendships over the years. There are those who only speak if a friend posts a thread, which is all fine. But friends who dont tell other friends they are talking out their arses, to me falls into the cluque category. Glad im just me. " you're talkng out of your arse | |||
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"100% but it doesnt bother me like it did, its actually quite sad. There are people who genuinely have built up friendships over the years. There are those who only speak if a friend posts a thread, which is all fine. But friends who dont tell other friends they are talking out their arses, to me falls into the cluque category. Glad im just me. you're talkng out of your arse "Shots fired | |||
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"100% but it doesnt bother me like it did, its actually quite sad. There are people who genuinely have built up friendships over the years. There are those who only speak if a friend posts a thread, which is all fine. But friends who dont tell other friends they are talking out their arses, to me falls into the cluque category. Glad im just me. you're talkng out of your arse
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"It's not a clique .There are groups of people who have gotten to know each other either through interactions or meets on here. A lot go to socials and there are groups who meet for sex on here. That's what the site is about.But no I wouldn't call them cliques. I find the ones who throw this out as almost an insult (and this is not directed at the op it's just in general ) are those who might make one or two comments in the forums and they haven't gotten a reply or have ranted on here giving out about people on here and when it doesn't get the reaction they expect they throw out it's cos of the imaginary clique. They are the ones who have made virtually no effort with their profiles and send messages like hi having any fun on here messages which mostly get deleted. They join with the expectation they are going to be balls deep in women 24/7 and that a lot of the women on here are easy and will shag anything. Then after a week or two are ranting cos women are not doing what they expect and put up updates saying how ugly and unattractive most on here are and they couldn't get a ride in real life so they join here. They are all proud of this status as that has told all us women and put us in our place all it's done is got them blocked or a note on their profile saying avoid . Then they wonder why they can't get meets as they are genuine.
Plenty of men and women make fab work for them by actually interacting with people and getting to know them rather than the gung ho attitude of some. They make an effort with their profile so that anyone looking will go ye that's interesting I'd like to know this person more.Some join the forum's and join in the chat regularly and get known because they post more than just once or twice and it works for plenty to get meets as long as they aren't whinging all the time.
It's an adult site and I find it amusing that people use the clique line as tho it's a insult that people have made an effort to get to know others on here.
But that just what I think I'm sure plenty others will disagree but it's okay cos I've got my own little clique so I will just potter along over to them
Hey there wana be in my clique ?? "Ohhhh then I'd be in two cliques is that allowed | |||
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"It's not a clique .There are groups of people who have gotten to know each other either through interactions or meets on here. A lot go to socials and there are groups who meet for sex on here. That's what the site is about.But no I wouldn't call them cliques. I find the ones who throw this out as almost an insult (and this is not directed at the op it's just in general ) are those who might make one or two comments in the forums and they haven't gotten a reply or have ranted on here giving out about people on here and when it doesn't get the reaction they expect they throw out it's cos of the imaginary clique. They are the ones who have made virtually no effort with their profiles and send messages like hi having any fun on here messages which mostly get deleted. They join with the expectation they are going to be balls deep in women 24/7 and that a lot of the women on here are easy and will shag anything. Then after a week or two are ranting cos women are not doing what they expect and put up updates saying how ugly and unattractive most on here are and they couldn't get a ride in real life so they join here. They are all proud of this status as that has told all us women and put us in our place all it's done is got them blocked or a note on their profile saying avoid . Then they wonder why they can't get meets as they are genuine.
Plenty of men and women make fab work for them by actually interacting with people and getting to know them rather than the gung ho attitude of some. They make an effort with their profile so that anyone looking will go ye that's interesting I'd like to know this person more.Some join the forum's and join in the chat regularly and get known because they post more than just once or twice and it works for plenty to get meets as long as they aren't whinging all the time.
It's an adult site and I find it amusing that people use the clique line as tho it's a insult that people have made an effort to get to know others on here.
But that just what I think I'm sure plenty others will disagree but it's okay cos I've got my own little clique so I will just potter along over to them
Hey there wana be in my clique ??
Are you inviting everyone? I just don't feel special anymore "Do you know the password and secret handshake | |||
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"It's not a clique .There are groups of people who have gotten to know each other either through interactions or meets on here. A lot go to socials and there are groups who meet for sex on here. That's what the site is about.But no I wouldn't call them cliques. I find the ones who throw this out as almost an insult (and this is not directed at the op it's just in general ) are those who might make one or two comments in the forums and they haven't gotten a reply or have ranted on here giving out about people on here and when it doesn't get the reaction they expect they throw out it's cos of the imaginary clique. They are the ones who have made virtually no effort with their profiles and send messages like hi having any fun on here messages which mostly get deleted. They join with the expectation they are going to be balls deep in women 24/7 and that a lot of the women on here are easy and will shag anything. Then after a week or two are ranting cos women are not doing what they expect and put up updates saying how ugly and unattractive most on here are and they couldn't get a ride in real life so they join here. They are all proud of this status as that has told all us women and put us in our place all it's done is got them blocked or a note on their profile saying avoid . Then they wonder why they can't get meets as they are genuine.
Plenty of men and women make fab work for them by actually interacting with people and getting to know them rather than the gung ho attitude of some. They make an effort with their profile so that anyone looking will go ye that's interesting I'd like to know this person more.Some join the forum's and join in the chat regularly and get known because they post more than just once or twice and it works for plenty to get meets as long as they aren't whinging all the time.
It's an adult site and I find it amusing that people use the clique line as tho it's a insult that people have made an effort to get to know others on here.
But that just what I think I'm sure plenty others will disagree but it's okay cos I've got my own little clique so I will just potter along over to them
Hey there wana be in my clique ??
Ohhhh then I'd be in two cliques is that allowed "Dunno. Have to have a secret meeting and discuss it. | |||
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"It's not a clique .There are groups of people who have gotten to know each other either through interactions or meets on here. A lot go to socials and there are groups who meet for sex on here. That's what the site is about.But no I wouldn't call them cliques. I find the ones who throw this out as almost an insult (and this is not directed at the op it's just in general ) are those who might make one or two comments in the forums and they haven't gotten a reply or have ranted on here giving out about people on here and when it doesn't get the reaction they expect they throw out it's cos of the imaginary clique. They are the ones who have made virtually no effort with their profiles and send messages like hi having any fun on here messages which mostly get deleted. They join with the expectation they are going to be balls deep in women 24/7 and that a lot of the women on here are easy and will shag anything. Then after a week or two are ranting cos women are not doing what they expect and put up updates saying how ugly and unattractive most on here are and they couldn't get a ride in real life so they join here. They are all proud of this status as that has told all us women and put us in our place all it's done is got them blocked or a note on their profile saying avoid . Then they wonder why they can't get meets as they are genuine.
Plenty of men and women make fab work for them by actually interacting with people and getting to know them rather than the gung ho attitude of some. They make an effort with their profile so that anyone looking will go ye that's interesting I'd like to know this person more.Some join the forum's and join in the chat regularly and get known because they post more than just once or twice and it works for plenty to get meets as long as they aren't whinging all the time.
It's an adult site and I find it amusing that people use the clique line as tho it's a insult that people have made an effort to get to know others on here.
But that just what I think I'm sure plenty others will disagree but it's okay cos I've got my own little clique so I will just potter along over to them "Well said Bo x | |||
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"Just wondering is it who you know not what you know on fab. This is just a observation by the way. Happy fabing " It’s big enough that if some don’t like your profile /fancy you/like you as a person etc and do so individually or as a group of friends in a coordinated way that there are plenty of others who will if you make the effort. And the forum can be a misleading place despite its awesomeness as you might have say twenty frequent posters and if you feel that you’re not interacting with any of them it can feel like a lot more purely because of the prevalence of their posts and opinions . But overall it’s a very diverse open and forgiving place (I am including the site and the forum in that ). It is also never too late to turn things around in fab so it becomes somewhere you enjoy and find success whatever that means to you ... | |||
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"It's funny that only outsiders can see the cliques and clique peers always deny the very existence of such groups "First rule of fab click...do not speak about fab click... | |||
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"It's funny that only outsiders can see the cliques and clique peers always deny the very existence of such groups
First rule of fab click...do not speak about fab click... "I'm a lonesome cowgirl muttering to myself only... | |||
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"For me, it’s less clique, more tribe. People find others they groove with and those groups do expand and change regularly. " Oh I like that a fab tribe | |||
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"For me, it’s less clique, more tribe. People find others they groove with and those groups do expand and change regularly. " We're the fugawy tribe | |||
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"Just wondering is it who you know not what you know on fab. This is just a observation by the way. Happy fabing Of course it is. You have to get to know people in order to be trusted. Its a community not a red light district. There are also cliques but that's a separate discussion. Does a click get me into the red light district
I actually prefer ambient low lighting . What do I need to press for that? My light switch must be broken
I guess it depends on who you click with. "Or switch with | |||
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"Helps if you think of it as your local when you're on a while Some people you'll say hello and have a pint Some you'd sit beside all night sharing stories and drinks...knowing about their life apart from fab Some you'll nod your head to and walk on Some you'll stand beside with your mickey out but not crossing swords or streams...while having a piss ....you'll find your space if you look Or motorboat their boobies just cause they let ya lol" Awh DD I'm so proud I took your motor boat virginity that's what it's all about | |||
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