FabSwingers.com forum: Lucky escape or ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was chatting a fella here all evening and had agreed to meet for coffee at 9 ..just logged in to check something and discover he's gone !!! Mails profile everything !! Ok, I hadn't left to meet yet .but I'm now wondering why would anyone do that ? Answers on a postcard

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

Maybe he was married/in relationship and had change of heart .

Maybe just a time waster , I've had something similar so it's not just the guys .

Maybe he got too nervous , and chickened out .

Either way I'd say a lucky escape and hopefully better to cum

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Was chatting a fella here all evening and had agreed to meet for coffee at 9 ..just logged in to check something and discover he's gone !!! Mails profile everything !! Ok, I hadn't left to meet yet .but I'm now wondering why would anyone do that ? Answers on a postcard

Probably got scared. Happens to us all!

Onwards and upwards!!

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Ah I’m sure you’ve seen that happen plenty of times before! Some people just wuss out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some people are just rude

#Ghosting

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

Sorry this happened to you Ghost. It’s a terrible thing to do to someone and it certainly knocks self confidence no matter how resilient you feel. Shitty thing to do to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And some people are just rude

#Ghosting "

Totally agree with you

Some just get the kick from the chase and clicking then move onto the next victim

Ruins it for the genuine people

Sorry to hear about your ghost OP

Move on and put it down to experience

Maybe a lucky escape for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry this happened to you Ghost. It’s a terrible thing to do to someone and it certainly knocks self confidence no matter how resilient you feel. Shitty thing to do to someone. "

Agreed, being ghosted by someone is shitty. Especially when you had formed a connection with someone. Happens all too often unfortunately. Or maybe its just me....

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Sorry this happened to you Ghost. It’s a terrible thing to do to someone and it certainly knocks self confidence no matter how resilient you feel. Shitty thing to do to someone.

Agreed, being ghosted by someone is shitty. Especially when you had formed a connection with someone. Happens all too often unfortunately. Or maybe its just me....

Happens to me on a regular basis thinking of changing my name to Casper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens me too all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its crap when it happens but I've been reliably informed there is some good guys here too , his loss x

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

"Sorry this happened to you Ghost. It’s a terrible thing to do to someone and it certainly knocks self confidence no matter how resilient you feel. Shitty thing to do to someone.

Agreed, being ghosted by someone is shitty. Especially when you had formed a connection with someone. Happens all too often unfortunately. Or maybe its just me....

It’s not just you Redhott, it’s really way too common an issue and quite damaging. Self esteem is fragile. Report them and then block.

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By *ollypop9Woman
over a year ago

wouldn't you like to know

Happened to me two months into fab. Chatting for days. Verified etc.

Halfway of my hour long drive to meet, I discover he's gone, ghosting, whatever...

Probably thrill seeker.

There are lots of good guys here, dont let it knock you.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Perhaps he thought he wouldn't recognise your silhouette in the dark?

Sorry, couldn't help myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps he thought he wouldn't recognise your silhouette in the dark?

Sorry, couldn't help myself

Your good with your smarmy comments tonight on the forum on various posts

Shows your level of intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me with few girls and 1 couple in last 2 weeks tho

I guess everyone here had same experience at some stage

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"Perhaps he thought he wouldn't recognise your silhouette in the dark?

Sorry, couldn't help myself

Your good with your smarmy comments tonight on the forum on various posts

Shows your level of intelligence

And I hope you have a lovely evening too

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Perhaps he thought he wouldn't recognise your silhouette in the dark?

Sorry, couldn't help myself

Your good with your smarmy comments tonight on the forum on various posts

Shows your level of intelligence

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so true but it takes all sorts

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

It's not ghosting if completely up and left the site, or at least closed that profile. He could be one of those multiple profile guys or more likely is married, afraid to tell anyone here and got caught or spooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about that buddy. I hope you get that all important meet and veri soon. Crap thing to happen. Something a little similar happened to me too a few weeks ago. Messages here. Kik messages too and then just total blackout. It’s not nice. Move on and hopefully it’ll get better. I know one thing. As soon as I get my 1st veri I will strive to help other guys and girls out and get them on their way.

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