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"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here I'm curious as I think my spidey senses have been off lately, chatted to a " decent" guy or so I thought, he left for family reasons however has returned and is secretly a fwb couple on here with another fabber. I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats So any suggestions ladies and gents? " That's the holy grail of this place. If you figure it out, tell me! | |||
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"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all. Fake pics Verifications hidden Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends Leaving messages read but not responding for ages Goes quiet after making plans Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it. " problem is when they send pics, text regularly, chat away, no problem sharing pics etc | |||
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"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all. Fake pics Verifications hidden Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends Leaving messages read but not responding for ages Goes quiet after making plans Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it. problem is when they send pics, text regularly, chat away, no problem sharing pics etc " We all have the same issues, occasionally they slip through the radar. Some people are impeccable liars. It's just annoying when you invest time in something and it's all been deceitful or they are just in it for the chase. | |||
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"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all. Fake pics Verifications hidden Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends Leaving messages read but not responding for ages Goes quiet after making plans Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it. problem is when they send pics, text regularly, chat away, no problem sharing pics etc We all have the same issues, occasionally they slip through the radar. Some people are impeccable liars. It's just annoying when you invest time in something and it's all been deceitful or they are just in it for the chase. " 100% | |||
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"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all. Fake pics Verifications hidden Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends Leaving messages read but not responding for ages Goes quiet after making plans Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it. " +1 on most of those Lula. Your Spidey sense and indeed patience sure gets tested in this melting pot of timewasting fuckwits, albeit garnished with a fair few genuine folks thankfully | |||
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"We haven't had too much experience getting as far as arranging meets etc but the best "timewaster" we have had was someone chat for ages, start taking about meeting, then they disappear, pop back up a few months later with a whole new profile but the same pics and admitted it was them when called out on it. I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person." If the person on a whole new profile the messages from the previous profile will be gone. | |||
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"We haven't had too much experience getting as far as arranging meets etc but the best "timewaster" we have had was someone chat for ages, start taking about meeting, then they disappear, pop back up a few months later with a whole new profile but the same pics and admitted it was them when called out on it. I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person. If the person on a whole new profile the messages from the previous profile will be gone. " Yea, I meant to add that they have messaged a few times from the new profile with opening type messages that you would send to someone you havent chatted with before. | |||
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"We haven't had too much experience getting as far as arranging meets etc but the best "timewaster" we have had was someone chat for ages, start taking about meeting, then they disappear, pop back up a few months later with a whole new profile but the same pics and admitted it was them when called out on it. I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person. If the person on a whole new profile the messages from the previous profile will be gone. Yea, I meant to add that they have messaged a few times from the new profile with opening type messages that you would send to someone you havent chatted with before." The notes feature are great, you can make notes on a profile that only you see. | |||
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"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc... Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' " I have to agree with that, you can't know it was necessarily done in order to deceive per se, sometimes it's just less complicated for people to delete an account and start over. Remember things are rarely personal, we are all suiting ourselves here, unless the person stood us up for a meet, we wouldn't really care. | |||
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"We haven't had too much experience getting as far as arranging meets etc but the best "timewaster" we have had was someone chat for ages, start taking about meeting, then they disappear, pop back up a few months later with a whole new profile but the same pics and admitted it was them when called out on it. I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person. If the person on a whole new profile the messages from the previous profile will be gone. Yea, I meant to add that they have messaged a few times from the new profile with opening type messages that you would send to someone you havent chatted with before. The notes feature are great, you can make notes on a profile that only you see. " I really need to utilise this feature more! T x | |||
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"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far. Time wasters won't be long disappearing then Sorry to hear it DD." I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick. The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site. | |||
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"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far. Time wasters won't be long disappearing then Sorry to hear it DD. I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick. The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site. " I think your way is better. A genuine person will still be there after 20, 40, 60 messages. They will be willing to wait to meet you. If you're not in a hurry yourself, you'll see the wasters for what they are eventually, which is the most important time. I'd rather invest time in 2 people only to find that one is a faker or time waster, rather than to mistakenly dismiss both early on for fear that they might be. | |||
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"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here I'm curious as I think my spidey senses have been off lately, chatted to a " decent" guy or so I thought, he left for family reasons however has returned and is secretly a fwb couple on here with another fabber. I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats So any suggestions ladies and gents? " Playing devils advocate if he has a couple's account even with a fwb then he isn't hiding anything really. He may have just needed time away to sort out what ever he needed to.Plenty do that on here . As for spotting liars I don't know really just anything that someone says that isn't consistent with anything they have said before. Timewasters I find look for pics etc and sex talk which is why I don't do it anymore on here with someone I haven't met they usually get bored when you don't and stop chatting. | |||
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"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here I'm curious as I think my spidey senses have been off lately, chatted to a " decent" guy or so I thought, he left for family reasons however has returned and is secretly a fwb couple on here with another fabber. I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats So any suggestions ladies and gents? Playing devils advocate if he has a couple's account even with a fwb then he isn't hiding anything really. He may have just needed time away to sort out what ever he needed to.Plenty do that on here . As for spotting liars I don't know really just anything that someone says that isn't consistent with anything they have said before. Timewasters I find look for pics etc and sex talk which is why I don't do it anymore on here with someone I haven't met they usually get bored when you don't and stop chatting. " You're much more interesting if you can conduct a real conversation anyway. I think... | |||
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"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here I'm curious as I think my spidey senses have been off lately, chatted to a " decent" guy or so I thought, he left for family reasons however has returned and is secretly a fwb couple on here with another fabber. I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats So any suggestions ladies and gents? " I'm presuming I am the one you are speaking of considering I've got a few messages telling me you've started this thread and pretty much spreading the word through other means. So let me clear up some of the stuff you're saying I am or have done. Yes I left for a few reasons, family being one of them. I don't know you well enough to give you any further details than that. A time waster I am not. I had every intention of meeting you when time allowed it. And I did say this to you several times. But while we chatted we never had made any definite arrangements to meet. A liar? Seriously? I'd like know where that is coming from. And please feel free to answer in a public forum because I've nothing to hide. A 'secret' couple?? And what if I was or am with someone or several people. Isn't that what fab is all about? Meeting people? There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum. | |||
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"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then. I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty. I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest. A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man. 99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses. IMO the whole thing is a bloody great big joke. If you find one or two good FBs, hang onto them for dear life. I’m blessed with a few absolute gems - one for 26yrs now. Not letting him, or any of the others, go. And my female mates are the same. Hang onto the good ones. " do you know how much I adore you girl!! you hit the nail on the head with all you said xxx | |||
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" There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum. " Ah no go on | |||
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" There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum. Ah no go on " Step away from the stirring pot and walk away slowly or the teddy bear gets it | |||
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" There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum. Ah no go on Step away from the stirring pot and walk away slowly or the teddy bear gets it " LOOK! NOW HE IS KILLING TEDDY BEARS. | |||
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" There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum. Ah no go on Step away from the stirring pot and walk away slowly or the teddy bear gets it LOOK! NOW HE IS KILLING TEDDY BEARS." He is quite the villain! Who would thunk | |||
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"Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab. They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section. We would be willing pay extra for such an option." But different strokes for different folks that's the joys of fab | |||
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"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc... Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' " 100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down | |||
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"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here I'm curious as I think my spidey senses have been off lately, chatted to a " decent" guy or so I thought, he left for family reasons however has returned and is secretly a fwb couple on here with another fabber. I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats So any suggestions ladies and gents? I'm presuming I am the one you are speaking of considering I've got a few messages telling me you've started this thread and pretty much spreading the word through other means. So let me clear up some of the stuff you're saying I am or have done. Yes I left for a few reasons, family being one of them. I don't know you well enough to give you any further details than that. A time waster I am not. I had every intention of meeting you when time allowed it. And I did say this to you several times. But while we chatted we never had made any definite arrangements to meet. A liar? Seriously? I'd like know where that is coming from. And please feel free to answer in a public forum because I've nothing to hide. A 'secret' couple?? And what if I was or am with someone or several people. Isn't that what fab is all about? Meeting people? There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum. " Spreading the word through other means not sure what that means, didn't call anyone a liar I asked how do people spot the liars, the players and time wasters, some was directed at the general population on here some wasn't. The way I see it be honest with your intentions life gets in the way , not going to say anymore as you have made your point clear. Best of luck on your journey | |||
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"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc... Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' 100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down" With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down" | |||
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"Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab. They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section. We would be willing pay extra for such an option." What constitutes an “elite member”?? Can you IMAGINE the egotistical meltdowns that would happen when people discover they aren’t “elite”. And club organisers aren’t all fecking sweetness and light. One couple are known shit stirrers and are universally disliked, others are sweeties that don’t deserve to get dragged into fab dramas. Nah. Wouldn’t happen. | |||
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"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then. I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty. I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest. A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man. 99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses. IMO the whole thing is a bloody great big joke. If you find one or two good FBs, hang onto them for dear life. I’m blessed with a few absolute gems - one for 26yrs now. Not letting him, or any of the others, go. And my female mates are the same. Hang onto the good ones. " The ideal would be to find one but think the last while for me on here has shown its not working put for me. | |||
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"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far. Time wasters won't be long disappearing then Sorry to hear it DD. I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick. The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site. I think your way is better. A genuine person will still be there after 20, 40, 60 messages. They will be willing to wait to meet you. If you're not in a hurry yourself, you'll see the wasters for what they are eventually, which is the most important time. I'd rather invest time in 2 people only to find that one is a faker or time waster, rather than to mistakenly dismiss both early on for fear that they might be." I'm curious, what do you mean when you say genuine person? I can't ever imagine I'd still be chatting to someone for 40 or 60 messages having not had asked for a social or gotten clarity on where it's going. | |||
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" There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum. Ah no go on Step away from the stirring pot and walk away slowly or the teddy bear gets it LOOK! NOW HE IS KILLING TEDDY BEARS." That's not as bad as Killing Kittens. | |||
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"Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab. They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section. We would be willing pay extra for such an option." It's fairly obvious this option already exists. Funny handshakes are included as an optional extra. | |||
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"Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab. They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section. We would be willing pay extra for such an option." I burst out laughing at this | |||
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"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc... Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' 100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down" " Have been quite a few times on here. That's why I had asked for advice | |||
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"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc... Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' 100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down" Have been quite a few times on here. That's why I had asked for advice" But the specific details in your OP made no mention of a meet. | |||
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"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc... Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' 100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down" Have been quite a few times on here. That's why I had asked for advice But the specific details in your OP made no mention of a meet. " No I didn't, but I also don't tell people who I'm chatting to on here either however everyone seems to know who I was talking about. Lesson learned and think it is time to pull the plug completely on meeting anyone. Crikey who would thinking finding someone for a bit of fun and a ride every now and than be so difficult Thanks again for the suggestions, | |||
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" Lesson learned and think it is time to pull the plug completely on meeting anyone. Crikey who would thinking finding someone for a bit of fun and a ride every now and than be so difficult Thanks again for the suggestions, " I did. Think cutting off your nose to spite your face is going to a good option here. You can’t be upset when ask for advice and then reject it all when you don’t like it. I mean, you can, but it won’t get you very far. Good luck tho. | |||
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" Lesson learned and think it is time to pull the plug completely on meeting anyone. Crikey who would thinking finding someone for a bit of fun and a ride every now and than be so difficult Thanks again for the suggestions, I did. Think cutting off your nose to spite your face is going to a good option here. You can’t be upset when ask for advice and then reject it all when you don’t like it. I mean, you can, but it won’t get you very far. Good luck tho. " Ah no any advice I get will take it on board, not rejecting any any advice, not sure where I'm rejecting it or getting upset. Changed my profile as I'm obviously doing something wrong and goi g to just enjoy the chats and forums for now. | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros " Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x" I betcha a regular popcorn its cock | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x I betcha a regular popcorn its cock" Search cock in a box on YouTube | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x I betcha a regular popcorn its cock Search cock in a box on YouTube " I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore. I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner! Tx | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x I betcha a regular popcorn its cock Search cock in a box on YouTube I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore. I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner! Tx" Fair point | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x I betcha a regular popcorn its cock Search cock in a box on YouTube I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore. I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner! Tx" Haha the discovery of "Urban Dictionary" | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x I betcha a regular popcorn its cock Search cock in a box on YouTube I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore. I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner! Tx Haha the discovery of "Urban Dictionary" " Urban dictionary ruined sci-fi TV for me after I searched docking | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x I betcha a regular popcorn its cock Search cock in a box on YouTube I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore. I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner! Tx" I’m the same, I was once curious about a word used on the forums so I googled it and it cured my curiosity for ever. Some things can’t be unlearned | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x I betcha a regular popcorn its cock Search cock in a box on YouTube I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore. I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner! Tx Haha the discovery of "Urban Dictionary" Urban dictionary ruined sci-fi TV for me after I searched docking " Searched my name on UD & thought it would be funny to see if my brothers nickname for me was on it - Glackers - it was not funny at all | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please? T x" You can x | |||
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"Salted popcorn is 4 euros Sweet 4.50 Special mystery popcorn 5 euros Can I have one in each size please " Absolutely | |||
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"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc... Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' 100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down" Have been quite a few times on here. That's why I had asked for advice But the specific details in your OP made no mention of a meet. No I didn't, but I also don't tell people who I'm chatting to on here either however everyone seems to know who I was talking about. Lesson learned and think it is time to pull the plug completely on meeting anyone. Crikey who would thinking finding someone for a bit of fun and a ride every now and than be so difficult Thanks again for the suggestions, " I'm available to chat anytime op and I too would like a fwb. Message me and make it happen | |||
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" So any suggestions ladies and gents? " If they're on fab.... That's it. Just if they're on Fab. It's usually an indication | |||
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"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then. I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty. 100% agree with you I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest. A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man. 99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses. IMO the whole thing is a bloody great big joke. If you find one or two good FBs, hang onto them for dear life. I’m blessed with a few absolute gems - one for 26yrs now. Not letting him, or any of the others, go. And my female mates are the same. Hang onto the good ones. " 100% agree here | |||
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"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far. Time wasters won't be long disappearing then Sorry to hear it DD. I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick. The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site. " You might be right but then again you have to understand that there is not that many ppl here who want to txt for months and never meet up even for coffee There is lot's of ppl on fab are happy just to txt and swap pictures... | |||
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"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here I'm curious as I think my spidey senses have been off lately, chatted to a " decent" guy or so I thought, he left for family reasons however has returned and is secretly a fwb couple on here with another fabber. I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats So any suggestions ladies and gents? " Is Us twats are crafty as fuck don’t beat yourself up it happens move and fuck him | |||
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"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far. Time wasters won't be long disappearing then Sorry to hear it DD. I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick. The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site. You might be right but then again you have to understand that there is not that many ppl here who want to txt for months and never meet up even for coffee There is lot's of ppl on fab are happy just to txt and swap pictures..." I understand that perfectly . I never said I text for months tho I said I won't meet fast off here and anyone pushing me to meet within a day or so of chatting can just move on as I won't do that again. I prefer to get to know someone better and usually people start to show who they are if you chat for a while and any red flags will show as well I've found. It's the way I do my fab journey what others do is up to them but it has always worked for me the one time I met within a couple of days of chatting the guy was dodgy as hell and definitely not safe to meet. | |||
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"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far. Time wasters won't be long disappearing then Sorry to hear it DD. I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick. The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site. You might be right but then again you have to understand that there is not that many ppl here who want to txt for months and never meet up even for coffee There is lot's of ppl on fab are happy just to txt and swap pictures... I understand that perfectly . I never said I text for months tho I said I won't meet fast off here and anyone pushing me to meet within a day or so of chatting can just move on as I won't do that again. I prefer to get to know someone better and usually people start to show who they are if you chat for a while and any red flags will show as well I've found. It's the way I do my fab journey what others do is up to them but it has always worked for me the one time I met within a couple of days of chatting the guy was dodgy as hell and definitely not safe to meet. " What do you mean you won’t meet me So disappointed | |||
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"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far. Time wasters won't be long disappearing then Sorry to hear it DD. I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick. The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site. You might be right but then again you have to understand that there is not that many ppl here who want to txt for months and never meet up even for coffee There is lot's of ppl on fab are happy just to txt and swap pictures... I understand that perfectly . I never said I text for months tho I said I won't meet fast off here and anyone pushing me to meet within a day or so of chatting can just move on as I won't do that again. I prefer to get to know someone better and usually people start to show who they are if you chat for a while and any red flags will show as well I've found. It's the way I do my fab journey what others do is up to them but it has always worked for me the one time I met within a couple of days of chatting the guy was dodgy as hell and definitely not safe to meet. What do you mean you won’t meet me So disappointed " Sure we haven't chatted at all | |||
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"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then. I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty. I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest. A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man. 99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses. IMO the whole thing is a bloody great big joke. If you find one or two good FBs, hang onto them for dear life. I’m blessed with a few absolute gems - one for 26yrs now. Not letting him, or any of the others, go. And my female mates are the same. Hang onto the good ones. " this. Now if i said this i would be accused of lots. Oh is the poor lil man not getting laid by people who have the right to say no etc etc etc. Post of the year in my opinion. I love the way nobody has challenged this post. The fear of a straight talking strong woman is real. Love this post | |||
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"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all. Fake pics Verifications hidden Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends Leaving messages read but not responding for ages Goes quiet after making plans Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it. " That’s a pretty accurate list. We’d also add, go ‘Don’t Fuck with Cats’ level scrutiny on their pictures. Most fakes won’t check the small details are accurate in the background. The same also goes for ‘single males’ with multiple toothbrushes, makeup, and female products in their bathroom selfie background. Trust your instincts but they still get through. We’ve wasted considerable time on two potential boyfriends lately before we worked out they were full of shit | |||
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"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then. I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty. I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest. A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man. 99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses. IMO the whole thing is a bloody great big joke. If you find one or two good FBs, hang onto them for dear life. I’m blessed with a few absolute gems - one for 26yrs now. Not letting him, or any of the others, go. And my female mates are the same. Hang onto the good ones. this. Now if i said this i would be accused of lots. Oh is the poor lil man not getting laid by people who have the right to say no etc etc etc. Post of the year in my opinion. I love the way nobody has challenged this post. The fear of a straight talking strong woman is real. Love this post" I said something similar about 6 months ago and got a lot of gardening done during the following 48hrs. | |||
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"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then. I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty. I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest. A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man. 99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses. IMO the whole thing is a bloody great big joke. If you find one or two good FBs, hang onto them for dear life. I’m blessed with a few absolute gems - one for 26yrs now. Not letting him, or any of the others, go. And my female mates are the same. Hang onto the good ones. this. Now if i said this i would be accused of lots. Oh is the poor lil man not getting laid by people who have the right to say no etc etc etc. Post of the year in my opinion. I love the way nobody has challenged this post. The fear of a straight talking strong woman is real. Love this post I said something similar about 6 months ago and got a lot of gardening done during the following 48hrs. " It’s all in the delivery RB. | |||
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"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then. I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty. I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest. A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man. 99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses. IMO the whole thing is a bloody great big joke. If you find one or two good FBs, hang onto them for dear life. I’m blessed with a few absolute gems - one for 26yrs now. Not letting him, or any of the others, go. And my female mates are the same. Hang onto the good ones. this. Now if i said this i would be accused of lots. Oh is the poor lil man not getting laid by people who have the right to say no etc etc etc. Post of the year in my opinion. I love the way nobody has challenged this post. The fear of a straight talking strong woman is real. Love this post I said something similar about 6 months ago and got a lot of gardening done during the following 48hrs. It’s all in the delivery RB. " I was much more subtle | |||
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"Most women here wouldn't even give you the time of day so they can't be accused of wasting it.. " Why do you stay on here if you feel like that | |||
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"Most women here wouldn't even give you the time of day so they can't be accused of wasting it.. Why do you stay on here if you feel like that " cos he said most not all | |||
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" It’s all in the delivery RB. I was much more subtle " Subtlety isn’t one of my strongest points… | |||
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