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By *nknownlmk OP   Man
over a year ago

city

Hey, aside from all the naughtiest, we all know this time of year can be hard on a lot of people so setting up this post for people to engage and have a chat if they need to or even to vent , please don't judge anyone or be mean to anyone on this post ,if someone needs to talk or reach out I'm sure a few of us can try help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good post op,

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Its nice to see a post like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, aside from all the naughtiest, we all know this time of year can be hard on a lot of people so setting up this post for people to engage and have a chat if they need to or even to vent , please don't judge anyone or be mean to anyone on this post ,if someone needs to talk or reach out I'm sure a few of us can try help"

Unknown ya dog you'll be drowned in DMs from women after a gentle soul

Seriously though I was going through a tough time last year. Christmas and seeing all the joy really exasperates your own joyless void. Wouldn't wish that on anyone.

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By *nknownlmk OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Hey, aside from all the naughtiest, we all know this time of year can be hard on a lot of people so setting up this post for people to engage and have a chat if they need to or even to vent , please don't judge anyone or be mean to anyone on this post ,if someone needs to talk or reach out I'm sure a few of us can try help

Unknown ya dog you'll be drowned in DMs from women after a gentle soul

Seriously though I was going through a tough time last year. Christmas and seeing all the joy really exasperates your own joyless void. Wouldn't wish that on anyone. "

As I said not about the naughtiness, I think a lot of people are going through that every year and yeah you hit the nail on the head with your comment , but the way iv used that in my own experience is to remember you always do have someone to talk to, and if you can help someone else even in the slightest way it makes being here worth while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good post OP but it'll be hard for people to put their problems in print...so,I'll go first...just broke up with my partner of 9 years so I can relate to this...we're still friends and going out for Christmas lunch together but it'll be difficult. If anyone wants to get something off their chest then maybe they can PM me or one of you other kind fabbers can make a similar offer. Just a thought.

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By *nknownlmk OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Good post OP but it'll be hard for people to put their problems in print...so,I'll go first...just broke up with my partner of 9 years so I can relate to this...we're still friends and going out for Christmas lunch together but it'll be difficult. If anyone wants to get something off their chest then maybe they can PM me or one of you other kind fabbers can make a similar offer. Just a thought."

Ah sorry to heat that mate, but it's good it wasn't a bad break and who knows it might only be for a small period

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a super post…maybe for the time it’s going we could unblock our filters so people can DM us if they need help…tough time for so many.

Well done OP

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By *nknownlmk OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"What a super post…maybe for the time it’s going we could unblock our filters so people can DM us if they need help…tough time for so many.

Well done OP"

Can always reply privately on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t lie I’m dreading this Christmas, it’s the first one I’m going to be spending alone without family ?? (had a fallout a few months ago) I’m dreading it

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I won’t lie I’m dreading this Christmas, it’s the first one I’m going to be spending alone without family ?? (had a fallout a few months ago) I’m dreading it"

I know you didn't ask for advice but if that happened to me, I'd make sure I was out of the house for the day. Why not volunteer with a homeless charity or something similar for the day? I'm sure they'd be delighted to have you. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard about this cool Christmas day event thats held online for people who are spending the day alone.

I cant find it now though but its something like this one which I did find a link for:

citysocializer.com

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

It's never as bad as you think it will be on your own.

It passes fast enough if you keep yourself busy. Plan a bit of dinner and at least you know there won't be any fights over the TV remote.

Lots of stuff on in the community from sea swims to walks or runs.

It's like a Sunday and you do lots of them through the year so try not to over think it and it will pass.

I have done several on my own. Have done the charity feeding the poor which is hard work and with covid even more difficult.

Ignore the hype of the day and take it one day at a time and don't be afraid to drop friends a message.

And my inbox is open if you want a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good post OP but it'll be hard for people to put their problems in print...so,I'll go first...just broke up with my partner of 9 years so I can relate to this...we're still friends and going out for Christmas lunch together but it'll be difficult. If anyone wants to get something off their chest then maybe they can PM me or one of you other kind fabbers can make a similar offer. Just a thought.

Ah sorry to heat that mate, but it's good it wasn't a bad break and who knows it might only be for a small period "

Cheers m8...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a super post…maybe for the time it’s going we could unblock our filters so people can DM us if they need help…tough time for so many.

Well done OP"

Good idea m8...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's never as bad as you think it will be on your own.

It passes fast enough if you keep yourself busy. Plan a bit of dinner and at least you know there won't be any fights over the TV remote.

Lots of stuff on in the community from sea swims to walks or runs.

It's like a Sunday and you do lots of them through the year so try not to over think it and it will pass.

I have done several on my own. Have done the charity feeding the poor which is hard work and with covid even more difficult.

Ignore the hype of the day and take it one day at a time and don't be afraid to drop friends a message.

And my inbox is open if you want a chat. "

Cheers m8...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a super post…maybe for the time it’s going we could unblock our filters so people can DM us if they need help…tough time for so many.

Well done OP"

I've taken your advice and filters all open just in case....cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won’t lie I’m dreading this Christmas, it’s the first one I’m going to be spending alone without family ?? (had a fallout a few months ago) I’m dreading it

I know you didn't ask for advice but if that happened to me, I'd make sure I was out of the house for the day. Why not volunteer with a homeless charity or something similar for the day? I'm sure they'd be delighted to have you. Good luck "

I’m oncall for a blue light charity 24/7, kind of deep down I’m hoping I get called, I hope not but I really don’t want to be alone this year ?? thank you so much for the words and the advice is really appreciated ??

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I won’t lie I’m dreading this Christmas, it’s the first one I’m going to be spending alone without family ?? (had a fallout a few months ago) I’m dreading it

I know you didn't ask for advice but if that happened to me, I'd make sure I was out of the house for the day. Why not volunteer with a homeless charity or something similar for the day? I'm sure they'd be delighted to have you. Good luck

I’m oncall for a blue light charity 24/7, kind of deep down I’m hoping I get called, I hope not but I really don’t want to be alone this year ?? thank you so much for the words and the advice is really appreciated ?? "

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By *nknownlmk OP   Man
over a year ago

city

See this is the kind If stuff people need, and thank you for everyone that posted so far

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By *nknownlmk OP   Man
over a year ago

city

How are everyone getting on with the stress of this time of year

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