FabSwingers.com forum: No shows

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are no shows really such a huge problem on here.

I find that mad as I’m a genuine guy who usually has to hustle his little boxers off to make a meet happen in the first place. (Pun intended)

If I can’t make it I always like to give as much notice as possible…don’t know why anybody would turn down the sexy people on here

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Never had a no-show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had someone not show up either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't a party we organised but we were the only couple that showed out of 4. I get very annoyed when lads pull put of astro so when people pull out of meets that annoyance gets doubled at least I'd bet

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Everyone is genuine ...even the ones that don't show according to their profile

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

"Never had a no-show "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh its a serious problem. Ive lost count of the amount of no shows. Even from well verified people too and after chatting to them on the phone.had 2 no shows for socials today after driving 30miles for one in that weather gurrr

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Never had anyone not show up but have been cancelled on lot's of times especially at the last minute i was to leave meet them...

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By *ightower2021Man
over a year ago

donegal

Its not just the men that don't turn up had few no shows let downs from women myself an they act as if its ok that they don't even need to offer an excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had just one on this profile. Rather a no show then a pest. Less annoying.

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

Had a few ....

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never had one and never been one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No show like No Show!

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

thank goodness I've never had a no show...

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I've had a good few no shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thank goodness I've never had a no show... "

I’d show up given the chance

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Personal meets only had one no show

Parties and m&g 100s of them

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By *unnerbenMan
over a year ago

Dublin / Cork

Unfortunately I have had a few no shows over the years . Very annoying and frustrating .

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Never had anyone not show up but have been cancelled on lot's of times especially at the last minute i was to leave meet them...

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I wouldnt cancel or not show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a huge amount of meets since I joined, but haven't experienced a no show yet thankfully. Had a last minute cancellation though

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

"thank goodness I've never had a no show...

I’d show up given the chance

you had bloody better ya brat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a few no shows (from well verified profiles), and was even blocked by some of them after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had anyone not show up but have been cancelled on lot's of times especially at the last minute i was to leave meet them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh its a serious problem. Ive lost count of the amount of no shows. Even from well verified people too and after chatting to them on the phone.had 2 no shows for socials today after driving 30miles for one in that weather gurrr"

Two and in that bloody weather, that is just rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two and in that bloody weather, that is just rude. "

Tell me about it sat in the car for 45mins. Thought my nipples were gonna fall off

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I’ve never been on either end of a no show either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very disappointing offs lads.did any ladies show. Fair play for driving.

I've had no shows. I don't worry too much about it. But at least message if not going to make it

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By *eeingWhatsHere21Man
over a year ago

Northside

Let downs/no-shows happen far more frequently then you'd think. I've endured both kinds of experiences with men but so far have only been let down by one woman.

It is an insanely discouraging experience to go through. It's like being gaslighted but it's by ghosts you wanted to sleep with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very disappointing offs lads.did any ladies show. Fair play for driving.

I've had no shows. I don't worry too much about it. But at least message if not going to make it "

Exactly a message to say no sorry not gonna make it before i drove wouldnt have gone a miss but hey wont put me off

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By *oubtingtomasMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Just one no show. I'm a stickler for punctuality so it's annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hearing about no shows really annoys me. After putting in all the work and then not to show up or for someone to cancel last minute has to be soul destroying. I can tell you that if I get half a chance to meet someone i won’t be letting anyone down.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

So far anyhow I've never had a no show thank goodness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far anyhow I've never had a no show thank goodness. "

I can see why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a no show for either a meet or coffee. Did have a very late cancellation after I’d turned down another meet for the cancelled one.

Couldn’t cancel the room so went and checked in and left

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By *readfred2019Man
over a year ago

Can you see me waving

Really… that’s just not acceptable as it is very easy to let someone know they can’t make it.. but two no shows!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really… that’s just not acceptable as it is very easy to let someone know they can’t make it.. but two no shows!!

Wouldnt care if it was nice weather but it wasnt.

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By *readfred2019Man
over a year ago

Can you see me waving

Really… that’s just not acceptable as it is very easy to let someone know they can’t make it.. but two no shows!!

Wouldnt care if it was nice weather but it wasnt.

A boot in the doot or dooter if your ever get to see them lol

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I got cancelled on last min because his cow got loose and ran down the lane and he'd to go chase it

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I got cancelled on last min because his cow got loose and ran down the lane and he'd to go chase it

Pull the udder one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got cancelled on last min because his cow got loose and ran down the lane and he'd to go chase it

What!!!!!

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By *j2000Man
over a year ago

mayo

"I got cancelled on last min because his cow got loose and ran down the lane and he'd to go chase it

Feck the cow she'll be there later, he even knew where she went

Im never that lucky! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some dickheads on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had a few no shows (from well verified profiles), and was even blocked by some of them after lol"
Must been your big nipples that scared them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some dickheads on here lol"

There certainly is.

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By *j2000Man
over a year ago

mayo

Had 2 no shows in November alone for no reason, had 1 girl cancel for the 4th time for later this week (have met few times already)

Cant meet at drop of a hat if you need bag of tricks with ya.

Im no George Clooney but average fella and it does get you down tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had 2 no shows in November alone for no reason, had 1 girl cancel for the 4th time for later this week (have met few times already)

Cant meet at drop of a hat if you need bag of tricks with ya.

Im no George Clooney but average fella and it does get you down tho

Yep I hear ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two and in that bloody weather, that is just rude.

I hope they where not from Bangor because that is not representing to well

Tell me about it sat in the car for 45mins. Thought my nipples were gonna fall off"

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

"I got cancelled on last min because his cow got loose and ran down the lane and he'd to go chase it

He's milking it there Lolly do you not think

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

I'd only one meet not turn up few years back and had to cancel another virtually last minute for reasons far out of my control

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve had a few no shows (from well verified profiles), and was even blocked by some of them after lol"

You are literally the pinnacle of the kind of girl I’d love to meet. I swear I’d walk to wherever you want to meet

I can drive but I’m. Just stressing the point

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Have had lots

And lots of arrangements made to meet and then profile disappeared

And all chat right up to meeting and then nothing and two hours after oh my cat, budgie, granny bla bla bla was not well,

But had some great meets as well.

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By *alwayguy2020Man
over a year ago

near trien

"I’ve had a few no shows (from well verified profiles), and was even blocked by some of them after lol"

They must have been less then the 6ft requirement restrictions

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

We've had no shows, we get that shit happens but when you get 3 in a row it becomes tiresome. Especially when we've organised babysitters etc.

Frustrating part is when the no show is one of the guys who has previously told you - "I can't believe you were let down, I'd never let you down if I got a chance to meet you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last week I only had a guy just ghost me after organizing to meet the Friday night! Full of promises and how much of an amazing night we’d have lol!!! It happens here for sure

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Can't think of any - I might have had cancellations, but have been notified in advance.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I had a FB not show up for an MFM. he couldn’t even be bothered to message and explain. Just went radio silent. Rude.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I remember a certain fabber starting a thread complaining about a no show ...you can see where this is going can't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of cancellations, one last minute and one with a few hours notice at least.

Things happen and it sucks, we all get that. But some people seem to get off on hooking you in and they then lose interest. Such is online chatter though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened me last week , it's very frustrating but don't take it personally ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a Plan B option....like they announce in Croke Park on All Ireland final days.

A Fógra....Stewards....Plan B!

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I don't usually have no shows as such but I decided to do a little experiment over the weekend and arranged coffee meets with 5 people that had been asking me to meet them for months. Not 1 of those coffee meets happened. They all had a last minute reason to cancel. I find a lot of guys like the idea of a meet but back out when push comes to shove.

I did have a lovely last minute coffee meet with someone else that made up for the others though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't usually have no shows as such but I decided to do a little experiment over the weekend and arranged coffee meets with 5 people that had been asking me to meet them for months. Not 1 of those coffee meets happened. They all had a last minute reason to cancel. I find a lot of guys like the idea of a meet but back out when push comes to shove.

I did have a lovely last minute coffee meet with someone else that made up for the others though.

Nice at least ya got to have a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a Plan B option....like they announce in Croke Park on All Ireland final days.

A Fógra....Stewards....Plan B!"

always have a plan B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a Plan B option....like they announce in Croke Park on All Ireland final days.

A Fógra....Stewards....Plan B!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get my high viz and dress like the steward so....

#gaaroleplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High viz and nothing else....

(Ok I'll stop now)

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By *ancylaceloverTV/TS
over a year ago

Limerick

Par of the course on fabswingers.

I see a lot of posters saying it has never happened that they have never had a no show. Hopefully that will be a fact of their fabswingers experience, but I think, it just hasn't happened YET

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Not yet - obviously not scary enough

(have to work on that)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet - obviously not scary enough

(have to work on that)..."

Far to sexy although still scary.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I got cancelled on last min because his cow got loose and ran down the lane and he'd to go chase it

Sounds like a cock and bull tale

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By *alway19Man
over a year ago

galway/ Westmeath

Not had any no shows but then again iv only had 4 meets in total.

Maybe I need to expand my search

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Not had any no shows but then again iv only had 4 meets in total.

Maybe I need to expand my search "

I hear Carlow is a nice spot just saying like

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Couple of no-shows alright. Arriving back home after a 2 hour round trip for absolutely no reason can be a bit disheartening to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its happened to me!!! Just one of those things ?? guess

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"How about a Plan B option....like they announce in Croke Park on All Ireland final days.

A Fógra....Stewards....Plan B!"

Seems that's a lot of people do set up a plan B but when the plan A comes through then the plan B obviously gets a fairly late notice pfo.

Not saying you that's what you were thinking, just how much of a minefield it seems to be for people.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"How about a Plan B option....like they announce in Croke Park on All Ireland final days.

A Fógra....Stewards....Plan B!"

I wouldn't meet anyone with a plan B even if I was plan A.

If you're not invested enough in meeting me or don't believe I'll turn up then please skip A and go straight to B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a Plan B option....like they announce in Croke Park on All Ireland final days.

A Fógra....Stewards....Plan B!

I wouldn't meet anyone with a plan B even if I was plan A.

If you're not invested enough in meeting me or don't believe I'll turn up then please skip A and go straight to B. "

I would've be crazy about the idea of being someones plan B so can't say ive ever had someone on standby just in case.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"I remember a certain fabber starting a thread complaining about a no show ...you can see where this is going can't you

I SAID SORRY!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember a certain fabber starting a thread complaining about a no show ...you can see where this is going can't you

I SAID SORRY!!!!

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

We've had a few no shows , we even organised an orgy in a hotel for R with 5 guys and not 1 showed up and not even a message to say they wouldn't make it lol

And that's not the first time a hotel we booked went to waste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had a few no shows , we even organised an orgy in a hotel for R with 5 guys and not 1 showed up and not even a message to say they wouldn't make it lol

And that's not the first time a hotel we booked went to waste.

Stupid gobshites. That really pisses me off to hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of the site ubfort. Iv had two couples in last few months being a no show. It sucks

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I remember a certain fabber starting a thread complaining about a no show ...you can see where this is going can't you

I SAID SORRY!!!!

I know but it was funny

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"I remember a certain fabber starting a thread complaining about a no show ...you can see where this is going can't you

I SAID SORRY!!!!

I know but it was funny

Rob a meet

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"Never had anyone not show up but have been cancelled on lot's of times especially at the last minute i was to leave meet them...

I'll say nothing lol

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"thank goodness I've never had a no show...

I’d show up given the chance

you had bloody better ya brat

He says that like anyone else wouldn't be the same lol

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

We’ve been generally very lucky but easily 5 or 6 no shows in last 4 yrs. All AWOL for the first social meet for us. The social meet is a must for us for that very reason - to out the bluffers.

The profile can often be hidden from us or get deleted altogether when we subsequently check on it.

A genuine reason for being as lathair and/or some effort at remorse for standing us up has resulted in rescheduling so we haven’t included these in out ‘no show’ numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had a few no shows , we even organised an orgy in a hotel for R with 5 guys and not 1 showed up and not even a message to say they wouldn't make it lol

And that's not the first time a hotel we booked went to waste.

You should of contact me as I m always on call lol

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By *teppenwolfMan
over a year ago

Cork

"We’ve been generally very lucky but easily 5 or 6 no shows in last 4 yrs. All AWOL for the first social meet for us. The social meet is a must for us for that very reason - to out the bluffers.

The profile can often be hidden from us or get deleted altogether when we subsequently check on it.

A genuine reason for being as lathair and/or some effort at remorse for standing us up has resulted in rescheduling so we haven’t included these in out ‘no show’ numbers."

Having looked at your orofile the loss was definately theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one a couple of weeks ago but I happens ya move on never take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few, one that turned up looked at me and left. Last one texted 20 kins after we were to meet to say he couldn't meet as he had dislocated his shoulder, it must be still dislocated not a word since.

No more travelling for socials for me. Lesson learned

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I've never had a no show. Sure everyone loves custard creams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to arrange a no show for anyone who hasn't yet expirianced them.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Had one but I never organised it

My friend did for a mfm apparently he was on his way, then radio silence. Maybe he's still on his way

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Had one but I never organised it

My friend did for a mfm apparently he was on his way, then radio silence. Maybe he's still on his way

What a silly boy to miss such an opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one recently where he didn't show because he had a work emergency but couldn't let me know till the next morning because his own phone was dead and his work phone didn't have Internet

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

It happens but that life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy to arrange a no show for anyone who hasn't yet expirianced them."

Haha this one is class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one recently where he didn't show because he had a work emergency but couldn't let me know till the next morning because his own phone was dead and his work phone didn't have Internet

Well I just want to let you know my phone is always charged and always have internet

Just in case if you need someone for your next meet...

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

"I had one recently where he didn't show because he had a work emergency but couldn't let me know till the next morning because his own phone was dead and his work phone didn't have Internet

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wow they have to be the most genuine lying excuses I've ever heard ,it's sad to hear he let you down ,your very attractive ,I'd bead to let you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shows are rare, what is more likely for us is that they cry off at the very last minute. Even with a plan B the same thing is likely. It seems to us that once they've got their quota of risky texts and a few pics then they haven't the nerve to go through with it. All in their pretty little heads.

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