FabSwingers.com forum: New to the site/scene any advice?

By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

New to the site and to the scene was introduced by another member and im

glad been taking to some really nice people happy fab’n

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Effort and patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be extremely patient

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

Manners maketh the man. Be patient, respectful and discreet. After that have fun.

Welcome to the madness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only started here a couple of months back but you can learn a lot

1) Dming is just gonna annoy people. Try find interesting topics or banter with people in the forum. Even if it's not a direct convo some people will start noticing you eventually.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Just be yourself and if they don’t like it feck them

have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to people on forums, Be polite , Be normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get on here sending messages with a d*unk horn on ya?

Doesn't work....

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a bit of craic on the forums and hopefully it’ll get you noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a sense of humour and don't analyse everything to death.

It's supposed to be fun , it can get like prime ministers questions here sometimes.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Welcome to the weird and wonderful world of fab get involved on the forum page and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Decent profile, a couple of good pictures and avoid the forums.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Welcome

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Welcome

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thank you

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Effort and patience. "
thanks I’ll try ??

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Manners maketh the man. Be patient, respectful and discreet. After that have fun.

Welcome to the madness. "
thank you

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Be extremely patient "
thank you

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy rather than endure, acceptance of no replies be social try get to parties to get to know people. Patience and tolerance can prove difficult at times but try work on that as is needed. And of course welcome aboard the love train.

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Only started here a couple of months back but you can learn a lot

1) Dming is just gonna annoy people. Try find interesting topics or banter with people in the forum. Even if it's not a direct convo some people will start noticing you eventually. Great advice thank you

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Just be yourself and if they don’t like it feck them

have fun

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Talk to people on forums, Be polite , Be normal."
thank you

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Dont get on here sending messages with a d*unk horn on ya?

Doesn't work....

I know

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haha noted thank you

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Have a sense of humour and don't analyse everything to death.

It's supposed to be fun , it can get like prime ministers questions here sometimes.

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haha thank you

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Welcome to the weird and wonderful world of fab get involved on the forum page and enjoy

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thank you ?? I will ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people decline your offer don't ask "why not?".

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Welcome

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thank you ??

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Decent profile, a couple of good pictures and avoid the forums.

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thank you

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Welcome

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thank you ??

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"When people decline your offer don't ask "why not?"."
ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get involved in the drama

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By *abeWMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny

following this cause I'm in the same boat and taking notes. thanks OP and everyone firing advice.

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"following this cause I'm in the same boat and taking notes. thanks OP and everyone firing advice. "
no worries buddy best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Figure out what you want from fab.

Loads of people say we are all here for the same thing but that's just not true.

Are you interested in the social side of the song community for example would lead you in a much different direction than someone who just wants some one to one casual fun

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Figure out what you want from fab.

Loads of people say we are all here for the same thing but that's just not true.

Are you interested in the social side of the song community for example would lead you in a much different direction than someone who just wants some one to one casual fun"
thank you it is a strange but wonderful place I’m very interested in the social side of things but I’m always open to new things too.

There is events coming up so hopefully I’ll be lucky enough to get a space at one or two of them.

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By *ullseye100 OP Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"Enjoy rather than endure, acceptance of no replies be social try get to parties to get to know people. Patience and tolerance can prove difficult at times but try work on that as is needed. And of course welcome aboard the love train.

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lol thank you for your advice ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"following this cause I'm in the same boat and taking notes. thanks OP and everyone firing advice. "

Same as yourself above. I'm liking all the positive replies to this thread. I've only been on fab a few months myself but I'm already getting a good sense of community on here.

Looking forward to meeting some friendly positive people!

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