FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest profile turnoff for guys.

By *on Draper2.0 OP Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

This one is for the lads.

What, if anything, is most likely to turn you off a lady's profile and make you less likely to go beyond the initial profile viewing.

For me, it's those souvenir photos from the most recent gynaecological exam. No judgement however, if anyone wants to make those type of pics public viewing, it's not my business. I just don't find them appealing.

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By *on Draper2.0 OP Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

In the interests of inclusion, i probably should have included ladies who like ladies too for responses. Apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gimp mask

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By *on Draper2.0 OP Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"A gimp mask

On a woman???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! I've seen a few

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By *on Draper2.0 OP Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"Yeah! I've seen a few

I've not seen any on here myself but I wouldn't find it a turn off. It wouldn't turn me on either but I could work with it lol.

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick

Arrogance in profile description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking for ppm ..payment per meet !!… a new to me abbreviation in fairness but jasus that’s annoying

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age. That's always the first thing I look at and if they are below my age filters I don't even bother reading their profile or looking at the pics.

Beyond that, anything that isn't consistent between their words and pics or overuse of the word I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles soaked in condescending arrogance .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking you to include a pic when she has none up herself

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Profiles that concentrate on what they aren't looking for rather than what they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude and bad vocabulary.Hundreds of verifications and the big long lists of do's and don'ts.

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

Arrogance , a lot of women on here think they are so special and in demand because of how many men in her are messaging them on a daily basis which can make them more arrogant and up themselves which I personally find a turn off .

Just my opinion , not looking for a row .

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Arrogance accompanied with a whole list of requirements we must satisfy

I find this annoying as can you imagine if a man had same time mine in his profile he would be lambasted.

Here’s a funny one for you all to highlight the unfairness

Try to imagine the Beyoncé song where she sings “you must not know bout me.could have another you in a minute.in fact hel be here in a minute”

Now try imagine a male pop star singing that whole song.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profiles soaked in condescending arrogance ."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 21/11/21 08:33:26]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of replies about negative profiles. Have to say that I agree that there are a lot here. Not sure why because if they are getting so many bad experiences, why stay? I don't know why people would want to meet anyone who is drawing up a list of dos and donrs.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Asking for ppm ..payment per meet !!… a new to me abbreviation in fairness but jasus that’s annoying "
havnt seen this is there much of it about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking for ppm ..payment per meet !!… a new to me abbreviation in fairness but jasus that’s annoying havnt seen this is there much of it about"

Shocking. And what are their rates?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Asking for ppm ..payment per meet !!… a new to me abbreviation in fairness but jasus that’s annoying havnt seen this is there much of it about

Shocking. And what are their rates?

Asking for a friend ....fixed that for you

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I like a profile that entertains informs and gives a peek into the personality if the person behind it, I hate a profile that is more a list of demands and hoops to jump trough. Asking for face pics with the first msg is a turn off and never going to happen unless I can get a pic of a pug approved of course the quest goes on

. Will fill in later like WTF at least give us something to work with u want decent opening mails at least tell us if your after more than missionary

. If the pics only contain tits and gaping gash expect nothing more than fancy a fook mail at least let us study the back round to the pic and then we can chat about the messy floor and is that really a 12 inch dildo on the night stand and does it fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably profiles of single females with no pics that are actually guys would be my pet hate on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming from a womans perspective, I would have to agree with the list of dos and donts being ridiculous!

When checking out verification profiles some women have whole essays

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By *hemanforallseasonsMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Anything in the description that portrays a negative attitude. Likely the description is justified from a frustration in the content of the messages they have received, and that’s undeniable and even understandable. But it is a big turn off all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance , a lot of women on here think they are so special and in demand because of how many men in her are messaging them on a daily basis which can make them more arrogant and up themselves which I personally find a turn off .

Just my opinion , not looking for a row . "

I completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude and bad vocabulary.Hundreds of verifications and the big long lists of do's and don'ts."

You wouldn't have liked my old profile so. I had racked up an awful lot from sitting around drinking tea and Jameson at socials chatting to people.

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By *entlegiant64Man
over a year ago

craigavon

No photos ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gash pictures

Jay

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By *on Draper2.0 OP Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Another pet hate of mine is when the profile only talks about what you're not to do, what they don't like or has a load of conditions. How are you supposed to get any inkling about the kind of person they really are from that? It's all negative.

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

Some bullshit written profile about respecting her, saying she's picky, then clicking the first Veri and it's a BBC gangbang profile and they don't use condoms and the girl in the first pic has her tattoos.

Why not just be honest, it won't out the men off, will turn them on.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

NO SINGLE GUYS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gash pictures

Jay"

Aahh Love em

Da clash of da Gash!

Just doesn't sound da same with bamboo

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"NO SINGLE GUYS"

But daily viewing of your profile !!

I am not a piece of meat . Actually let me think about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of manners.

Just this morning asked a couple on the “meet today” if they were seeking a male for today as their profile indicates they are interested in males. No reply just blocked.

It’s nice to be nice. Maybe I’m naive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion , not looking for a row .

I completely agree "

With women it’s preferences but with us it’s discrimination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the site a year with 1 cam verification.

On the the site a year with 1 meet verification.

There just no goes for me.

They noramly come with a lisy of terms and conditions.

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By *on Draper2.0 OP Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Ladies, have your say now. Are the boys being snowflakes or is what they say reasonable?

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

Anything with 'Daddy' in it. Turns me and makes me feel like i need to go and wash my eyeballs out

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By *quinnMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Arrogant, demanding profiles. Usually finished with 'I'm really nice though'

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

"Ladies, have your say now. Are the boys being snowflakes or is what they say reasonable?"

Will have to have a look at mine now. Jasus, cause I am lovely really

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

"Ladies, have your say now. Are the boys being snowflakes or is what they say reasonable?

Will have to have a look at mine now. Jasus, cause I am lovely really

It IS a nice nipple in fairness

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

I’d say all these “turns offs” aren’t dealbreakers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the site a year with 1 cam verification.

On the the site a year with 1 meet verification.

There just no goes for me.

They noramly come with a lisy of terms and conditions. "

Sometimes it can take us girls a while to settle in and feel comfortable to go meeting though!

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

"Ladies, have your say now. Are the boys being snowflakes or is what they say reasonable?

Will have to have a look at mine now. Jasus, cause I am lovely really

It IS a nice nipple in fairness

Tut tut,. But thanks kindly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of cum on them, why??

Just don't get it...

It ain't mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profiles soaked in condescending arrogance ."

This

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By *acd03Man
over a year ago

Naughtyville

"Profiles soaked in condescending arrogance .

This

Aye, there are a few with a significant aura of cuntistry about them

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

a lot of what the lads are saying is kinda true.. I myself don't do arrogance ( I do hope none of ye think this from mine)

however maybe the ladies are just fed up with saying no no no over and over again so they pop up the list ...

only this week I had to tell one guy if he didn't stop messaging me I was going to have to block him as every day it was an essay, I did say maybe he wasn't aware he was doing it however he said " you said no yesterday and the day before but this is a new day '

I merely mentioned the block for both our sakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No single guys. Yet I’ve had loads of single women look at my profile.

Totally outrageous expectations.

Age limit. Especially if the woman is only a couple of years younger.

Arrogant profiles.

Asking for a pic in the first message.

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By *ultryDivaWoman
over a year ago

north county

I agree with everything said above. There is a lot of arrogance because of the male/female ratio. Inflated ego for some women. Pure princess syndrome.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

A blank profile.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Well verified profiles with lots of great pics and a half decent bio but aren't capable of reading.

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By *haggy_bearMan
over a year ago

Sligo

If she states is looking for hung guys.

Probs not gonna message her then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with everything said above. There is a lot of arrogance because of the male/female ratio. Inflated ego for some women. Pure princess syndrome. "

Absolutely fantastic boobs by the way

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine

I can’t see yours cos your profile is hiding on me.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Mine

I can’t see yours cos your profile is hiding on me.

Exactly

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Titty Pics id imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Titty Pics id imagine

Yours are an exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine

I can’t see yours cos your profile is hiding on me.

Exactly

Why? What did I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think my profile needs some serious updating!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. It's grand.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The list could be lengthy, but the principal one is where a profile has been thrown together,in haste, with little thought, poor spelling and grammar, etc.

The best profiles concisely and clearly outline what the individual has to offer and have been carefully crafted with thought.

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

The...no face pic in first message ... no reply or if you can't accommodate don't contact...photos that lack class...leave something to the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with everything said above. There is a lot of arrogance because of the male/female ratio. Inflated ego for some women. Pure princess syndrome. "

This 100%

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The will meet age range 18 - 99, you message and it gets deleted and you probably get blocked. I read profiles and if I am not what they are looking for I don't message. Period.

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

1) Full frontal photos that show nothing else akin to a gyno exam.

2) couples asking for meets but few to NO photos of the guy

3) photos from 1987 in 2021

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Battle of the sexes continues I see....yawnnnnnnnnnm.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I have standards"

No use to me so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Novellas.... what's the point? Why does anyone think they are necessary

Oh and ending with the disclaimer...

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By *o_armagh_manMan
over a year ago

Banbridge Area

Pictures of the ladies ass covered in bruises with a title, he left his mark on me.. Or the likes...

Each to their own but but I have no intentions of leaving any marks on a lady and in no way find it attractive or a turn on

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

SW18 London

Put this word in the subject bar to show you’ve read my profile.

Face pic with message or instant block.

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

I'd like to think we are exactly what we say on the tin.. and explain what we're about hopefully in a nice way... (although grammar police would lock me up straight away.. let's lay dyslexia out there..lol)but I suppose it depends on your perspectives... I lose the will to live with blank profile, fill in later but send friend request & or want photos straight away. Oh & close up dick or cooter shots... the style of someone's clothes, backgrounds, the way the take photos & present themselves tells a lot about people & will decide if we contact them or not.

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

Does looking at people's verifications sometimes put yous off?

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By *on Draper2.0 OP Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"Does looking at people's verifications sometimes put yous off? "

They do if she's happy to put up ones that make her out to be a total (insert word for lady of leisure here)

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

SW18 London

"Does looking at people's verifications sometimes put yous off? "

I look at the verifications to see if I match up to the previous people they’ve been with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does looking at people's verifications sometimes put yous off? "

Sometimes the unnecessarily graphic descriptions put me off a bit. Then again if she chooses to publish it then….. it’s probably what I want to do

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

"Does looking at people's verifications sometimes put yous off?

I look at the verifications to see if I match up to the previous people they’ve been with. "

Agreed, we would very much be same

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Gyno pics of internals and the only reply to face pics bullshit.

Go fuck yerself luv

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