FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the singles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who have ever truly been in love?

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By *ightower2021Man
over a year ago

donegal

I was an was stupid enough to marry the bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and it was a long time ago. Thought it happened again a while ago but no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once, and I moved away because I didnt think I could give her the life she deserved. Always regretted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love and the memories, they sparkling like diamonds,

When the diamonds fall, they burn like tears, when the diamonds fall, they burn like tears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once, some years ago. She swepr me off my feet and I thought "this is it"

However after a few months it began to unravel and it ended some time after rather devisively with us really falling out with each other. We've lost contact and I'm happy we have.

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

I've thought I was in love a few times as I was in my teens and early twenties but on reflection I think that was more a manifestation of the deep seated sense of lack I felt and which lead to alcoholism. I was looking for someone to make me feel better.

When I got sober and was living in a Buddhist centre I fell in love with a woman who was 9 years older than me. Comparing that to all the other experiences, I would say that was the only time I've been 'in love'. It didn't work out though bcos she wanted to have kids pretty soon and I knew I wasn't ready.

My thoughts on love have since changed and now I feel that polyamory is right for me and, in hindsight, always has been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I think it should be called lust, not love

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By *lose_encounterMan
over a year ago

Cork city

you never lost your mind. if you never followed your heart

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By *ysticalWoman
over a year ago

north wexford

Been in love twice in my life and the rest was just lust

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah once or twice but happier single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was, feelings have gone but have kids so will still have to put up with the shit and manipulation for years to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never been in love and never been loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have but i got cheated on. I was so in love with her it broke my heart when I found out she cheated on me.To this day I struggled to trust.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Maybe in love but at the wrong time

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Nope never been in love and never been loved"

I’m sure that’s not completely true….

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By *ightower2021Man
over a year ago

donegal

"I was, feelings have gone but have kids so will still have to put up with the shit and manipulation for years to come."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment I meet him I new I was going to marry him one day, it was love at first sight. Ironically I was going out with someone else but nothing happened till my ex and I broke up. We ended 4 years ago, I still love him but I got sick with depression and self sabotaged the relationship and regret it to this day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment I meet him I new I was going to marry him one day, it was love at first sight. Ironically I was going out with someone else but nothing happened till my ex and I broke up. We ended 4 years ago, I still love him but I got sick with depression and self sabotaged the relationship and regret it to this day! "
if you love him/her tell them don't regret it for the rest of your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment I meet him I new I was going to marry him one day, it was love at first sight. Ironically I was going out with someone else but nothing happened till my ex and I broke up. We ended 4 years ago, I still love him but I got sick with depression and self sabotaged the relationship and regret it to this day! if you love him/her tell them don't regret it for the rest of your life "

We have a child together and are best friends now. I cheated on him and he will never trust me again. I don't do relationships now and maybe one day we will work back together but for now he just wants to be friends! So I may respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope never been in love and never been loved

I’m sure that’s not completely true….

Ah I know I have family and friends that love me but I've never had a partner love me

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Nope never been in love and never been loved

I’m sure that’s not completely true….

Ah I know I have family and friends that love me but I've never had a partner love me"
sending some love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moment I meet him I new I was going to marry him one day, it was love at first sight. Ironically I was going out with someone else but nothing happened till my ex and I broke up. We ended 4 years ago, I still love him but I got sick with depression and self sabotaged the relationship and regret it to this day! if you love him/her tell them don't regret it for the rest of your life

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Nope never been in love what is love anyway i enjoy the single life always have always will just because you have never been in love doesnt meab you have never experienced love love comes in all different ways

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qdzbjUWu2VU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" If you love somebody , set them free "

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Yeah once or twice but happier single lol "

This

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I think we really need to restart this thread with a definition of love; that is love for a partner, not the love for one's child, nor the love for one's parents, nor the love for one's siblings.

What does the love for one's partner entail?

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8s8W4y4/

Thought this was spot on maybe just for me

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we really need to restart this thread with a definition of love; that is love for a partner, not the love for one's child, nor the love for one's parents, nor the love for one's siblings.

What does the love for one's partner entail?

The 3 things below

Respect

Trust

Affection

Mixed in with good communication, feeling at ease, willingness to compromise & an ability to grow together!

Ebs and flows eh

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By *innerboy86Man
over a year ago

on the border

No I've been in lust a few times but that's not really the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quote I heard recently hit home with me

One of the most fucked up things the universe can do to you

Is meet the right person at the completely wrong time

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

No, just a psychopath who likes to have sex now and again.

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By *ig Marko83Man
over a year ago

Co Dublin

Fell in love was in extacy for over 20yrs fell outa love OMG talk about crash and burning horrible mentally and financially but you get there in the end

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By *aughty9ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I fell in love with a crazy girl who would sleep with any one if I wasn't around destroyed me mentally as I tryed everything to stay with her.

That lead me to hook up with someone he was very safe and vanilla I learnt how to love her which is why we didn't last but to answer your question yes I've truly been in love and knowing how much it can mess with me mentally I don't want to do it again anytime soon

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By *reblejeff81Man
over a year ago

galway city

Real love can't be broken my friends .

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Who have ever truly been in love?"

Huge difference between being "in love" and actually loving someone!

I've been hurt, let's put it that way - but was I just fooling myself, or was he? I know I have done the hurting too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, been 'in love' a few times, thats nice and easy, lets walk on fluffy clouds and have great sex.

Ive 'loved' and been loved once or twice, thats hard - lets see each others darkness and take it as worth it on balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loved a few times my problem has been I've given it to the wrong people. There was one beautiful woman who loved me with all her heart and if I gave it back as much as I got it, it would have been amazing.

Unfortunately, we don't realise this stuff until its too late.

I married the wrong person and have been stuck in limbo for nearly 3 years as a consequence.

I doubt I'm the only one.

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