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"White knighting is the biggest turn off" I said something you wouldn't normally say | |||
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"Name dropping just makes you look a bigger dick. " My good friend Gandhi told me the same thing | |||
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"White knighting is the biggest turn off I said something you wouldn't normally say " That’s a non existent list | |||
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"Given the ratios , that’s it’s not a fair and equitable world , and that no one owes you a shag , what are you doing to stand out from the crowd ? " I am owed a shag so there lol | |||
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think: Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids Is this bringing anything to the thread Should this in fact be done in PM Ahhhh that feels better" You haven’t to be fair , kept that one to yourself previously | |||
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think: Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids Is this bringing anything to the thread Should this in fact be done in PM Ahhhh that feels better You haven’t to be fair , kept that one to yourself previously " A less filtered version | |||
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"To the lads 1. Pay genuine compliments but don't kiss ass 2. Having an opinion and a backbone can be an attractive trait Don't think you're winning brownie points by agreeing with someone you fancy on the forums. They see through that sh1t man ..fast! 3. Enjoy the chats and interactions but don't take Fab too seriously Women and couples may talk for 2 weeks then ignore, delete or block all your messages on a whim unless you look like Brad Pitt (...which fortunately I do ....JOKE!!!! ) 4. If a woman is keen on a Monday that doesn't mean she's keen on Saturday night Revert to point 3 5. Don't go from 0-120 in 3 seconds. With 0 being looking at her profile ...and 120 being posting over your favourite cock pic that looks huge coz you got the angle "just right" 6. READ THE DAMN PROFILE as knowing a little bit more than a pic of her having a pert ass might come in useful " yes yes yes | |||
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" To the ladies 1. Don't IMMEDIATELY delete the well crafted message we just cut, pasted and send over to you as this equates to "rejection" to most men (I kid you not ). This is followed by the utterence of the "c" or "b" word by the man (Am I right or am I right lads?? ) Instead, leave the message and delete it later This will make your life a lot easier on FAB 2. Sending us "LOL" gives us f-all response so don't be annoying 3....and also Don't be a diva. Yes we realise that you get 350 messages a day but let's face it most of them are the culmination of all the neanderthal throglodytes you met at all the nightclubs at 3am over the last 10 years so what's a quality problem to you is a quantity problem to us 4. Also "Will fill in later" "New to this" "..." and the worst of them all... "I'm a 30 year old straight woman looking to meet men" and then receiving 500 messages with attached cock pics as a result SERVES YOU RIGHT! Make an effort and we'll call a truce with the "cock pic invasion" Deal???! " No deal | |||
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" To the ladies 1. Don't IMMEDIATELY delete the well crafted message we just cut, pasted and send over to you as this equates to "rejection" to most men (I kid you not ). This is followed by the utterence of the "c" or "b" word by the man (Am I right or am I right lads?? ) Instead, leave the message and delete it later This will make your life a lot easier on FAB 2. Sending us "LOL" gives us f-all response so don't be annoying 3....and also Don't be a diva. Yes we realise that you get 350 messages a day but let's face it most of them are the culmination of all the neanderthal throglodytes you met at all the nightclubs at 3am over the last 10 years so what's a quality problem to you is a quantity problem to us 4. Also "Will fill in later" "New to this" "..." and the worst of them all... "I'm a 30 year old straight woman looking to meet men" and then receiving 500 messages with attached cock pics as a result SERVES YOU RIGHT! Make an effort and we'll call a truce with the "cock pic invasion" Deal???! " im weak here laughing | |||
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"If you have to keep telling people how great you are and how better you are than all the others on here of your gender chances are you really aren't all that at all. " Its OK to tell them how genuine and discreet I am though ya? | |||
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"Whats some advice you would like to give people that you can't give on direct response to a thread or post because of politeness or fear of a ban. People when you post about your favorite fabbers and it's someone you know is on the forum so will 100% read it we ALL know what your up to " My advice would be to only say what you want others to know ..the rest ..keep private. | |||
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"If you have to keep telling people how great you are and how better you are than all the others on here of your gender chances are you really aren't all that at all. Its OK to tell them how genuine and discreet I am though ya?" Oh ye that is always the truth on here | |||
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" To the ladies 1. Don't IMMEDIATELY delete the well crafted message we just cut, pasted and send over to you as this equates to "rejection" to most men (I kid you not ). This is followed by the utterence of the "c" or "b" word by the man (Am I right or am I right lads?? ) Instead, leave the message and delete it later This will make your life a lot easier on FAB 2. Sending us "LOL" gives us f-all response so don't be annoying 3....and also Don't be a diva. Yes we realise that you get 350 messages a day but let's face it most of them are the culmination of all the neanderthal throglodytes you met at all the nightclubs at 3am over the last 10 years so what's a quality problem to you is a quantity problem to us 4. Also "Will fill in later" "New to this" "..." and the worst of them all... "I'm a 30 year old straight woman looking to meet men" and then receiving 500 messages with attached cock pics as a result SERVES YOU RIGHT! Make an effort and we'll call a truce with the "cock pic invasion" Deal???! " LOL | |||
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"To the men: be patient To the women: be appreciative of how difficult it can be to reach out and make the first move" To the women...you can also make the first move | |||
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"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before " love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes | |||
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"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes " Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here | |||
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"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here " isn't it brillant when you see you gave yourself a reminder to stay clear | |||
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"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here isn't it brillant when you see you gave yourself a reminder to stay clear " Oh christ.... I need an annual purge of these | |||
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think: Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids Is this bringing anything to the thread Should this in fact be done in PM Ahhhh that feels better" Oh my God this bugs the fuck out of me. Well said | |||
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"I didn't read any of this as I am far too lazy but my advice would be don't be so fucking lazy and use the search function on the forum so you don't keep posting the same fucking questions that are asked every other fucking day." Must have nearly emptied that bucket Willy, good effort | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?)" maybe a little | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) maybe a little " It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye At times the threads are like: “Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you” | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) maybe a little It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye At times the threads are like: “Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you”" this is so funny cos its true | |||
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think: Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids Is this bringing anything to the thread Should this in fact be done in PM Ahhhh that feels better" Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times | |||
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think: Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids Is this bringing anything to the thread Should this in fact be done in PM Ahhhh that feels better Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times " One persons gripe doesnt mean you've to change your behaviour. | |||
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think: Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids Is this bringing anything to the thread Should this in fact be done in PM Ahhhh that feels better Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times One persons gripe doesnt mean you've to change your behaviour." Spoken like a true legend | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) maybe a little It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye At times the threads are like: “Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you”" You’ve hit the mail on the head!! | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?)" Oh no Jay, do keep going, fanny flutter inducing talk right there | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?)" I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole " The better your pics the bigger hole you can usually get away with digging | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) Oh no Jay, do keep going, fanny flutter inducing talk right there " Fanny flutter? | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole " If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) Oh no Jay, do keep going, fanny flutter inducing talk right there Fanny flutter? " Maura | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs " I agree with this. It's better to be yourself and say what you mean. I've been challenged several times on here and I've done it as well if I see something I really don't agree with. I'm sure there are plenty who roll their eyes when they see me post but there's nothing I can do about that. I'm just me on here and in real life not everyone will like me or what I have to say when I post. But then I'm not here to be popular and liked by all. I would rather be myself and liked by those I like and get on with. The only time it annoys me is when people have their second account to post their thoughts and to attack others on but keep it all sickly sweet on their actual account to meet off. I do understand though why men might be a bit slower to post their real thoughts though as I have seen people jumping on threads to attack men if they post what they really think. It rarely happens to women in the same way. But I admire men who do voice their opinions (in a non demeaning attacking others ) way and are willing to speak up rather than stay quiet for fear of reprisal. | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs " Actually my view is that it’s only partially true that people aren’t here to help one get their hole (sic). It’s a sharing site . There are some trusted ways of improving a single male’s chances which people should share. These are best done authentically though otherwise people will see through them . For example as recently said men in a couple do far better than they ought to based on their attributes alone . That doesn’t mean start a couple’s profile with someone you don’t want to spend time with . Another is go to socials. If you find large groups excruciating it’s pointless. There is nothing wrong with sharing those tips. However if a bloke thinks that by removing one crap pic , having a longer or shorter bio , reducing dick pics and turning up to a coffee meet etc the keys to the magic kingdom will appear then they’re Naive . No other forum member will be helping them make a connection that will lead to a play meet . So the personality bit is true as much as I don’t agree with the don’t seek help bit. | |||
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality (Too harsh?) I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs Actually my view is that it’s only partially true that people aren’t here to help one get their hole (sic). It’s a sharing site . There are some trusted ways of improving a single male’s chances which people should share. These are best done authentically though otherwise people will see through them . For example as recently said men in a couple do far better than they ought to based on their attributes alone . That doesn’t mean start a couple’s profile with someone you don’t want to spend time with . Another is go to socials. If you find large groups excruciating it’s pointless. There is nothing wrong with sharing those tips. However if a bloke thinks that by removing one crap pic , having a longer or shorter bio , reducing dick pics and turning up to a coffee meet etc the keys to the magic kingdom will appear then they’re Naive . No other forum member will be helping them make a connection that will lead to a play meet . So the personality bit is true as much as I don’t agree with the don’t seek help bit. " | |||
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