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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats some advice you would like to give people that you can't give on direct response to a thread or post because of politeness or fear of a ban.

People when you post about your favorite fabbers and it's someone you know is on the forum so will 100% read it we ALL know what your up to

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

White knighting is the biggest turn off

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Name dropping just makes you look a bigger dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"White knighting is the biggest turn off"

I said something you wouldn't normally say

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Don't gush obvious compliments, noone likes a kissass.

Know what you want, dont just go with someone else's wants/desires. If they don't fit they don't fit

Be yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Name dropping just makes you look a bigger dick. "

My good friend Gandhi told me the same thing

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"White knighting is the biggest turn off

I said something you wouldn't normally say "

That’s a non existent list

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

ballybunion

Cop the fook on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cop the fook on "

Generic but useful CJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant believe you put your Christmas tree up before December - aimed at an anonymous person

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Given the ratios , that’s it’s not a fair and equitable world , and that no one owes you a shag , what are you doing to stand out from the crowd ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given the ratios , that’s it’s not a fair and equitable world , and that no one owes you a shag , what are you doing to stand out from the crowd ? "

I am owed a shag so there lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:

Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids

Is this bringing anything to the thread

Should this in fact be done in PM

Ahhhh that feels better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you reply to a serious post with something like "thats terrible...your pics are great though" or "I'm really sorry that happened to you, I'd never do anything like that. You have great tits"

It's doing you no favors

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:

Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids

Is this bringing anything to the thread

Should this in fact be done in PM

Ahhhh that feels better"

You haven’t to be fair , kept that one to yourself previously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:

Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids

Is this bringing anything to the thread

Should this in fact be done in PM

Ahhhh that feels better

You haven’t to be fair , kept that one to yourself previously "

A less filtered version

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Stop messaging if the person doesn’t reply after 1,2,3 or 4th message.

Read the profile.

If arranging social show up. Or have the manners/balls to cancel.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

To the lads

1. Pay genuine compliments but don't kiss ass

2. Having an opinion and a backbone can be an attractive trait Don't think you're winning brownie points by agreeing with someone you fancy on the forums. They see through that sh1t man ..fast!

3. Enjoy the chats and interactions but don't take Fab too seriously Women and couples may talk for 2 weeks then ignore, delete or block all your messages on a whim unless you look like Brad Pitt (...which fortunately I do ....JOKE!!!! )

4. If a woman is keen on a Monday that doesn't mean she's keen on Saturday night Revert to point 3

5. Don't go from 0-120 in 3 seconds.

With 0 being looking at her profile

...and 120 being posting over your favourite cock pic that looks huge coz you got the angle "just right"

6. READ THE DAMN PROFILE as knowing a little bit more than a pic of her having a pert ass might come in useful

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"To the lads

1. Pay genuine compliments but don't kiss ass

2. Having an opinion and a backbone can be an attractive trait Don't think you're winning brownie points by agreeing with someone you fancy on the forums. They see through that sh1t man ..fast!

3. Enjoy the chats and interactions but don't take Fab too seriously Women and couples may talk for 2 weeks then ignore, delete or block all your messages on a whim unless you look like Brad Pitt (...which fortunately I do ....JOKE!!!! )

4. If a woman is keen on a Monday that doesn't mean she's keen on Saturday night Revert to point 3

5. Don't go from 0-120 in 3 seconds.

With 0 being looking at her profile

...and 120 being posting over your favourite cock pic that looks huge coz you got the angle "just right"

6. READ THE DAMN PROFILE as knowing a little bit more than a pic of her having a pert ass might come in useful

"

yes yes yes

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

To the ladies

1. Don't IMMEDIATELY delete the well crafted message we just cut, pasted and send over to you as this equates to "rejection" to most men (I kid you not ). This is followed by the utterence of the "c" or "b" word by the man (Am I right or am I right lads?? ) Instead, leave the message and delete it later

This will make your life a lot easier on FAB

2. Sending us "LOL" gives us f-all response so don't be annoying

3....and also Don't be a diva. Yes we realise that you get 350 messages a day but let's face it most of them are the culmination of all the neanderthal throglodytes you met at all the nightclubs at 3am over the last 10 years so what's a quality problem to you is a quantity problem to us

4. Also

"Will fill in later"

"New to this"

"..."

and the worst of them all...

"I'm a 30 year old straight woman looking to meet men"

and then receiving 500 messages with attached cock pics as a result SERVES YOU RIGHT! Make an effort and we'll call a truce with the "cock pic invasion"

Deal???!

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"

To the ladies

1. Don't IMMEDIATELY delete the well crafted message we just cut, pasted and send over to you as this equates to "rejection" to most men (I kid you not ). This is followed by the utterence of the "c" or "b" word by the man (Am I right or am I right lads?? ) Instead, leave the message and delete it later

This will make your life a lot easier on FAB

2. Sending us "LOL" gives us f-all response so don't be annoying

3....and also Don't be a diva. Yes we realise that you get 350 messages a day but let's face it most of them are the culmination of all the neanderthal throglodytes you met at all the nightclubs at 3am over the last 10 years so what's a quality problem to you is a quantity problem to us

4. Also

"Will fill in later"

"New to this"

"..."

and the worst of them all...

"I'm a 30 year old straight woman looking to meet men"

and then receiving 500 messages with attached cock pics as a result SERVES YOU RIGHT! Make an effort and we'll call a truce with the "cock pic invasion"

Deal???! "

No deal

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Be a bloody adult .That includes not making troll accounts to stir shite or posting stuff because others are behind you pulling your strings.

And have the guts say what you think rather than pandering to the others in the hope you will get a shag out of it.It doesn't fool anyone and is obvious when it happens on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop using fake pics

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"

To the ladies

1. Don't IMMEDIATELY delete the well crafted message we just cut, pasted and send over to you as this equates to "rejection" to most men (I kid you not ). This is followed by the utterence of the "c" or "b" word by the man (Am I right or am I right lads?? ) Instead, leave the message and delete it later

This will make your life a lot easier on FAB

2. Sending us "LOL" gives us f-all response so don't be annoying

3....and also Don't be a diva. Yes we realise that you get 350 messages a day but let's face it most of them are the culmination of all the neanderthal throglodytes you met at all the nightclubs at 3am over the last 10 years so what's a quality problem to you is a quantity problem to us

4. Also

"Will fill in later"

"New to this"

"..."

and the worst of them all...

"I'm a 30 year old straight woman looking to meet men"

and then receiving 500 messages with attached cock pics as a result SERVES YOU RIGHT! Make an effort and we'll call a truce with the "cock pic invasion"

Deal???! "

im weak here laughing

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If you have to keep telling people how great you are and how better you are than all the others on here of your gender chances are you really aren't all that at all.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

No advice from my side, let everyone do their mistakes on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have to keep telling people how great you are and how better you are than all the others on here of your gender chances are you really aren't all that at all.

"

Its OK to tell them how genuine and discreet I am though ya?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you agree to a coffee meet have manners and turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums have very little difference in how "successful" you'll be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now this confuses me. people say be nice. make yourself stand out. be confident be this be that. don't judge. play to your strengths etc. to which i ignore. because..those that say it tend to be hypocrites. which bugs the hell outta me. i dont even pay attention to veri's as they are subjective. one persons cure is anothers poison. in the past...some had glowing veri's. but turned out. it was like fucking a sack of potatoes that made sounds like a sad goose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats some advice you would like to give people that you can't give on direct response to a thread or post because of politeness or fear of a ban.

People when you post about your favorite fabbers and it's someone you know is on the forum so will 100% read it we ALL know what your up to

"

My advice would be to only say what you want others to know ..the rest ..keep private.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"If you have to keep telling people how great you are and how better you are than all the others on here of your gender chances are you really aren't all that at all.

Its OK to tell them how genuine and discreet I am though ya?"

Oh ye that is always the truth on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice:

Don't treat women like a monolith.

We're all different as just as varied from each other as one guy is from another.

Some advice here will stand for one lady and not for another.

I've seen lads acting frustrated that two different women expressed contradictory preferences.

I actually like noticing the little ways guys check in with me, and test the waters, or just straight out ask me what kind of vibe I prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the men: be patient

To the women: be appreciative of how difficult it can be to reach out and make the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To the ladies

1. Don't IMMEDIATELY delete the well crafted message we just cut, pasted and send over to you as this equates to "rejection" to most men (I kid you not ). This is followed by the utterence of the "c" or "b" word by the man (Am I right or am I right lads?? ) Instead, leave the message and delete it later

This will make your life a lot easier on FAB

2. Sending us "LOL" gives us f-all response so don't be annoying

3....and also Don't be a diva. Yes we realise that you get 350 messages a day but let's face it most of them are the culmination of all the neanderthal throglodytes you met at all the nightclubs at 3am over the last 10 years so what's a quality problem to you is a quantity problem to us

4. Also

"Will fill in later"

"New to this"

"..."

and the worst of them all...

"I'm a 30 year old straight woman looking to meet men"

and then receiving 500 messages with attached cock pics as a result SERVES YOU RIGHT! Make an effort and we'll call a truce with the "cock pic invasion"

Deal???! "

LOL

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"To the men: be patient

To the women: be appreciative of how difficult it can be to reach out and make the first move"

To the women...you can also make the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy advice. Don't be a goddamn dick. Goes for every gender.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before "

love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before

love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes "

Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before

love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes

Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here "

isn't it brillant when you see you gave yourself a reminder to stay clear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before

love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes

Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here

isn't it brillant when you see you gave yourself a reminder to stay clear "

Oh christ.... I need an annual purge of these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:

Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids

Is this bringing anything to the thread

Should this in fact be done in PM

Ahhhh that feels better"

Oh my God this bugs the fuck out of me. Well said

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I didn't read any of this as I am far too lazy but my advice would be don't be so fucking lazy and use the search function on the forum so you don't keep posting the same fucking questions that are asked every other fucking day.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Arrogance, anger and entitlement are really very ugly, be polite, be kind, be consistent.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"I didn't read any of this as I am far too lazy but my advice would be don't be so fucking lazy and use the search function on the forum so you don't keep posting the same fucking questions that are asked every other fucking day."

Must have nearly emptied that bucket Willy, good effort

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

When you go to message someone and fab reminds you that they never replied to your last message, press the back button on your browser and retain some dignity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be excellent to each other

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)"

maybe a little

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

maybe a little "

It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye

At times the threads are like:

“Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you”

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

maybe a little

It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye

At times the threads are like:

“Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you”"

this is so funny cos its true

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

If your on here, attached, and doing it on the sly, be aware that any couple or single with more than 5 minutes of experience can spot you a mile away.

You are not as smart or slick as you think you are so stop wasting peoples time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:

Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids

Is this bringing anything to the thread

Should this in fact be done in PM

Ahhhh that feels better"

Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:

Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids

Is this bringing anything to the thread

Should this in fact be done in PM

Ahhhh that feels better

Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times "

One persons gripe doesnt mean you've to change your behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:

Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids

Is this bringing anything to the thread

Should this in fact be done in PM

Ahhhh that feels better

Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times

One persons gripe doesnt mean you've to change your behaviour."

Spoken like a true legend

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

maybe a little

It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye

At times the threads are like:

“Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you”"

You’ve hit the mail on the head!!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)"

Oh no Jay, do keep going, fanny flutter inducing talk right there

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)"

I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole "

The better your pics the bigger hole you can usually get away with digging

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Don't be embarrassed or afraid to be yourself

You're not trying to please everyone on the site so don't change who you are

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By *orace 500Man
over a year ago

ballincollig


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

Oh no Jay, do keep going, fanny flutter inducing talk right there "

Fanny flutter?

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole "

If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

Oh no Jay, do keep going, fanny flutter inducing talk right there

Fanny flutter? "

Maura

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Taking notes and adjusting behaviour...you see, societal conditioning is a thing

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole

If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs "

I agree with this. It's better to be yourself and say what you mean. I've been challenged several times on here and I've done it as well if I see something I really don't agree with. I'm sure there are plenty who roll their eyes when they see me post but there's nothing I can do about that. I'm just me on here and in real life not everyone will like me or what I have to say when I post. But then I'm not here to be popular and liked by all. I would rather be myself and liked by those I like and get on with.

The only time it annoys me is when people have their second account to post their thoughts and to attack others on but keep it all sickly sweet on their actual account to meet off.

I do understand though why men might be a bit slower to post their real thoughts though as I have seen people jumping on threads to attack men if they post what they really think. It rarely happens to women in the same way. But I admire men who do voice their opinions (in a non demeaning attacking others ) way and are willing to speak up rather than stay quiet for fear of reprisal.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In the immortal words of the Boss, don't be " Blinded by the light".

Don't be a magpie.

All that glitters is not gold.

Open your eyes.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole

If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs "

Actually my view is that it’s only partially true that people aren’t here to help one get their hole (sic).

It’s a sharing site . There are some trusted ways of improving a single male’s chances which people should share. These are best done authentically though otherwise people will see through them . For example as recently said men in a couple do far better than they ought to based on their attributes alone . That doesn’t mean start a couple’s profile with someone you don’t want to spend time with . Another is go to socials. If you find large groups excruciating it’s pointless.

There is nothing wrong with sharing those tips. However if a bloke thinks that by removing one crap pic , having a longer or shorter bio , reducing dick pics and turning up to a coffee meet etc the keys to the magic kingdom will appear then they’re Naive . No other forum member will be helping them make a connection that will lead to a play meet . So the personality bit is true as much as I don’t agree with the don’t seek help bit.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole

f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality

(Too harsh?)

I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole

If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs

Actually my view is that it’s only partially true that people aren’t here to help one get their hole (sic).

It’s a sharing site . There are some trusted ways of improving a single male’s chances which people should share. These are best done authentically though otherwise people will see through them . For example as recently said men in a couple do far better than they ought to based on their attributes alone . That doesn’t mean start a couple’s profile with someone you don’t want to spend time with . Another is go to socials. If you find large groups excruciating it’s pointless.

There is nothing wrong with sharing those tips. However if a bloke thinks that by removing one crap pic , having a longer or shorter bio , reducing dick pics and turning up to a coffee meet etc the keys to the magic kingdom will appear then they’re Naive . No other forum member will be helping them make a connection that will lead to a play meet . So the personality bit is true as much as I don’t agree with the don’t seek help bit. "

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