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"1) no one is entitled to a reply 2) no reply is a reply SIMPLES "No reply is a reply,....I like that | |||
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"Acceptable without question and just because you don’t see them viewing your profile, doesn’t mean they haven’t. Many of us are on ninja mode "Yes I did noticed that
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"It's in the site rules. No reply means no interest. Its not rude. We would very rarely reply to messages" I know you do not reply lol. I never received on from you...ever | |||
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"Well I gather ladies receive heaps ofmessages and even if they wanted to, some would need a secretary full time to reply to all mail! " To be fair, it literally takes half a second to send a "no thanks" back. | |||
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"It's in the site rules. No reply means no interest. Its not rude. We would very rarely reply to messages I know you do not reply lol. I never received on from you...ever "Lol. Sorry. Honestly it's not personal at all. | |||
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"Well I gather ladies receive heaps ofmessages and even if they wanted to, some would need a secretary full time to reply to all mail! To be fair, it literally takes half a second to send a "no thanks" back." Being completely honest... if someone replied no thanks would you send another reply? Many many do. Often not very nice replies | |||
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"Well I gather ladies receive heaps ofmessages and even if they wanted to, some would need a secretary full time to reply to all mail! To be fair, it literally takes half a second to send a "no thanks" back." Have you never read on the forums how a no thanks can sometimes lead to abuse There's literally dozens of threads from men saying the same thing | |||
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"Well I gather ladies receive heaps ofmessages and even if they wanted to, some would need a secretary full time to reply to all mail! To be fair, it literally takes half a second to send a "no thanks" back. Being completely honest... if someone replied no thanks would you send another reply? Many many do. Often not very nice replies" Yes I would send a reply back, saying thank you for getting back to me and no harm done. And wishing them happy fabbing. | |||
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"It's in the site rules. No reply means no interest. Its not rude. We would very rarely reply to messages I know you do not reply lol. I never received on from you...ever
Lol. Sorry. Honestly it's not personal at all."A little disappointed but no offence taken | |||
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"Well I gather ladies receive heaps ofmessages and even if they wanted to, some would need a secretary full time to reply to all mail! To be fair, it literally takes half a second to send a "no thanks" back. Have you never read on the forums how a no thanks can sometimes lead to abuse There's literally dozens of threads from men saying the same thing " But surely you must agree that not all men on here are like that. The bad ones give all of us a bad name. | |||
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"It's acceptable without question. " Greatfylly noted | |||
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"An unsolicited message is the equivalent of junk mail. If it piques my interest, I’ll engage, if it doesn’t I’m not going to reply to it to say thanks for sending me a message I never asked for "Thay is a very interesting take on it. I can see your reasoning alright. | |||
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"Well I gather ladies receive heaps ofmessages and even if they wanted to, some would need a secretary full time to reply to all mail! To be fair, it literally takes half a second to send a "no thanks" back. Have you never read on the forums how a no thanks can sometimes lead to abuse There's literally dozens of threads from men saying the same thing But surely you must agree that not all men on here are like that. The bad ones give all of us a bad name. " The bad ones give themselves a bad name not me My name is earned by myself alone | |||
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"1) no one is entitled to a reply 2) no reply is a reply SIMPLES "Cant be explained any better | |||
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"Well I gather ladies receive heaps ofmessages and even if they wanted to, some would need a secretary full time to reply to all mail! To be fair, it literally takes half a second to send a "no thanks" back. Have you never read on the forums how a no thanks can sometimes lead to abuse There's literally dozens of threads from men saying the same thing But surely you must agree that not all men on here are like that. The bad ones give all of us a bad name. The bad ones give themselves a bad name not me My name is earned by myself alone " Fair play | |||
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"1) no one is entitled to a reply 2) no reply is a reply SIMPLES
Cant be explained any better "I can't really argue with that to be fair | |||
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"Most people do look at a profile before answering a message I look before I even open a message but I do it in stealth mode so they can't see I have. If a profile doesn't appeal to me or has made zero effort quite often I won't reply. Not because I get a load of messages I have my filters tight to keep mail down.I don't answer because I don't want to start communicating with the person. As a no just leads to someone taking it as oh great a reply and think I'll keep chatting which I won't so easier not to answer in the first place. And sometimes I am just too tired to bother answering mail and I don't even look at it when I log on. It's not rude. I wouldn't expect anyone I send message to reply to me if they do then great if they don't no harm done. " Thank you for this comprehensive inside into how some ladies deal with messages. For me, it is always nice to receive a reply and I would always reply back with a final thank you. | |||
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"Acceptable without question and just because you don’t see them viewing your profile, doesn’t mean they haven’t. Many of us are on ninja mode
Yes I did noticed that
But when you do not notice that your profile has been viewed i do wonder why i couldn't get a reply."Because they viewed your profile and realised you weren’t for them . Simples | |||
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But when you do not notice that your profile has been viewed i do wonder why i couldn't get a reply.
Because they viewed your profile and realised you weren’t for them . Simples "I can accept that. Ps. Lots of fun to be had in Killarney | |||
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"Most people do look at a profile before answering a message I look before I even open a message but I do it in stealth mode so they can't see I have. If a profile doesn't appeal to me or has made zero effort quite often I won't reply. Not because I get a load of messages I have my filters tight to keep mail down.I don't answer because I don't want to start communicating with the person. As a no just leads to someone taking it as oh great a reply and think I'll keep chatting which I won't so easier not to answer in the first place. And sometimes I am just too tired to bother answering mail and I don't even look at it when I log on. It's not rude. I wouldn't expect anyone I send message to reply to me if they do then great if they don't no harm done. Thank you for this comprehensive inside into how some ladies deal with messages. For me, it is always nice to receive a reply and I would always reply back with a final thank you. " Totally agree with you 
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"Acceptable without question and just because you don’t see them viewing your profile, doesn’t mean they haven’t. Many of us are on ninja mode
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But when you do not notice that your profile has been viewed i do wonder why i couldn't get a reply.
Because they viewed your profile and realised you weren’t for them . Simples
I can accept that.
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"An unsolicited message is the equivalent of junk mail. If it piques my interest, I’ll engage, if it doesn’t I’m not going to reply to it to say thanks for sending me a message I never asked for "Exactly this | |||
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"An unsolicited message is the equivalent of junk mail. If it piques my interest, I’ll engage, if it doesn’t I’m not going to reply to it to say thanks for sending me a message I never asked for
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"another reason is just dint gave time Example I got a message during week, logged on for a quick look, read it put it on not read and next time I logged gad a second message giving out that i hadn't replied to the first one. As for no thanks if a person has messaged a few times and I haven't answered I just block,sorry but either it's a blank profile , the person isn't for me and honestly I'm done trying to be polite " I get that...pushy people are such a pain | |||
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"another reason is just dint gave time Example I got a message during week, logged on for a quick look, read it put it on not read and next time I logged gad a second message giving out that i hadn't replied to the first one. As for no thanks if a person has messaged a few times and I haven't answered I just block,sorry but either it's a blank profile , the person isn't for me and honestly I'm done trying to be polite I get that...pushy people are such a pain "Pushy is a polite word lol | |||
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"another reason is just dint gave time Example I got a message during week, logged on for a quick look, read it put it on not read and next time I logged gad a second message giving out that i hadn't replied to the first one. As for no thanks if a person has messaged a few times and I haven't answered I just block,sorry but either it's a blank profile , the person isn't for me and honestly I'm done trying to be polite I get that...pushy people are such a pain
Pushy is a polite word lol"I am sure that a new post would be needed to list all the names they could be called | |||
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"I dont think there is a right or wrong way, as like with everything, it's in the eye of the beholder. If I get a decent message, not just hi or something rude or a dick pic, but I'm not interested or which is the case at the moment, I'm already chatting to a few, and I don't want to add to many in the mix, as I know I don't have more time for meets at the moment, I reply by thanking them for the message but I'm chatting to a few already, maybe our paths will cross some other time. Now that can go in any direction. I had no further replies I had abuse I had blatantly ignoring and just tried to keep chatting I had lots of lovely replies of guys appreciating an answer And then I have guys who think that means to text every day to see if i was finally free And last but not least i had guys saying it was the nicest way to be told to f off.... There is no right or wrong way... But nobody is entitled to anything, let that be clear." I like your approach and understanding of the various characters messaging you. | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end." I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... " Nope, not usually. | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually." Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you." But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks! | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks! "If that makes you happy then so be it | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks!
If that makes you happy then so be it "I didn't want to talk to them anyway | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks! "this sounds so childish  | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks!
this sounds so childish
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks!
If that makes you happy then so be it
I didn't want to talk to them anyway "Haha yep | |||
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks!
this sounds so childish
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks!
this sounds so childish
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"Interesting reads on this thread. I agree that nobody is entitled to a reply but it is good manners if the initial message is done with respect and manners. My new approach to this is zero tolerance. If I message someone and I see they read but don't respond in any way then that's an instant block. It works both ways as fat as I am concerned. If someone isn't capable of conversation, I really wouldn't have any interest in them anyway. I think this will make both me and anyone I block happier in the end. I think they have reached that conclusion before you tbh.... Nope, not usually. Well I mean they have already decided they don't want to interact with you. But not blocked me. I take the choice out of their hands. I'm the one who blocks!
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"Well I gather ladies receive heaps ofmessages and even if they wanted to, some would need a secretary full time to reply to all mail! To be fair, it literally takes half a second to send a "no thanks" back. Being completely honest... if someone replied no thanks would you send another reply? Many many do. Often not very nice replies" I try to send a reply even though it’s not mandatory. And the amount of rude messages back is unbelievable  | |||
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"The only messages I send now are to people I’m actually chatting with. I don’t bother messaging anyone new because 9 times out of 10 you won’t get a reply. On the rare occasion I get a thanks but no thanks I reply thanks for the reply and best wishes. Some men are pure pricks I’m told here and can get abusive which gives us decent lads a bad name too unfortunately. "No one gives anyone else a bad name that's just something people seem to say to make themselves feel better. The only ones abusive people ruin it for is themselves on here. And that goes for men and women.Women can be just as abusive to men without reason on here. And I'm sure even the abusive people see themselves as decent people and will find a reason to justify the abuse they send. | |||
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"The only messages I send now are to people I’m actually chatting with. I don’t bother messaging anyone new because 9 times out of 10 you won’t get a reply. On the rare occasion I get a thanks but no thanks I reply thanks for the reply and best wishes. Some men are pure pricks I’m told here and can get abusive which gives us decent lads a bad name too unfortunately.
No one gives anyone else a bad name that's just something people seem to say to make themselves feel better. The only ones abusive people ruin it for is themselves on here. And that goes for men and women.Women can be just as abusive to men without reason on here. And I'm sure even the abusive people see themselves as decent people and will find a reason to justify the abuse they send. "I’m not saying it makes me feel any better saying stuff like that but it’s the same in all walks of life unfortunately. I’d hope that people on here can pick out the pricks from the good people. Oh and yes. It’s not just narrowed to men either. I’m sure that there are women who are just as bad in fact I know some women personally who are c***s | |||
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"cant say i fully agree with the bad name comment. there is an element of it. for instance. some do not have experience with certain aspects of kink. because they are clueless in the difference between Dominant and domineering. they meet a couple of fools leaving a bad taste in the mouth. then paint the rest of us the same. sure not accepting PM's from unveri'd is a pre judgement in itself. lol...i can think of lots of examples. for the OP. dude all i can say to try this, its also something to do in life in general. come on here expecting nothing from anybody. that way you cant be disappointed. also makes the only direction to go is up. " I had a message out of the blue the other day telling me to put a belt around my neck pinch my nipples and sit in a corner until he instructed me otherwise. That message I did respond to tell him what a dope he was thinking that's a acceptable first message! | |||
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"cant say i fully agree with the bad name comment. there is an element of it. for instance. some do not have experience with certain aspects of kink. because they are clueless in the difference between Dominant and domineering. they meet a couple of fools leaving a bad taste in the mouth. then paint the rest of us the same. sure not accepting PM's from unveri'd is a pre judgement in itself. lol...i can think of lots of examples. for the OP. dude all i can say to try this, its also something to do in life in general. come on here expecting nothing from anybody. that way you cant be disappointed. also makes the only direction to go is up. I had a message out of the blue the other day telling me to put a belt around my neck pinch my nipples and sit in a corner until he instructed me otherwise. That message I did respond to tell him what a dope he was thinking that's a acceptable first message! " Did you get a reply?….. | |||
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"The only messages I send now are to people I’m actually chatting with. I don’t bother messaging anyone new because 9 times out of 10 you won’t get a reply. On the rare occasion I get a thanks but no thanks I reply thanks for the reply and best wishes. Some men are pure pricks I’m told here and can get abusive which gives us decent lads a bad name too unfortunately. "That is my sentiment exactly | |||
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"cant say i fully agree with the bad name comment. there is an element of it. for instance. some do not have experience with certain aspects of kink. because they are clueless in the difference between Dominant and domineering. they meet a couple of fools leaving a bad taste in the mouth. then paint the rest of us the same. sure not accepting PM's from unveri'd is a pre judgement in itself. lol...i can think of lots of examples. for the OP. dude all i can say to try this, its also something to do in life in general. come on here expecting nothing from anybody. that way you cant be disappointed. also makes the only direction to go is up. " Thank you very much for the advise. I am not disheartened by any means if I do not get a reply. I am just interested in other fabbers opinions. | |||
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"cant say i fully agree with the bad name comment. there is an element of it. for instance. some do not have experience with certain aspects of kink. because they are clueless in the difference between Dominant and domineering. they meet a couple of fools leaving a bad taste in the mouth. then paint the rest of us the same. sure not accepting PM's from unveri'd is a pre judgement in itself. lol...i can think of lots of examples. for the OP. dude all i can say to try this, its also something to do in life in general. come on here expecting nothing from anybody. that way you cant be disappointed. also makes the only direction to go is up. I had a message out of the blue the other day telling me to put a belt around my neck pinch my nipples and sit in a corner until he instructed me otherwise. That message I did respond to tell him what a dope he was thinking that's a acceptable first message! Did you get a reply?…..
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"cant say i fully agree with the bad name comment. there is an element of it. for instance. some do not have experience with certain aspects of kink. because they are clueless in the difference between Dominant and domineering. they meet a couple of fools leaving a bad taste in the mouth. then paint the rest of us the same. sure not accepting PM's from unveri'd is a pre judgement in itself. lol...i can think of lots of examples. for the OP. dude all i can say to try this, its also something to do in life in general. come on here expecting nothing from anybody. that way you cant be disappointed. also makes the only direction to go is up. I had a message out of the blue the other day telling me to put a belt around my neck pinch my nipples and sit in a corner until he instructed me otherwise. That message I did respond to tell him what a dope he was thinking that's a acceptable first message! Did you get a reply?…..
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Or else she took a hand off a nipple to post without permission
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"This question is just asked in way of a little research. How to fellow fabbers view the none reply to even the politest of messages. Is it rude... Is it acceptable without question.. How do you feel about not receiving a reply when the recipient of your message has not even looked at your profile? Ok go... jump down my throat now.. "Personally it doesn't bother me one bit about unread ..unreplied..or straight deleted read messages..if they're interested they'll reply ,if not they do one or all the previous mentioned or even block ,so please , absolutely no point in getting all worked up over a complete stranger on this site that you might never meet not replying , life is way too short for that crap. | |||
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"I received a message last night from a couple/person on here. They asked how my night was going and where I was from etc. Asked for my number to add to WhatsApp and also friend request too but since then they have completely ghosted me and I’m thinking they have blocked me too. Can’t understand why after going to all the effort. I only answered their questions and wasn’t pushy etc. Sometimes it’s really annoying. I have a good mind to report them. "Report them for? | |||
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"I received a message last night from a couple/person on here. They asked how my night was going and where I was from etc. Asked for my number to add to WhatsApp and also friend request too but since then they have completely ghosted me and I’m thinking they have blocked me too. Can’t understand why after going to all the effort. I only answered their questions and wasn’t pushy etc. Sometimes it’s really annoying. I have a good mind to report them. "For what..... | |||
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"I received a message last night from a couple/person on here. They asked how my night was going and where I was from etc. Asked for my number to add to WhatsApp and also friend request too but since then they have completely ghosted me and I’m thinking they have blocked me too. Can’t understand why after going to all the effort. I only answered their questions and wasn’t pushy etc. Sometimes it’s really annoying. I have a good mind to report them. "Did you give your number? Imo that is fairly dodgy. Folk need to earn trust b4 I would do that | |||
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"An unsolicited message is the equivalent of junk mail. If it piques my interest, I’ll engage, if it doesn’t I’m not going to reply to it to say thanks for sending me a message I never asked for "Errm aren't most furst messages unsolicited? | |||
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"It's in the site rules. No reply means no interest. Its not rude. We would very rarely reply to messages" I’d disagree to a certain extent, all depending on the effort put into the first message. If someone goes to the effort of sending a nice, detailed message then I would think it’s mannerly to reply with a simple no thanks if not interested instead of just blanking someone  | |||
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"It's in the site rules. No reply means no interest. Its not rude. We would very rarely reply to messages I’d disagree to a certain extent, all depending on the effort put into the first message. If someone goes to the effort of sending a nice, detailed message then I would think it’s mannerly to reply with a simple no thanks if not interested instead of just blanking someone "But that's the chance you take, I've had messages like that abd replied no thanks and the barrage of abuse so sometimes it's just not worth the grief | |||
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"It's in the site rules. No reply means no interest. Its not rude. We would very rarely reply to messages I’d disagree to a certain extent, all depending on the effort put into the first message. If someone goes to the effort of sending a nice, detailed message then I would think it’s mannerly to reply with a simple no thanks if not interested instead of just blanking someone
But that's the chance you take, I've had messages like that abd replied no thanks and the barrage of abuse so sometimes it's just not worth the grief "I still think it would be courteous to reply. If you then get lots of abuse then block. Sad to think that some people would abuse some people for being rejected  | |||
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"I received a message last night from a couple/person on here. They asked how my night was going and where I was from etc. Asked for my number to add to WhatsApp and also friend request too but since then they have completely ghosted me and I’m thinking they have blocked me too. Can’t understand why after going to all the effort. I only answered their questions and wasn’t pushy etc. Sometimes it’s really annoying. I have a good mind to report them.
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Imo that is fairly dodgy. Folk need to earn trust b4 I would do that "No. | |||
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"I received a message last night from a couple/person on here. They asked how my night was going and where I was from etc. Asked for my number to add to WhatsApp and also friend request too but since then they have completely ghosted me and I’m thinking they have blocked me too. Can’t understand why after going to all the effort. I only answered their questions and wasn’t pushy etc. Sometimes it’s really annoying. I have a good mind to report them. "Elaborate I-received-a-message brag? | |||
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"I received a message last night from a couple/person on here. They asked how my night was going and where I was from etc. Asked for my number to add to WhatsApp and also friend request too but since then they have completely ghosted me and I’m thinking they have blocked me too. Can’t understand why after going to all the effort. I only answered their questions and wasn’t pushy etc. Sometimes it’s really annoying. I have a good mind to report them.
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Asking for personal number"They could ask for your bank account number...still doing nothing wrong I get asked for my phone number everyday for contract tracing in the real world...not illegal | |||
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"I received a message last night from a couple/person on here. They asked how my night was going and where I was from etc. Asked for my number to add to WhatsApp and also friend request too but since then they have completely ghosted me and I’m thinking they have blocked me too. Can’t understand why after going to all the effort. I only answered their questions and wasn’t pushy etc. Sometimes it’s really annoying. I have a good mind to report them.
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Asking for personal number"Did you give it to them? | |||
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Asking for personal number
Did you give it to them?"no. Fake one | |||
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Asking for personal number
Did you give it to them? no. Fake one"Soooooo Couple approaches you. Ye chat They ask for number. You give a fake number They then block you. And you want to report them? | |||
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Asking for personal number
Did you give it to them? no. Fake one"Hahaha. | |||
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"Asked for my number to add to WhatsApp and also friend request too but since then they have completely ghosted me and I’m thinking they have blocked me too. Can’t understand why after going to all the effort. " I cant understand why someone I gave a fake number to hasn't contacted me. Sometimes very rarely fab is just fucking fantastic | |||
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