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The Chaser

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which comes naturally to you? to do the chasing on here, or be chased? ...

Do you find yourself playing a role as one or the other that doesnt come naturally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab makes me feel like a dog chasing its own tail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab makes me feel like a dog chasing its own tail "

and theres the third option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite one is probably the beast but I wouldn't say no to big Anne !

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Well if you’re a bloke on here being chased is unusual .

I prefer being the organiser to both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My favourite one is probably the beast but I wouldn't say no to big Anne ! "

Oh You

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if you’re a bloke on here being chased is unusual .

I prefer being the organiser to both

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Would a guy even notice I wonder?! its seems to be that unanticipated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in always letting the man think he's doing the chasing

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"I believe in always letting the man think he's doing the chasing "

Michael McCarthy are you reading this ?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive a very flirtatious nature and like to go after what i want

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've made first contact with people on here I don't know if that would be considered chasing tho

And I don't think I've ever been chased either so my answer is most likely some where in the middle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I believe in always letting the man think he's doing the chasing "

Ahhaha

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By *ustinCiderMan
over a year ago

Allover

If men were to wait to be chased here....Bradley Walsh would be long dead !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe in always letting the man think he's doing the chasing "

Chasey Lee knows the craic

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

I've done plenty of chasing here but not got anywhere pass the first round

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If men were to wait to be chased here....Bradley Walsh would be long dead ! "

So men have to make the moves on here whether it comes naturally or not.

But do you like it, is it part of the fun?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't chase anyone. I don't send first contact messages but if someone contacts me I don't see it as being chased either.

The slightest hint that someone is tapping and running away expecting a chase and they're going to be disappointed.

If two adults can't have a two way conversation without it feeling like a game then there won't be a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't chase anyone. I don't send first contact messages but if someone contacts me I don't see it as being chased either.

The slightest hint that someone is tapping and running away expecting a chase and they're going to be disappointed.

If two adults can't have a two way conversation without it feeling like a game then there won't be a conversation. "

Im not saying its 'a game' but it can be part of the fun RB

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don't chase anyone. I don't send first contact messages but if someone contacts me I don't see it as being chased either.

The slightest hint that someone is tapping and running away expecting a chase and they're going to be disappointed.

If two adults can't have a two way conversation without it feeling like a game then there won't be a conversation.

Im not saying its 'a game' but it can be part of the fun RB "

If you mean role playing the answer is still neither.

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

A Bit of Both ...sure its only fair

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Ah, I came here for a quiz.

But to answer your question both work for me. If there is someone I like I’ll message them and I’ve also received messages from a few women. The latter I like because I think it’s shows a self confidence in the other person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A Bit of Both ...sure its only fair "

And way more fun

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

In vanilla life it’s half the fun , and it’s why I would never pay for sex

On fab , amongst all the profiles and messages if you haven’t arranged a coffee or a party or a meet after a certain number of messages it’s easy for the flirtation to fade into the background . Unless perhaps you Have a date to look forward to like a big social or something

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It sure if I’d describe my experiences on here as either. I’ve been lucky when I’ve clicked with someone and then it’s down to the flirting and teasing of minds

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By *avan5Man
over a year ago

cavan

There should be no chasing. Everyone is here for some fun. Just see if there is a spark and go from there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok forget the word chasing... its perhaps not what i meant!

lets say who makes the first move/breaks the ice/ says i fancy you/makes interest clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah thought it was about the TV show. Lol

Very rarely send a first message so I guess I get chased

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ok forget the word chasing... its perhaps not what i meant!

lets say who makes the first move/breaks the ice/ says i fancy you/makes interest clear "

Strangely enough I don’t send someone a message out of the blue. It’s usually been through the chat room in the past or through the forums when you get a bit of an insight into someone but then some people are more fickle. When the banter starts I love the interaction you get when you get to push someone’s imagination and have them wonder if the sparks will fly as much if you meet. I’ve never actually met someone I didn’t get in with and that doesn’t mean it always goes beyond a social as I’ve met some really genuine people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I near bought one once only for it would kill me to put petrol in the hure

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

I'm like a dog chasing a car. No clue what to do if I catch one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being that I’m a man I suppose I am the chaser. Lot more men here than women. It can be fun though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am neither tbh...l just land in the forum's , if l see a good or witty reply to any thread l will quote/reply on the page or reply privately ,am not a pushy guy ,if something develops from that ,great ,if not ," no sleep was disturbed in the non development from your message "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I near bought one once only for it would kill me to put petrol in the hure "

You mean a chicken chaser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither in extremes comes naturally nor do I enjoy it.

I'm happy approaching or being approached.

But if it becomes very one sided the whole point us missed for me

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I never chase. I would favour a mutual attraction which leads to something naturally. I will rarely send messages and rarely reply to messages. There needs to be a real attraction. The desperation for anyone I see here every day is incredibly unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody chases a little I'd imagine.

It's the knowing when to give up that some people can't get their head around.

Id be a chaser more often than not. If a message gets read and no reply or just plain deleted unread, it's no bother, just move on. No point wasting your time or theirs.

That's where the desperation comes into it. Some people 100 % genuinely can't understand why someone wouldn't be attracted to them. That's a bit scary..

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