FabSwingers.com forum: Which is worst?

By *ligolad321 OP Man
over a year ago

Donegal

Hey there fellow Fabbers,

Quick question for the Jilted generation amongst us, in a relationship whats worse?

Having your boyfriend / girlfriend thinking everything is good but having other people looking at them like if he / she only knew...

Being in love with someone and breaking their heart.

Being in love and someone and they break your heart?

( personally I don’t know which is worse to be broken or break another soul)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selfishly I'd pick option 2 I'd rather be honest and avoid my heart broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey there fellow Fabbers,

Quick question for the Jilted generation amongst us, in a relationship whats worse?

Having your boyfriend / girlfriend thinking everything is good but having other people looking at them like if he / she only knew...

Being in love with someone and breaking their heart.

Being in love and someone and they break your heart?

( personally I don’t know which is worse to be broken or break another soul)...

Ok , on each of the points ,

That's where complete and utter honesty between each other is hugely important, whatever way it is between each other DO NOT have them become a laughing stock in the eyes of others because of your disrespectful actions, if you don't think it's for you anymore you finish it .

If you were in love with someone , why would you want to break their heart ?

And if you want to experience emotional pain ? . Be totally in love with someone.. absolutely nuts about them and they finish it or move on ..THEN you will experience emotional pain like never before , it is actually like a death and can actually break you into a million pieces emotionally.

As regards your last part ,it totally depends , if you have strong feelings for her but due to circumstances that you have to end it ,eg moving to travel or work then it's an equal pain , but if you don't have feelings or they've waned well then it's less pain for you he/she had all the pain .

Relationships...some rollercoaster isn't it ?...what people can bring to your life or what you bring to theirs ..so here's my question...is it really better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all ?? ..in other words ..is the emotional pain worth it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst is having people look at you and think everything is ok and fine when you know that everything isn’t fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both are equally as bad as each other to break or be broken hearted . If i break a heart to mind myself i to end up broken hearted having to do so. And yes i have been there where it all looks great on the outside but looking inwards it wasn't. Hence why i am single so long and guarding my heart probably to much but what's meant to be is meant to be for a reason and i'm ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No 1 is the worst for sure. the idea of that makes me sick.

the other two are an inherant part of the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust no one.

Love is for fools.

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