FabSwingers.com forum: My first threesome

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if people had any good stories about their first threesome. Mine wasn't the best, a married couple that system bickering and blaming eachother for making me feel awkward. She was literally face down in my pussy when she turned round and gave out to her husband for the dirty talk he was using.... to say I faked it was an understatement, I got out of there as quick as possible.

Anyone else have any threesome nightmares?

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm very sorry you have had a bad experience some things like this take a long time to undo! We live and we learn and I hope your next experience is totally different and free of agro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go as far to say my first 3some was a nightmare ... but not long after the action began the husband sat back, took out a beer and started watching Man U on the telly, leaving me and the wife to get on with it ourselves

Wasn't as hot a meeting as I'd hoped it would be

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Mine have all been fine; some better than others, but no nightmares. Stories like this are why I'm a big believer in a social meet beforehand, though - definitely allows you to pick up on the vibe and mood of the others involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was with a married couple, they were great to chat to. So I arrived and they were about 10 years older than the photos they sent (not a big deal but a bit of a red flag) we stripped off and I was very comfortable with them, Mrs and I on the bed getting to know eachother...I'm going down on her as she sucks him...then she started to suck me, I came and he immediately said he hadn't given permission to me to cum...I was like oh sorry I thought I told her I was going to (I did tell her but apparently I needed his permission to cum in any capacity... another red flag) then after a bit it was time for the main event, when I pulled out a condom only to be greeted with "what do you need that for?" (Alarm bells going off) after much back and forth I finally got them to understand but it was safe to say I didn't enjoy my time with them.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't go as far to say my first 3some was a nightmare ... but not long after the action began the husband sat back, took out a beer and started watching Man U on the telly, leaving me and the wife to get on with it ourselves

Wasn't as hot a meeting as I'd hoped it would be

I know right? At least get you a beer and some snacks too

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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago

South

Had one was disastor.. Don't meet people after they have had alcohol ????

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Galway

I was very naive and enthusiastic. I met the couple in a rural pub, beside their house. They offered me a bed for the night, so I had a few beers. We went back to their house, and after some interesting chat went upstairs. I was happily going down on her, my arse in the air..... Yep, you guessed... I felt something hard and slippy against my ass. She was just as surprised as I was and a drink fuelled raging row kicked off between them. The gist of it was that he was using her to attract the guys, for his fun. I ran downstairs and got dressed, and into the car as quick as I could.

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By *peasinapod1Couple
over a year ago

dublin

We had a fantastic 3some ffm in Belfast a few weeks ago and all 3 enjoyed orgasm,s for us all and looking forward to round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was very naive and enthusiastic. I met the couple in a rural pub, beside their house. They offered me a bed for the night, so I had a few beers. We went back to their house, and after some interesting chat went upstairs. I was happily going down on her, my arse in the air..... Yep, you guessed... I felt something hard and slippy against my ass. She was just as surprised as I was and a drink fuelled raging row kicked off between them. The gist of it was that he was using her to attract the guys, for his fun. I ran downstairs and got dressed, and into the car as quick as I could. "

You did well to control yourself, most people would have given him a box

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Was only last year..no chats before hand and had the most amazing experience I ever had up to then...funny,sexy,wet and fulfilling.

It was a bi mmf and it'll stay in my good memory bank till I die

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By *xybrianMan
over a year ago

Baldoyle

My first meet off fab was actually a 4sum rather than 3sum. Was with two very sound guys and a super hot, sexy girl. It's the memories of this encounter that keep me coming back to fab! Everyone was respectful, and we all had a great time. Was the perfect introduction to how much fun group play can be, even with total strangers.

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By *aughty9ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin

My first threesome was with two female friends.

Apart from feeling surplus to requirements every now and then i really enjoyed and were still friends with each other.

Iv had a few group experiences where i find myself a bit lost and end up just doing a lot of oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't as hot a meeting as I'd hoped it would be

I know right? At least get you a beer and some snacks too"

Exactly!

Although Utd did lose the match so that improved my orgasm

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By *ummer_XOWoman
over a year ago

Tyrone

So sorry your experience wasn't great!

My first threesome happened to be my first time with another lady as well and it was awesome. A few drinks and we chatted and played all night. Definitely one of, if not my best fab experiences lol

Turns out my first full girl on girl experience was an ex of my OH

lol all good though haha

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

First one was in a car overlooking Lough Derg, pretty spontaneous. I think I entered my subspace that day, amazing! Mrs

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By *relandboy1Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Sorry to hear that you had such a bad experience. My first time was the complete opposite, the couples couldn’t have been nicer and we all left with smiles on our faces

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By *ryanCorkMan
over a year ago

West Cork

My first 3sum was a mfm it was a fantasy for a long time and was really amazing. Met a really cool couple at RVC in Cork and I went back to their hotel room. Super relaxed couple and so very sound. The fun was amazing got to do DP and really loved it. Im up for many more mfm 3sums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first mmf was with an old fuck buddy and one of his friends. Was fun but better experiences since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully mine have been good, sussing out the couple dynamic I found was key, a social element at the start of the meet made a difference.

In cases with married couples I understood my initial role was as a "fluffer" & initial boundaries were agreed...once the hubby had his fun, then I was free to enjoy the lady.

The better 3sums have been where there is no life or emotional attachment between the man & woman im meeting, othere than them being FWB ...in those cases I find everyone more relaxed & open to play.

I have also found bi couple to also be more open & adventurous.

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Still trying to figure out how to get the right one for this! Apparently I’m too fussy, or my fb is!!

As of yet, I’ve not experienced anything more than one to one

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

My first threesome was with a lovely Eastern European couple that made a very nervous lady feel so comfortable. It was also my first bi fun with a woman. Although I'm sure I didn't rock their world, I absolutely loved it.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Mine was very spontaneous and a lot of fun.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll get back to you if it ever happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first one was with a married couple. I think i was nervous about been with someones wife infront of them but once the fun started it al went well.

We all got what we were looking out off it

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By *amedgMan
over a year ago

Enniskillen

So for a first 3sum do you think a stay over are just a quickie ???

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By *ajRallying555Man
over a year ago

Galway .Limerick

Ist 3sum with My Ex. Only Dabbled In MFM so far. All great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These horror stories is what keeps me on the fence. I'd absolutely LOVE to take part in any capacity, but I'm a bit worried that the 3rd wheel would ruin our set up or I'd be stuck in some other people's drama. Tips are all welcome

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

MMFs

I much prefer them when I know the bloke . Everything clearer then as to whether

1. It’s a bi one or a straight one and to what extent

2. What he brings to the table and thinking through what I can bring to Keep things interesting

FFMs

I have ended up in FFM situations or more by accident . I wouldn’t necessarily arrange them on purpose even if I could , as attractive as they are on paper . Most men tbh would be broken way before the night is over . Women can keep going for way way longer .

Nightmarish threesomes ? I mean it’s like having nightmarish cheesecakes. Still better than not having them . But performance worries and short falls have been associated with the less good ones . Occasionally one in the red cow gives me nightmares .

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By *ustherelookingMan
over a year ago

West Dub

Never forget mine. College night out and ended back in an apartment with a Spanish Erasmus student. Her friend also was there. Few glasses of wine later and one of the best sexual experiences I’ve had. Remember passing them a few times in the college as we smirked walking past.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

My first was with my male friend and another guy. My friend is someone I trust and i was blindfolded the whole time the other guy was there . I don’t know to this day who he was

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"My first was with my male friend and another guy. My friend is someone I trust and i was blindfolded the whole time the other guy was there . I don’t know to this day who he was "

Oh, ya filthy yoke ya!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

My only experience with more than one lady. Many many years ago, Longford town after a night in the Fountain Blue. I'd say I was about 18. Went back to a flat in the town with a girl I had just met. I had just entered her when from the darkness behind me came a female voice saying "oh, hello.." and a hand on my shoulder as this second naked young lady appeared. Boom! It was all over in seconds! I was so embarrassed and their laughter didn't help much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahah

help ..help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to be clear I've had many good threesomes, just the first time was a fail. Since then I've had mmf ffm mfm and all good. Hopefully many more to cum!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Your first 3sum can be a hit and miss affair . But after a while you will get to enjoy it . I gave a lady friend a 3sum twice and the guys kinda got stage fright but I got so turned on bye her playing with another guy I fucked her for Ireland .

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By *tmostakiss1Man
over a year ago

My one and only was crazy. MMF. Stag do. Married woman double my age, Christ she was sexy as fuck! Body was class, beautiful arse!

The other M wasn’t her husband

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By *ex coupleCouple
over a year ago

wexford

If ever want a 3 sum with an unforgettable experience pm us @wexcouple

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By *ilverfox74Man
over a year ago

dublin offaly

Bad experience. A fab meet with both straight on their profile but I found out he wasn’t when he went to suck me. Stage left.

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By *ork TwoMan
over a year ago

Macroom

The few times iv been involved in 3sums have all been enjoyed by all 3 involved. My favourite was my most recent with my girlfriend and her friend.

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By *onnieladMan
over a year ago

Mayo

Had my first threesome a few years ago. First time can be a bit daunting but don't let it put you off, they can be really good. Stick with it, they'll get better as you gain more experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t been fortunate enough to have a threesome yet of any description but I’d imagine if there is a bit of chat and ground rules established beforehand it can be an amazing experience for all.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Had some terrible ones years ago, guys who were just hopeless at playing with a couple.

The last few years we’ve always gone with guys who’ve been recommended by friends.

FFM don’t work for us since the Mrs isn’t bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was a married couple. Wasn't planned, I was travelling and drinking at a bar alone. They were very out there but I had a good sense of humour.

They told me about them, what they're into etc and then we went back to there's. Felt completely natural, and they were great people. I'd love to revisit that night!

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By *un_guy_69Man
over a year ago

Limerick/Tipperary border

My first was an amazing experience. I met a married couple and we chatted in a bar before going back to their hotel, we just clicked, similar sense of humour and really well matched in the bedroom. It was a long night and at the end all 3 of us could barely move.

That gave me a real liking for MFM and the ones I had since have been great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1st was with a couple who were also 1st timers. Had been chatting for a few weeks before it , exchanged some pics an vids so we had a fair idea we'd get on. Met up in a bar (neutral town of course

) before going back to hotel. We were getting on so well it was like we were old friends so it was super easy when we hit the bedroom. Everything just flowed naturally. They were super chill in fairness. At one stage while she was kneeling down suckin me off he was beside her watching closely. He asked could he touch my cock, I said sure and before I knew it he had stuck his gob on it

So she was at my balls while he was blowing me. Very strange sight at the time, lol. But we did everything with her and she really loved it all. And no awkwardness afterwards, awesome night and great memories. I didn't sleep over in the hotel, I let them have their room.

Get to know beforehand would be my advice. Describe fantasies, what you'd like to do and find out theirs too.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

My first 3some was with two Spanish guys both called Jose

I joined the site the next day

Have loved 3somes ever since!

B x

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

yes my was not 3 some just me and married woman shaging in front of her hubby this is what turn both of them on was wired doing with hubby watching but great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first threesome was with a couple who organised a small social for the old Irish chat room regulars a long time ago. Went up to the hotel room after it. Fucked all night and slept all day after it. Was lots of fun and just left me wanting more.

Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't as hot a meeting as I'd hoped it would be

I know right? At least get you a beer and some snacks too"

What score the game finish?

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By *tmostakiss1Man
over a year ago

I loved mine. It was hot as fuck. Probably a bit taboo too but it’s been and gone. I was also lucky enough to spend the rest of the night with the lady, my god she was amazing. We were all quite d*unk so a performance of the lifetime was put in

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By *ewitching1Woman
over a year ago

belfast

I had a great experience, I knew both guys and they knew each other woke up in a lovely villa in Marbella between 2 very good friends. Think the key was making sure the guys knew each other. Loved MFM ever since.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

My first 1 on 1 sexual experience was an unmitigated disaster of INBETWEENERS proportions!!

Luckily though...

...my first threesome was with two amazing women

(where we all popped our 3 -sum cherry together) We got on like a house on fire, played in the bedroom (...ohh all those toys there!

) then vino out on the cool balcony then back inside for round 2 and 3. Loved every second of it! Cozy, comfy, great company and the women ended up being besties to this day!

(Note to self: must drop them

an aul text soon!!!)

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