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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people prefer to meet people from their locality or does that scare people off by somewhat eroding the potential anonymity of using the site. Ive Always wondered. Proximity is helpful but is it scaring some people off?

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Am I the only one to get a Father Dougal mental image from this thread title?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Am I the only one to get a Father Dougal mental image from this thread title?"

Just typing the same as you

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

If you were to establish that your vanilla lives don’t cross over then closer , say same county would be great . It cuts down travel . Ultimately though how you get on is more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people prefer to meet people from their locality or does that scare people off by somewhat eroding the potential anonymity of using the site. Ive Always wondered. Proximity is helpful but is it scaring some people off?"

For me, local meets are ideal seeing as I don't have a car anymore. But living in Dublin means anonymity is much easier.

Living in a smaller town or locality it might be more of an issue I guess?

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

Not a huge issue for me(I don't think) as we are all here for the same reason. Probably not the guy/gal next door and all should be well. Also, by the time I get around to meeting someone, and this can take time, I'll have usually figured if they are a Messer or not.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Carlow really isn't that big especially the part im from so i tend not to meet local,id rather travel to meet someone now in saying that there's a limit to how far id travel to..There's been one or two ive gone the extra distance for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were to establish that your vanilla lives don’t cross over then closer , say same county would be great . It cuts down travel . Ultimately though how you get on is more important "

My sentiment exactly

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

We couldnt travel very far on account of family but we would have met people from outside the city. We had two people message us (that we had never met and maybe exchanged 1/2 messages max) about how they had seen us in such and such a place etc. Very uncomfortable and offputting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in a big city like Dublin or Cork it wouldn't be an issue, but otherwise I imagine people want to be more than the 5km away from their home

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

We always travel. Slim pickings in our area combined with not wanting to be recognised would be the reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local would be good but I would travel to the next county if opportunity arose, but can occassionally accom also

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