FabSwingers.com forum: You and your profile

By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Does your profile give a decent enough picture of what it’s like to spend time with you ? Or do you rely on PMs to do this ?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

No. I edit myself a little in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so, you've met me what you reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half and half I think. Making a connection through texting is important, the pictures also help

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"I hope so, you've met me what you reckon "

I think it does . However it’s both detailed and doesn’t have a huge list of likes and dislikes in men or rules for those who contact you. Therefore it gives as through a picture as possible .

If profile includes ‘presence on the forum’ then it does so even more and fills any remaining gaps .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so, you've met me what you reckon

I think it does . However it’s both detailed and doesn’t have a huge list of likes and dislikes in men or rules for those who contact you. Therefore it gives as through a picture as possible .

If profile includes ‘presence on the forum’ then it does so even more and fills any remaining gaps . "

Since joining I have found I'm attracted to different things in men I would have always tall with great broad shoulders, again no real rules as rules only restrict the fun

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Written profile would, but people choose not to read it and just to go by photos which are 100% catfishing bdsm lifestyle as we very rarely partake in those activities and absolutely never with horny randos off the Internet

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

A profile is a person/persons idea of how they see themselves and how best to present that on a website but people viewing it will look at from their point of view.

The internet and what it has opened up to the world is truly fantastic but there’s nothing like people meeting face to face and talking to get a true sense of other folk

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Yes agreed. Also what approach you take in your profile might be geared to coming across ‘well’ rather than a full representation of yourself . My profile bio is a lot more serious than my conversations , because I didn’t trust that biography jokes would read well to those browsing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have fuck all of a bio and normally have a top on in public so very little indication of me as a person.

I think my personality comes across pretty quickly in conversation though

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Errr no ours doesn’t

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By *hivers2020Woman
over a year ago

lolli land

I have song lyrics on my profile, so no! But its worked as an opener for people mailing me so can’t be all that bad

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"Errr no ours doesn’t

It really doesn’t

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

I think mine does represent how much of a tool I am in real life...

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"I think mine does represent how much of a tool I am in real life...

You have an excellent profile actually I remember thinking a while ago

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I’m in full technicolour in real life so no, my profile probably doesn’t represent me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it does!!! I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i don't think mine does. Someone would have to spend time with me to find out what its like to spend time with me

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

"I think mine does represent how much of a tool I am in real life...

You have an excellent profile actually I remember thinking a while ago "

Mind you, anyone who has met me or chatted with me knows there is one thing I keep to myself. Nothing dishonest or sinister, it's just something very recognisable about me so it's more of a deceit for privacy sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No i don't think mine does. Someone would have to spend time with me to find out what its like to spend time with me

Not much point looking then may as well just skip to the good bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think mine does represent how much of a tool I am in real life...

You have an excellent profile actually I remember thinking a while ago

Does it have anything to do with light bulbs?

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

You have to meet face to face sitting chatting to know what people are like

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

"I think mine does represent how much of a tool I am in real life...

You have an excellent profile actually I remember thinking a while ago

Does it have anything to do with light bulbs?"

Haha, yeah, in a roundabout way

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I think mine does represent how much of a tool I am in real life...

You have an excellent profile actually I remember thinking a while ago

Does it have anything to do with light bulbs?

Haha, yeah, in a roundabout way "

Tell the truth its your obsession with boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think my two verifications say more about me than my bio does

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

"I think mine does represent how much of a tool I am in real life...

You have an excellent profile actually I remember thinking a while ago

Does it have anything to do with light bulbs?

Haha, yeah, in a roundabout way

Tell the truth its your obsession with boobies

I assumed that was a given!!

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"Think my two verifications say more about me than my bio does"

You make people’s bladders fall out ? Like an anti pelvic floor exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope my bio encourages people to say hello & ask me some questions...my bio with my veri would give a good representation of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think my two verifications say more about me than my bio does

You make people’s bladders fall out ? Like an anti pelvic floor exercise "
I can be funny sometimes but that lady and I have spent alot of time in each others company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping mine is a bit vague. I'd rather chat to someone rather than put everything about myself in my bio. Leave a little to mystery.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I think mine does represent how much of a tool I am in real life...

You have an excellent profile actually I remember thinking a while ago

Does it have anything to do with light bulbs?

Haha, yeah, in a roundabout way "

Best joke on here in a long time in fairness

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By *usty is backWoman
over a year ago

newtownabby

I agree with bog ha ha

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Does your profile give a decent enough picture of what it’s like to spend time with you ? Or do you rely on PMs to do this ? "

Nope, I'm much warmer and nicer in real life.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I believe it gives a good indication

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"I believe it gives a good indication

It makes me very hungry

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My profile only scratches the surface. It’s there to give someone a glimpse and then if tempted they can find out an awful lot more and that’s when you discover the best bits about someone and how you click

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

I'm far more positive and fun than my profile reads. Lol jasus, my profile has me being a right party pooper. Lol

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

I like men with facial hair

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I like men with facial hair

I like women without facial hair although it's not a deal breaker if they have a nice arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as on here is concerned I guess it does abit,outside of here not really.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Apart from a few, I think, ok photos my profile tells very little about me. And I don’t really send too many PM’s either.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Apart from a few, I think, ok photos my profile tells very little about me. And I don’t really send too many PM’s either. "

They're all error messages when your system allows you to

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"Apart from a few, I think, ok photos my profile tells very little about me. And I don’t really send too many PM’s either.

They're all error messages when your system allows you to

I think we have it sorted now so a new bio will be coming soon

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"I hope so, you've met me what you reckon "

Thats what I was going to write lol

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"I hope so, you've met me what you reckon

Thats what I was going to write lol"

Your bio has changed I think (has it ?) and reflects your personality more . You came across as knowing what you want and what you don’t want

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"I hope so, you've met me what you reckon

Thats what I was going to write lol

Your bio has changed I think (has it ?) and reflects your personality more . You came across as knowing what you want and what you don’t want "

Is it a true reflection though? now you've met me? Lol

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Only bit missing is that you’re a socials machine

Organising and attending

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By *aughty9ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I kept mine really basic I gave people a rough ballpark of my sense of humor.

if I had of tried to analyze myself for my profile it would be pages long I'm probably a bit self deprecating

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By *atekeeperAndKeymasterCouple
over a year ago

Derry/Donegal

I'd say it represents us a little bit but the male half is a social being and loves to chat so it's cool to explore the kinks.

We've had to try and get the balance right cause both of us have different needs xx.

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

my profile says I'm a chatty bee, my veris seem to confirm I am one

il be known as the one who "talks"

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

If anyone finds a set of car keys. Will ya let me know cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile give a decent enough picture of what it’s like to spend time with you ? Or do you rely on PMs to do this ? "

Id say it does alright

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

"Does your profile give a decent enough picture of what it’s like to spend time with you ? Or do you rely on PMs to do this ? "

I think ours gives a good sense of our personalities, our username does throw ppl off tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile give a decent enough picture of what it’s like to spend time with you ? Or do you rely on PMs to do this ? "

Yep I really went in depth with mine left no stone unturned really wanted to show my personality!!!!

10/10 definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...we're waaaaay funnier in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile give a decent enough picture of what it’s like to spend time with you ? Or do you rely on PMs to do this ? "

We've purposely kept ours short and sweet.

But we do go more indepth in messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure ours does

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Pretty sure ours does

Polite way of saying feck off alright

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Nah...we're waaaaay funnier in real life

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think it gives a rough idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to think it gives a rough idea

I haven't got past your photos yet

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Yes I think mine does

B x

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By *ussyhoundMan
over a year ago

Dungannon

I believe mine is a bit crap, but I don't really have the skills to write a sales pitch

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Mine's awesome

but you'll never know

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive been told a few times the way i come across in my bio doesn't reflect the pictures i post,totally opposite in fact....

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By *alway19Man
over a year ago

galway/ Westmeath

No my profile doesn't tell the full picture. I'm the type of guy that prefers to approach a woman and develop things from there....pictures only tell part of the story. Meeting me in person will show you I'm just a nutfer with the right amount of sophistication.

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By *ollypop9Woman
over a year ago

wouldn't you like to know

Casual, Bog, DD and bigga.

You know me now. You tell me...

And I can take honesty, at least then I know what to change in it...

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

Mine is pretty much me...I'm an open book! Sarcastic,love a laugh,don't take life too seriously and a diehard optimist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah not at all. But also I think thats the same for everyone. Even those ones with the perfectly curated profiles.

For everything you put in your bio there's like 10 things you leave out.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Well after much slagging from certain people, who shall go unnamed, I’ve finally rewritten my bio.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Well after much slagging from certain people, who shall go unnamed, I’ve finally rewritten my bio. "

That error on your previous page obviously uploaded to your brain if you "forgot" to upload the best bio ever!

How much for your professional services?

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"Well after much slagging from certain people, who shall go unnamed, I’ve finally rewritten my bio.

That error on your previous page obviously uploaded to your brain if you "forgot" to upload the best bio ever!

How much for your professional services?

All rates are negotiable

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Well after much slagging from certain people, who shall go unnamed, I’ve finally rewritten my bio.

That error on your previous page obviously uploaded to your brain if you "forgot" to upload the best bio ever!

How much for your professional services?

All rates are negotiable

Meh, the Irish like to barter, nothing like a price set in stone - then you know what you're worth

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"Well after much slagging from certain people, who shall go unnamed, I’ve finally rewritten my bio.

That error on your previous page obviously uploaded to your brain if you "forgot" to upload the best bio ever!

How much for your professional services?

All rates are negotiable

Meh, the Irish like to barter, nothing like a price set in stone - then you know what you're worth

You can’t afford my fixed price

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"Casual, Bog, DD and bigga.

You know me now. You tell me...

And I can take honesty, at least then I know what to change in it..."

Discuss over cappuccino tomorrow ?

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By *ollypop9Woman
over a year ago

wouldn't you like to know

"Casual, Bog, DD and bigga.

You know me now. You tell me...

And I can take honesty, at least then I know what to change in it...

Discuss over cappuccino tomorrow ? "

Good idea

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

My profile is 99.9% pure hobby horses dung

I do OK like with the 0.1%

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