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"I get that you need to get the info out there but really? Are you surprised when nobody responds? Does it ever work for anyone?" They might get private messages | |||
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"We don't see the issue with it. Just another way to the info out to a wider audience. " I have issue with it myself. I just can't imagine too many of these offers being taken up. | |||
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"We don't see the issue with it. Just another way to the info out to a wider audience. I have issue with it myself. I just can't imagine too many of these offers being taken up." I'd imagine the person posting it makes all the difference as to whether they get replies on not | |||
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"I think they are nievely hopeful.. but fuck it why not. " That's kind of how I see it. They can appear very suspicious even if they are totally genuine. | |||
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"Temptation to start a, would anyone like to join me and Don draper in a hotel thread is proving quite hard to resist "Go ahead by all means but, don't act all disappointed when the ladies show up and only want me!  | |||
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"Is it any different from women and couples putting it in their status updates?" Ummm they dont have a vagina.... Is that not enough | |||
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"Temptation to start a, would anyone like to join me and Don draper in a hotel thread is proving quite hard to resist
Go ahead by all means but, don't act all disappointed when the ladies show up and only want me! " you dam sex machine, leave some for the rest of us! | |||
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"Temptation to start a, would anyone like to join me and Don draper in a hotel thread is proving quite hard to resist
Go ahead by all means but, don't act all disappointed when the ladies show up and only want me!
you dam sex machine, leave some for the rest of us! "Sure am I not leaving the hotel stranger sex cohort to you? Is that not enough lol | |||
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"I have posted in relation to 1:1 coffee meets not hotels and asked to be PMd. Wouldn’t be brave enough to do the latter as the probability of people publicly saying yes I ll have sex with you on this date and time on a public forum is zero . There is also next to zero chance of them PMing you after a thread like that if you haven’t connected privately through PMs already Or don’t know each other . When it comes to single male profiles I d say only a handful can pull this off and they’re all too wise to post a thread like that anyway " I'm lucky when they actually stay to have a coffee with me  | |||
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"I have posted in relation to 1:1 coffee meets not hotels and asked to be PMd. Wouldn’t be brave enough to do the latter as the probability of people publicly saying yes I ll have sex with you on this date and time on a public forum is zero . There is also next to zero chance of them PMing you after a thread like that if you haven’t connected privately through PMs already Or don’t know each other . When it comes to single male profiles I d say only a handful can pull this off and they’re all too wise to post a thread like that anyway " I agree | |||
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"I get that you need to get the info out there but really? Are you surprised when nobody responds? Does it ever work for anyone?" It never worked for me ...must be because l never posted it on any forum  | |||
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"I actually responded to one of these updates when person was in my area and I had rare night off from kids. We had dinner and drinks in a gorgeous restaurant and a wonderful evening and great craic. He was an absolute gentleman there was no pressure to retire to his hotel room after. " What’s your fave restaurant? | |||
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"I actually responded to one of these updates when person was in my area and I had rare night off from kids. We had dinner and drinks in a gorgeous restaurant and a wonderful evening and great craic. He was an absolute gentleman there was no pressure to retire to his hotel room after. " I'm genuinely happy to hear a good story on this | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? " So that's what that giant cock in the sky was... Thank fuck I thought it was a semi moon | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? So that's what that giant cock in the sky was... Thank fuck I thought it was a semi moon" We are waiting for the boob signal to go up | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? " Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning. | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning." How does being upfront about wanting a play meet make them less genuine or trustworthy? | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning." I can't see that these guys meeting a woman they don't know in a hotel for sex is any different than other site members doing the same | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning." Once again I'll ask what the difference is when women and couples advertise exactly the same? There is no doubt in their status or forum post that they are also looking to hookup but in those scenarios they are basically inviting a complete stranger to their hotel room. Both carry an element of risk but no-one ever raises an eyebrow when the question is asked by a woman. | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning." I get what you're saying and l can imagine it happens a lot but somehow l couldn't see ladies taking strangers up on that offer unless they had met before and if that was the case they would probably be on personal contact details at that stage so wouldn't need to be putting it up on a forum. | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning. I can't see that these guys meeting a woman they don't know in a hotel for sex is any different than other site members doing the same" Exactly this, only difference is them not putting it as a status and it not being seen or putting it in forum where they have more chance of someone actually being interested | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning. How does being upfront about wanting a play meet make them less genuine or trustworthy? " So if they claimed to be a visiting billionaire from calufornia they should also be taken at face value? | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning. How does being upfront about wanting a play meet make them less genuine or trustworthy? So if they claimed to be a visiting billionaire from calufornia they should also be taken at face value?" Have the posters your referring to done that or are you completely moving the goalposts of the conversation? Taking your comment at face value then the outlandish claim of being a travelling billionaire using fab for a hook up is the red flag not the hotel meet | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning. How does being upfront about wanting a play meet make them less genuine or trustworthy? So if they claimed to be a visiting billionaire from calufornia they should also be taken at face value? Have the posters your referring to done that or are you completely moving the goalposts of the conversation? Taking your comment at face value then the outlandish claim of being a travelling billionaire using fab for a hook up is the red flag not the hotel meet" Well what I was pointing out is that they are being up front on the surface but you really don't know. You say the billionaire claim would be outlandish but it could be true and he could be totally up front but not believed. The point is that if someone wants to deceive you, they will give a story that raises as few questions as possible. | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning. How does being upfront about wanting a play meet make them less genuine or trustworthy? So if they claimed to be a visiting billionaire from calufornia they should also be taken at face value? Have the posters your referring to done that or are you completely moving the goalposts of the conversation? Taking your comment at face value then the outlandish claim of being a travelling billionaire using fab for a hook up is the red flag not the hotel meet Well what I was pointing out is that they are being up front on the surface but you really don't know. You say the billionaire claim would be outlandish but it could be true and he could be totally up front but not believed. The point is that if someone wants to deceive you, they will give a story that raises as few questions as possible. " But how does any of that soley relate to guys looking for hotel meets and not just generally on fab?  | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning. How does being upfront about wanting a play meet make them less genuine or trustworthy? So if they claimed to be a visiting billionaire from calufornia they should also be taken at face value? Have the posters your referring to done that or are you completely moving the goalposts of the conversation? Taking your comment at face value then the outlandish claim of being a travelling billionaire using fab for a hook up is the red flag not the hotel meet Well what I was pointing out is that they are being up front on the surface but you really don't know. You say the billionaire claim would be outlandish but it could be true and he could be totally up front but not believed. The point is that if someone wants to deceive you, they will give a story that raises as few questions as possible. But how does any of that soley relate to guys looking for hotel meets and not just generally on fab? "Eh, because I'm talking about hotel meets lol. | |||
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"I guess I really just wonder does it ever work for them. I know if I were a woman, I'd no more go to a strangers hotel room without knowing them well beforehand." It's highly unlikely she'll go straight to his room though, I wouldn't and I'm sure plenty of other women here won't either - that doesn't mean it hasn't happened...if they're meeting in and around the hotel location, they're in a public place, can go for a walk, a coffee, a drink... In fairness, the likelihood is, there'll be a little bit of online chat and an exchange of pics beforehand...no different to what a lot of us on here do. The only difference is, there's a limited time to get to chat online before you decide to meet, if you do decide to. And both parties know there's a comfy hotel room to go back to... We've seen the threads of socials/meets and the questions asked if you would play on your first social. Some do, some don't. I mean Christ, there's people going dogging, cruising toilets, using glory holes, adult cinemas and saunas...strangers fucking each other, this is probably just as safe, if not safer... And everyone, women, men, couples and TV/TS, should, in my opinion, make sure they have a trusted friend who knows where you are and who you're with...a message, a call, a signal of sorts to have to make sure you're safe  | |||
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"Don't see an issue with it, what do you expect them to do? Write a message in the sky? Or sent out the FAB signal? Is there not an element of possible dodginess? A woman going to meet a stranger at his hotel knowing that he wants sex and may not be a particularly trustworthy person. I started this thread thinking only about those who post with the clear indication of wanting a hookup but I do believe that many men are genuine and would accept just a social meet. At the end of the day though, they don't advertise that they are in town and available just for a drink or a coffee at Starbucks. They advertise that they are in a hotel. There is an implied meaning. How does being upfront about wanting a play meet make them less genuine or trustworthy? So if they claimed to be a visiting billionaire from calufornia they should also be taken at face value? Have the posters your referring to done that or are you completely moving the goalposts of the conversation? Taking your comment at face value then the outlandish claim of being a travelling billionaire using fab for a hook up is the red flag not the hotel meet Well what I was pointing out is that they are being up front on the surface but you really don't know. You say the billionaire claim would be outlandish but it could be true and he could be totally up front but not believed. The point is that if someone wants to deceive you, they will give a story that raises as few questions as possible. But how does any of that soley relate to guys looking for hotel meets and not just generally on fab?
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"My first meet with a woman on fab was in a hotel but we'd been messaging for a while before that If I was going to be in a hotel anywhere on my own in Ireland it wouldn't bother me to write a post asking for company for drinks and dinner I wouldn't do it on the day but give a few days notice " The difference with someone like you though, is you're well known and liked on here. People would tend to trust you because you've been at socials and built a good reputation. The guys I am particularly thinking of with this thread are those who maybe are new or not well known and perhaps have no profile pics except the odd 3 inch wonder baton. I can't see how it might work for them. I'd be tempted to meet you for drinks even lol. | |||
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"I guess I really just wonder does it ever work for them. I know if I were a woman, I'd no more go to a strangers hotel room without knowing them well beforehand." A guy started a thread about a month ago. He had booked a hotel room but the lady had cancelled too late. Another lady he had met before saw the thread and met him there. A dumb priest never got a parish I say  | |||
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"My first meet with a woman on fab was in a hotel but we'd been messaging for a while before that If I was going to be in a hotel anywhere on my own in Ireland it wouldn't bother me to write a post asking for company for drinks and dinner I wouldn't do it on the day but give a few days notice The difference with someone like you though, is you're well known and liked on here. People would tend to trust you because you've been at socials and built a good reputation. The guys I am particularly thinking of with this thread are those who maybe are new or not well known and perhaps have no profile pics except the odd 3 inch wonder baton. I can't see how it might work for them. I'd be tempted to meet you for drinks even lol." Pint of rockshore please. | |||
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"I guess I really just wonder does it ever work for them. I know if I were a woman, I'd no more go to a strangers hotel room without knowing them well beforehand. It's highly unlikely she'll go straight to his room though, I wouldn't and I'm sure plenty of other women here won't either - that doesn't mean it hasn't happened...if they're meeting in and around the hotel location, they're in a public place, can go for a walk, a coffee, a drink... In fairness, the likelihood is, there'll be a little bit of online chat and an exchange of pics beforehand...no different to what a lot of us on here do. The only difference is, there's a limited time to get to chat online before you decide to meet, if you do decide to. And both parties know there's a comfy hotel room to go back to... We've seen the threads of socials/meets and the questions asked if you would play on your first social. Some do, some don't. I mean Christ, there's people going dogging, cruising toilets, using glory holes, adult cinemas and saunas...strangers fucking each other, this is probably just as safe, if not safer... And everyone, women, men, couples and TV/TS, should, in my opinion, make sure they have a trusted friend who knows where you are and who you're with...a message, a call, a signal of sorts to have to make sure you're safe "This is all very sensible as Usual But there is a differences between genders. More than 80 per cent of victims in sexual crimes reported to the Garda are female, and 98 per cent of the perpetrators in sexual offences are male, according to the 2020 set of crime data released by the Central Statistics Office (CSO). So yes there is a difference between a female , a male female couple , and a single male asking a stranger to go to their room if that’s indeed what they are | |||
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