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By *un4too OP   Couple
over a year ago

north cork

Is it harder for men to open up about kinks or things they'd love to try?

The vast majority of women on here are bisexual or bi-curious whereas the vast majority of men are "straight". Men that I have personally seen suck guys off while their partner is present and participating, yet on the profile they are straight.

Are we still so far away from being open about our sexuality? In the UK, Germany, Spain men are more open and not ashamed, for want of a better word.

Hats off to the women here for being straight up and Liberal about what they want.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Yes it's more taboo for men.

I suspect the large number of profiles who state that they won't play with bi men is part of jt

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Well we love them

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't believe it's harder but there seem to be a lot of people recently who believe that straight men have to justify their preference and when they attempt to do so they are labelled liars.

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By *un4too OP   Couple
over a year ago

north cork


"Yes it's more taboo for men.

I suspect the large number of profiles who state that they won't play with bi men is part of jt"

In your opinion do you think that's because the male half is saying "there's no way I'm meeting a guy that sucks other guys off" or do u think its more for sexual health reasons?

Me personally I think it's not a lot to do with the sexual health side of it. A lot of guys here hiding their preferences just to suit others preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There certainly seems to be more people on the Irish forum obsessed with what labels others have picked for themselves than the UK one.

Other than that I dont have alot of expiriance to use to compare

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yes it's more taboo for men.

I suspect the large number of profiles who state that they won't play with bi men is part of jt

In your opinion do you think that's because the male half is saying "there's no way I'm meeting a guy that sucks other guys off" or do u think its more for sexual health reasons?

Me personally I think it's not a lot to do with the sexual health side of it. A lot of guys here hiding their preferences just to suit others preferences "

Is that what you are doing op?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

A lot of assumptions made in some threads about bisexuality

Are most women bisexual on here or just bi flexible or not even in the majority of women on here.

Most people claim to like girl on girl porn so its very acceptable

Some men hide the fact that they're bisexual because of various reasons

Guilt,shame,afraid that they will limit the amount of women who will sleep with them.

Or just because they like to suck a cock or have their cock sucked by a man they don't count themselves as being bisexual ...just a man that goes with the flow.

Most people wouldn't watch man on man porn so there's more of a taboo there.

Bi men usually have to put on their profile that they can play straight and not touch another mans cock in a 3sum

I've yet to see a bi woman state that she won't touch anothers womans fanny during play...why not

I'm bi,I'll play with a couple and the man in a couple if thats what's agreed but lets be open and upfront about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only participated in a in a few cuckolds, so only have pretty limited experience tbh. I'm straight although have allowed some polite and respectful obedient cuckolds suck my cock as a thank you gesture after I've finished raw dogging their wives.

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By *un4too OP   Couple
over a year ago

north cork


"Yes it's more taboo for men.

I suspect the large number of profiles who state that they won't play with bi men is part of jt

In your opinion do you think that's because the male half is saying "there's no way I'm meeting a guy that sucks other guys off" or do u think its more for sexual health reasons?

Me personally I think it's not a lot to do with the sexual health side of it. A lot of guys here hiding their preferences just to suit others preferences

Is that what you are doing op? "

A hint of passive aggressive in that question.

We have both tried tried it and our preferences reflected that on our profile as "curious".

We are no longer curious and our profile stats that. If it changes again so will our profile. We df4 here as a couple and are very open about things we are curious about

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yes it's more taboo for men.

I suspect the large number of profiles who state that they won't play with bi men is part of jt

In your opinion do you think that's because the male half is saying "there's no way I'm meeting a guy that sucks other guys off" or do u think its more for sexual health reasons?

Me personally I think it's not a lot to do with the sexual health side of it. A lot of guys here hiding their preferences just to suit others preferences

Is that what you are doing op?

A hint of passive aggressive in that question.

We have both tried tried it and our preferences reflected that on our profile as "curious".

We are no longer curious and our profile stats that. If it changes again so will our profile. We df4 here as a couple and are very open about things we are curious about

"

No hint of anything at all except wondering why you chose to highlight the word straight in your original post as if casting doubt on its validity on profiles?

My point in my previous comment is that some people who are bi or have experimented at least appear to have a chip on their shoulder over those who have no interest in experimenting.

There have been numerous comments recently aimed at straight men almost calling them out for not coming out.

The only curiosity I have is why some people are obsessed with what others do or don't do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What doesn’t kill you…….: give it a go

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By *un4too OP   Couple
over a year ago

north cork


"Yes it's more taboo for men.

I suspect the large number of profiles who state that they won't play with bi men is part of jt

In your opinion do you think that's because the male half is saying "there's no way I'm meeting a guy that sucks other guys off" or do u think its more for sexual health reasons?

Me personally I think it's not a lot to do with the sexual health side of it. A lot of guys here hiding their preferences just to suit others preferences

Is that what you are doing op?

A hint of passive aggressive in that question.

We have both tried tried it and our preferences reflected that on our profile as "curious".

We are no longer curious and our profile stats that. If it changes again so will our profile. We df4 here as a couple and are very open about things we are curious about

No hint of anything at all except wondering why you chose to highlight the word straight in your original post as if casting doubt on its validity on profiles?

My point in my previous comment is that some people who are bi or have experimented at least appear to have a chip on their shoulder over those who have no interest in experimenting.

There have been numerous comments recently aimed at straight men almost calling them out for not coming out.

The only curiosity I have is why some people are obsessed with what others do or don't do. "

I wouldn't say its an obsession but more a curiosity. Sure look we can talk about the weather and keep it boring or we can have an open discussion and maybe even make people realise that being openly bi rather that being what you think will get you more bed notches isn't a bad thing.

We've a long way to go before we get to that point in Ireland though!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yes it's more taboo for men.

I suspect the large number of profiles who state that they won't play with bi men is part of jt

In your opinion do you think that's because the male half is saying "there's no way I'm meeting a guy that sucks other guys off" or do u think its more for sexual health reasons?

Me personally I think it's not a lot to do with the sexual health side of it. A lot of guys here hiding their preferences just to suit others preferences

Is that what you are doing op?

A hint of passive aggressive in that question.

We have both tried tried it and our preferences reflected that on our profile as "curious".

We are no longer curious and our profile stats that. If it changes again so will our profile. We df4 here as a couple and are very open about things we are curious about

No hint of anything at all except wondering why you chose to highlight the word straight in your original post as if casting doubt on its validity on profiles?

My point in my previous comment is that some people who are bi or have experimented at least appear to have a chip on their shoulder over those who have no interest in experimenting.

There have been numerous comments recently aimed at straight men almost calling them out for not coming out.

The only curiosity I have is why some people are obsessed with what others do or don't do.

I wouldn't say its an obsession but more a curiosity. Sure look we can talk about the weather and keep it boring or we can have an open discussion and maybe even make people realise that being openly bi rather that being what you think will get you more bed notches isn't a bad thing.

We've a long way to go before we get to that point in Ireland though! "

I agree about the open discussion. I'm fully behind that. I'm very open about my sexuality. I'm straight.

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