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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Truth people speak the truth if you haven't a six pack or able to talk the talk what is happening to a nice guy get to know him oh I'm here for sex he has a lovely cock and is able to use it and pleasure with it ... its shameful that women and men of couples are expecting Prince charming to show up yet tis when they don't show that talk is cheap they get upset ... look in the mirror and say sex is sex people not fantasy six-pack with 20" cock guy with skills in bed and speech and ability ... but hey reality is I'm here I know I can use what I have any people are haters or curious find out the hard long thick way not through abusive messages

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Yesterday you were complaining about small cocks

Today you're complaining about big cocks

Is it ok to wait for the medium cock thread tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own preferences. If you’re not it, how bad. Move on. Either get used to that or realise you are probably on the wrong site friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to disagree with you on this. I'm no oil painting and I'm 50 years old with a dad bod + a few pounds and I've no problems. I get flirted with on a daily basis (on fab and out and about) by women of all ages and sometimes guys. I've chatted to women on here who say they only want 6 packs and 9 inch cocks but given the chance they'd have me. So I dunno what you're basing this on but from my experience on here, most women are not looking for that at all.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

What complete and utter horse dung!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every human being has zero control of who we are sexually attracted to... You cannot force an attraction if it doesn't exist.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Every human being has zero control of who we are sexually attracted to... You cannot force an attraction if it doesn't exist."

This right here!

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

Dad bod

No Abs

Average cock

1 ball

Stamina isn't great

Bit of a C***T

I do ok... some people think they deserve things instead of trying to go get it..have a good night..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone turn you down?

Sorry OP, simply being a "nice guy" isn't enough for us. We want a two way connection. We want mutual attraction. We want to thrill and be thrilled. Sex isn't just sex - this IS our fantasy and we'll happily hold out for the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to disagree with you on this. I'm no oil painting and I'm 50 years old with a dad bod + a few pounds and I've no problems. I get flirted with on a daily basis (on fab and out and about) by women of all ages and sometimes guys. I've chatted to women on here who say they only want 6 packs and 9 inch cocks but given the chance they'd have me. So I dunno what you're basing this on but from my experience on here, most women are not looking for that at all."

Your verifications show that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday you were complaining about small cocks

Today you're complaining about big cocks

Is it ok to wait for the medium cock thread tomorrow

"

Cockadoodledoo

But any Size cock won’t Do

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

The green arrow is interesting and funny how it goes from too big to being too small in 24 hours.

I don't know where the idea comes from that all couples or women on here are looking for 6 packs and big dicks and won't meet anyone who hasn't got that because it is well bullshit basically and a little line guys say to make themselves feel better about not getting meets.Some women and couples may want that but the majority I've spoken to don't. A lot, not all need to get to know someone and see if they get along before they decide to have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Truth people speak the truth if you haven't a six pack or able to talk the talk what is happening to a nice guy get to know him oh I'm here for sex he has a lovely cock and is able to use it and pleasure with it ... its shameful that women and men of couples are expecting Prince charming to show up yet tis when they don't show that talk is cheap they get upset ... look in the mirror and say sex is sex people not fantasy six-pack with 20" cock guy with skills in bed and speech and ability ... but hey reality is I'm here I know I can use what I have any people are haters or curious find out the hard long thick way not through abusive messages "

Jaysus bring back the stream of consciousness truck driver guy. Don't think I can link but check up r/nice guys on reddit and if you don't see what you've done here there's little else to say lad. Good luck.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Nice guys with shocking picture quality are left behind"

Fixed that for you

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By *ivelifeMan
over a year ago

South


"Truth people speak the truth if you haven't a six pack or able to talk the talk what is happening to a nice guy get to know him oh I'm here for sex he has a lovely cock and is able to use it and pleasure with it ... its shameful that women and men of couples are expecting Prince charming to show up yet tis when they don't show that talk is cheap they get upset ... look in the mirror and say sex is sex people not fantasy six-pack with 20" cock guy with skills in bed and speech and ability ... but hey reality is I'm here I know I can use what I have any people are haters or curious find out the hard long thick way not through abusive messages "

So you have a belly or a dad bod supposly i don't know and can't talk the talk is what your saying?

Why you even on here if your complaining so much about yourself. Go get some help from a professional to fall in love with yourself then come back here sure.

Your topics might be more magical then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet has ruined the description "nice guy" all I see now is an entitled dude in a fedora.

Self described nice guys tend not to be and lack self awareness.. we can all be nice and we can all be not so nice at times

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"The internet has ruined the description "nice guy" all I see now is an entitled dude in a fedora.

Self described nice guys tend not to be and lack self awareness.. we can all be nice and we can all be not so nice at times"

Good insights. I'd rather be an upfront and honest asshole who says unpopular things and pisses some people off with it, than be a nice-to-be-nice nodding agree-monkey. Zero apologies for that.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

To OP.. (explaining in a nicer way)

The body shape here isn't the issue. Plenty of guys with bodies like yours do great on here. Your problem is one of attitude and presentation. If you don't like your tummy for example them make your pic a pic of something else (not your dick). Put some effort and thought into your pic(s) sell yourself better. A clothed pic is fine. Think about lighting and angles. Get someone to help if you can. The way you present yourself isn't helping. EVERYONE could take a very unflattering picture of themselves if they tried. It looks like you tried.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Agree with the above.

Also, blaming everyone else for your lack of success won't do you any favours on Fab or in life. Have a look at how you can make things work for you and stop with the 'woe is me' attitude, it's not attractive tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've being with men here that are all different sizes and shapes. They all have same thing in common. The are sane sound respectful and a bit of craic. They also put time and effort into their profile. Personally I'd class myself as very average Mammy I mention my wobbly belly and fat covid ass in my own profile. But I make a lot of effort with my pictures and bio and the messages I send to people and it pays off. There's a expectation here that this is Dial a Fuck but the magical keys to the Fab Kingdom await for those who put the effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another nonsense thread

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

[Removed by poster at 02/11/21 09:10:28]

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I've being with men here that are all different sizes and shapes. They all have same thing in common. The are sane sound respectful and a bit of craic. They also put time and effort into their profile. Personally I'd class myself as very average Mammy I mention my wobbly belly and fat covid ass in my own profile. But I make a lot of effort with my pictures and bio and the messages I send to people and it pays off. There's a expectation here that this is Dial a Fuck but the magical keys to the Fab Kingdom await for those who put the effort in. "

Sane, sound and respectful, and a bit of craic...

Would you settle for one, or possibly none, of those by any chance?

Asking for a friend.

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

No they don't!!!! I've been 19st and 14.5st and 38 waist and 32 waist and I've never had a problem meeting people. So from first hand experience body size/shape doesn't matter that much. Maybe you are looking for reasons why people won't meet you and assuming it's that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure the dad bods out there are getting more action than me. Maybe just maybe, its got nothing to do with looks.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

We men are ten a penny on the site. That's the reality of it. Nobody is obliged to fancy us or offer us a pity shag. If someone likes me and is interested, great, but if not, complaining about it won't get me anywhere.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"We men are ten a penny on the site. That's the reality of it. Nobody is obliged to fancy us or offer us a pity shag. If someone likes me and is interested, great, but if not, complaining about it won't get me anywhere."

Now don't be coming in here talking all sensible .

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Who wants to fuck a 'nice' guy?

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"We men are ten a penny on the site. That's the reality of it. Nobody is obliged to fancy us or offer us a pity shag. If someone likes me and is interested, great, but if not, complaining about it won't get me anywhere."

Aw, you're all great - valued and valuable members of Fab society - sure, where would us single ladies be if we didn't have the wide array of choice

#allfucksmatterevenpityshags

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By *aughty9ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"nice guy" as soon as someone refers to themselves as a "nice guy" it's time to check yourself as someone has already said nobody owes you anything.

Take your time have a conversation with people try to make a connection i wouldn't want to bang someone i have absolutely nothing in common with

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Who wants to fuck a 'nice' guy? "

They might mean a guy from the French city if Nice and he's a complete bastard

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Being a guy and being called nice( bland and forgettable) is not somethi.g to aspire to OP or trade off of , nothing wrong with being a good guy, but in my exp most guys who claim to be nice are actually fucking creeps who want to oblige/guilt sex out of poeople , "oh look i habe paid for dinner and drinks all night " "i wasonly being nice"...such bullshit. nice to me means you have a hidden agenda but not the skill or confidence to be upfront about it...

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

Not looking to pile on OP but judging by the fairly unanimous responses on this thread maybe the problem isn’t everyone else’s attitude....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want some of he's having.

I don't agree with the OP though. You get out what you put in and generally speaking it has nothing to do with the size or shape of your penis but about how you portray yourself on the forums and on your profile. Let go of your expectations and remember that most ppl here have their own personal preferences done like to have all the boxes ticked and some are happy with just one out two boxes ticked. Don't go putting everyone in the same basket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a statement or a debate thread or ??? ..I really don't know what to say so I'll just say ... nothing ..but ..but..all l know is any guy l hear any lady in real life saying about him stuff like " Ahh he's a nice guy "..or " he's sound out " she is NEVER gonna FUCK him ..NEVER...EVER ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be right , but then why are men not so fussy ? I mean if we are being honest the majority of women here have well , well lets just say ‘ weathered well ‘ ove the lockdown , the difference here is numerical , women can pick and choose , mostly ! Whereas men havent the same choice ,, thats all its down to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could be right , but then why are men not so fussy ? I mean if we are being honest the majority of women here have well , well lets just say ‘ weathered well ‘ ove the lockdown , the difference here is numerical , women can pick and choose , mostly ! Whereas men havent the same choice ,, thats all its down to "

Mate I don’t chase no women on here and it’s the men that can’t pull women here are the only ones that are on threads bitching and moaning !!!

It’s easy done mate in some cases charm goes a lot further then looks !

Try it

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By *ussyhoundMan
over a year ago

Dungannon

Difficult topic but believe it's all down to how you approach someone, your profile ( mine quite crap ) and what the person is looking for, if we were all same wouldn't be much fun I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone just shap this guy and shut him up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone just shap this guy and shut him up "

Don’t know what shap is so you do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone just shap this guy and shut him up

Don’t know what shap is so you do it "

*shag!

Ducking autocorrect!!! What? Oh ship! Huh? Oh for duck sake! Bullocks! Bullocks! Bullocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone just shap this guy and shut him up

Don’t know what shap is so you do it

*shag!

Ducking autocorrect!!! What? Oh ship! Huh? Oh for duck sake! Bullocks! Bullocks! Bullocks! "

I literally thought that was lingo for something!!!

This makes it funnier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Difficult topic but believe it's all down to how you approach someone, your profile ( mine quite crap ) and what the person is looking for, if we were all same wouldn't be much fun I think "

You just created a new fab name mate so it wasn’t completely bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I've been on a path of self improvement over the last few months due to a very bad break-up. I've been where you are and it does get better.

Like most of the fellow fabbers in this forum pointed out it is not the size of your dick, the way you are build nor even your height. It's how you act and preceive the world around you. This might be a very unpopular opinion but you are coming from a place of Scarcity and that makes the "Nice Guy" approuch toxic.. You need to change you perception to that of Abundnace. There is always more. More money, more cars, more meets.

I can only recommend to always work on improving yourself. Don't compare yourself to others. You are unique and should bring your uniqueness to the table. Only you know your value and so should bring the best of you to every interactions.

If you are thinking on improving yourself have a read of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover as a start. He has a few good points in his book that should show you a different perspective.

Happy fabbing and good luck on your journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can have sex with who they want.

Implying otherwise, and giving out about people’s preferences…isn’t nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can have sex with who they want.

Implying otherwise, and giving out about people’s preferences…isn’t nice. "

True that, I got rejected once cos I have a beard.. They way to look at it is there are plenty of fish in the sea.. on to the next..

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"OP I've been on a path of self improvement over the last few months due to a very bad break-up. I've been where you are and it does get better.

Like most of the fellow fabbers in this forum pointed out it is not the size of your dick, the way you are build nor even your height. It's how you act and preceive the world around you. This might be a very unpopular opinion but you are coming from a place of Scarcity and that makes the "Nice Guy" approuch toxic.. You need to change you perception to that of Abundnace. There is always more. More money, more cars, more meets.

I can only recommend to always work on improving yourself. Don't compare yourself to others. You are unique and should bring your uniqueness to the table. Only you know your value and so should bring the best of you to every interactions.

If you are thinking on improving yourself have a read of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover as a start. He has a few good points in his book that should show you a different perspective.

Happy fabbing and good luck on your journey"

Now that's fantastic advice but unfortunately the OP has already moved on to his next thread without bothering to reply to any comments here (and therein lies his problem)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I've been on a path of self improvement over the last few months due to a very bad break-up. I've been where you are and it does get better.

Like most of the fellow fabbers in this forum pointed out it is not the size of your dick, the way you are build nor even your height. It's how you act and preceive the world around you. This might be a very unpopular opinion but you are coming from a place of Scarcity and that makes the "Nice Guy" approuch toxic.. You need to change you perception to that of Abundnace. There is always more. More money, more cars, more meets.

I can only recommend to always work on improving yourself. Don't compare yourself to others. You are unique and should bring your uniqueness to the table. Only you know your value and so should bring the best of you to every interactions.

If you are thinking on improving yourself have a read of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover as a start. He has a few good points in his book that should show you a different perspective.

Happy fabbing and good luck on your journey

Now that's fantastic advice but unfortunately the OP has already moved on to his next thread without bothering to reply to any comments here (and therein lies his problem) "

Appreciate the heads up !!!

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