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By *inxnmaster OP   Couple
over a year ago

naughty valley

sex - of course

At a recent vanilla party friends of us stated that whenever they have a chat with us the conversation drifts into sexual matter . Well there is that saying “ People who talk a lot about sex don’t have any “ We dare to think it’s the opposite . People who don’t have sex have nothing to talk about it . And in a modern society we would consider talking about sex as being mainstream , this is 2021 and not 1971. What are your thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk about sex alllll the time with my friends and lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is like a lot of other things in this country, it's still nearly one of those taboos that everyone does but not a lot like to speak about it for fear of judgement. Personally, talk away, what's the problem with it?!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Talking about one subject to the detriment of all others makes for poor conversation imo. Talking about sex is fine but there are a lot of people who talk about nothing else and it's quite boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez would you look at that weather today. Do you have any plans for the weekend then? Much else going on?

What do you mean I don't have much to talk about? You trying to say I'm doing no nut November and haven't been getting much sex?

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By *inxnmaster OP   Couple
over a year ago

naughty valley


"Talking about one subject to the detriment of all others makes for poor conversation imo. Talking about sex is fine but there are a lot of people who talk about nothing else and it's quite boring. "

…in the vanilla world or here ?

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Yeah it's funny, we never talk about sex with our vanilla friends, only ever hypothetically and jokingly. At Fab socials, it's 90% of what we talk about, cos it's fun and liberating

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

One of the reasons I like socials is that the conversations can move freely in any direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking about one subject to the detriment of all others makes for poor conversation imo. Talking about sex is fine but there are a lot of people who talk about nothing else and it's quite boring. "

No matter how modern society is now, many many prefer to keep their private lives just that - private. Others may only be comfortable talking about sex with certain friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes up I talk about as openly and honestly as the situation allows, but I'm probably like that with every subject.

Add a little cheekiness and messing and I don't see why you would treat that subject different to any other.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't talk about my sex life with anyone outside of fab or those I know through here.

I don't even discuss it in the forums. It's between me and whoever I happen to be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either way talking about sex or not it doesn’t prove anything. It just proves some people are more comfortable talking about sex and others aren’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind talking about past sexual encounters but I wouldn’t go into details about a current partner. Obviously I gossip in work but I don’t go into specifics. I try to have respect for the person I’m with.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I really dislike talking about it during dry spells

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