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By *iery minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

kildare

So how many times is it acceptable to be called a time waster,a fake c#$t and someone who is just on here to be a keyboard warrior before you decide you are done replying to one person?

I try to be fair to all and give them the benefit of the doubt but this same person keeps going off on one when I don't reply straight away even though it has been explained to this person I am not always on because real life comes first. Is it any wonder some on here cannot be bothered replying and this is not exclusive to women,men and couples get it too. It is an adult site can people not behave like the adults they claim to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but block the personthe minute a red flag appears or abuse starts from a person. Report and block.

Noone should take abuse in life or on here

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

First and last time ,not here to take that from anyone -Block straight away !

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

What they said

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

The first strike and they're out as far as we're concerned. Plenty of sound, respectful people here to chat to and meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't deserve your attention,just block them

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By *ueenbeetipp43Woman
over a year ago

my own world


"So how many times is it acceptable to be called a time waster,a fake c#$t and someone who is just on here to be a keyboard warrior before you decide you are done replying to one person?

I try to be fair to all and give them the benefit of the doubt but this same person keeps going off on one when I don't reply straight away even though it has been explained to this person I am not always on because real life comes first. Is it any wonder some on here cannot be bothered replying and this is not exclusive to women,men and couples get it too. It is an adult site can people not behave like the adults they claim to be?"

Only one chance for that shite behaviour. If he behaves like that over text imagine the hassle you'd have if you met him

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't give people second chances online anymore. Someone in real life that I know then maybe but a random person on a website no way.

The first time they go off on one for any reason, block them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ruthless now I just add anyone like that to my ever growing block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Block and report. No need for that shite.

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By *iery minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

kildare

They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "

That is one of those 6 million dollar question

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By *aughty9ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I think some people expect way too much when they sign up to this site they get frustrated that it's not sex sex sex but that is no excuse for poor behavior as the others said block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "

Yep same here. I dip in and out during the day if I’ve a spare minute but yes, life does go on outside of Fab.

Lovely profile by the way.

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Sorry but block the personthe minute a red flag appears or abuse starts from a person. Report and block.

Noone should take abuse in life or on here "

Agreed! Life’s too short for that shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "

I wish I could answer that!!

It seems its not just here, people in abusive controlling relationships all over the place.

Just the little bit that you've written about him puts him squarely in this category.

Its such a contradiction of what swinging is in my understanding of it anyway.

You've dodged a bullet by blocking him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many times is it acceptable to be called a time waster,a fake c#$t and someone who is just on here to be a keyboard warrior before you decide you are done replying to one person?

I try to be fair to all and give them the benefit of the doubt but this same person keeps going off on one when I don't reply straight away even though it has been explained to this person I am not always on because real life comes first. Is it any wonder some on here cannot be bothered replying and this is not exclusive to women,men and couples get it too. It is an adult site can people not behave like the adults they claim to be?"

Fair play Fiery, you've more patience than me

Block, block and block all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a trick question?

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By *iery minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"Is this a trick question?"

No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just dont know the meaning of the word "no" or cant take rejection, probably bad life experience and think they can abuse someone now by sitting behind a keyboard, totally uncalled for we're all here for a bit of fun and it costs nothing to be nice

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Is this a trick question?

No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong "

Yep that's you problem right there. Expect people here to be cunts, and then be nicely surprised if and when they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "

They're gobshites who don't respect people, time or boundaries

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

The second anyone is anything but respectful say good luck and thanks... I take the piss on here a little as pure joking and messing but id never ever get abusive or personal with anyone...number 1 because I see myself as an actual adult and number 2 we've no idea what any single person is actually dealing with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a trick question?

No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong

Yep that's you problem right there. Expect people here to be cunts, and then be nicely surprised if and when they aren't."

Ooohhhh Where's the humanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a trick question?

No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong "

Ya if you feel the need to have a rant about it your giving too much of a benefit...

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is this a trick question?

No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong

Yep that's you problem right there. Expect people here to be cunts, and then be nicely surprised if and when they aren't.

Ooohhhh Where's the humanity "

Flushed down the toilet

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "

It could be one of many reasons like insecurity, sense of entitlement, narcissism or many more.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Before I use to give people more than one chance and they always did it again now I don't .The minute they start getting stroppy cos I haven't answered a message quick enough or whatever else I tell them I'm done chatting with them .If they persist on messaging I block. I've no interest in being someone's verbal punch bag cos they are in a mood .

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You're not here to be used as a punchbag for someone else ....you're here for you....don't even tell them to fuck off just delete the messages and block them....dont need that shite

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin


"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "

The ego is a powerful thing! It's constantly seeking validation and acknowledgement.

Sex is the ultimate validation for the ego while denial of sex is the ultimate invalidation. When the ego is invalidated it attacks in a bid to get a reaction which is just a different form of validation.

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