FabSwingers.com forum: Money Request for meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

Has anyone had this problem second or third time now this has happened.

I am sick of it to be honest,

Get chatting and then go onto and external chatting service to be asked for money.

Before you ask yes I have reported the page.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I’ve never had this happen. Sorry for your troubles OP

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Thats shitty...I presume you block them also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been asked for money in nearly 10 years OP.

You might have just had an unlucky run or maybe you could tweek how your filtering the people you chat to if you can notice any common trends between the 3 profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happened to me yesterday

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By *hyeyesMan
over a year ago

meath

I've been asked aswell . It's normally the profiles who are constantly looking to meet

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

That other well known dating site, escort Ireland, is absolutely notorious for this

Bastards!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Five years here and never had a request for money or any other favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st time was today...I had heard of it happening but im not surprised...I m here for consensual fun not paid for fun.

I will be reporting the profile, but sure they will just open another.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

We've been offered money. Never been asked to pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only met up with a few women since signing up here nearly a year ago, and thank heavens none of them asked me for money when phone numbers were exchanged or after subsequent meetings.

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I’ve never been asked to pay but I was asked to bring some presents before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt happen much but has the odd time down the years.

Places to go for those services

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By *igglefunWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Never been asked for money r asked to give money...

But have heard of it happening a few others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it totally disgusting.

We are living in a time when women can’t go out to a club without worrying about these new needles etc.

Yes this is a sex site and you will always come across a few wronguns.

Asking for money is another new low, just advertise on other sites for those services.

Do not advertise here for meets and then ask for money.

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

I was offered money to do something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was offered money to do something. "

Thats called employment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't give it away for free lol

Part.of the weird and wonderful world of fab or any other social media outlet. Have been asked to Selly knickers. Told him would cost him as postage wouldn't be cheap with the size of mine

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

No one has ever offered to buy my boxers/y fronts which upsets me

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Sorry OP, won't do it again, promise

(maybe a lower rate next time?

)

I am just kidding

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"No one has ever offered to buy my boxers/y fronts which upsets me

New or used and worn or unworn?

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"No one has ever offered to buy my boxers/y fronts which upsets me

New or used and worn or unworn?

Flexibility is key for any burgeoning business

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Been offered money to massage someone, alot in fact plus the usual knickers lover who also pay well..

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"No one has ever offered to buy my boxers/y fronts which upsets me

New or used and worn or unworn?

Flexibility is key for any burgeoning business "

Make sure you add in your sliding scale for length of time worn and depth of skid marks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules."

Laughing is against site rules...

Well I'm absolutely fucking fucked so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules.

Laughing is against site rules...

Well I'm absolutely fucking fucked so"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules."

If you can't have a laugh on here op you are in the wrong place. Most of us are well aware of the site rules it still doesn't stop it happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been asked for money, booze, cigs, bread,milk,condoms,lube,420.....

Nearly decided to open a mobile shop!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules.

Laughing is against site rules...

Well I'm absolutely fucking fucked so"

What if the female part of the couple in question was unaware of her surroundings?

Some words are blocked on these threads.

But you know what I mean the use of drugs can have people under an influence.

The so called husband could be doing something unthinkable to that lady and I should see the funny side of it?

Idiot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been asked for money and offered money.. I just report and block. The knicker thing is on another level though tbh lol. I just don’t get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules.

Laughing is against site rules...

Well I'm absolutely fucking fucked so

What if the female part of the couple in question was unaware of her surroundings?

Some words are blocked on these threads.

But you know what I mean the use of drugs can have people under an influence.

The so called husband could be doing something unthinkable to that lady and I should see the funny side of it?

Idiot!!"

If you think that's the case report to the guards not make a thread moaning about it because you keep thinking your on a promise.

The signs are there for these types of profiles if you look for them.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules.

Laughing is against site rules...

Well I'm absolutely fucking fucked so

What if the female part of the couple in question was unaware of her surroundings?

Some words are blocked on these threads.

But you know what I mean the use of drugs can have people under an influence.

The so called husband could be doing something unthinkable to that lady and I should see the funny side of it?

Idiot!!"

You're profile says you'll chat to anyone for a laugh...so have a laugh about it and stop worrying about it

It was an attempt at a scam...nothing more ...nothing less...

People are not laughing at you but sometimes threads go off on a tangent ....

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"No one has ever offered to buy my boxers/y fronts which upsets me

New or used and worn or unworn?

Flexibility is key for any burgeoning business

Make sure you add in your sliding scale for length of time worn and depth of skid marks

I shower twice a day on a normal day , six or more on ‘special’ days

No skid marks

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By *ustyBrunette100Woman
over a year ago

City

Have been offered money by a few men, for sex and in exchange to give a false veri but have always blocked and reported the profile

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

"It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules.

Laughing is against site rules...

Well I'm absolutely fucking fucked so

What if the female part of the couple in question was unaware of her surroundings?

Some words are blocked on these threads.

But you know what I mean the use of drugs can have people under an influence.

The so called husband could be doing something unthinkable to that lady and I should see the funny side of it?

Idiot!!"

Block, report and move on

This pearl clutching and outrage is just wasting your own time

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

"I was offered money to do something.

Thats called employment

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"It’s great to see some of you see the funny side of this.

Totally against site rules.

Laughing is against site rules...

Well I'm absolutely fucking fucked so

What if the female part of the couple in question was unaware of her surroundings?

Some words are blocked on these threads.

But you know what I mean the use of drugs can have people under an influence.

The so called husband could be doing something unthinkable to that lady and I should see the funny side of it?

Idiot!!"

Your initial and later posts never mentioned anything like what you are now attempting to hint at .Oh and btw men have also been victims in clubs it's not just women who it has happened to but that fact seems to be conveniently forgotten.

You just mentioned been asked for money which yes some say has happened .Just like some of us have been offered money most of us ignore messages like that or report them.

Attacking people on here because they can't mind read what you meant is a wee bit of an over reaction to be fair.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"No one has ever offered to buy my boxers/y fronts which upsets me

New or used and worn or unworn?

Flexibility is key for any burgeoning business

Make sure you add in your sliding scale for length of time worn and depth of skid marks

I shower twice a day on a normal day , six or more on ‘special’ days

No skid marks "

And you call yourself casual

Try OCD777

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"No one has ever offered to buy my boxers/y fronts which upsets me

New or used and worn or unworn?

Flexibility is key for any burgeoning business

Make sure you add in your sliding scale for length of time worn and depth of skid marks

I shower twice a day on a normal day , six or more on ‘special’ days

No skid marks

And you call yourself casual

Try OCD777

So so true

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By *ercc63Man
over a year ago

Hillsborough

Asked last week !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the fuckin' time from people I still see here all the time.

I can name and shame but i thought this was part of the turf since it's so commonplace

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"Hi all,

Has anyone had this problem second or third time now this has happened.

I am sick of it to be honest,

Get chatting and then go onto and external chatting service to be asked for money.

Before you ask yes I have reported the page. "

Been asked for money before yes but mostly bottles of wine or spirits or illegal drugs.. Technically it's not money but its a form of payment so one could call it prostitution I suppose..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t believe that people would actually ask for money to meet.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Can’t believe that people would actually ask for money to meet.

I'm worth it!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Can’t believe that people would actually ask for money to meet.

I'm worth it!

Your really not

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Can’t believe that people would actually ask for money to meet.

I'm worth it!

Your really not

Ah heeeere... You tried to negotiate me down.

#sourlollygrapes

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By *ightower2021Man
over a year ago

donegal

Special mid week offers here book one hour get the second hour free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooohhhh Cruel!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its pretty poor form to offer money and who would actually take it as well.

In unrelated news I got a bit of unexpected extra spare cash this month and just bought a new bike

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Think its pretty poor form to offer money and who would actually take it as well.

In unrelated news I got a bit of unexpected extra spare cash this month and just bought a new bike

Ah here, that's no way to keep money circulating locally

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Think its pretty poor form to offer money and who would actually take it as well.

In unrelated news I got a bit of unexpected extra spare cash this month and just bought a new bike

Ah here, that's no way to keep money circulating locally

Does he just cycle around the locality with his money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once knew a town bike.

Luvly gurl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its pretty poor form to offer money and who would actually take it as well.

In unrelated news I got a bit of unexpected extra spare cash this month and just bought a new bike

Ah here, that's no way to keep money circulating locally

Does he just cycle around the locality with his money?

I'll need to let my sore bum heal before I take it for a spin but it's all worth it for the spoils of war

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By *razygoalsMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Had this a few times before, one who stated directly the last few days, don't mind the direct approach but that waiting till chat is down the line has a cruel element to it

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Think its pretty poor form to offer money and who would actually take it as well.

In unrelated news I got a bit of unexpected extra spare cash this month and just bought a new bike

Ah here, that's no way to keep money circulating locally

Does he just cycle around the locality with his money?

No, he's sitting on it now

. I would have spent it wisely

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By *1n_eaterMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Do they accept the spend local voucher? Asking for a friend

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