FabSwingers.com forum: 2 out of 10..

By *hSureFookIt OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

Guys turned up to a social today organised by a fab lady. Isn't it a wonder all guys get a hard time when others say they will attend a social then don't turn up. Well I had 3 lovely ladies to myself for a hour then another guy came. You missed out guys on a nice afternoon. At least if you say you are going have the decency to follow through. Thanks again for a nice time ladies. Next time make more of an effort fellow guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad form to back out of anything without having the decency to let people know

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

That unfortunately is the not so nice part of fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All part of fab anyone I know you have organised socials or mng say guys are dreadful for it, the amount if aunts suddenly dying is shocking.

I have often thought of trying to organise a social in the North West but just know the hassle isn't worth it.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Some of the non attendance reasons at athlone social were epic . Extraordinary

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

This really annoys me as it's next to impossible for anyone to trust someone on here.... Ill say one thing if I said I'd meet I'd meet...

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By *hSureFookIt OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

I'd swear some guys just get a kick from saying they will attend an event and have absolutely no intension of going and then come up with some bs excuse. The problem is that we all get tarnished with the same brush which makes it even harder for the genuine guys.

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By *igglefunWoman
over a year ago

Cork

And they r the ones on here complaining that they aren't given a chance...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I'd swear some guys just get a kick from saying they will attend an event and have absolutely no intension of going and then come up with some bs excuse. The problem is that we all get tarnished with the same brush which makes it even harder for the genuine guys."

But ye don't get tarnished with the same brush at all.Guys who don't show just ruin it for themselves.People who do show and are genuine they shine through all the bullshitters.

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

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Joey, thank you for your thread.

For the record we loved having you turn up xx

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By *hSureFookIt OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

Thanks C, it was a pleasure being in the company of 3 fine ladies

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Unfortunately anyone that organises events knows this all too well. You need to invite 2/3 times the amount of guys you actually want for anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always a few that ruin it for everyone. In saying that sometimes shit happens and genuine people have to cancel.

I was one of 5 lads that turned up to a meet on Thursday (great night) but it won't be on our verifications because the lady was on a flying visit and cancelled her account afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do these fellas even get an offer ?

I'm obviously doing something wrong

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By *undamentallyfabWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Joey, thank you for your thread.

For the record we loved having you turn up xx"

Second this. We definitely had a great afternoon.

Just to say, there weren’t even excuses. Just no shows. It was last minute but if at 2pm you think you’re free at 4, things can’t change all that fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Joey, thank you for your thread.

For the record we loved having you turn up xx

Second this. We definitely had a great afternoon.

Just to say, there weren’t even excuses. Just no shows. It was last minute but if at 2pm you think you’re free at 4, things can’t change all that fast. "

True, then they are just flakes. Hate that shit.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

I am organising a social brunch in Dublin with 2 friends on the 11th and I know already that I will have dropouts and no shows

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By *eirdre40Couple
over a year ago

Dublin South

That's awful, it's a pity they can't be named as if they don't show up for a social then they probably wouldn't turn up for an actual play date which for so many on here can be rare and difficult to organise due to home life.

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"I am organising a social brunch in Dublin with 2 friends on the 11th and I know already that I will have dropouts and no shows "

And you never know when I'll show up again lol

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By *lose_encounterMan
over a year ago

Cork city

have not read all the posts. however to a degree i'll play devils advocate. some or alot could think it's gonna be a sausage fest. whether it be confidence or not being arsed to try stand out. however. the indecency of it. makes it harder for new people to gain traction on the site.

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

Dam i wss off to day i would have went

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"have not read all the posts. however to a degree i'll play devils advocate. some or alot could think it's gonna be a sausage fest. whether it be confidence or not being arsed to try stand out. however. the indecency of it. makes it harder for new people to gain traction on the site."

Not sure how well people who vacuum their driveways go down playing devil's advocate in this realm

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Never understood these so called social events.. I thought this was an nsa sex site not I'm lonely and I want to make friends site.. Plenty of other avenues available if you want to make friends and host social events.. I think many prefer to meet 1 on 1 with a person they have been chatting too online..

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"Never understood these so called social events.. I thought this was an nsa sex site not I'm lonely and I want to make friends site.. Plenty of other avenues available if you want to make friends and host social events.. I think many prefer to meet 1 on 1 with a person they have been chatting too online.. "

I think you need to do some research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect .."

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

A proper connection is more than a humping... very few ladies here want a humping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

A proper connection is more than a humping... very few ladies here want a humping

You don't understand dry humour I see

Why are peeps preaching to the converted on here ?

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

"
always go for the cash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

always go for the cash

Cash is king in my world

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

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tongue and cheek i do like that

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

We have a winner... ??

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect .."

Granted but can't they meet 1 on 1 as opposed to a group meet... They can make that connection beforehand through texts and video calls then meet in person.. I'm sure many here would want to keep their fab life private and a group social meet is anything but that..

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

We have a winner... ?? "

Who's that then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

We have a winner... ??

Who's that then

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

We have a winner... ??

Who's that then

You have a funny way of trying to make friends

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

But everyone uses the site in whatever way they want

Some people like house parties,socials and M&G

Some people don't

The forums are such a very small part of the overall site

If you only want to meet one on one ...do it

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

He does not like the hard work

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"He does not like the hard work "

Meeting people and having fun could not be considered hard work in fairness

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

"He does not like the hard work

Meeting people and having fun could not be considered hard work in fairness "
not one bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

We have a winner... ??

Who's that then

You have a funny way of trying to make friends

I'm particular on the company I keep

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

We have a winner... ??

Who's that then

You have a funny way of trying to make friends

I'm particular on the company I keep

And so you should be - best of luck on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

We have a winner... ??

Who's that then

You have a funny way of trying to make friends

I'm particular on the company I keep

And so you should be - best of luck on that

Good night

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

Seems like hard work to me just for a Humping

Hard work or hard cash - either might work for ya

Hard cash ? I doubt I'd get my monies worth....

Tongue in cheek is all it was meant as

tongue and cheek i do like that

Glad someone did

We have a winner... ??

Who's that then

You have a funny way of trying to make friends

I'm particular on the company I keep

And so you should be - best of luck on that

Good night "

Sweet dreams

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By *otrealname2000Man
over a year ago

cahir

If ye ever need a reliable guy keep me in mind

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

For some ppls free time is precious and needed to use wisely.These events are like a 2 in 1 social then sex and some great after party fun.. You get to meet alot more potential play meets

at these too. Saves alot of fanning around and wading thru the fakes etc. Also person's presence and pics online are not always what you get in person Many of us need that social meet to establish this. Social events are a great way to establish this on a larger scale. Some of my best play meets have come from such events.

This site is used how the individual chooses to even those that are lonely and want a friend or 2 nothing wrong with that either.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

A social meet shows the person exists, are genuine, mutual attraction etc...

Whilst people want NSA sex, they need to connect ..

But everyone uses the site in whatever way they want

Some people like house parties,socials and M&G

Some people don't

The forums are such a very small part of the overall site

If you only want to meet one on one ...do it

Well this is it.. Fab can be used in whatever way we choose.. I guess these guys agreed to a group social meet but when it came down to it just wasn't what they wanted and didn't show up.. Probably down the pub with their mates or having a kick about

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By *jmr0000Man
over a year ago

arklow

"Guys turned up to a social today organised by a fab lady. Isn't it a wonder all guys get a hard time when others say they will attend a social then don't turn up. Well I had 3 lovely ladies to myself for a hour then another guy came. You missed out guys on a nice afternoon. At least if you say you are going have the decency to follow through. Thanks again for a nice time ladies. Next time make more of an effort fellow guys. "

I’m not surprised by this at all. Same on the other site, all talk and no show! Most are only here for the trill of the chat but chicken out when it comes to meeting up! Should have the decency to say they are not showing up and stop wasting other peoples time

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