FabSwingers.com forum: Proper friends with benefits

By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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Is everyone on this site just looking for once off fun, or are there actually people on here looking for a proper friend with benefits? Your comments please....

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Friends with benefits is the goal for me.

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Anywhere

Friend with benefits is my preferred choice.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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As in an actual friend that you can go out socialising with? And enjoy the benefits of lots of regular fun...or the Irish version as in a regular fuck buddy??

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over a year ago

I had one for nearly a year and it was great, definitely want to find another one

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for a FWB type thing. Just someone every now and then to chat and meet wherever and whenever possible to satisfy a need or 2.

Ssssshhhhhhh……I bought a camper van hoping to use it for such things.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

About 5 FWBs is ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex. "

The guy I used to see we'd do the cinema or lunch, or a meal out every now and than, gym a few times too and it was great

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex. "

Thats the difference between Irish and UK fwb

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"About 5 FWBs is ideal "

Only 5??

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over a year ago

"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex. "

With a body like yours and the very sexy lingerie you wear I’m sure you will have no problem finding yourself a FWB

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex.

Thats the difference between Irish and UK fwb"

Honestly, I don’t think there’s a difference between the UK and here. At the end of the day, it’s what works for the two people.

I wouldn’t be a huge one for going out for drinks etc so I’m not looking for someone to do that with me. I’m open to it now and then but it’s not something I’d be pushing for.

A fwb is not all about the sex for me, it’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with, can have a laugh with and when you’re both in the mood, have great sex.

A fuck buddy is someone you meet for sex only, with little chat outside of that.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex.

Thats the difference between Irish and UK fwb

Honestly, I don’t think there’s a difference between the UK and here. At the end of the day, it’s what works for the two people.

I wouldn’t be a huge one for going out for drinks etc so I’m not looking for someone to do that with me. I’m open to it now and then but it’s not something I’d be pushing for.

A fwb is not all about the sex for me, it’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with, can have a laugh with and when you’re both in the mood, have great sex.

A fuck buddy is someone you meet for sex only, with little chat outside of that. "

Thats a good insight thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex.

Thats the difference between Irish and UK fwb

Honestly, I don’t think there’s a difference between the UK and here. At the end of the day, it’s what works for the two people.

I wouldn’t be a huge one for going out for drinks etc so I’m not looking for someone to do that with me. I’m open to it now and then but it’s not something I’d be pushing for.

A fwb is not all about the sex for me, it’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with, can have a laugh with and when you’re both in the mood, have great sex.

A fuck buddy is someone you meet for sex only, with little chat outside of that. "

Yeah I totally agree with you. I myself enjoy the chats and laughing. I had a FWB not too long ago. We had so much craic over video chat and also met loads of times for coffee but on the odd occasion we did get down to the naughty stuff alright but we are great friends after all that. Still in contact with each other but without the sex bit.

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex.

Thats the difference between Irish and UK fwb

Honestly, I don’t think there’s a difference between the UK and here. At the end of the day, it’s what works for the two people.

I wouldn’t be a huge one for going out for drinks etc so I’m not looking for someone to do that with me. I’m open to it now and then but it’s not something I’d be pushing for.

A fwb is not all about the sex for me, it’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with, can have a laugh with and when you’re both in the mood, have great sex.

A fuck buddy is someone you meet for sex only, with little chat outside of that. "
looking for the same a odd night a way as well for some hot fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple friends with benefits would be great or a nice sub bí girl either

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I have a fwb(more a fb) outside of this. She doesn't know I'm on here. I'd love to bring her along but we have mutual friends and friends of friends and I couldn't trust it would stay 'in house'. For all I know she might be on here too.

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By *entlegiant64Man
over a year ago

craigavon

Yes different people see it in different ways .. But a friend who ya can have a laugh with maybe an odd night away . and have the bennifits as well .... But where do i find one lol

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex.

Thats the difference between Irish and UK fwb

Honestly, I don’t think there’s a difference between the UK and here. At the end of the day, it’s what works for the two people.

I wouldn’t be a huge one for going out for drinks etc so I’m not looking for someone to do that with me. I’m open to it now and then but it’s not something I’d be pushing for.

A fwb is not all about the sex for me, it’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with, can have a laugh with and when you’re both in the mood, have great sex.

A fuck buddy is someone you meet for sex only, with little chat outside of that.

Thats a good insight thank you x"
always nice to do some normal things as well every now and then i think we all need that

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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Thought that was my question ....

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By *irdman21Man
over a year ago

dublin

Would like something regular with the same person that I could attend fab party's with also...

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Would like something regular with the same person that I could attend fab party's with also..."

Thats a very good idea

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By *londy84Man
over a year ago

Carrickmacross

I was looking for a fwb but didn't get any luck here.

So I got one outside the fab.

She knows I'm on fab is OK with it.

To be honest I would like to find a fb now somewhere close to home.

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By *irdman21Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Would like something regular with the same person that I could attend fab party's with also...

Thats a very good idea

Feel free to send me your application in a mail

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

Open to all offer

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By *oungukbull97Man
over a year ago

Manchester

FWB is the ultimate goal for me, hoping to find someone I can get on really well with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper friends with benefits but OP alot are just looking for the sex only as well which is perfectly ok but not for me. To be honest i am much more comfortable with friends i need a connection so i prefer to go to parties for this reason.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's quite a delicate balance to find someone you are physically attracted to, interested in spending time together as friends, and NOT taking it further into a relationship. Tricky

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Proper friends with benefits but OP alot are just looking for the sex only as well which is perfectly ok but not for me. To be honest i am much more comfortable with friends i need a connection so i prefer to go to parties for this reason.

You are exactly right, each to their own, I am personally looking for a proper friend with benefits so I thought I'd ask if they actually exist or are just in my imagination, also to see what everyone else thought on the notion

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"It's quite a delicate balance to find someone you are physically attracted to, interested in spending time together as friends, and NOT taking it further into a relationship. Tricky "

I have found that if the two parties involved are already married or something similar this usually eliminates that problem

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes they exist

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"FWB is the ultimate goal for me, hoping to find someone I can get on really well with"

There are lots looking for this too from the response so keep looking you'll find yours soon enough x

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Friends with benefits is the goal for me. "

Me too Jaffa xx

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I had one for nearly a year and it was great, definitely want to find another one "

Me too DD xx

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Friend with benefits is my preferred choice."

Good to hear x

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Couple friends with benefits would be great or a nice sub bí girl either

Keep looking they are out there somewhere x

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Would like something regular with the same person that I could attend fab party's with also...

Thats a very good idea

Feel free to send me your application in a mail

Application? I didn't realise there was a process lol

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes they exist

Good to know RB xx

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over a year ago

"It's quite a delicate balance to find someone you are physically attracted to, interested in spending time together as friends, and NOT taking it further into a relationship. Tricky

I have found that if the two parties involved are already married or something similar this usually eliminates that problem"

Definitely if both parties are married it makes things a lot easier. One of the 2 ladies I met here was married (not on here anymore)and it was so much easier. Both of us were fulfilling a need so it was so much easier to just walk away afterwards.

Great thread by the way

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"It's quite a delicate balance to find someone you are physically attracted to, interested in spending time together as friends, and NOT taking it further into a relationship. Tricky

I have found that if the two parties involved are already married or something similar this usually eliminates that problem

Great thread by the way

Thank you xx

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

They're as rare as hen's teeth

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

What if both partys were married and separated that could work out very well fun,chat and friendship

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

I'm a guy though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking a FWB but not easy to find here.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"What if both partys were married and separated that could work out very well fun,chat and friendship "

Yes it could too x

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

I'm a guy though.... "

What difference does that make??

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm looking a FWB but not easy to find here. "

Why may I ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB is ideal for me. Be nice to meet for drinks, meals and the likes. But very hard to find in this part of the country.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"FWB is ideal for me. Be nice to meet for drinks, meals and the likes. But very hard to find in this part of the country."

What makes it so difficult down there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FWB is ideal for me. Be nice to meet for drinks, meals and the likes. But very hard to find in this part of the country.

What makes it so difficult down there? "

Less people looking for my age group unfortunately

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

I'm a guy though....

What difference does that make??"

I've vastly less of a selection than you have on this website is the point I was trying to point out. What with the oversaturation of the market and all that (c*ckfest)

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"FWB is ideal for me. Be nice to meet for drinks, meals and the likes. But very hard to find in this part of the country.

What makes it so difficult down there?

Less people looking for my age group unfortunately

Ah thats really sad, can you not widen your search just a little?

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

I'm a guy though....

What difference does that make??

I've vastly less of a selection than you have on this website is the point I was trying to point out. What with the oversaturation of the market and all that (c*ckfest)

Ah but there are a lot less guys looking for a fwb, most guys are just out for once off fun and not regular, so I think that makes us even

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over a year ago

"FWB is ideal for me. Be nice to meet for drinks, meals and the likes. But very hard to find in this part of the country.

What makes it so difficult down there?

Less people looking for my age group unfortunately

Ah thats really sad, can you not widen your search just a little?"

Its my age thats the problem. Lol im nearly 60??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if both partys were married and separated that could work out very well fun,chat and friendship "

I’m separated myself but it’s difficult on here to find a FWB at the moment but I’m a bit more optimistic now after reading this forum.

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over a year ago

"FWB is ideal for me. Be nice to meet for drinks, meals and the likes. But very hard to find in this part of the country.

What makes it so difficult down there?

Less people looking for my age group unfortunately

Ah thats really sad, can you not widen your search just a little?

Its my age thats the problem. Lol im nearly 60??"

There’s someone for everyone regardless of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

I'm a guy though.... "

A guy with a cute butt xx.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"FWB is ideal for me. Be nice to meet for drinks, meals and the likes. But very hard to find in this part of the country.

What makes it so difficult down there?

Less people looking for my age group unfortunately

Ah thats really sad, can you not widen your search just a little?

Its my age thats the problem. Lol im nearly 60??"

Why should that make a difference if your personality shines through?

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"What if both partys were married and separated that could work out very well fun,chat and friendship

I’m separated myself but it’s difficult on here to find a FWB at the moment but I’m a bit more optimistic now after reading this forum. "

Then I'm glad it has helped, perhaps we should put up an ad and see what replies we get lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends... benefits are optional

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

I'm a guy though....

A guy with a cute butt xx."

There you go Wilder a point to enhance on

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Friends... benefits are optional"

That too I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends... benefits are optional"

What are my options lol.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Friends... benefits are optional

What are my options lol.

Great reply, you never know what might come out of that answer x

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

"Friends... benefits are optional

What are my options lol.

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a nice glass of wine getting a massage at the same time or a nice bubble bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if both partys were married and separated that could work out very well fun,chat and friendship

I’m separated myself but it’s difficult on here to find a FWB at the moment but I’m a bit more optimistic now after reading this forum.

Then I'm glad it has helped, perhaps we should put up an ad and see what replies we get lol

I’m in

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

"What if both partys were married and separated that could work out very well fun,chat and friendship

I’m separated myself but it’s difficult on here to find a FWB at the moment but I’m a bit more optimistic now after reading this forum.

Then I'm glad it has helped, perhaps we should put up an ad and see what replies we get lol

I’m in

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yes same here

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Friends... benefits are optional

What are my options lol.

a nice glass of wine getting a massage at the same time or a nice bubble bath

Ooooo yummy

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"What if both partys were married and separated that could work out very well fun,chat and friendship

I’m separated myself but it’s difficult on here to find a FWB at the moment but I’m a bit more optimistic now after reading this forum.

Then I'm glad it has helped, perhaps we should put up an ad and see what replies we get lol

I’m in

Me too xx

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"What if both partys were married and separated that could work out very well fun,chat and friendship

I’m separated myself but it’s difficult on here to find a FWB at the moment but I’m a bit more optimistic now after reading this forum.

Then I'm glad it has helped, perhaps we should put up an ad and see what replies we get lol

I’m in

yes same here

Shall we try it??

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

Yes sure what we got to lose

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes sure what we got to lose

Ok I'll do it now x

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

I'm a guy though....

A guy with a cute butt xx."

All my own work

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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Up and running guys, please feel free to participate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're as rare as hen's teeth

Thats very sad, if you can't find one I've no chance

I'm a guy though....

A guy with a cute butt xx.

All my own work

Am sure it most certainly is, very kissable xxx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes seeking FWB. Willing to travel one hour from Carlow Kilkenny

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Is there a difference in a fwb and a fuck buddy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking a FWB but not easy to find here.

Why may I ask?"

Lots of reasons, lots, of ladies have demands which they are entitled to hold but sometimes I think those demands are not realistic. EG, please include a face pic with your 1st message. Some people aren't comfortable to send a facepic straight away. Another is you must be verified. Another barrier, its difficult to get verified if you can't communicate wirh someone who won't talk to unverified. The number of men v women s an issue & i accept ladies get bombarded with messages. So it's not an easy journey here which is why my expectation is low & I'm sure some will say my profile needs attention & that I don't sell myself. The problem is I'm not one to blow my own trumpet.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes seeking FWB. Willing to travel one hour from Carlow Kilkenny "

If another thread so please feel free to put down your name

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

One off meets while they can be enjoyable but they aren't really what I've been looking for on here since I joined .

I've been lucky to have fbs while I've been on here and found a fwb who is a true friend as well as having the benefits

.So it's definitely possible to find a fwb on here .

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Is there a difference in a fwb and a fuck buddy.. "

Absolutely, a fwb is what it says a friend first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex.

Thats the difference between Irish and UK fwb

Honestly, I don’t think there’s a difference between the UK and here. At the end of the day, it’s what works for the two people.

I wouldn’t be a huge one for going out for drinks etc so I’m not looking for someone to do that with me. I’m open to it now and then but it’s not something I’d be pushing for.

A fwb is not all about the sex for me, it’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with, can have a laugh with and when you’re both in the mood, have great sex.

A fuck buddy is someone you meet for sex only, with little chat outside of that.

Thats a good insight thank you x"

I recently discovered the term casual dating which is another option.

Generally speaking, casual dating describes: something more defined than “friends with benefits” or hookups. Connections that involve some degree of emotional attachment or situations that lack relationship labels. A relationship you pursue for fun, not commitment.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm looking a FWB but not easy to find here.

Why may I ask?

Well perhaps you need to try and tell people exactly what or whom you are looking for, you never know who could read it. BTW a fwb doesn't put demands on you. There is a thread to help anyone get their first verification, but I think that is mainly for security reasons as there are a lot of weirdo's and time wasters on this site. Photos are not always necessary at the start a conversation is a lot better to get to know someone and their personality before actually judging from their looks alone. I do understand that is important for some people but not for all. I wish you good luck in your search so please put you name down on the other thread and see how you get on. X

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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" One off meets while they can be enjoyable but they aren't really what I've been looking for on here since I joined .

I've been lucky to have fbs while I've been on here and found a fwb who is a true friend as well as having the benefits

.So it's definitely possible to find a fwb on here ."

Thanks Justbo that's exactly what we need to hear xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend with benefits is really what I’m looking for.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Friend with benefits is really what I’m looking for. "

Then please come and add your name to the other thread and see what happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking a FWB but not easy to find here.

Why may I ask?

Thanks for the advice, I might just do that.

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By *inglemyclitpleaseWoman
over a year ago

dublin

God I’d love a friend with benefits… it’s in my profile. Just one hot fecker to get down to it a couple of times a month with and then we just go back to the mundane …

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over a year ago

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"God I’d love a friend with benefits… it’s in my profile. Just one hot fecker to get down to it a couple of times a month with and then we just go back to the mundane …

Come and put your name down on the other thread you never know whom might take your fancy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely fwb. You get to know each other and the experiences just get better and better as you both open up to new experiences.

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By *inglemyclitpleaseWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"God I’d love a friend with benefits… it’s in my profile. Just one hot fecker to get down to it a couple of times a month with and then we just go back to the mundane …

Come and put your name down on the other thread you never know whom might take your fancy x"

Will do.. good woman

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

We prefer people who want to be friends beyond the bed room . Sex is only the cream on top . Of course we do have ONS, but sex is much more fun if depth and mutual trust is among the parties .

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"We prefer people who want to be friends beyond the bed room . Sex is only the cream on top . Of course we do have ONS, but sex is much more fun if depth and mutual trust is among the parties ."

This is what I mean by fwb, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, that would be the ultimate aim ,

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Old bog road

"I’m not bothered about going out socialising…that’s more dating imo especially if it’s happening regularly.

The odd night away would be good but my focus would be someone to have a laugh with, chat about all sorts of shite and get to know each other leading to great sex.

Thats the difference between Irish and UK fwb

Honestly, I don’t think there’s a difference between the UK and here. At the end of the day, it’s what works for the two people.

I wouldn’t be a huge one for going out for drinks etc so I’m not looking for someone to do that with me. I’m open to it now and then but it’s not something I’d be pushing for.

A fwb is not all about the sex for me, it’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with, can have a laugh with and when you’re both in the mood, have great sex.

A fuck buddy is someone you meet for sex only, with little chat outside of that.

Thats a good insight thank you x

I recently discovered the term casual dating which is another option.

I like the sound of that. I have an emotional attachment in all my relationships. I'm in love with some of them, I love others, im very fond of some. Anything less would leave me cold, and uninterested. So, yes,.. a fwb, but we're mutually beneficial to each other, socialy , sexually, (and with similar tastes in food and wine.)

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Definitely looking for a friend with benefits someone to have the occasional nite out with also someone to go to clubs parties etc with the odd mite away would also be great now form an orderly queue guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely looking for a friend with benefits someone to have the occasional nite out with also someone to go to clubs parties etc with the odd mite away would also be great now form an orderly queue guys lol"

Ive been lucky once or twice. good times

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Ive been lucky once or twice. good times

You mean they have!!

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

We are so lucky we have best friends with benefits!!

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Always looking for fwb but they are hard to get

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Always looking for fwb but they are hard to get "

I know that's why we keep looking xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would like something regular with the same person that I could attend fab party's with also..."

This for me - a FWB who I could also go to fab socials with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FWB is ideal for me. Be nice to meet for drinks, meals and the likes. But very hard to find in this part of the country.

What makes it so difficult down there?

Less people looking for my age group unfortunately

Ah thats really sad, can you not widen your search just a little?

Its my age thats the problem. Lol im nearly 60??

Why should that make a difference if your personality shines through?"

Good point, might try and get to a few m and gs to start off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer people who want to be friends beyond the bed room . Sex is only the cream on top . Of course we do have ONS, but sex is much more fun if depth and mutual trust is among the parties ."

100% agree,its so much more fun when you get to know the person outside of the bedroom first.

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By *osiepink500Woman
over a year ago

Donegal

This is top of my fab wanted list - a fwb!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wouldn’t want one

The way to go

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

"I’m looking for a FWB type thing. Just someone every now and then to chat and meet wherever and whenever possible to satisfy a need or 2.

Ssssshhhhhhh……I bought a camper van hoping to use it for such things.

My dream is to have a campervan. You lucky thing

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

So hard to find a friend with benefits specially someone that you are attracted to. I live in hope that it will happen one day

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By *ussyhoundMan
over a year ago

Dungannon

Fwb is what everyone looks for I believe, but it's hard to find specially close by that are genuine and looking the same

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

"Always looking for fwb but they are hard to get

I know that's why we keep looking xx"

How many going on 20th I wonder would be great place to all chat face to face get a better gauge

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

"We prefer people who want to be friends beyond the bed room . Sex is only the cream on top . Of course we do have ONS, but sex is much more fun if depth and mutual trust is among the parties ."

Exactly this just what I am looking for

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

Yeah it would be very nice to have a friend like that ,still looking in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally I’m looking for a bit of both. A one off is ok but a FWB would be nice

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Always looking for fwb but they are hard to get

I know that's why we keep looking xx

How many going on 20th I wonder would be great place to all chat face to face get a better gauge "

Good idea tnt I wonder if this thread would encourage anyone to be a bit braver x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up... I'm on the reject list

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By *ussie MMan
over a year ago

near sandyford

A friend with benefits would be ideal.

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

"Always looking for fwb but they are hard to get

I know that's why we keep looking xx

How many going on 20th I wonder would be great place to all chat face to face get a better gauge

Good idea tnt I wonder if this thread would encourage anyone to be a bit braver x"

Yea just thinking is good place to chat and get a better idea of someone face to face

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Always looking for fwb but they are hard to get

I know that's why we keep looking xx

How many going on 20th I wonder would be great place to all chat face to face get a better gauge

Good idea tnt I wonder if this thread would encourage anyone to be a bit braver x

Yea just thinking is good place to chat and get a better idea of someone face to face "

Absolutely, and as you know I will be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needle in a hay stack time again, regular FWB. As much as I’d love one just like yourself op I’m finding there’s more time wasters and those just looking a one off more than anything else. I feel that because I’ve just got a few random meets and not be too a meet & greet many aren’t interested. I’m still waiting to get verified as sane so to speak.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Needle in a hay stack time again, regular FWB. As much as I’d love one just like yourself op I’m finding there’s more time wasters and those just looking a one off more than anything else. I feel that because I’ve just got a few random meets and not be too a meet & greet many aren’t interested. I’m still waiting to get verified as sane so to speak. "

Unfortunately yes I agree there are a lot of timewasters on here, but like I say nothing ventured nothing gained xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately yes I agree there are a lot of timewasters on here, but like I say nothing ventured nothing gained xx"

I am the Needle ?? if only I could get near the haystack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest if I found someone that I wanted to spend that kind of social time with and also wanted to fuck I'd just date them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A FWB? in Ireland? Talk about hard to achieve.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Yes, it happens that you slip into a fwb arrangement with someone you've great sex with and that you get on with outside the bedroom too.

My belief however it's not possible to actively look for a fwb as in signing up on a thread etc. The only active thing you can do is to have casual sex encounters and you never know one of them might be a match.... but that's just my 2 cents...

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

Border Town

A local but not too local friend with benefits

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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Unfortunately yes I agree there are a lot of timewasters on here, but like I say nothing ventured nothing gained xx

I am the Needle ?? if only I could get near the haystack lol "

Keep trying each time you get closer to that haystack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it happens that you slip into a fwb arrangement with someone you've great sex with and that you get on with outside the bedroom too.

but this thread is handy to find someone you may not have seen before, and knowing they are interested in more than a 'pump and go' means its got a different dynamic from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest if I found someone that I wanted to spend that kind of social time with and also wanted to fuck I'd just date them"

Thats allowed

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

Love a FWB

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes, it happens that you slip into a fwb arrangement with someone you've great sex with and that you get on with outside the bedroom too.

but this thread is handy to find someone you may not have seen before, and knowing they are interested in more than a 'pump and go' means its got a different dynamic from the start.

Thank you for your encouragement x

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I found a fwb on the forums....its been a couple of months since we met up but we talk on the phone every week

If she's reading this

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I found a fwb on the forums....its been a couple of months since we met up but we talk on the phone every week

If she's reading this

Good to hear Bog xx

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I was lucky enough to find a fwb a while back. It ended before lockdown but it was great at the time. We didn’t plan on it but we had met a few times and decided to give it a go.

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I was lucky enough to find a fwb a while back. It ended before lockdown but it was great at the time. We didn’t plan on it but we had met a few times and decided to give it a go. "

Well done, it proves it works x

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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So I've proved that there is a definite want of fwb on this site, let's see what happens on my other thread

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

Look at what happened to us

Was not looking for anything in particular but found a good one by chance and now live together

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Look at what happened to us

Was not looking for anything in particular but found a good one by chance and now live together "

Well yes and you are both great together and apart, well done xx

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I worry that one fwb is too much like dating

Prefer the concept of polyamory or multiple fwbs personally if interest is reciprocated and the parties involved have the time

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I worry that one fwb is too much like dating

Prefer the concept of polyamory or multiple fwbs personally if interest is reciprocated and the parties involved have the time "

Now isn't that just being greedy? Lol

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Regular fwb would be great

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Regular fwb would be great

I don't think you'll have any problems, if anyone looks at your pics they would say yes straight away mmmm

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

To be fair I am hoping to trap someone before they see what I am like

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By *t777 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"To be fair I am hoping to trap someone before they see what I am like

Too late TNT I already have lol

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