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By *iver80 OP   Man
over a year ago

south side ,

I've come across a few topics and this poops up again and again ,women or couples that organise gangbangs and the lads don't turn up and not only that get cold feet and not show any respect to the lady to say they can't meet it or just say you lost your bottle

There are some stunning women on this I would absolutely appreciate a gangbang meet with

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

I hope it doesn't poop

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Performance anxiety

Worried about fucking in front of other men

Deciding the fantasy is hotter that reality

Got a better offer

Take your pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are all too busy having a ball?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come across a few topics and this poops up again and again ,women or couples that organise gangbangs and the lads don't turn up and not only that get cold feet and not show any respect to the lady to say they can't meet it or just say you lost your bottle

There are some stunning women on this I would absolutely appreciate a gangbang meet with "

Has to a Freudian slip! Poop! Sorry, I couldn’t resist.

And I agree with you. How any guy wouldn’t turn up with the ladies on here baffles me.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Sloppy seconds.

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By *I TwoCouple
over a year ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24

Mostly they're too busy posting in the forums how they have no luck on fab

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By *iver80 OP   Man
over a year ago

south side ,

I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,

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By *iver80 OP   Man
over a year ago

south side ,


"I hope it doesn't poop

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Haha I don't poop that quick

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Stage fright!

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By *oiraTvTV/TS
over a year ago

Derry

Clashes with the big match

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By *ullseye100Man
over a year ago

Ireland

I haven’t had the opportunity yet ??

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

It's a porn fantasy, but offered a real living warm woman, most men choose the fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope it doesn't poop

"

Ahhh Vee...as always the witty Hawkeye..l hadn't a clue what you were referring to until l re read it

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"I hope it doesn't poop

Ahhh Vee...as always the witty Hawkeye..l hadn't a clue what you were referring to until l re read it "

The eye is in the detail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it has to be nerves. Anyone who has had one would not say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation I guess

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By *ajRallying555Man
over a year ago

Galway .Limerick

We all worry about Stage fright. But why turn down the Chance

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By *rafficvanMan
over a year ago

Middletown

Wish I had a invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they say yes as a way of getting access to a vagina.

But the reality of sharing said vagina dawns on them.

Same reason alot of guys bail on couples or start chatting and then suggest meeting the female half alone.

Not the only reasons obviously but I would wager its high on the list

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By *twistedtoys100Man
over a year ago

LIMERICK

Well if you throw in the chance of "crossed swords" as well as stage fright scares some guys.

my "problem" is the opposite of PE, due to losing some sensitity when having a late circumsision it can sometimes be a "struggle" to pop at all! I usually state that up front so a lady knows it's nothing to do with her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They never had any intention of going in the first place, all talk and bull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man knows he can perform alongside a group of his peers and his done it before he is suitable if he knows he has the time to attend is important.

If a man has never experienced group sex before he does not know how he will react beside other naked men and one woman

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Worse still is when the lady doesn’t turn up,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly makes much difference if they blow the load in a few seconds anyway. Certainly not to the lady as there will another cock filling her seconds later and I doubt the next guy would complain that his turn has come quickly (boom boom!)

Getting it up would be a different issue though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say that I can’t understand why some guys wouldn’t turn up. For me a gangbang/threesome is the ultimate fantasy and I’d absolutely jump at the opportunity to participate in one. I do scratch my head though when I hear someone opting out. Everyone has stuff going on in their lives but if you are organising something like this then you need to really make sure that you’re time and schedule is completely free with no distraction.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,"

A lot of the time it's not about "lasting"

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

East Cork

Probably a mix of:

stage fright in front of a group

Uncomfortable around other guys

Comparing size, stamina etc

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By *entleman PoliteMan
over a year ago

Mars

Some men do turn up!!!

The issue is all about the wrong choice of profile.

Badly organised Gangbangs, weird comments, will make turn back.

Too many lads not turn up but don't put everyone in the same basket just make sure of the right choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worse still is when the lady doesn’t turn up, "

I guess the gang would then have to bang each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worse still is when the lady doesn’t turn up,

I guess the gang would then have to bang each other "

“We need a volunteer”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,

A lot of the time it's not about "lasting""

Thats interesting.. cum and go type thing.. I suppose if a guy lasts forever thats not the point either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,

A lot of the time it's not about "lasting"

Thats interesting.. cum and go type thing.. I suppose if a guy lasts forever thats not the point either"

I think they mean "starting" being the issue

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By *ajRallying555Man
over a year ago

Galway .Limerick


"Hardly makes much difference if they blow the load in a few seconds anyway. Certainly not to the lady as there will another cock filling her seconds later and I doubt the next guy would complain that his turn has come quickly (boom boom!)

Getting it up would be a different issue though! "

All good points

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Because most are key board warriors that get thrill of chase and never turn up. Years on fab say they have experience and are timewasters.

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By *ymboMan
over a year ago

here and there.


"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,

A lot of the time it's not about "lasting"

Thats interesting.. cum and go type thing.. I suppose if a guy lasts forever thats not the point either"

If I'm lasting "too long" I go to the end of the queue again ... keep the line moving.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"I think it's performing in front of other men and worried they won't be able last ,

A lot of the time it's not about "lasting"

Thats interesting.. cum and go type thing.. I suppose if a guy lasts forever thats not the point either

If I'm lasting "too long" I go to the end of the queue again ... keep the line moving. "

It's a gangbang, more about the fucking, less of a love story

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

More fun for the lads that do show up then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come across a few topics and this poops up again and again ,women or couples that organise gangbangs and the lads don't turn up and not only that get cold feet and not show any respect to the lady to say they can't meet it or just say you lost your bottle

There are some stunning women on this I would absolutely appreciate a gangbang meet with "

They aren't all they are cracked up to be.... if you actually get to be in one.

Youll find that there are plenty of women you think youd love to have a gangbsng meet with but in reality you just want to fuck them and think ill grab any opportunity

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By *azirlMan
over a year ago

Marbella

People flake in real life all the time for all sorts of things but it’s pretty much only men that get shit for this one in particular.

There’s loads of women and couples etc that make plans but then flake or ghost. That’s generally seen as fine because after all you wouldn’t want them doing something they aren’t actually comfortable with and going along with it for the sake of it.

It’s bad form no matter who you are to flake at the last minute or to ghost but let’s apply the judgement fairly if we’re being judgemental.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Considering the ratio of single men to women is so high I found it astonishing when I organised a recent gang bang. Out of approx 50 invites sent, 7 turned up. Not all replied, some replied but didn't suit (Saturday, no excuse for wife). Some cancelled at last minute, some who said they were definitely attending didn't bother to let me know.

It's often said, want 5 ask 20 and panic, fright, anxiety will whittle it down naturally.

F.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering the ratio of single men to women is so high I found it astonishing when I organised a recent gang bang. Out of approx 50 invites sent, 7 turned up. Not all replied, some replied but didn't suit (Saturday, no excuse for wife). Some cancelled at last minute, some who said they were definitely attending didn't bother to let me know.

It's often said, want 5 ask 20 and panic, fright, anxiety will whittle it down naturally.

F.

"

This sounds worryingly similar to organising a game of 5aside

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By *unguyhere2020Man
over a year ago

Galway can travel


"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through. "

Ah try me the next time

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Guess they really don't want to look at other horny naked men up close and personal..

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river


"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.

Ah try me the next time"

What guy does not turn up for a FFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.

Ah try me the next time

What guy does not turn up for a FFM "

Inexcusable!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.

Ah try me the next time

What guy does not turn up for a FFM "

A gay one. Did I answer right? What do I win?....

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river


"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.

Ah try me the next time

What guy does not turn up for a FFM

A gay one. Did I answer right? What do I win?.... "

You win a Pearl necklace from that guy that didn’t show up to the FFM ??

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

It's the stupid questions do my head in.

How many will be there.

Can I meet just you 2.

Is it definitely happening × 4 or 6 times.

Send me pictures.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"It’s not just gangbangs tho, I’ve had established lovers not turn up for MFMs and FFMs. I think they fact they are invited is enough of an ego boost but genuinely aren’t man enough to follow through.

Ah try me the next time

What guy does not turn up for a FFM

A gay one. Did I answer right? What do I win?....

You win a Pearl necklace from that guy that didn’t show up to the FFM ??"

That's the only kind of meet I'd not show up for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys just bottle it as probably can't get away from the girlfriend or the wifey ?!

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By *otentialhandfulWoman
over a year ago

Banbridge

I have organised 3 Gangbangs, asked about 40 guys, got 25 replies and average 8 showed up...

The big question why no shows????

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By *iver80 OP   Man
over a year ago

south side ,

I'd show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have organised 3 Gangbangs, asked about 40 guys, got 25 replies and average 8 showed up...

The big question why no shows????"

Just looked at your profile there. Anyone that didn't show up for you has serious issues.

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By *iam756Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Kildare laois

My Question is how do you find during the day

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By *ussyhoundMan
over a year ago

Dungannon

Haven't yet missed one that I've been invited to, but to me just feels like they are wanna be swingers without any manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best place to get a gangbang is at a club, the men are there and not gonna be no shows

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

Cause people like stuff when horny that they might not like when not horny.

Some people can even feel shame or regret after stuff. Trans can get their head kicked in by a guy who had a rock hard cock the whole meet and never came so hard, as soon as he cums he might not like what just happened.

But I'm not sure why anyone would have one now. Is a bit like being in the 80s at the height of the aids crisis and thinking "wonder what bareback sex with a stranger in a bar is like". Just seems weird to me to wait till a risky time to try it.

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

I don't understand why people don't turn up to a meet, and it's not just the men, I had a meet planned with a couple, they contacted me first, we chatted for a bit then on camera and everything was going well, a week later they wanted to meet in a hotel, so I booked the room, I sent them a message saying I was there, they sent back saying see you in an hour in the bar, I had a shower and dressed went to the bar, after about 2 hours with no sign of them I checked fab, they decided there profile, so it was a real waste of time. So not just the men on here are to blame for not showing up to a meet.

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By *otrealname2000Man
over a year ago

cahir

If I say I'll be there I'll be there. I enjoy others watching and taking part. Keep me in mind for anything coming up. Hi everyone btw.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"Cause people like stuff when horny that they might not like when not horny.

Some people can even feel shame or regret after stuff. Trans can get their head kicked in by a guy who had a rock hard cock the whole meet and never came so hard, as soon as he cums he might not like what just happened.

But I'm not sure why anyone would have one now. Is a bit like being in the 80s at the height of the aids crisis and thinking "wonder what bareback sex with a stranger in a bar is like". Just seems weird to me to wait till a risky time to try it."

Christ....anything positive?

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By *j2000Man
over a year ago

mayo

Alot to do with ego & been macho.

Its 1 of thoes great ideas at the time.

Even something as simple as FFM is a head wreck first few times.

The expectation of what you have to do & preform is alot of pressure and fellas rather not show then fail.

MMF is worse you feel like you being judged more than ever.

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