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Positive signs - Green flags?

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I see chats about red flags and what they are in relation to chatting or social meets and what can warn you off meeting someone.

Wondering now about green flags? Something someone you are chatting with does that makes you think - Yep, I wanna meet them - (other than there being a bit of physical attraction).

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By *reshstart00Man
over a year ago

north dublin

They have a sense of humor, can hold a conversation, attractive, photo verified, confident, similar fantasy/likes.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

A pulse is usually a big green flag for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pulse is usually a big green flag for me "

Lmao

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

That they haven't been Oscar nominated for their latest role

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

If they are engaging in conversation and it doesn’t feel one sided. Also if they make me laugh

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Someone who can hold a normal conversation and doesn't expect everything to be about sex and someone who I can have a bit of craic with as well.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Verifications from people I know . Helps me check if they’re good craic

Clarity that we are heading towards a coffee meet rather than endless chat

Ticking safe sex

A bio that doesn’t suggest an erratic personality

A willingness to make the effort during the conversation and to travel for the meet

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"That they haven't been Oscar nominated for their latest role "

Ah jaysis. Yer pushing it there….

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

For me,I love to read comments that make me smile or laugh...the poster not taking themselves too seriously. At the same time,they don't change their view just to get approval from someone they want to Impress! While a don't engage frequently on the forums there are definitely a few here I'd enjoy pints with based on the above!!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo verified - the actual green flag.

Verifications from people that don't have blank profiles.

Logs in regularly and makes an effort to converse, doesn't always have to lead to a meet

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Being able to express themselves clearly when messaging, in an entertaining way.

Having kinks that are aligned

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs "

I’m guilty of self deprecation, I really need to get better at it though

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs

I’m guilty of self deprecation, I really need to get better at it though "

SD done with confidence is great

But coming across as ‘grateful’ for a chat or a meet not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaping is a positive

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By *rban tigerMan
over a year ago

where the streets have no name

Again as my profile reads i like class/substance/ style but how the mind works might be the most attractive quality they have? But if they have a decent level of self respect i’d meet anyone for a coffee and chat male or femaleIf its a lady and the hope is for sexual relations i’d at the very least hope we are not related…….,..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with a similar sense of humor to mine.

People with some perspective on fab and life in general (or at least a perspective which matches mine).

The ability to argue without belittling.

Boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile being non pushy (face pics etc.) and they actually put effort into a message.

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Care and effort put into photos is a big plus for me

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Them being the ones to suggest a social meet.

Someone who can make me laugh with a similar silly sense of humour.

Effort put into their profile.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs

I’m guilty of self deprecation, I really need to get better at it though "

Phoarrrr ... grab your coat love you're pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of people in the last few people have been catfishers/fake or whatever. In fact after chatting and seen the friends pics they were of a famous porn star

Red flag.

Not being fake, green flag.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"A bit of self-deprecation is great. People like this are not easily offended and they wouldn't want to be because after a few Pinot Grigios, I'm likely to say anything. Mrs

I’m guilty of self deprecation, I really need to get better at it though

Phoarrrr ... grab your coat love you're pulled "

Damn, why didn’t I act sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solid level of interest in texts. Meaning you send a paragraph they send one back. Even just getting questions is a rarity when I feel I'm interviewing someone I just stop.

Otherwise nice pace to convo, but of humour, bit naughty.

What gets me is when people ask what you do. That's just an attraction killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smart sense of humour definitely, and a facility with double-entendres especially

Not taking themselves too seriously in general

And last but not least - excellent spelling and grammar skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Them being the ones to suggest a social meet."

Fancy a pint?

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Someone who makes an effort replying to mails. The usual one being just 2 words. “ Face pic “. Boring!!!

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

When they list a bunch of things they require, and you click their veries and all the people meet them.

Only big dick black men, and it's white men and black men with little dicks. Vs nothing but black men with big dicks.

Tall bearded men only, and first Veri is a short clean shaven guy.

Its very rare to click through veris and for them to match what was said. But it's a green flag when it happens, even if what they asked for rules me out, at least they are an upfront, honest person, and get a green flag.

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