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By *oxtrotTangoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

monkstown/kentstown

The amount of rude people on here is crazy! I think this site has gotten worse by the day! Has other people on fab have bad experience on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude in what way?

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

If you’re genuinely not doing anything that warrants a rude response then just block those people however If you are messaging women with fancy a quick fuck or do you like my cock messages well then what do you expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sad fact, but life itself is full of rude people, and often worse. All we can do is hope for is not to cross their paths too often, and when we do remember that the problem is theirs alone for being rude.

Fab is no different, because Fab is part of human existence. When we meet rude people on our site here, remember the thought above and quietly move on, leaving the rude, with their rudeness. They will eventually run out of friends.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I can’t say I’ve had this issue.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I can’t say I’ve had this issue. "

Me neither

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By *oxtrotTangoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

monkstown/kentstown


"If you’re genuinely not doing anything that warrants a rude response then just block those people however If you are messaging women with fancy a quick fuck or do you like my cock messages well then what do you expect "

I did block, 1 never as a woman for a quick fuck nor I send any photos! It's just they contact you, then when you reply they say things that I won't even write on here! I just shocked sometimes I'm thinking there all fake profile just to piss people off.

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By *oxtrotTangoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

monkstown/kentstown


"I can’t say I’ve had this issue. "

Well your a lucky man then.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I would say most people on here have to experienced someone being rude or abusive to them at some point.And it's across the board as well not just one gender in particular does it. Tight filters help cut down a lot of it I have found. Plus the attitude that I don't care if some person I've never met is rude it just shows me that I was right not to waste any more time on someone like that.

What I find more amusing is so many will claim they are not rude or use excuses as why they are abusive to people who have done nothing wrong.But pm's tell a different story .But such is fab it won't change and like I've said before all you can do is find the best way to deal with it yourself so it doesn't effect you adversely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t say I’ve had this issue. "

Nor have I tbh.

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By *oxtrotTangoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

monkstown/kentstown


"It's a sad fact, but life itself is full of rude people, and often worse. All we can do is hope for is not to cross their paths too often, and when we do remember that the problem is theirs alone for being rude.

Fab is no different, because Fab is part of human existence. When we meet rude people on our site here, remember the thought above and quietly move on, leaving the rude, with their rudeness. They will eventually run out of friends. "

That's true, but they know how to press the right switch to get people down! As I work alot and and all different hours its hard already as it is and then they get you down like this is just so annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As _ustbo said above its part of fab unfortunately, been on the receiving end of it ( thankfully not in a while) but than I have my filters set tight. If I get a rude message I just block and move on.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Probably had 2 or maybe 3 in the whole time we have been on here and all 3 have been single males with no pictures on profile at all that don't like to be turned down

So the block button gets used and we move on

Mrs Gs

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

That's them southerners for ya

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"The amount of rude people on here is crazy! I think this site has gotten worse by the day! Has other people on fab have bad experience on here?"

Fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of rude people on here is crazy! I think this site has gotten worse by the day! Has other people on fab have bad experience on here?

Fuck you.

"

Now that was rude

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The only rudeness I've experienced has been from people who sent demanding introductory messages with not even an hello but just a list of instructions for meeting them.

Being told in a first message that I had very few options on here because of my age and the fact I was straight.

I had to either play bi or guarantee a sexy lady before they would even put me on their to do list.

As they had 100+ veries I asked how often that approach worked and apparently it did every time.

Therefore I was rude by spoiling their perfect score.

The rudeness seems to be linked to saying no to something I'm expected to agree to without question.

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

Yeah, I’ve been sending lots of ride now messages and the responses haven’t been great.

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By *ara198Woman
over a year ago

maynooth


"Yeah, I’ve been sending lots of ride now messages and the responses haven’t been great. "

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

If you over invest your expectations here, you have set yourself up for disappointment.

When you experience rudeness, thank the Fab Gods for the enlightenment and BLOCK

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I get it on a regular basis don't know why im delighted but joking aside i use to let it bother me now i just delete and block ye don't know whats going on in some people's lives to vent such rudness so i don't retaliate just block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was contacted by a woman here this week, spoke over couple days & getting on great,

she asked to meet yesterday but then all of a sudden couple hours before meeting received a message saying "no thanks" & then blocked me ( i had said nothing to warrant it). Upset me, ruined my saturday but woke up this morning & thought feck it, if ye spend all your time brooding over this you'd never leave the house

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I was contacted by a woman here this week, spoke over couple days & getting on great,

she asked to meet yesterday but then all of a sudden couple hours before meeting received a message saying "no thanks" & then blocked me ( i had said nothing to warrant it). Upset me, ruined my saturday but woke up this morning & thought feck it, if ye spend all your time brooding over this you'd never leave the house"

That's the spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very few responses so I don’t have this problem at all ….!

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

I think this is a fact of life, rude people exist in every walk of life, not just on Fab

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By *erticalMan
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

I have not seen any of it myself, i prefer That people would straight up with each other but some might see a straight answer as being direct and maybe rude? It all depends on each others form i suppose. I do see arrogance but tho i hate it i understand if a person is trying to show themselves a dominant or controlling then???? Plus i understand a lady might be sick of the same crap being mailed to her all the time??

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

We have had no issues with rude people tg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there are rude people OP as there are in real life. Add in the fact people can hide behind a screen and that rudeness only intensifies. It's an unfortunate part of online interactions.

As other have said block and move on from them. If you find these interactions really get to you maybe remove yourself from the site for a period of time no point letting it get your mood down

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone


"If you over invest your expectations here, you have set yourself up for disappointment.

When you experience rudeness, thank the Fab Gods for the enlightenment and BLOCK

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Fook em all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fook em all"

Can I be rude with you Yoser?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Fook em all"

That's the plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm awful rude on Fab I turn down kind offers to suck off randomers at service stations I never want to watch guys wank on Snap and I delete unsolicited dicks all day long.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Fook em all

That's the plan "

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"The only rudeness I've experienced has been from people who sent demanding introductory messages with not even an hello but just a list of instructions for meeting them.

Being told in a first message that I had very few options on here because of my age and the fact I was straight.

I had to either play bi or guarantee a sexy lady before they would even put me on their to do list.

As they had 100+ veries I asked how often that approach worked and apparently it did every time.

Therefore I was rude by spoiling their perfect score.

The rudeness seems to be linked to saying no to something I'm expected to agree to without question.

"

I have to say I must be lucky enough not to have experienced anything like this or came ahead any rudeness on my fab travels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm awful rude on Fab I turn down kind offers to suck off randomers at service stations I never want to watch guys wank on Snap and I delete unsolicited dicks all day long. "

They could at least pay for your fuel and a pastie Rosey

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By *lytrucker32Man
over a year ago

Killeagh

No haven't experienced any rudeness to be honest.....actually come to think of it I just get no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here. "

No answer is an answer ...its in the conditions of using the site

When you say people have high expectations...does that include you writing all the messages

When you say closed shop....you mean people make friends and chat on here just like I don't know...the real world

Would you go into a pub you've never been in before, sit down with strangers and expect them to start chatting to you straight away or if you were hoping to make it your local would you take your time and get to know people gradually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here. "

I think people who find no replies have a bit of an entitled outlook on here tbh.

So what if you are respectful that should be an absolute minimum expectation when approaching someone on here not a guarantee of a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

I think people who find no replies have a bit of an entitled outlook on here tbh.

So what if you are respectful that should be an absolute minimum expectation when approaching someone on here not a guarantee of a reply"

Your point being?

I think the very least a person can do is reply to a message from someone. Fair enough if you are inundated with rude pics/messages then block away. In my world it’s rude to ignore someone if spoken too and I think that should go for messages too whether here or anywhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here. "

Not replying isn't a person been rude. When I get a message I check the profile first before I read the message. I try to answer most messages but some says its just not worth the effort and I'm saying that in the nicest possible way. I know what I want. If your message is ignored or deleted just make note on the profile and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

Not replying isn't a person been rude. When I get a message I check the profile first before I read the message. I try to answer most messages but some says its just not worth the effort and I'm saying that in the nicest possible way. I know what I want. If your message is ignored or deleted just make note on the profile and move on."

Well I think a short message to say “sorry I’m not interested” wouldn’t be too hard now would it! Anyway that’s just me and I’m sure everyone is different.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

Not replying isn't a person been rude. When I get a message I check the profile first before I read the message. I try to answer most messages but some says its just not worth the effort and I'm saying that in the nicest possible way. I know what I want. If your message is ignored or deleted just make note on the profile and move on.

Well I think a short message to say “sorry I’m not interested” wouldn’t be too hard now would it! Anyway that’s just me and I’m sure everyone is different. "

I used to do that then the abusive message came do I don't do it anymore

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

I think people who find no replies have a bit of an entitled outlook on here tbh.

So what if you are respectful that should be an absolute minimum expectation when approaching someone on here not a guarantee of a reply

Your point being?

I think the very least a person can do is reply to a message from someone. Fair enough if you are inundated with rude pics/messages then block away. In my world it’s rude to ignore someone if spoken too and I think that should go for messages too whether here or anywhere else. "

One can interpret no reply as a no thanks reply and it would save an awful lot of time for all sides

I d rather no reply than ‘not for me aka too many branches of the ugly tree hit on the way down’ reply tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

Not replying isn't a person been rude. When I get a message I check the profile first before I read the message. I try to answer most messages but some says its just not worth the effort and I'm saying that in the nicest possible way. I know what I want. If your message is ignored or deleted just make note on the profile and move on.

Well I think a short message to say “sorry I’m not interested” wouldn’t be too hard now would it! Anyway that’s just me and I’m sure everyone is different.

I used to do that then the abusive message came do I don't do it anymore"

That’s fair enough I suppose but looking at your profile I can’t see why you would get abuse at all. Damn you woman but you are so hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here. "

Love to get my daily average stats on the amount of people that block me...if you are bothered about getting blocked ...this site might not be for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

Love to get my daily average stats on the amount of people that block me...if you are bothered about getting blocked ...this site might not be for you"

Thankfully I don’t get blocked at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

Not replying isn't a person been rude. When I get a message I check the profile first before I read the message. I try to answer most messages but some says its just not worth the effort and I'm saying that in the nicest possible way. I know what I want. If your message is ignored or deleted just make note on the profile and move on.

Well I think a short message to say “sorry I’m not interested” wouldn’t be too hard now would it! Anyway that’s just me and I’m sure everyone is different. "

Yep but when you do that and receive a barrage of abuse its just not worth the hassle, and yes not every guy is like that.

Some examples of abuse

Fat whale

Who do you think would fxxk you

The tide wouldnt take you out

You've been around the block anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that’s really crap and I can’t understand why fellas would want to be like that. Thankfully I don’t have any trouble with the ladies and I’m confident in my ability to talk the talk but I’d definitely never go down the road of abusing anyone. I’m here to explore this side of things more so if it happens great but I won’t be letting myself down and will always be true to my values.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

Not replying isn't a person been rude. When I get a message I check the profile first before I read the message. I try to answer most messages but some says its just not worth the effort and I'm saying that in the nicest possible way. I know what I want. If your message is ignored or deleted just make note on the profile and move on.

Well I think a short message to say “sorry I’m not interested” wouldn’t be too hard now would it! Anyway that’s just me and I’m sure everyone is different. "

I used to be so polite and answered lots of messages but it just leads to being called a entitled fat riddled with everything going stuck up slut. You kinda get weary of it after a while! I now treat Fab like my personal Gmail I don't reply to spam messages on Gmail so I don't feel I need to reply to the nice tits wanna meet now hun messages. I'll reply to the ones who interest me as I'm here for my pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

Not replying isn't a person been rude. When I get a message I check the profile first before I read the message. I try to answer most messages but some says its just not worth the effort and I'm saying that in the nicest possible way. I know what I want. If your message is ignored or deleted just make note on the profile and move on.

Well I think a short message to say “sorry I’m not interested” wouldn’t be too hard now would it! Anyway that’s just me and I’m sure everyone is different.

I used to be so polite and answered lots of messages but it just leads to being called a entitled fat riddled with everything going stuck up slut. You kinda get weary of it after a while! I now treat Fab like my personal Gmail I don't reply to spam messages on Gmail so I don't feel I need to reply to the nice tits wanna meet now hun messages. I'll reply to the ones who interest me as I'm here for my pleasure! "

Well I think you look absolutely gorgeous Rosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s quite rude if someone doesn’t reply to you or blocks you without explanation. I’ve sent lots of messages of which I have got replies but some don’t even bother. I’ve always been respectful when writing messages but I really think people on here at times have very high expectations as to what they are looking for. I stand by my comment from a few weeks ago when I said it’s a bit of a closed shop in here.

I think people who find no replies have a bit of an entitled outlook on here tbh.

So what if you are respectful that should be an absolute minimum expectation when approaching someone on here not a guarantee of a reply

Your point being?

I think the very least a person can do is reply to a message from someone. Fair enough if you are inundated with rude pics/messages then block away. In my world it’s rude to ignore someone if spoken too and I think that should go for messages too whether here or anywhere else. "

My point was pretty clear I thought.

It's not the same thing as going up ans speaking to someone in the real world so it's not a fair comparison really.

It's more like replying to spam emails or spending your time answering any cold sales calls you might get.

It's in the site faq's that no reply means no interests so instead of taking it as a personal insult just accept it for what it is you'll probably find you enjoy the place more if your not being offended by such small things

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"The amount of rude people on here is crazy! I think this site has gotten worse by the day! Has other people on fab have bad experience on here?"

Yes curt replies or usually yes or no messages.. Dull as dishwater conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I suppose you are right. I won’t be sending any more messages I think from now on. Time for a total change of tactics from now on.

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By *eathcock69Man
over a year ago

Navan

The only thing I can say about fab is it's very difficult for a single lad to meet women on here. Just my experience on here everyone that I have talked to on here are sound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to agree with you on that. Very hard to meet anyone if you are single. I have met 2 women here in the past but nowadays it’s next to impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I’ve been sending lots of ride now messages and the responses haven’t been great. "

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"Yeah, I’ve been sending lots of ride now messages and the responses haven’t been great. "

I didn't get one..

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

As the general population becomes more entitled, that they be accorded special treatment, rudeness becomes more commonplace.

Fab, being a microcosm of society, albeit that its members have a special interest, NSA sex, is bound to experience too.

The solution: manage your interactions. No respect should merit no contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I’ve been sending lots of ride now messages and the responses haven’t been great.

I didn't get one.. "

Bog lady. If I send one to you will I be successful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is.." What's rude "???. everyone has a different level of whatever it is the topic is about ..some will think such a thing said is rude but maybe the person who said it didn't think twas rude ..it's the ol' scenario where a person says something to another ,they think they're after being insulted but the person who said it says " no..l didn't insult you ..l merely discribed you "..so ..what do you say to that ?...bottom line is ...here and in real life ..just don't have anything to do with them ..l know you have to engage with them first to discover if they're rude or not but once discovered then avoid ..then fab life will be just that...Fab

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By *eathcock69Man
over a year ago

Navan


"As the general population becomes more entitled, that they be accorded special treatment, rudeness becomes more commonplace.

Fab, being a microcosm of society, albeit that its members have a special interest, NSA sex, is bound to experience too.

The solution: manage your interactions. No respect should merit no contact. "

Tbh even if someone messages sobody with a respectful message there is never a reply back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the general population becomes more entitled, that they be accorded special treatment, rudeness becomes more commonplace.

Fab, being a microcosm of society, albeit that its members have a special interest, NSA sex, is bound to experience too.

The solution: manage your interactions. No respect should merit no contact.

Tbh even if someone messages sobody with a respectful message there is never a reply back."

Can happen ok...but l find if there's someone that you want to message , sometimes it's better to message them privately ,if possible ,as in within their filters ,on a post or a reply to something they said on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the general population becomes more entitled, that they be accorded special treatment, rudeness becomes more commonplace.

Fab, being a microcosm of society, albeit that its members have a special interest, NSA sex, is bound to experience too.

The solution: manage your interactions. No respect should merit no contact.

Tbh even if someone messages sobody with a respectful message there is never a reply back."

But noone who's you a reply just because you sent a respectful message doesn't guarantee when you get a polite no thanks you don't become abusive.

At this rate admin should pin a note to the top in block letters

NO REPLY IS A REPLY

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By *eathcock69Man
over a year ago

Navan

Try being a bloke on here and getting nothing but silence constantly it's really frustrating especially when you put the effort in Nd get nothing in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a bloke on here and getting nothing but silence constantly it's really frustrating especially when you put the effort in Nd get nothing in return"

Your here 7 weeks that's no time, what did you expect the women be dropping their knickers at first sight? Loads of threads on the forums how to update your profile etc

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"

Tbh even if someone messages sobody with a respectful message there is never a reply back."

Nobody is entitled to a reply.If someone doesn't reply to your message it means they are not interested in you. It doesn't matter if you're message was polite and respectful or not. They most likely looked at your profile and decided for whatever reason you were not for them. So rather than having to explain that they simply don't reply.

A polite message should be the given anyhow and not a reason to expect a reply.

And yes I know it can be frustrating for men on here but there are ways to help yourselves get a better chance at replies it's been said over and over on here but most ignore any advice given and just carry on giving out about how bad fab is for them. And the more people moan the less likely people are going to reply.

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By *eathcock69Man
over a year ago

Navan


"

Tbh even if someone messages sobody with a respectful message there is never a reply back.

Nobody is entitled to a reply.If someone doesn't reply to your message it means they are not interested in you. It doesn't matter if you're message was polite and respectful or not. They most likely looked at your profile and decided for whatever reason you were not for them. So rather than having to explain that they simply don't reply.

A polite message should be the given anyhow and not a reason to expect a reply.

And yes I know it can be frustrating for men on here but there are ways to help yourselves get a better chance at replies it's been said over and over on here but most ignore any advice given and just carry on giving out about how bad fab is for them. And the more people moan the less likely people are going to reply.

"

Then single guys who are new on here are screwed if that's the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tbh even if someone messages sobody with a respectful message there is never a reply back.

Nobody is entitled to a reply.If someone doesn't reply to your message it means they are not interested in you. It doesn't matter if you're message was polite and respectful or not. They most likely looked at your profile and decided for whatever reason you were not for them. So rather than having to explain that they simply don't reply.

A polite message should be the given anyhow and not a reason to expect a reply.

And yes I know it can be frustrating for men on here but there are ways to help yourselves get a better chance at replies it's been said over and over on here but most ignore any advice given and just carry on giving out about how bad fab is for them. And the more people moan the less likely people are going to reply.

Then single guys who are new on here are screwed if that's the case"

But there are plenty of single guys meeting people. If you having no luck with messages get yourself to a social or a mng and people will get to know you

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"

Tbh even if someone messages sobody with a respectful message there is never a reply back.

Nobody is entitled to a reply.If someone doesn't reply to your message it means they are not interested in you. It doesn't matter if you're message was polite and respectful or not. They most likely looked at your profile and decided for whatever reason you were not for them. So rather than having to explain that they simply don't reply.

A polite message should be the given anyhow and not a reason to expect a reply.

And yes I know it can be frustrating for men on here but there are ways to help yourselves get a better chance at replies it's been said over and over on here but most ignore any advice given and just carry on giving out about how bad fab is for them. And the more people moan the less likely people are going to reply.

Then single guys who are new on here are screwed if that's the case"

That doesn't even make any sense.Why would what I just said make you think it more difficult for new men on here.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Jaysus. Anyone for a cuppa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet lots off very rude females on here, after all no thanks it's all it takes

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Jaysus. Anyone for a cuppa. "

Yes please. Very kind of you to offer

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"

Tbh even if someone messages sobody with a respectful message there is never a reply back.

Nobody is entitled to a reply.If someone doesn't reply to your message it means they are not interested in you. It doesn't matter if you're message was polite and respectful or not. They most likely looked at your profile and decided for whatever reason you were not for them. So rather than having to explain that they simply don't reply.

A polite message should be the given anyhow and not a reason to expect a reply.

And yes I know it can be frustrating for men on here but there are ways to help yourselves get a better chance at replies it's been said over and over on here but most ignore any advice given and just carry on giving out about how bad fab is for them. And the more people moan the less likely people are going to reply.

Then single guys who are new on here are screwed if that's the case"

Surely they’re hoping to be screwed

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Jaysus. Anyone for a cuppa.

Yes please. Very kind of you to offer"

How do you like it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Jaysus. Anyone for a cuppa.

Yes please. Very kind of you to offer

How do you like it "

Black please and thank you

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Jaysus. Anyone for a cuppa.

Yes please. Very kind of you to offer

How do you like it

Black please and thank you"

Gluten free protein brownie?

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

There are 38458 people online right now . If some are rude in their interactions or don’t reply you just move on I think

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

And 38,400 are men

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Jaysus. Anyone for a cuppa.

Yes please. Very kind of you to offer

How do you like it

Black please and thank you

Gluten free protein brownie?"

Only if it's dairy free too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have a cuppa too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on here for a few years and chatted to some nice people and met 2 fantastic ladies but since I’ve come back into it I’ve found it really hard to meet anyone. It really is quite hard(pardon the pun)for single guys here. Verifications are hard too.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"And 38,400 are men "

Correct I think . 79 women and 159 couples but I doubt all these profiles are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll have a coffee if you’re putting the kettle on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been on here for a few years and chatted to some nice people and met 2 fantastic ladies but since I’ve come back into it I’ve found it really hard to meet anyone. It really is quite hard(pardon the pun)for single guys here. Verifications are hard too. "

There's been a pandemic in case you didn't notice. It's o Tower I have had one actual play meet this year. And the socials have just started up.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I’ve been on here for a few years and chatted to some nice people and met 2 fantastic ladies but since I’ve come back into it I’ve found it really hard to meet anyone. It really is quite hard(pardon the pun)for single guys here. Verifications are hard too. "

I haven't met anyone for other than a coffee in 2years

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Meet lots off very rude females on here, after all no thanks it's all it takes"

You've no profile and no photos

If you didnt bother why would they

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Meet lots off very rude females on here, after all no thanks it's all it takes"

Ive met loads of extremely rude males and couples on here to but hey hoo thats fab ..

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

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