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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Do you prefer meeting for a drink first before the fun begins or diving straight in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you prefer meeting for a drink first before the fun begins or diving straight in?"

First time to meet is strictly a social only, only so much rejection a gal can take and the thought of been kicked out of a hotel room or a guy walking out of the hotel room

But after the first meet by the time we get to meet again its a case of getting the hotel room door closed before we naked

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

Someone I haven't met before would always be a drink or a coffee first.

If we've met then anything goes generally, depending on the situation.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Always a social meet first, if there's a second id prefer a few drinks then head to the bedroom

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

always have a coffee/drink first, I know me and I couldn't agree to play before I've met the person ( absolutely no disrespect to the ones who do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had a meet yet but I’d like to meet socially first, either a coffee or a drink or even lunch. If the lady decides I’m not her type then no harm done !

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

I've had only one met and we had coffee and chat

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Always a social meet first unless meet turns out to be irresistible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally I prefer to meet for a quick coffee, or lunch, or an evening drink to see if there is a mutual physical attraction, before any fun stuff begins. Although I have met a few very time pressed women in Lidl's car park and after two minutes of chatting, they followed me on the short drive home and we got naked straight away. And one game gal even brazenly knocked on my front door ready for action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually pretty much straight to it for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always a social meet first unless meet turns out to be irresistible "

Yes, me too

I can be a bit impatient

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I feel it’s nice to have a catch up beforehand so a drink be it coffee or alcoholic kind first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to have a social meet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on situation l suppose , were it a party maybe straight off , if lucky of course ..a personal meet it depends wether anything will happen but l would have a drink and chat first anyway and you if anything happened the same day ..great ..if not that same day ..that's cool too ...and if not ever ..that's cool too as not all types fit..it all depends on all the stars aligning..

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

Cuppa and chat for me on first meet please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think 99% of the time you have to meet first to see if that online spark translates to in person. No limits on where the first meet could end up tho, why would you put a limit on that

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Very much case by case basis with me

I went out with a lady for 6 months without sex

I have got naked with another 5 minutes after meeting

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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A lavazza social would be a must on firsts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were one is different.

For me it depends on what feeling you have if not sure have a social and see.

But just be comfortable in what yiur doing if not get out off their

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Coffee meet first. No alcohol for me. Chat, then see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally a coffee first.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

I'm not a cheap date!

Mocha first before anything else gets hot

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"I'm not a cheap date!

Mocha first before anything else gets hot "

I didn’t know there were many mocha fans out there

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By *onkerz123Couple
over a year ago

Sligo

Straight in, but that might just be me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a wee coffee first to set each other at ease.

That said, a whisky and a wink to start off is more fun

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Walk or a chat in the car for a first meet. Can’t think of anything more awkward than sitting in a cafe being worried about who might overhear your conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't got time for coffee, I can easily guage a person's vibe through a quick video call/phone call. This has always worked for me...

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By *rederick2000Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you

Coffee meets have turned into play meets in the past so I am always prepared to get close and personal

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Walk or a chat in the car for a first meet. Can’t think of anything more awkward than sitting in a cafe being worried about who might overhear your conversation "

Totally in two minds about this

I have a ‘walking spot’ in Galway I have tried 3-4 times but it always feels rushed

Chats in the car can feel awkward

But chatting about oral sex in costa not a wonderful option if the conversation moves in that direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you prefer meeting for a drink first before the fun begins or diving straight in?"

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Have had a few amazing coffee meets that we both forgot all about Fab and had the craic. Must say the physical fun that followed was incredible, so ideally a drink and chat first works best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people I met here were both social meets first one of which ended up with us just going straight for the bedroom (after coffee of course)

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Both ways work for us. We don't get a lot of free time, so tend to catch people when our diaries collide and go with the time/opportunities available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I spend Alot of time chatting and get a good idea of who I'm talking with. The conversations that go well turn to social meets.... Car, walks, coffee or drinks.

Sometimes those social meets end up as play meets and sometimes there's a second meet arranged.

The main thing with me is no expectations, if nothing else I like to think I'll make a fab friend

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Usually a social meet first. And past experience has taught me to make sure himself is there for any future ones if we ever get back meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet for quick coffee and chat first. If the attraction is there for us both a second 'clothes off' date is arranged

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By *erticalMan
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

I’m shy and at least breakfast, dinner and tae first the next day maybe a coffee too?? Ha, ha i’ve no insecurities what so ever but understand others do. Plus a Laugh and a bit of craic is super important to loosen things up never mind a bit of teasing. Tho the best nights out where the unplanned ones. I cant drink tea or coffee with or with out milk, i just go with the flow once everyone on the bus is happy

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