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By *rederick2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you

I have noticed of late that read messages very quickly become un-read again. Do you do that, if so, what is the purpose of it and what is achieved by it? Asking for a firend....

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Because sometimes if I don't have time to answer then I'll go back to it later the yellow reminds me to .

Other times it's because it was a faf type message I mark unread and delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it so that my other half can see messages he might otherwise miss

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't get very many messages so it's like framing one as a momento

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Because sometimes if I don't have time to answer then I'll go back to it later the yellow reminds me to .

Other times it's because it was a faf type message I mark unread and delete it. "

This

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By *rederick2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you


"Because sometimes if I don't have time to answer then I'll go back to it later the yellow reminds me to .

Other times it's because it was a faf type message I mark unread and delete it. "

That makes a lot of sense alright. I don't mind about deleted messages, that way at least I know that I am not wanted

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By *rederick2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you


"I do it so that my other half can see messages he might otherwise miss"

That I can understand and accept.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Because sometimes if I don't have time to answer then I'll go back to it later the yellow reminds me to .

Other times it's because it was a faf type message I mark unread and delete it.

This "

Does that mean it still shows as unread from the senders perspective? I never knew that!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Because sometimes if I don't have time to answer then I'll go back to it later the yellow reminds me to .

Other times it's because it was a faf type message I mark unread and delete it.

This

Does that mean it still shows as unread from the senders perspective? I never knew that! "

Yep it does .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get very many messages so it's like framing one as a momento "

Lol that made me chuckle

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don't get very many messages so it's like framing one as a momento "

Awk poor you… lol

Is your inbox full now RB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed of late that read messages very quickly become un-read again. Do you do that, if so, what is the purpose of it and what is achieved by it? Asking for a firend.... "

If it bugs you a simple solution is to delete the sent messages after they are sent.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don't get very many messages so it's like framing one as a momento

Awk poor you… lol

Is your inbox full now RB? "

Only with tumblew*ed

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I do it if I've no interest in the person but because I reply to every message it's my kind of way to just keep the message there so I can go back to it.

I know other people do it cause again they don't have an interest but rather than deleting they keep them there so if showing your profile to someone then it looks like a shock factor.... "oh you have 800 unread messages".... 'yeah I'm popular'.

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By *rederick2000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you


"I do it if I've no interest in the person but because I reply to every message it's my kind of way to just keep the message there so I can go back to it.

I know other people do it cause again they don't have an interest but rather than deleting they keep them there so if showing your profile to someone then it looks like a shock factor.... "oh you have 800 unread messages".... 'yeah I'm popular'. "

Ah I see lol. How many unread messages do you have then

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

We do it sometimes if we are not together and the ans needs both of us ..

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

You get that little pang of excitement when you log in and see a highlighted inbox

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain


"I do it if I've no interest in the person but because I reply to every message it's my kind of way to just keep the message there so I can go back to it.

I know other people do it cause again they don't have an interest but rather than deleting they keep them there so if showing your profile to someone then it looks like a shock factor.... "oh you have 800 unread messages".... 'yeah I'm popular'.

Ah I see lol. How many unread messages do you have then "

98 at the moment, I got through lots of replies today so far so hope to clear it by tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do this. It kinda stops some people bothering me.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I do it to remind me to go back and answer if I don’t have the time right then. Unfortunately I often forget to back and answer…oops.

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo


"I don't get very many messages so it's like framing one as a momento "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because sometimes if I don't have time to answer then I'll go back to it later the yellow reminds me to .

Other times it's because it was a faf type message I mark unread and delete it. "

Ditto

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

The only reason some my messages sit there appearing unread is I'm sat there in shock that I actually received one

Then the oul inbox gathers dust for another while til someone's mad enough to message me again

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By *ouple4funx2000Couple
over a year ago

town

I sometimes read a message and mark it as unread so my other half will read it also, or if I think he would be better at answering than me .

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"I don't get very many messages so it's like framing one as a momento "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it because I might be walking and I’ll reply later…

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