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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x "

I wish I could answer this. The best I can do is there are just alot of dickheads in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its one of lifes great mysteries. Have seem stuff posted on other social media outlets and people posting pics say of their decor but apologising in the post " not to everyones taste but this is mine" . I jus think stop apologising its your home you live in it, as long as your happy who cares what other people thing.

The comments about my weight I laugh at them now and just think wow I never noticed I have fat like.

If we all the same be very boring.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

I’d say it’s spiteful, bitter little children who are tired at being rejected so they just decide to lash out and try to make people feel as miserable as they are

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By *onegal82Man
over a year ago

letterkenny/Belfast


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x "

Awwwww just aasholes who obviously need to comment. If they don't like fair enough but no need to be rude or a pr**k about it. But just ignore there rude petty comments x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x "

How about them bags of bones

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Some people just need to put others down to feel good about themselves. Their comments say more about themselves than about you.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

How about them bags of bones "

Oi, none of that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For reactions like this I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

How about them bags of bones

Oi, none of that now "

Hard to resist low hanging fruit

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

How about them bags of bones

Oi, none of that now

Hard to resist low hanging fruit "

The harder you work for it, the better it gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bag of bones here…someone looking for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bag of bones here…someone looking for me? "

Oh but you are a sexy man bag

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

How about them bags of bones "

I know shocking big ppl don't like being called fat like skinny ppl don't like being called a bag of bones ... body shaming you say I know what ya mean one rule for one but another rule for others lol shocking

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

They lead sad, miserable lives and feel better about themselves by putting others down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For reactions like this I imagine "

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately "

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab will always have nasty people. Just try ignore and block. Threads like these don't and won't change anything, all they do is turn into a shit show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person. "

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I think it’s just a reflection of the sort of person they are which is sad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

"

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour.

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately "

They sure do! Not just on fab though it doesn't stop there...unfortunately that's only a very small percentage but it's everywhere...I mean obviously everyone's here for the same reasons and small percentage are not even proper swingers...plenty of ppl can get sex off and on fab if that's there thing..regardless of size and age ??

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour. "

Yes I agree but they seem to like to block you before you get to have your say! Think after so many years it's like water off a ducks back! And they can't hurt you anymore than what you've dealt with in life so far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour. "

You suggested on another thread that threads should be closed rather than creating arguments I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour.

You suggested on another thread that threads should be closed rather than creating arguments I'm confused "

I meant in life on general not on here as its lost in space here, but if I heard someone I know make a comment I'd pull them on it cause none of us knows what that person is going through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour.

You suggested on another thread that threads should be closed rather than creating arguments I'm confused

I meant in life on general not on here as its lost in space here, but if I heard someone I know make a comment I'd pull them on it cause none of us knows what that person is going through. "

So in real life if you heard your friend insult people by saying they are undesirable because they are "a bag of bones" you'd pull th on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour.

You suggested on another thread that threads should be closed rather than creating arguments I'm confused

I meant in life on general not on here as its lost in space here, but if I heard someone I know make a comment I'd pull them on it cause none of us knows what that person is going through.

So in real life if you heard your friend insult people by saying they are undesirable because they are "a bag of bones" you'd pull th on it?"

Yes 100% as I said noone knows what a person is going through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour.

You suggested on another thread that threads should be closed rather than creating arguments I'm confused

I meant in life on general not on here as its lost in space here, but if I heard someone I know make a comment I'd pull them on it cause none of us knows what that person is going through.

So in real life if you heard your friend insult people by saying they are undesirable because they are "a bag of bones" you'd pull th on it?

Yes 100% as I said noone knows what a person is going through. "

I guess my capacity for pity is less than yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour.

You suggested on another thread that threads should be closed rather than creating arguments I'm confused

I meant in life on general not on here as its lost in space here, but if I heard someone I know make a comment I'd pull them on it cause none of us knows what that person is going through.

So in real life if you heard your friend insult people by saying they are undesirable because they are "a bag of bones" you'd pull th on it?

Yes 100% as I said noone knows what a person is going through.

I guess my capacity for pity is less than yours "

As someone who has been on the receiving end of nasty vile comments and has been at very low points in my life I know how much even random comments can hurt. It costs nothing to be kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also seen that some men write the only way these “fat” woman get the ride is being on these type of sites!!

And that 90% of the woman on here are overweight etc

Normal woman don’t need to be on here.

Yes you heard it correct people these people do exist unfortunately

This is where private notes are handy, I've seen statuses posted on guys profiles with comments like that. It smells of rejection and as someone else said it says more about the person. I have fat and I'm curvy and I have received nasty messages here and in real life have had it said straight out to me. Now when it's said I feel pity for the person who said it because I may have fat but I have a huge heart and I'm a good person.

It’s just the world we live in unfortunately and despite what people say or do it’ll never change.

100% but i do think we should pull people on their behaviour.

You suggested on another thread that threads should be closed rather than creating arguments I'm confused

I meant in life on general not on here as its lost in space here, but if I heard someone I know make a comment I'd pull them on it cause none of us knows what that person is going through.

So in real life if you heard your friend insult people by saying they are undesirable because they are "a bag of bones" you'd pull th on it?

Yes 100% as I said noone knows what a person is going through.

I guess my capacity for pity is less than yours

As someone who has been on the receiving end of nasty vile comments and has been at very low points in my life I know how much even random comments can hurt. It costs nothing to be kind. "

Agreed its why I dont see a reason to not call it out on here any less than the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming "

Ya... its really not though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

Ya... its really not though "

Ah it really is

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming "

Do you think being slim makes someone healthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

Do you think being slim makes someone healthy?"

That's what the gp told me

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

Do you think being slim makes someone healthy?

That's what the gp told me"

Yup sounds like most of the fatphobic gps out there alright.

Your health is not based on your weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

Do you think being slim makes someone healthy?

That's what the gp told me

Yup sounds like most of the fatphobic gps out there alright.

Your health is not based on your weight "

Nah...will agree with the professional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

Do you think being slim makes someone healthy?

That's what the gp told me

Yup sounds like most of the fatphobic gps out there alright.

Your health is not based on your weight

Nah...will agree with the professional "

So slim people dont get cancer, heart attacks or other diseases??

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan


"Bag of bones here…someone looking for me? "
i get that all the time as well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

Do you think being slim makes someone healthy?

That's what the gp told me

Yup sounds like most of the fatphobic gps out there alright.

Your health is not based on your weight

Nah...will agree with the professional

So slim people dont get cancer, heart attacks or other diseases??"

Am sure they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pitty you and other people endured such abuse on here or in person. People that cause such sadness to others don't deserve the breath you breathe. Me personally am drawn to a woman smile or eyes or both. Doesn't matter of the size or shape of a person when it comes to them being sexy or not. On an old profile of mine here I was once verified buly a few ladies and was chatting to another for a day or two then all of a sudden she messages sayen she wasn't interested in me because I met fat women. The women I met were kind loving and beautiful women. I wouldn't have considered them anyway heavy so I just messaged back I wouldn't be interested in her if she loves herself that much to have to had an opinion of who iv met before her. Only person iv blocked on fab and I'm on my third profile. Chin up look in the mirror and see the beauty you have no one is perfect in anyway we all have our faults not too many people in life are happy with their body shape or they're appearance so move on and look for the people who will accept you for who you are and not what they want you to be or look like.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

Do you think being slim makes someone healthy?

That's what the gp told me

Yup sounds like most of the fatphobic gps out there alright.

Your health is not based on your weight

Nah...will agree with the professional

So slim people dont get cancer, heart attacks or other diseases??

Am sure they do"

There is a lot of evidence to suggest being underweight is worse for your health than being overweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, their own taste etc.. Without resorting to being nasty about it.

This thread will descend into rows though, you can see it already.

Think everyone can agree there's no need to be nasty, so block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

Do you think being slim makes someone healthy?

That's what the gp told me

Yup sounds like most of the fatphobic gps out there alright.

Your health is not based on your weight

Nah...will agree with the professional

So slim people dont get cancer, heart attacks or other diseases??

Am sure they do

There is a lot of evidence to suggest being underweight is worse for your health than being overweight"

Would think neither are ideal

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Being a cunt is worst of all for your health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a cunt is worst of all for your health "

Would love to see the science that backs that up

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Being a cunt is worst of all for your health "

..and being a fat cunt is better for your health than being a skinny cunt

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Unsolicited health advice , especially when it’s essentially an excuse for body shaming , is despicable

But worse is when it’s based on bullshit . Higher BMIs have all sorts of positive health outcomes

But then people think it’s ok to slag off body parts they don’t like all the time on here

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Unsolicited health advice , especially when it’s essentially an excuse for body shaming , is despicable

But worse is when it’s based on bullshit . Higher BMIs have all sorts of positive health outcomes

But then people think it’s ok to slag off body parts they don’t like all the time on here "

Tis not often that I agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unsolicited health advice , especially when it’s essentially an excuse for body shaming , is despicable

But worse is when it’s based on bullshit . Higher BMIs have all sorts of positive health outcomes

But then people think it’s ok to slag off body parts they don’t like all the time on here

Tis not often that I agree with you "

Get a room!!!

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Unsolicited health advice , especially when it’s essentially an excuse for body shaming , is despicable

But worse is when it’s based on bullshit . Higher BMIs have all sorts of positive health outcomes

But then people think it’s ok to slag off body parts they don’t like all the time on here

Tis not often that I agree with you

Get a room!!! "

We ll just argue , mostly about pineapple

No need really

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"Unsolicited health advice , especially when it’s essentially an excuse for body shaming , is despicable

But worse is when it’s based on bullshit . Higher BMIs have all sorts of positive health outcomes

But then people think it’s ok to slag off body parts they don’t like all the time on here

Tis not often that I agree with you

Get a room!!!

We ll just argue , mostly about pineapple

No need really "

What body parts are ppl arguing about lol what I miss? What pineapple gotta do with it lol am lost !!

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Body shaming anyone isn’t acceptable.

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x "

Well I’m sure I heard somewhere that is because they don’t have the equipment to handle the job ha ha.

They obviously never heard of “if you can’t say something nice then say nothing” or “better stay silent and have people think you are a fool than open your mouth and confirm their suspicions “

Myself, I have encountered sexy ladies of all shapes and sizes, it’s more than a particular look. It’s a combination of lots of things, looks can be part of it but it’s so much more, attitude, confidence maybe experience. It’s just sexyness, you can’t define it.

Have fun you sexy people

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

Well I’m sure I heard somewhere that is because they don’t have the equipment to handle the job ha ha.

They obviously never heard of “if you can’t say something nice then say nothing” or “better stay silent and have people think you are a fool than open your mouth and confirm their suspicions “

Myself, I have encountered sexy ladies of all shapes and sizes, it’s more than a particular look. It’s a combination of lots of things, looks can be part of it but it’s so much more, attitude, confidence maybe experience. It’s just sexyness, you can’t define it.

Have fun you sexy people"

And you don't see the irony of your post?

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x "

Couldn’t have put it better myself! It’s pissing me off too. One in particular has done this as his status update twice in a few days…. He must be absolutely perfect of course..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any kind of shaming is wrong. Be it bodyshape, size or just become some people think differently than how you do. Its all wrong.

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"For reactions like this I imagine "

Ehh??

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"Bag of bones here…someone looking for me? "

Nope different thread this for bbw only cheers

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming "

What? Wanna start a new thread with that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ppl who do it either men or women are more insecure about how they look or feel so they try to bring others down to their level of insecurity, then again there is some that are just evil who get off on belittling others so just gotta block ignore n move on & realise it's a plus that you found out the real then without having wasted time on them In person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between encouraging people to be healthy and body shaming

What? Wanna start a new thread with that one lol "

Maybe later

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Anywhere


"I’d say it’s spiteful, bitter little children who are tired at being rejected so they just decide to lash out and try to make people feel as miserable as they are"
Totally agree with this. It's a reflection of the person making the comments moreso than the person it's directed at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x "

My theory…. They’ve got small dicks and could never pleasure a BBW like yourself… do your best to ignore them. Pity you have to endure that sort of thing.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

My theory…. They’ve got small dicks and could never pleasure a BBW like yourself… do your best to ignore them. Pity you have to endure that sort of thing.

"

Is a big dick a requirement for pleasuring a bigger woman? Brand new information.

If only people would realise that remarking on another persons body is not going to change how their view yours or, indeed, give you better feelings about your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

My theory…. They’ve got small dicks and could never pleasure a BBW like yourself… do your best to ignore them. Pity you have to endure that sort of thing.

"

Ah yes because guys with smaller cocks act like assholes...

Thats completely different to insulting someone's belly or arse size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

My theory…. They’ve got small dicks and could never pleasure a BBW like yourself… do your best to ignore them. Pity you have to endure that sort of thing.

Ah yes because guys with smaller cocks act like assholes...

Thats completely different to insulting someone's belly or arse size "

So you talking about large vaginas

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x

My theory…. They’ve got small dicks and could never pleasure a BBW like yourself… do your best to ignore them. Pity you have to endure that sort of thing.

"

So you come in a thread to support someone over issues they are having regarding body shaming and your solution is to body shame other guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Rainbows and thumbs up….

But glad that spiralled nicely to make me look like a small dick…. In a big pond.

I shouldn’t equally take the bait, was really meant tongue in cheek…. Or small cock in mouth as my senile aunt used to like to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup. Rainbows and thumbs up….

But glad that spiralled nicely to make me look like a small dick…. In a big pond.

I shouldn’t equally take the bait, was really meant tongue in cheek…. Or small cock in mouth as my senile aunt used to like to say. "

Maybe those guys were just talking tongue in cheek?

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x "

Ultimately it comes down to their conditioning. They may have grown up in an environment where love and support were not so freely given. They may have witnessed their parents treat each other like that and now that is how they have learned to treat people.

A lack of love and support in their upbringing would have left them with internalised feelings of inadequacy which can often develop into internalised anger. This then manifests as the mistreatment of others.

Doing so takes the focus off their own feelings of fear and inadequacy. By putting others down they get momentary relief from their own feelings of inadequacy bcos the ego has to make itself feel better by putting others down. Again, this is probably a behaviour they learned in childhood.

That doesn't excuse it or make it OK, but hopefully it takes the sting out of such behaviour, even just a little bit

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Yup. Rainbows and thumbs up….

But glad that spiralled nicely to make me look like a small dick…. In a big pond.

I shouldn’t equally take the bait, was really meant tongue in cheek…. Or small cock in mouth as my senile aunt used to like to say. "

I always dread posting something hastily and then getting caught in a storm . I am a log into fab few times a day for a few minutes kinda póster so tend to scatter post sometimes without thinking and it bites me on the ass regularly .

However , there is a group , me included , for whom posts criticising body parts size/shape/look is not on. Different people will have different reasons for disliking this . Mine is the likely impact on people reading these posts whose body doesn’t fit into the desired criteria .

Eating disorders are rife. Leaving that aside there are enormous amounts of cosmetic procedures the majority of which probably unwarranted , brought about by insecurity . No single comment will drive this , but a life time of drip drip remarks will .

I am fairly certain at times reacting to seemingly innocuous posts will make some people think ‘oh here is another woke worrier’ or ‘what a massive overreaction’ or whatever but I ll live with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some ppl who don't like bigger women really need to be rude and comment nasty nasty comments why not put your big boy pants on and scroll past like the men do! You don't likey don't look! Simples...your loss not ours x "

Because they're total assholes .. simple really, they need to put others down to feel better in themselves,they are without a doubt just total fuckwits.

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By *chubertsdipMan
over a year ago

antrim

Probably because they are ill reared arse holes well not probably more definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are chickens hiding behind a computer screen and think they will get away with it.block them set filters tighter

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