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"For a multitude of reasons, I have a hunch that this Christmas is going to be particularly miserable: energy price rises, supply chain problems, empty supermarket shelves, state benefits changes, etc. The festive season has no relevance for me from a religious perspective, but some potential metts or socials would brighten things up considerably. How are you going to uplift your Christmas cheer? " Energy increases will be small, supermarket shelves will be sticked, buy early to avoid missing out on the best presents, state benefits won't reduce, in fact they will get a Xmas bonus again. Religion is irrelevant to enjoying the festive season. Everything will be fine. Relax. | |||
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"I love Christmas. Who doesn't love the anticipation of the arrival of a jolly man with a beard and a full sack on Christmas eve " I might be wrong but I am concerned this isn’t about Santa at all ... | |||
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"I love Christmas. Who doesn't love the anticipation of the arrival of a jolly man with a beard and a full sack on Christmas eve I might be wrong but I am concerned this isn’t about Santa at all ..." Ho Ho Ho | |||
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"For a multitude of reasons, I have a hunch that this Christmas is going to be particularly miserable: energy price rises, supply chain problems, empty supermarket shelves, state benefits changes, etc. The festive season has no relevance for me from a religious perspective, but some potential metts or socials would brighten things up considerably. How are you going to uplift your Christmas cheer? Energy increases will be small, supermarket shelves will be sticked, buy early to avoid missing out on the best presents, state benefits won't reduce, in fact they will get a Xmas bonus again. Religion is irrelevant to enjoying the festive season. Everything will be fine. Relax." this exactly ..stop the scare mongering | |||
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"I firmly believe that Christmas is what you make it. If the food you normally eat is not available...try something else If costs have risen too much and you're on a fixed income...do you have enough time to budget for increased costs of energy I volunteer to help feed others on Christmas day and to be honest its makes my Christmas If you're lonely on the day can you volunteer for a charity to get out and help others which would help you " 100% | |||
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"I've spent the last 10 years on my own at Christmas and it doesnt get any easier. Working in retail I only get the two days off have had offers from friends to spend the day with them but never do as it's a time for family and I'm not family and hate the thought of people feeling sorry for me. Spent my first christmas after splitting up with my ex with family and while it was a great day at the end of the day I still went home to an empty house which was a killer so I vowed then never to do that again. Thinking of volunteering this christmas but not sure how to go about it. " I had the same last year after a seperation and was pretty form Xmas eve & day even with family around. Nervous about this year for the same reason but I don't think I'd try not to worry about anyone feeling sorry for me and if they are good friends I guarantee they aren't, more just extending a nice gesture to a good friend. If your going to volunteer a soup kitchen or a homeless shelter would be very rewarding and a generous thing to do. Hope you find something to do that brings you joy | |||
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"For a multitude of reasons, I have a hunch that this Christmas is going to be particularly miserable: energy price rises, supply chain problems, empty supermarket shelves, state benefits changes, etc. The festive season has no relevance for me from a religious perspective, but some potential metts or socials would brighten things up considerably. How are you going to uplift your Christmas cheer? Energy increases will be small, supermarket shelves will be sticked, buy early to avoid missing out on the best presents, state benefits won't reduce, in fact they will get a Xmas bonus again. Religion is irrelevant to enjoying the festive season. Everything will be fine. Relax.this exactly ..stop the scare mongering " He's north of the border. Welfare cuts are on the way. | |||
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"Just one further thing OP If you're afraid your budget doesn't stretch this year due to all the extra increased costs don't be ashamed or embarrassed to ask for help We have a number of charities in Dublin that give out food parcels every week to those that need help and Christmas will be especially busy I'm sure you have some in Northern Ireland so look them up and ask " They are all over the country. | |||
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"Christmas can be whatever you make it. I've had two Christmas's since my separation to which I was not looking forward to. I owned it!! I had Christmas eve with the kids. Christmas Dinner on my Todd and collect the kids later and bring them to my family with me. It works!! Actually is less stressful than family Dinner together. Me having Dinner on my own was a bigger deal to others than to me. All how you deal with it. Positivity works!!" Super mate. As long as you keep a positive attitude that’s all that matters. Plus it’s good for the kids to see. | |||
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"Christmas can be whatever you make it. I've had two Christmas's since my separation to which I was not looking forward to. I owned it!! I had Christmas eve with the kids. Christmas Dinner on my Todd and collect the kids later and bring them to my family with me. It works!! Actually is less stressful than family Dinner together. Me having Dinner on my own was a bigger deal to others than to me. All how you deal with it. Positivity works!! Super mate. As long as you keep a positive attitude that’s all that matters. Plus it’s good for the kids to see. " | |||
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"Only 80 days left I’m actually looking forward to it this year. After lasts years wash out I’ll get to see the smiles on Christmas morning as my nephews open their presents. Maybe even get a few nights out. This will be a good one " Ha haaaaaa its working | |||
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"Only 80 days left I’m actually looking forward to it this year. After lasts years wash out I’ll get to see the smiles on Christmas morning as my nephews open their presents. Maybe even get a few nights out. This will be a good one Ha haaaaaa its working " I’ll get you back for this, mark my words | |||
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"Only 80 days left I’m actually looking forward to it this year. After lasts years wash out I’ll get to see the smiles on Christmas morning as my nephews open their presents. Maybe even get a few nights out. This will be a good one Ha haaaaaa its working I’ll get you back for this, mark my words " Yeah yeah told ya id change your mind. Heee heee hee hee | |||
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"Only 80 days left I’m actually looking forward to it this year. After lasts years wash out I’ll get to see the smiles on Christmas morning as my nephews open their presents. Maybe even get a few nights out. This will be a good one Ha haaaaaa its working I’ll get you back for this, mark my words Yeah yeah told ya id change your mind. Heee heee hee hee" A good spanking is needed | |||
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"Only 80 days left I’m actually looking forward to it this year. After lasts years wash out I’ll get to see the smiles on Christmas morning as my nephews open their presents. Maybe even get a few nights out. This will be a good one Ha haaaaaa its working I’ll get you back for this, mark my words Yeah yeah told ya id change your mind. Heee heee hee hee A good spanking is needed " Bring it | |||
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"Only 80 days left I’m actually looking forward to it this year. After lasts years wash out I’ll get to see the smiles on Christmas morning as my nephews open their presents. Maybe even get a few nights out. This will be a good one Ha haaaaaa its working I’ll get you back for this, mark my words Yeah yeah told ya id change your mind. Heee heee hee hee A good spanking is needed Bring it " Must remember to pack my can of whoop ass for my next trip | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise..." Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise... Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. " It's never been "traditional" in the traditional sense and now it's just got that extra kick | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise... Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. It's never been "traditional" in the traditional sense and now it's just got that extra kick " Intrigued now about this extra kick?? | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise... Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. It's never been "traditional" in the traditional sense and now it's just got that extra kick Intrigued now about this extra kick??" It involves Irish, German and separated traditions | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise... Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. It's never been "traditional" in the traditional sense and now it's just got that extra kick Intrigued now about this extra kick?? It involves Irish, German and separated traditions " Bit like ourselves x | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise... Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. It's never been "traditional" in the traditional sense and now it's just got that extra kick Intrigued now about this extra kick?? It involves Irish, German and separated traditions Bit like ourselves x " And great fun they are | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise... Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. It's never been "traditional" in the traditional sense and now it's just got that extra kick Intrigued now about this extra kick?? It involves Irish, German and separated traditions Bit like ourselves x And great fun they are " Sounds class!! In Germany a couple of times for Christmas markets. Was great. | |||
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"I've spent the last 10 years on my own at Christmas and it doesnt get any easier. Working in retail I only get the two days off have had offers from friends to spend the day with them but never do as it's a time for family and I'm not family and hate the thought of people feeling sorry for me. Spent my first christmas after splitting up with my ex with family and while it was a great day at the end of the day I still went home to an empty house which was a killer so I vowed then never to do that again. Thinking of volunteering this christmas but not sure how to go about it. " Put Volunteer Ireland into Google | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise... Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. It's never been "traditional" in the traditional sense and now it's just got that extra kick Intrigued now about this extra kick?? It involves Irish, German and separated traditions Bit like ourselves x And great fun they are Sounds class!! In Germany a couple of times for Christmas markets. Was great." I do miss those... nothing like them here | |||
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"Christmas is what you make of it, like any other time in life. I personally believe it's way too consumer driven, like many other holidays throughout the year. I don't buy into that crap . For me the last few years were difficult due to separation. When you've gone through loss, this time of year becomes more difficult. There's been a settling into a new routine and with supportive family and friends, Christmas is a time to spend quality time with loved ones. I make an extra effort for the children so they have loving, fun and happy memories to look back on... everything else is just noise... Thats all you can do as far as the kids are concerned. Be the memory maker!! Own Christmas and enjoy whatever way it works out. If its not traditional so be it. Its still yours. It's never been "traditional" in the traditional sense and now it's just got that extra kick Intrigued now about this extra kick?? It involves Irish, German and separated traditions Bit like ourselves x And great fun they are Sounds class!! In Germany a couple of times for Christmas markets. Was great. I do miss those... nothing like them here" Yeah, Frankfurt was prob the best. Right on the river. Gorgeous!! | |||
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" Yeah, Frankfurt was prob the best. Right on the river. Gorgeous!!" Haven't been to one in Frankfurt... Cologne, Dortmund, Düsseldorf, Stuttgart, Berlin, and a few smaller town ones...they sure have the ability to spread the Christmas cheer... nothing like a mulled wine or hot chocolate with friends or family while browsing hand crafted decorations... The continentals know how to do a show for the season... Zurich, Brussels, Vienna, Salzburg etc... | |||
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" Yeah, Frankfurt was prob the best. Right on the river. Gorgeous!! Haven't been to one in Frankfurt... Cologne, Dortmund, Düsseldorf, Stuttgart, Berlin, and a few smaller town ones...they sure have the ability to spread the Christmas cheer... nothing like a mulled wine or hot chocolate with friends or family while browsing hand crafted decorations... The continentals know how to do a show for the season... Zurich, Brussels, Vienna, Salzburg etc..." They sure do.. The chocolate gingerbread Santa's mmmmmmmmm | |||
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" Yeah, Frankfurt was prob the best. Right on the river. Gorgeous!! Haven't been to one in Frankfurt... Cologne, Dortmund, Düsseldorf, Stuttgart, Berlin, and a few smaller town ones...they sure have the ability to spread the Christmas cheer... nothing like a mulled wine or hot chocolate with friends or family while browsing hand crafted decorations... The continentals know how to do a show for the season... Zurich, Brussels, Vienna, Salzburg etc... They sure do.. The chocolate gingerbread Santa's mmmmmmmmm " Noooooo, you've just destroyed it... don't like gingerbread | |||
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" Yeah, Frankfurt was prob the best. Right on the river. Gorgeous!! Haven't been to one in Frankfurt... Cologne, Dortmund, Düsseldorf, Stuttgart, Berlin, and a few smaller town ones...they sure have the ability to spread the Christmas cheer... nothing like a mulled wine or hot chocolate with friends or family while browsing hand crafted decorations... The continentals know how to do a show for the season... Zurich, Brussels, Vienna, Salzburg etc... They sure do.. The chocolate gingerbread Santa's mmmmmmmmm Noooooo, you've just destroyed it... don't like gingerbread " I'm sorry!! Delete!! Delete!! | |||
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"I think I'll have a duck this year... in other words to me it's a opulent meal I cook after the winter solstice to celebrate that the days get longer again and that you've 9 Christmas free month ahead of you. " Now that's something to celebrate L | |||
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" How are you going to uplift your Christmas cheer? " Flo-RIDA….. off to the land of the fountain of youth. Christmas 2021…. Here we come! | |||
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"vituperative nature. " Now …. There’s a word of the day!! Love it. Well done…. I tip my cap to you good man… | |||
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"Thank you everyone for your postings including those of a vituperative nature. Empty shelves and delivery problems are already beginning to emerge here, in the north; and significant negative benefit changes came into effect today. " One of my favourite posters I must say . A class act . Hope this winter brings you some joy OP | |||
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"For a multitude of reasons, I have a hunch that this Christmas is going to be particularly miserable: energy price rises, supply chain problems, empty supermarket shelves, state benefits changes, etc. The festive season has no relevance for me from a religious perspective, but some potential metts or socials would brighten things up considerably. How are you going to uplift your Christmas cheer? " Despite all that is going on around us I am looking forward to Christmas. It always has been a time of the year that I have loved. This year for me will be no different as we will still keep up all the old traditions that makes it as special as it always has been. I'll enjoy having my family and friends around me and for me that is my Christmas. | |||
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" Yeah, Frankfurt was prob the best. Right on the river. Gorgeous!! Haven't been to one in Frankfurt... Cologne, Dortmund, Düsseldorf, Stuttgart, Berlin, and a few smaller town ones...they sure have the ability to spread the Christmas cheer... nothing like a mulled wine or hot chocolate with friends or family while browsing hand crafted decorations... The continentals know how to do a show for the season... Zurich, Brussels, Vienna, Salzburg etc... They sure do.. The chocolate gingerbread Santa's mmmmmmmmm Noooooo, you've just destroyed it... don't like gingerbread I'm sorry!! Delete!! Delete!! " Too late | |||
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" Yeah, Frankfurt was prob the best. Right on the river. Gorgeous!! Haven't been to one in Frankfurt... Cologne, Dortmund, Düsseldorf, Stuttgart, Berlin, and a few smaller town ones...they sure have the ability to spread the Christmas cheer... nothing like a mulled wine or hot chocolate with friends or family while browsing hand crafted decorations... The continentals know how to do a show for the season... Zurich, Brussels, Vienna, Salzburg etc... They sure do.. The chocolate gingerbread Santa's mmmmmmmmm Noooooo, you've just destroyed it... don't like gingerbread I'm sorry!! Delete!! Delete!! Too late " Nnnnoooooooooooooooo!!!!!! | |||
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